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Gentle on My Mind: In Sickness and in Health with Glen Campbell
The page-turning, never-before-told story of Kim Campbell's roller-coaster thirty-four-year marriage to music legend Glen Campbell, including how Kim helped Glen finally conquer his addictions only to face their greatest challenge when he was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease. Kim Campbell was a fresh-faced twenty-two-year-old dancer at Radio City Music Hall when a friend introduced her to Glen Campbell, the chart-topping, Grammy-winning, Oscar-nominated entertainer. The two performers from small Southern towns quickly fell in love, a bond that produced a thirty-four-year marriage and three children. In Gentle on My Mind , Kim tells the complete, no-holds-barred story of their relationship, recounting the highest of highs—award shows, acclaimed performances, the birth of their children, encounters with Mick Fleetwood, Waylon Jennings, Alan Jackson, Alice Cooper, Jane Seymour, and others—and the lowest of lows, including battles with alcohol and drug addiction and, finally, Glen’s diagnosis, decline, and death from Alzheimer's. With extraordinary candor, astonishing bravery, and a lively sense of humor, Kim reveals the whole truth of life with an entertainment giant and of caring for and loving him amid the extraordinary challenge of Alzheimer's disease. This is a remarkable account of enduring love, quiet strength, and never-faltering faith.
304 pages, Hardcover
Published June 23, 2020
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Kim Campbell
2 books26 followersKim Campbell was married to country/pop star Glen Campbell for 35 years until his passing in August of 2017. Kim launched CareLiving, a lifestyle guide and social movement designed to support and advocate for caregivers. She lives and works in Nashville, TN.
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June 18, 2020
I've been torn about how to convey my mixed feelings regarding this book, but I feel honesty is the best policy. While this was a very well-written, informative and enjoyable book, I can't help but feel cynical about Kim's motives for writing it. Of course the answer (like always) is follow the money. Kim Campbell is not the first partner to write a book about her loved one after they passed away. We could of course look back to Priscilla Presley, Pattie Boyd-Harrison-Clapton, and Cynthia Lennon to name just a few who have done so before Kim. Glen Campbell (as we learn quite succinctly in this book) was a serious alcoholic and died from Alzheimer's, and he could get violent in both situations. Kim could be hoping to enlighten people on both diseases, or she needs/wants the money from this project and its companion documentary, "Glen Campbell: I'll Be Me" which depicts his final tour and descent into Alzheimer's. He had three prior wives and some children before he ever met Kim, and some of these people caused Kim legal challenges in Glen's final days. Out of respect for Glen's family, she merely identifies these people as "the adversaries" in the book.
The book itself was a delight to read, because it appears that Kim didn't hold anything back. Her writing style is free flowing and appealing and she's narrating the story of her life with Glen Campbell. She was set up on a blind date with Glen in 1981 when she was 23 and living in New York City. Although Kim hailed from North Carolina, she relocated to New York City to pursue her dancing aspirations. She had just been hired as a Rockette at Radio City Music Hall. Although Glen was 22 years older than Kim, they hit it off immediately. He walked into the hotel room that he was sharing with his visiting parents singing "Rhinestone Cowboy". He looked quite fit and handsome. The physical attraction was undeniable. Also, they both were very religious. It was starting to look like a fairytale match that first evening until Glen started drinking and made a smarmy comment about wanting to "jump her bones." That was Kim's first introduction to Glen's drinking problem. Glen had just come off of a torrid and destructive relationship with singer Tanya Tucker that was regularly splashed across the tabloids. Kim soon found out that Glen's family, band members and friends were so relieved that he was dating Kim instead of Tanya. I had an "aha" moment during one romantic situation detailed in the book. As a religious and chaste young lady, Kim was not going to let Glen "jump her bones" right away. However, she still packed some sexy lingerie when she went on a date with Glen and slipped into his bed after changing into said lingerie...but Glen was careful not to cross that line. It reminded me so much of the times Priscilla Presley would also go into bed with Elvis with a similar boundary in place.
As Kim states frankly in the book, she stayed because she decided to stay. They had a beautiful life together, minus the drinking. It took a lot of faith and commitment to the marriage to tolerate the drinking episodes, and figure out a way going forward to get Glen to abstain. They eventually had three children together, two boys and a girl. They all grew up to be musically inclined and members of Glen's band. The recounting of Glen's decline into Alzheimer's abyss was very enlightening and sobering. To Glen's suddenly wanting to get out of a car on the LA Freeway to take a pee in the middle of traffic, to wanting to punch somebody without reason, to breaking into a window to get back into your own house...refusing to shower...the overwhelming reality of a wife/caregiver's role was laid bare. Luckily they had the resources to put Glen in professional care when life became untenable for her to handle things at home.
To reiterate, this was a well-written, open and honest book about Kim's 34-year marriage to Glen Campbell, warts and all. I am definitely going to watch the documentary, which I see is available to stream on Amazon. I am that interested after reading this book to explore further. I am not sure that Glen would be happy about his dirty laundry being hung out in public to this degree, but I was more than happy to read it just the same.
Thank you to the publisher Thomas Nelson for providing an advance reader copy via NetGalley.
