Being Love

by B.K. Shivani, Suresh Oberoi

We can each radiate unconditional love. We don’t even need to create it – we are love. But the flow of love is blocked in moments of hurt, blame, anger, criticism, competition or insecurity. These emotions have dominated our emotional space, and hardly enable us to feel our own love. So today, we rely on someone else to love us. This book teaches us to think right, enable self-love, feel it and extend it to other people. The central message here is that love is not ‘out there’, but within us. A spectrum of emotions like attachment, expectations, hurt, worry, stress, fear or anger, which we use in the pretext of love, are analysed. The conversations also explore the fact that the parent-child relationship is not challenging – It does not need to be. As you free yourself from judgments and expectations, as you start thinking right for people, and as you accept people for who they are, you become a Radiator of unconditional love. You are one decision away from vibrating at a frequency of love … by not needing love or giving love – but just by being love.

389 pages, Kindle Edition

Published November 15, 2019

About the author

Shivani Verma, better known as Brahma Kumari Shivani, Sister Shivani, or BK Shivani is a teacher in the Brahma Kumaris spiritual movement in India.

Reviews

[Rashi Chandok · Rating 4 out of 5]

Improving oneself takes a lot of time and effort but it becomes a bit easier when there is someone/something to help you in the process - this book is perfect for that purpose!

This book is the written form of the televised conversation between Mr. Suresh Oberoi and Sister Shivani in the series - "Bring Love". Personally, I prefer watching the videos more than reading it in the book form but overall, I love the content.

Mr. Suresh Oberoi asks very relevant questions in this book which probably all of us face as challenges in our journey to become a better individual. As always, Sister Shivani provides very practical and doable solutions/methods to grow and be a loveful soul/person.

This is not a book to read once and be done with - rather one should read/re-read a chapter everyday and practice to inculcate those values in their life one day at a time.

[Wanderingg__soul · Rating 5 out of 5]

Being Love- Creating Beautiful Relationships is a conversational adaption of the television show Awakening with Brahma Kumaris, where Sister BK Shivani talks about different aspects love & relationships.

This book helps us understand self love, kindness, spirituality, relationships & life at a deeper level & heal & be the best versions of ourselves.

In each chapter Sister BK Shivani answers the questions of Suresh Oberoi candidly & also guides us though a small meditation. Each chapter is summarised into Mantras at the end which are the takeaways for us which I absolutely loved.

If you are somebody who is spiritual, believes in spirituality or wants to explore what spirituality is then this book is a must read for you!
A brilliant take on our everyday beliefs & definitely answers a lot of questions about why we search for love in others, have high expectations, get easily disappointed, why people's opinions affect us so much, etc.

Some of my favorite chapters from the book were: Hold on to your Goodness, Children aborb parents' vibrations, karma & relationships, do away with labels.

Definitely one of those books that I will keep going back to❤️

[Fig · Rating 5 out of 5]

I wasted no time highlighting away—lovely companion read to Eckhart Tolle’s The Power of Now and A New Earth, the Law of One materials, Abraham-Hicks teachings etc. This read is more easily applicable to the day-to-day due to its conversational origins, and I’m so grateful to own a copy to revisit, jot down inspiration from and share with others. BK Shivani is such a light and I feel so blessed to read/hear her in any capacity! Om Shanti, Sister. 💕

[Akansha Singh · Rating 4 out of 5]

Covers worthy of topics related to what is energy , what we are as a soul and most important how one can bring out their original sanskaar of a soul. How to remain in the 7 qualities inherited within us from the supreme power and how to empower these 7 qualities which is purity , peace , love , joy, bliss , power and knowledge. And how to practically brings them into your daily life routine.

This book is a translation of being love show by BK Shivani and Suresh Oberoi.
#BeingLove : Creating beautiful Relationships.

[Anand · Rating 5 out of 5]

In a layman’s language and answering the curious questions of Suresh Oberoi Ji, B.K. Shivani Ji beautifully explained the concept of “being love” through “being spiritual”, applicable in every area of practical life for having beautiful relationships and a better world around.

Major takeaways are the concepts of To-Be list instead of To-do list & purity/love at the level of thoughts, words and actions for self as well as others.

Must read for everyone!

[Yuvraj Dubey · Rating 5 out of 5]

Enlightening

This books is a guide to living daily life. There won't be any use of if this is read at once only. This book be read a s many times as one can till his sanskars get changed and purified. OM Shanti

[Vishal Arora · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is not only a regular spiritual guide, it's a very beautiful piece of art with so many lessons to learn and apply in our day to day life regardless of our profession.

[Ajay Sarawagi · Rating 5 out of 5]

Awesome

[Jit · Rating 1 out of 5]

This is a cult running in the name of spirituality they exploit people in there centers there meditation is in no way different from hypnosis. So they are basically programming you to expand their cult in the name of meditation. If you go with science and scientific temperament there teachings won't stand. They believe dinosaurs were not there the world history and geography repeats itself in 5000 years while there are so many proofs out there that you can check to cross verify that the teachings are fake.