The book itself was a delight to read, because it appears that Kim didn't hold anything back. Her writing style is free flowing and appealing and she's narrating the story of her life with Glen Campbell. She was set up on a blind date with Glen in 1981 when she was 23 and living in New York City. Although Kim hailed from North Carolina, she relocated to New York City to pursue her dancing aspirations. She had just been hired as a Rockette at Radio City Music Hall. Although Glen was 22 years older than Kim, they hit it off immediately. He walked into the hotel room that he was sharing with his visiting parents singing "Rhinestone Cowboy". He looked quite fit and handsome. The physical attraction was undeniable. Also, they both were very religious. It was starting to look like a fairytale match that first evening until Glen started drinking and made a smarmy comment about wanting to "jump her bones." That was Kim's first introduction to Glen's drinking problem. Glen had just come off of a torrid and destructive relationship with singer Tanya Tucker that was regularly splashed across the tabloids. Kim soon found out that Glen's family, band members and friends were so relieved that he was dating Kim instead of Tanya. I had an "aha" moment during one romantic situation detailed in the book. As a religious and chaste young lady, Kim was not going to let Glen "jump her bones" right away. However, she still packed some sexy lingerie when she went on a date with Glen and slipped into his bed after changing into said lingerie...but Glen was careful not to cross that line. It reminded me so much of the times Priscilla Presley would also go into bed with Elvis with a similar boundary in place.
As Kim states frankly in the book, she stayed because she decided to stay. They had a beautiful life together, minus the drinking. It took a lot of faith and commitment to the marriage to tolerate the drinking episodes, and figure out a way going forward to get Glen to abstain. They eventually had three children together, two boys and a girl. They all grew up to be musically inclined and members of Glen's band. The recounting of Glen's decline into Alzheimer's abyss was very enlightening and sobering. To Glen's suddenly wanting to get out of a car on the LA Freeway to take a pee in the middle of traffic, to wanting to punch somebody without reason, to breaking into a window to get back into your own house...refusing to shower...the overwhelming reality of a wife/caregiver's role was laid bare. Luckily they had the resources to put Glen in professional care when life became untenable for her to handle things at home.
To reiterate, this was a well-written, open and honest book about Kim's 34-year marriage to Glen Campbell, warts and all. I am definitely going to watch the documentary, which I see is available to stream on Amazon. I am that interested after reading this book to explore further. I am not sure that Glen would be happy about his dirty laundry being hung out in public to this degree, but I was more than happy to read it just the same.
Thank you to the publisher Thomas Nelson for providing an advance reader copy via NetGalley.
May 12, 2020
When Kim Campbell went out on a blind date with a world famous country singer 22 years her singer, she didn't really know the tabloid stories. She didn't know what she was in for. But, when she said in sickness or in health, she signed on for a life that took her to heights and depths for 35 years.
One of the most talented studio musicians in history, Glen Campbell never read a note of music and picked it up be ear long before the world came to know him as the Rhinestone Cowboy. Aside from his fame and crazy history, Kim had to contend with the devil in the bottle that kept calling Glen. There were years of drunken rages, falling down stupors, and the like. Kim kindly refers to alcoholism as a disease.
But, that was just the beginning because the years stretched on and Glen little by little started forgetting things. Thus, started a long slide that played out publicly as Glen made the choice to tour even with his mind slipping into confusion from Alzheimer's. It seems he never forgot his songs even when all else was lost. Through sheer example, he became the face of Alzheimer's and brought it out of the shadows.
Kim's book is a lifelong love story as she nurses Glen first through the ravages and despair of alcoholism and then as he lost his world from the ravages of Alzheimer's. Poignant, sad, and about as personal and heart-searing as it gets. Gentle on My Mind is not a music biography or a tell all book about a celebrity so much as it shows an incredibly personal look inside a life fading away.
Many thanks to the publisher for providing a copy for review.
One of the most talented studio musicians in history, Glen Campbell never read a note of music and picked it up be ear long before the world came to know him as the Rhinestone Cowboy. Aside from his fame and crazy history, Kim had to contend with the devil in the bottle that kept calling Glen. There were years of drunken rages, falling down stupors, and the like. Kim kindly refers to alcoholism as a disease.
But, that was just the beginning because the years stretched on and Glen little by little started forgetting things. Thus, started a long slide that played out publicly as Glen made the choice to tour even with his mind slipping into confusion from Alzheimer's. It seems he never forgot his songs even when all else was lost. Through sheer example, he became the face of Alzheimer's and brought it out of the shadows.
Kim's book is a lifelong love story as she nurses Glen first through the ravages and despair of alcoholism and then as he lost his world from the ravages of Alzheimer's. Poignant, sad, and about as personal and heart-searing as it gets. Gentle on My Mind is not a music biography or a tell all book about a celebrity so much as it shows an incredibly personal look inside a life fading away.
Many thanks to the publisher for providing a copy for review.
July 3, 2020
This was a wonderful though ultimately sad read. I’d seen the documentary a few years back that I found so profound, and this was the perfect follow-up to it. So very moving, it shares a lot more about Glen’s background I didn’t know. Their love story is also rather amazing by itself, with some major challenges, but Kim was in it for life. I do think this really shined a light on Alzheimer’s and got people thinking and talking about it. Not to be missed by real Glen Campbell fans, or those with an interest in Alzheimer’s. Advanced electronic review copy was provided by NetGalley, the author Kim Campbell, and publisher Thomas Nelson for my unbiased review.
August 25, 2020
An honest, no holds barred account of life with Glen Campbell by his fourth wife, Kim Campbell married to Glen for 34 years. Kim was a supportive spouse who turns enabler in my mind, making it easier for Glen to continue his self-destructive behavior. Clearly her life with Glen was not an easy one.
Glen Campbell leaves behind a legacy of beautiful music. I was very young during Campbell’s heyday, yet I love his songs (and am humming “Rhinestone Cowboy” as I write this review). This book exposing his battles with alcohol, drugs and descent into Alzheimers is eye-opening and it shattered my illusion of the man, yet I was very glad to have read it.
Glen Campbell leaves behind a legacy of beautiful music. I was very young during Campbell’s heyday, yet I love his songs (and am humming “Rhinestone Cowboy” as I write this review). This book exposing his battles with alcohol, drugs and descent into Alzheimers is eye-opening and it shattered my illusion of the man, yet I was very glad to have read it.
April 25, 2020
I have always enjoyed Glen Campbell's music but was never his biggest fan so have never known the man behind the music. Glen Campbell was undeniably a talented musician and singer but also a man who suffered addictions. In this book his 4th wife Kim tells of their 34 years together, lots of ups and plenty of downs with Glen's addiction to alcohol and drugs and ultimately Alzheimer's disease.
I picked this book up yesterday morning for the very first time and couldn't put it down, finishing it in one sitting. I was surprised by the hits I hadn't realised he was involved in as well as shocked by the change in his personality with the addictions he faced. My father is suffering from Dementia and many of the stories told in this book resonated with my own experiences dealing with this awful illness.
Kim Campbell tells the story of how they met through to his sad demise. This is a frank insight into their life together and how she coped with his addictions and illness while always keeping her faith. A true life story the is sad in places but also full of achievement, love and humour.
I was not 100% sure I wanted to read this book at first but so glad I decided to, highly recommended and so much better than the usual kiss and tell biographies.
I would like to thank both Net Galley and Nelson Books for supplying a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
I picked this book up yesterday morning for the very first time and couldn't put it down, finishing it in one sitting. I was surprised by the hits I hadn't realised he was involved in as well as shocked by the change in his personality with the addictions he faced. My father is suffering from Dementia and many of the stories told in this book resonated with my own experiences dealing with this awful illness.
Kim Campbell tells the story of how they met through to his sad demise. This is a frank insight into their life together and how she coped with his addictions and illness while always keeping her faith. A true life story the is sad in places but also full of achievement, love and humour.
I was not 100% sure I wanted to read this book at first but so glad I decided to, highly recommended and so much better than the usual kiss and tell biographies.
I would like to thank both Net Galley and Nelson Books for supplying a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
July 15, 2020
Thank for to Netgalley and the publisher for an advanced copy for an honest review. This book was very easy to read and the writer did a great job of making the reader feel that they are right there experiencing these things as they happened. That being said, I wanted to smack Kim so many times! I couldn't help but wonder if he wasn't rich and famous would she have put up with him! All the religious versus quoted, this reader couldn't help but think really? You both needed extensive therapy for addicts and their loved ones. I loved Glen Campbell but I really didn't want to read all the times he was passed out drunk or high or both and then going to the bathroom himself! TMI
May 26, 2020
Thanks to Netgalley for giving me the chance to receive an advanced copy. I have mixed feelings about this book, mostly written from his wife Kim's perspective. And I had to take that into consideration while reading it. I enjoyed reading about Glen's immense musical talent and his ability to play through alcoholism, and Alzheimer's disease.
What I did struggle with was his wife's constant ability to defend or as she learned many years later enable his crazy drinking binges, and constant physical and mental abuse. She said he told her to never speak about his drinking, and it seems that through many years she did keep to her word. The question I really have is, exactly who was she helping? It certainly wasn't Glen and her children must have suffered greatly.
There is also quite a lot of religious thoughts in this and I think obviously it must have been a tremendous help during the tough times.
I enjoyed the book and thought it was an honest journey that his wife took with Glen Campbell. It's a love story with many complications along the way. And wow, did Glen Campbell work hard to support his family until the late stages of his life! Amazing.
What I did struggle with was his wife's constant ability to defend or as she learned many years later enable his crazy drinking binges, and constant physical and mental abuse. She said he told her to never speak about his drinking, and it seems that through many years she did keep to her word. The question I really have is, exactly who was she helping? It certainly wasn't Glen and her children must have suffered greatly.
There is also quite a lot of religious thoughts in this and I think obviously it must have been a tremendous help during the tough times.
I enjoyed the book and thought it was an honest journey that his wife took with Glen Campbell. It's a love story with many complications along the way. And wow, did Glen Campbell work hard to support his family until the late stages of his life! Amazing.
June 11, 2020
A touching read. Written by his wife of over 30 years it documents their life together - how they met, the challenges they faced and finally Glen's slipping away into Alzheimer's.
I found the honesty Kim Campbell writes with so refreshing and respectful. She tells it like it is not for sympathy but to tell the story. Alzheimer's is an awful illness that robs everyone in the family of something and she has highlighted this plain and simply.
It did feel as if the ending was rushed though but given the circumstances of his death and all the legal issues she had to wade through, it is understandable she didn't want to spend too much time focusing on those parts.
Do yourself a favour and go and watch Ashley Campbell's "Remembering". With her explanation of the song and her mother's words in the book it'll bring tears to your eyes. A beautiful tribute.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publishers for allowing me the chance to read this book.
I found the honesty Kim Campbell writes with so refreshing and respectful. She tells it like it is not for sympathy but to tell the story. Alzheimer's is an awful illness that robs everyone in the family of something and she has highlighted this plain and simply.
It did feel as if the ending was rushed though but given the circumstances of his death and all the legal issues she had to wade through, it is understandable she didn't want to spend too much time focusing on those parts.
Do yourself a favour and go and watch Ashley Campbell's "Remembering". With her explanation of the song and her mother's words in the book it'll bring tears to your eyes. A beautiful tribute.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publishers for allowing me the chance to read this book.
November 2, 2020
Kim Campbell details her 34 year marriage with superstar Glen Campbell. She met Glen when she was a 22 year old dancer in NYC. He was 45 with 3 ex-wives and five children.
I remember my parents playing eight track tapes of Glen Campbell's greatest hits so I was interested in reading a book about him. However, this book is not so much about Glen or his younger life as the book mostly focuses on Kim. The story shows Glen's really dark side but his sweet side too. Kim writes about her faith in God throughout her life and marriage. Her marriage was obviously difficult. I was left with the impression that Kim portrayed herself in a very good light, probably because she is the one who gets to tell the story.
I remember my parents playing eight track tapes of Glen Campbell's greatest hits so I was interested in reading a book about him. However, this book is not so much about Glen or his younger life as the book mostly focuses on Kim. The story shows Glen's really dark side but his sweet side too. Kim writes about her faith in God throughout her life and marriage. Her marriage was obviously difficult. I was left with the impression that Kim portrayed herself in a very good light, probably because she is the one who gets to tell the story.
July 24, 2025
Gentle On My Mind: In Sickness and in Health with Glenn Campbell by Kim Campbell was given to me by a friend. I wouldn't call myself a fan, but I'm familiar with a lot of his music and like it well enough and I've heard quite a bit of it over the years. I will say that I kind of skipped around through this. I liked the structure of this memoir, but I don't think I was in the right headspace for it. Alzheimer's is a brutal disease.
January 27, 2023
This is a beautiful story written with much love.
April 14, 2024
I thought that this book would be about music and family life. There's a lot of God, religion, and bible quotes in here. I'd expect it from a book about mother Teresa, but not Glen Campbell.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
May 9, 2020
would like to thank netgalley and the publisher for letting me read this insightful book
the life of glen campbell written by his wife,through the trails that they endured during the journey through Alzheimers...
admit to shredding a little tear at the end, but enjoyed this little journey through their lives...though the religious bit i skimmed over...
a sad ending to a great man
the life of glen campbell written by his wife,through the trails that they endured during the journey through Alzheimers...
admit to shredding a little tear at the end, but enjoyed this little journey through their lives...though the religious bit i skimmed over...
a sad ending to a great man
May 25, 2024
I have somewhat mixed emotions about this book. On one hand, Kim is a good writer and keeps up an interesting story, but I found that Kim put too much focus on her religious beliefs and quoting Bible verses. I pretty much skipped those parts. Kim also spent too much time reciting irrelevant conversations between her and some of Glen's friends. But the story was interesting and Kim did a good job telling her story of years of the psychological and emotional abuse Glen put her through and how she dealt with being only in her 50s when her husband was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease. I was really able to put myself in Kim's shoes and gain insight into what it's like being married to a raging alcoholic and (later) someone with Alzheimer's disease who follows you around and completely depends on you.
On the other hand, the book left me with a lot of questions. Like, why does Kim spend the first page in the first chapter in her book about her and her marriage to Glen, on making snarky remarks about Glen's ex fiancée, Tanya Tucker? And, yes, I know Kim tries to make it seem like Tanya and Glen only dated for a hot minute, but they were, in fact, engaged and had set a date to get married, even though they didn't go through with it. And she continues to make snarky remarks about Tanya throughout the book and it just comes off as pathetic and juvenile. If what Glen had with Tanya was so insignificant and short lived, why does Kim keep talking about it? Kim also claims that when she met Glen it was love at first sight for them both, yet Glen threatened she would never see him again if she wouldn't sleep with him and ghosted Kim to get back together with Tanya for three months. Three. Months. That's... quite a while. Then Glen came crawling back when it didn't work out and excused himself saying that Tanya is an addiction stronger than cocaine, and for reasons I will never understand, Kim took him back and seems to have had jealousy issues ever since. I also found it quite off putting that Kim's father was furious when Kim told him she was dating a man with five kids, three divorces and is 22 years her senior, but he quickly calmed down and gave her his blessing when she revealed it was Glen Campbell, the entertainer, she was seeing. Kim immediately excused her father and said it had nothing to do with money or fame, but I'm not buying it. Kim's father also knew Glen ghosted Kim to get back together with Tanya and but still gave them his blessing. What the actual f? Why is Kim mad at Tanya, and not the man who ghosted her for Tanya? Why doesn't Kim see that her father should have known better and tried to talk her out of marrying and having a baby with a cocaine addicted alcoholic who was known for his tantrums and violent fights with his much younger girlfriend? Was the sexy picture of Kim at the end of the book really necessary? Like I said, this book left me with a lot of questions and very few answers.
On the other hand, the book left me with a lot of questions. Like, why does Kim spend the first page in the first chapter in her book about her and her marriage to Glen, on making snarky remarks about Glen's ex fiancée, Tanya Tucker? And, yes, I know Kim tries to make it seem like Tanya and Glen only dated for a hot minute, but they were, in fact, engaged and had set a date to get married, even though they didn't go through with it. And she continues to make snarky remarks about Tanya throughout the book and it just comes off as pathetic and juvenile. If what Glen had with Tanya was so insignificant and short lived, why does Kim keep talking about it? Kim also claims that when she met Glen it was love at first sight for them both, yet Glen threatened she would never see him again if she wouldn't sleep with him and ghosted Kim to get back together with Tanya for three months. Three. Months. That's... quite a while. Then Glen came crawling back when it didn't work out and excused himself saying that Tanya is an addiction stronger than cocaine, and for reasons I will never understand, Kim took him back and seems to have had jealousy issues ever since. I also found it quite off putting that Kim's father was furious when Kim told him she was dating a man with five kids, three divorces and is 22 years her senior, but he quickly calmed down and gave her his blessing when she revealed it was Glen Campbell, the entertainer, she was seeing. Kim immediately excused her father and said it had nothing to do with money or fame, but I'm not buying it. Kim's father also knew Glen ghosted Kim to get back together with Tanya and but still gave them his blessing. What the actual f? Why is Kim mad at Tanya, and not the man who ghosted her for Tanya? Why doesn't Kim see that her father should have known better and tried to talk her out of marrying and having a baby with a cocaine addicted alcoholic who was known for his tantrums and violent fights with his much younger girlfriend? Was the sexy picture of Kim at the end of the book really necessary? Like I said, this book left me with a lot of questions and very few answers.
May 24, 2020
Glen Campbell has been my favourite artist ever since I watched the beautiful documentary in 2014 on his health during such a trying time. I viewed almost every episode of his Goodtime Hour show and relished the duets he performed with Stevie Wonder, Judy Collins, Donny Osmond, and the legendary Johnny Cash among countless others. Upon viewing this book for request, I leapt at the chance to learn more about such a brilliant artist who, despite being musically illiterate, played the bagpipes, set Alan Jackson up for fame, and became one of the most accomplished guitarists to date. The fact that he was the first to land a number one single across the pop, country, and rock charts simultaneously further reinforces Campbell as a musical genius.
Kim Campbell's account of her and Glen's life, detailing their ups and downs, did not disappoint. As I devoured this book within two short sittings, I played Campbell's albums, including his hits and even some long lost tunes. I was immediately transported back to the 1980's where Kim documented her experiences as a young and naive dancer and her memories of meeting and dating the famous musician. Campbell continually name dropped throughout her book, which had me gaping at times. For instance, she mentions James Taylor and Mary Tyler Moore within a page or two at the start of her account which had me hooked.
Additionally, her vibrant writing shone through the pages as she recounted her and Glen's hardships throughout the decades, and her inclusion of Scripture presented a beautiful prose. The last few chapters I found especially touching as Kim faithfully documented Glen's health diagnosis. She also bluntly described her experiences in marriage with an artist who battled many demons and who was swamped by fame.
Overall, Kim wrote a tasteful account, although the beginning chapters were a bit more detailed than some might want. I feel as though I cannot succinctly say what this memoir has added to my appreciation of and respect towards Glen Campbell but I shall summarize it in a few lyrics: "When I walk along some railroad track and find/That you're movin' on the back roads by the rivers of my memory/And for hours you're just gentle on my mind."
Kim Campbell's account of her and Glen's life, detailing their ups and downs, did not disappoint. As I devoured this book within two short sittings, I played Campbell's albums, including his hits and even some long lost tunes. I was immediately transported back to the 1980's where Kim documented her experiences as a young and naive dancer and her memories of meeting and dating the famous musician. Campbell continually name dropped throughout her book, which had me gaping at times. For instance, she mentions James Taylor and Mary Tyler Moore within a page or two at the start of her account which had me hooked.
Additionally, her vibrant writing shone through the pages as she recounted her and Glen's hardships throughout the decades, and her inclusion of Scripture presented a beautiful prose. The last few chapters I found especially touching as Kim faithfully documented Glen's health diagnosis. She also bluntly described her experiences in marriage with an artist who battled many demons and who was swamped by fame.
Overall, Kim wrote a tasteful account, although the beginning chapters were a bit more detailed than some might want. I feel as though I cannot succinctly say what this memoir has added to my appreciation of and respect towards Glen Campbell but I shall summarize it in a few lyrics: "When I walk along some railroad track and find/That you're movin' on the back roads by the rivers of my memory/And for hours you're just gentle on my mind."
January 5, 2021
Author Kim Campbell describes her life with, and 34 year marriage to legendary singer, Glen Campbell. I was a huge fan of his, and it was truly heartbreaking to read about his decline through Alzheimer's. But also uplifting to read about the wonderful support of family and friends particularly with his final farewell tour and also during the making of the documentary "Glen Campbell: I'll be Me". A really good read
December 10, 2020
The last part related to the effects and challenges of Alzheimer's disease were quite touching.
April 5, 2021
Love is blinding
September 8, 2020
**I received and voluntarily read an e-ARC from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.**
I knew that Glen Campbell had been an alcoholic and had suffered from Alzheimer's in his final years, but this book really focuses on the nitty gritty details, many of which weren't public. It's plain to see how religion played a large part in Kim Campbell and her relationship with Glen, and her decision to stay with him through his worst.
With some memoirs, it's easy to write a review, as readers are usually fairly familiar with the subject they are going to be reading about. While I do enjoy learning new stories, all of the new stories within "Gentle on My Mind" are written in a way so as to make Kim seem like a saint or angel and everyone who stands against or disagrees with her is a villain.
Overall, while I appreciate how open Kim Campbell is about her struggles with Glen, I just couldn't connect with her. The book itself is well written, but at times feels like Kim is more intent on playing the victim rather than facing the fact that she was just as much of an enabler to his addictions as she was an addict to her relationship with Glen. While I finished the book, I just never could see Kim as anything other than someone who has always and will always play the victim in any story.
I knew that Glen Campbell had been an alcoholic and had suffered from Alzheimer's in his final years, but this book really focuses on the nitty gritty details, many of which weren't public. It's plain to see how religion played a large part in Kim Campbell and her relationship with Glen, and her decision to stay with him through his worst.
With some memoirs, it's easy to write a review, as readers are usually fairly familiar with the subject they are going to be reading about. While I do enjoy learning new stories, all of the new stories within "Gentle on My Mind" are written in a way so as to make Kim seem like a saint or angel and everyone who stands against or disagrees with her is a villain.
Overall, while I appreciate how open Kim Campbell is about her struggles with Glen, I just couldn't connect with her. The book itself is well written, but at times feels like Kim is more intent on playing the victim rather than facing the fact that she was just as much of an enabler to his addictions as she was an addict to her relationship with Glen. While I finished the book, I just never could see Kim as anything other than someone who has always and will always play the victim in any story.
March 26, 2021
Picked this book because I loved his music, especially his guitar work. OK, I am of two minds on this book. Not a Christian, the pervasive and overwhelming preaching really tended to turn me off. I am all for respecting the beliefs of others but expect the same regard in return (which is not something the current state of Christians in America seem to understand). But, on the other hand I am glad I kept reading because the author did provide an honest, emotional look of a loving relationship dealing with the often crippling load of two diseases-alcoholism and Alzheimer’s.
Free ebook from the library.
Free ebook from the library.
June 27, 2020
Don't waste your money on this book. If you're a fan of Glen Campbell read the book by his daughter Debby Campbell. This book is nothing more than an attempt by #4 to ruin Glen Campbell's legacy. He worked hard throughout his life to share his talent with the world only to have this woman dump him into a nursing home in his greatest time of need.
October 5, 2020
Definitely not a page turner. There's nothing memorable about this book and I found it really hard to finish it.
May 6, 2024
Gentle on my Mind by Kim Campbell is a 2020 Thomas Nelson publication.
I was never a huge fan of country music and sometimes I marvel at why Glen Campbell was labeled in this category- but nevertheless, I really liked most of his music. I did not rush out to get a copy of this book when it was published four years ago, and it wasn’t until I saw a random article a few weeks ago about Kim and this book that I decided to check it out.
I went into this without the slightest bit of a preconceived notion. I didn’t know a thing about Kim and didn’t notice that the publisher was Thomas Nelson- a faith-based imprint. Kim is a Christian and speaks openly and often about her faith. For me, I was back and forth about her spiritual health as some things she talks about do not mesh with what the Bible says and a passage about a religious game she played with other celebrities in Arizona raised my eyebrows- so by the time we got to the eighty percent mark, when she finally dropped the names of a few uber-wealthy television ministries associated with a prosperity gospel- I knew she was still more childlike in her spiritual maturity. But, at least- as far as I know- she’s never abandoned her faith- which is good.
Kim does a good job with the writing, organization, and presentation of the book. I don’t know if I really got an essence of who she is deep down as everything here is tied to Glen and her marriage. Occasionally she comes off as a long-suffering saint refusing to give up no matter what the personal cost… which was emotional and psychological abuse whenever Glen went through one of his relapses.
The tone she sets is one where she seems desperate to prove that she wasn’t in it for the fame and fortune. Once she finally realized this was no fairytale and Glen was no prince charming- instead of waving the white flag she dug in and did the work to make the marriage work. It wasn’t all bad- there were long periods of normalcy, peace, and sobriety, too.
But Kim’s dedication and faith was truly tested when Glen was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. I admire her willingness to care for him on her own, without care facilities – for a long while. I understand she wanted to educate people on the realities of the disease, but I wish she had stopped Glen’s journey as he walked off the stage for the last time- after a poignant, triumphant and inspirational farewell tour.
Instead, she detailed the multiple losses of his faculties, both mental and physical, stripping him of his dignity to some degree, I thought. I’m just glad I’m not rich or famous because I wouldn’t want my family members to tell the entire world how often I wet the bed or didn’t make it to the bathroom.
That said, I’m convinced that while the marriage was rocky- it was legit. There was love- and devotion despite the darkness that often overshadowed the good times. I hated to hear of the legal woes and infighting in the family over Glen’s estate. I think caring for Glen during his illness was a drain on their finances and the estate suffered as a result- so I’m not sure if there was all that much to quarrel over in the end and some people got involved in matters that simply were none of their business.
Overall, while I suspect Kim's faith was only surface deep, and it seemed she was in her head a lot due to the bubble of fame she lived in for over thirty years, I did admire her attitude, her fortitude, and hope now that her legal and money troubles are ironed out and that she can now bask in the good memories she shared with Glen and help promote his musical legacy that has meant so much to so many people.
3 stars
I was never a huge fan of country music and sometimes I marvel at why Glen Campbell was labeled in this category- but nevertheless, I really liked most of his music. I did not rush out to get a copy of this book when it was published four years ago, and it wasn’t until I saw a random article a few weeks ago about Kim and this book that I decided to check it out.
I went into this without the slightest bit of a preconceived notion. I didn’t know a thing about Kim and didn’t notice that the publisher was Thomas Nelson- a faith-based imprint. Kim is a Christian and speaks openly and often about her faith. For me, I was back and forth about her spiritual health as some things she talks about do not mesh with what the Bible says and a passage about a religious game she played with other celebrities in Arizona raised my eyebrows- so by the time we got to the eighty percent mark, when she finally dropped the names of a few uber-wealthy television ministries associated with a prosperity gospel- I knew she was still more childlike in her spiritual maturity. But, at least- as far as I know- she’s never abandoned her faith- which is good.
Kim does a good job with the writing, organization, and presentation of the book. I don’t know if I really got an essence of who she is deep down as everything here is tied to Glen and her marriage. Occasionally she comes off as a long-suffering saint refusing to give up no matter what the personal cost… which was emotional and psychological abuse whenever Glen went through one of his relapses.
The tone she sets is one where she seems desperate to prove that she wasn’t in it for the fame and fortune. Once she finally realized this was no fairytale and Glen was no prince charming- instead of waving the white flag she dug in and did the work to make the marriage work. It wasn’t all bad- there were long periods of normalcy, peace, and sobriety, too.
But Kim’s dedication and faith was truly tested when Glen was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. I admire her willingness to care for him on her own, without care facilities – for a long while. I understand she wanted to educate people on the realities of the disease, but I wish she had stopped Glen’s journey as he walked off the stage for the last time- after a poignant, triumphant and inspirational farewell tour.
Instead, she detailed the multiple losses of his faculties, both mental and physical, stripping him of his dignity to some degree, I thought. I’m just glad I’m not rich or famous because I wouldn’t want my family members to tell the entire world how often I wet the bed or didn’t make it to the bathroom.
That said, I’m convinced that while the marriage was rocky- it was legit. There was love- and devotion despite the darkness that often overshadowed the good times. I hated to hear of the legal woes and infighting in the family over Glen’s estate. I think caring for Glen during his illness was a drain on their finances and the estate suffered as a result- so I’m not sure if there was all that much to quarrel over in the end and some people got involved in matters that simply were none of their business.
Overall, while I suspect Kim's faith was only surface deep, and it seemed she was in her head a lot due to the bubble of fame she lived in for over thirty years, I did admire her attitude, her fortitude, and hope now that her legal and money troubles are ironed out and that she can now bask in the good memories she shared with Glen and help promote his musical legacy that has meant so much to so many people.
3 stars
July 8, 2020
From the publisher: "Kim Campbell was a fresh-faced twenty-two-year-old dancer at Radio City Music Hall when a friend introduced her to Glen Campbell, the chart-topping, Grammy-winning, Oscar-nominated entertainer. The two performers from small Southern towns quickly fell in love, a bond that produced a thirty-four-year marriage and three children."
I knew about Glen Campbell before coming to this book: he was a member of The Wrecking Crew, the studio musicians of the 1960's that seemed to work on every hit from The Monkees to Sinatra, that he had a summertime replacement show to The Smothers Brothers Comedy Hour in the late 1960's, knew his hit songs and remember him from his late 1980's appearances on the revival of the Smothers show, had a couple of CDs of his music, heard he got busted for DUI, heard about his having Alzheimer's and his goodbye tour, and saw the documentary.
But that was all superficial stuff. I really didn't know much about him at all, it turns out. Campbell was from a large family who grew up dirt poor in the south. The one thing he did have was musical talent. He went through three marriages and five kids, plus a highly-publicized affair with country star Tanya Tucker by the time he met his fourth wife, Kim, in 1981. They got married, had three more kids, and had 34 years together before Glen died. That could have been the story.
Except there was a whole lot more. Alcoholism, enabling, and mental abuse describes the first part of the Campbell's marriage, as well as a strong reliance on God. If you are not religious, you might not like the frequent references to Him and the Bible scriptures Kim shares to explain how she was feeling being married to this very successful yet broken man.
I was most interested in reading more about Glen Campbell's Alzheimer's, because my husband's family has a long line of it in his family and I will most likely face it with him some day as well. I wanted to hear Kim's story. The struggles she had with Glen during his last decade are heart-breaking. And when she finally came to peace with the fact that she and her team couldn't care for Glen on a day-to-day basis, to have some of Glen's older children essentially accuse her of abuse is horrifying.
Because Kim didn't meat Glen until he was in his 40's, I'm curious to read another biography on Glen Campbell that concentrates on his early life and successful dominance of the country and pop charts.
Thanks to NetGalley for providing me with this (ARC) Advanced Readers Copy.
Read more of my reviews at https://www.bargain-sleuth.com
I knew about Glen Campbell before coming to this book: he was a member of The Wrecking Crew, the studio musicians of the 1960's that seemed to work on every hit from The Monkees to Sinatra, that he had a summertime replacement show to The Smothers Brothers Comedy Hour in the late 1960's, knew his hit songs and remember him from his late 1980's appearances on the revival of the Smothers show, had a couple of CDs of his music, heard he got busted for DUI, heard about his having Alzheimer's and his goodbye tour, and saw the documentary.
But that was all superficial stuff. I really didn't know much about him at all, it turns out. Campbell was from a large family who grew up dirt poor in the south. The one thing he did have was musical talent. He went through three marriages and five kids, plus a highly-publicized affair with country star Tanya Tucker by the time he met his fourth wife, Kim, in 1981. They got married, had three more kids, and had 34 years together before Glen died. That could have been the story.
Except there was a whole lot more. Alcoholism, enabling, and mental abuse describes the first part of the Campbell's marriage, as well as a strong reliance on God. If you are not religious, you might not like the frequent references to Him and the Bible scriptures Kim shares to explain how she was feeling being married to this very successful yet broken man.
I was most interested in reading more about Glen Campbell's Alzheimer's, because my husband's family has a long line of it in his family and I will most likely face it with him some day as well. I wanted to hear Kim's story. The struggles she had with Glen during his last decade are heart-breaking. And when she finally came to peace with the fact that she and her team couldn't care for Glen on a day-to-day basis, to have some of Glen's older children essentially accuse her of abuse is horrifying.
Because Kim didn't meat Glen until he was in his 40's, I'm curious to read another biography on Glen Campbell that concentrates on his early life and successful dominance of the country and pop charts.
Thanks to NetGalley for providing me with this (ARC) Advanced Readers Copy.
Read more of my reviews at https://www.bargain-sleuth.com
July 2, 2023
Kim Campbell a true stalwart of a woman who naively decided to become involved with Glenn Campbell 22 years her senior in 1981. She knowingly knew that he was a drinker and then eventually understood he was an alcoholic. She decided to stay.
She was he caretaker for life regardless of his violent and verbally abusive nature. She deserved everything she got hook, line, sinker and more. She chose Glenn and he took advantage of her knowing full well what he was doing.
Kim certainly doesn’t play a victim because she did believe she was one and played with the cards dealt to her. She believed that God had put her in that place to be in Glenn’s life. And, she took full advantage of that life as well as Glenn did with her. A true marriage made in heaven.
She said it best and much to her chagrin that she has always had a “caretaker” personality and even to her fault she owned it. She accepted Glenn regardless of his faults by loving him unconditionally even when her life was in danger. She never left.
Yes, I will say it again she never left. Why she stayed was only hers to own and accept. No one else. She was for Glenn as much as he was for her. Yes, we learn why Glenn was the way he was and why did the things he did and said in his drunken state, but that is nothing but an excuse and rationalization for Kim to forgive and accept him; and most importantly love him.
A great entertainer he was, but that was about it. A functioning alcoholic with so much baggage that no one was strong enough to carry or even live with. Kim did and expected everyone else to do the same. She was in control or so she thought, but in reality and in a different socioeconomic place she would have been out of there or maybe not?
This story is truly a sad one. TMI is the name of the game with this book. Nothing more and nothing less needed to be said. Kim Campbell whom I do not know, but I know people like this are nothing but opportunists who grab hold and never let go of the prize no matter what and do anything to the bitter end.
Yes, the end was the best part. Glenn died and was out of his misery leaving behind a a treasure trove of a musical legacy filling over 50 years and 61 studio albums entertaining millions over his stellar career. But, that is all I needed to know. Nothing more and nothing less because that is what is gentle on my mind.
She was he caretaker for life regardless of his violent and verbally abusive nature. She deserved everything she got hook, line, sinker and more. She chose Glenn and he took advantage of her knowing full well what he was doing.
Kim certainly doesn’t play a victim because she did believe she was one and played with the cards dealt to her. She believed that God had put her in that place to be in Glenn’s life. And, she took full advantage of that life as well as Glenn did with her. A true marriage made in heaven.
She said it best and much to her chagrin that she has always had a “caretaker” personality and even to her fault she owned it. She accepted Glenn regardless of his faults by loving him unconditionally even when her life was in danger. She never left.
Yes, I will say it again she never left. Why she stayed was only hers to own and accept. No one else. She was for Glenn as much as he was for her. Yes, we learn why Glenn was the way he was and why did the things he did and said in his drunken state, but that is nothing but an excuse and rationalization for Kim to forgive and accept him; and most importantly love him.
A great entertainer he was, but that was about it. A functioning alcoholic with so much baggage that no one was strong enough to carry or even live with. Kim did and expected everyone else to do the same. She was in control or so she thought, but in reality and in a different socioeconomic place she would have been out of there or maybe not?
This story is truly a sad one. TMI is the name of the game with this book. Nothing more and nothing less needed to be said. Kim Campbell whom I do not know, but I know people like this are nothing but opportunists who grab hold and never let go of the prize no matter what and do anything to the bitter end.
Yes, the end was the best part. Glenn died and was out of his misery leaving behind a a treasure trove of a musical legacy filling over 50 years and 61 studio albums entertaining millions over his stellar career. But, that is all I needed to know. Nothing more and nothing less because that is what is gentle on my mind.
April 29, 2021
Glen Campbell was my mother's idol for most of her life, so I grew up listening to his music. It was like he was one of the family. He motivated us through household chores (Dreams of the Everyday Housewife was good for this), kept us entertained during car rides, and made the Christmas holidays warm and cheery.
I saw him perform twice. Each time, I was in awe of him. The first time, I was star-struck; was I really listening to THE Glen Campbell? The second time, I was struck by the strength it took for him to get up on stage in spite of his illness. The Rhinestone Cowboy still sparkled with the talent, wit, and charisma he always had.
I was almost as devastated as my mother when Glen Campbell died. That day, we played Wichita Lineman on loop and knew, finally, he was at peace.
I knew about Glen's battle with alcoholism. In fact, the infamous incident in 2003 happened the day after my family saw him perform in Minneapolis. My mother sheltered me from many of the details of his disease, though, so I never knew how bad it actually was--until I read this book.
I'll have to be honest: It was difficult to read about. I felt myself losing respect for him, and I often wondered why Kim stayed. But it's easy to love the celebrity side of Glen Campbell; it's harder to love the flesh and blood human beneath the shiny veneer. I think Kim showed great strength in staying and helping Glen to heal.
The latter half of the book was just as hard to read, but for a different reason. Alzheimer's is such an evil, insidious disease. I can't imagine what it was like for Kim and their family to watch someone they loved disintegrate until they were a husk of the person they used to be. I hope I never have to watch my loved ones fail in that way. It was hard enough to watch my grandmother whittle away from Lou Gehrig's disease; at least she retained her mind up until the very end.
This book was a roller coaster ride, but one I was glad to be invited on. It gave me a deeper understanding of Glen Campbell and the power of his music. Thank you, Kim, for writing this book.
I saw him perform twice. Each time, I was in awe of him. The first time, I was star-struck; was I really listening to THE Glen Campbell? The second time, I was struck by the strength it took for him to get up on stage in spite of his illness. The Rhinestone Cowboy still sparkled with the talent, wit, and charisma he always had.
I was almost as devastated as my mother when Glen Campbell died. That day, we played Wichita Lineman on loop and knew, finally, he was at peace.
I knew about Glen's battle with alcoholism. In fact, the infamous incident in 2003 happened the day after my family saw him perform in Minneapolis. My mother sheltered me from many of the details of his disease, though, so I never knew how bad it actually was--until I read this book.
I'll have to be honest: It was difficult to read about. I felt myself losing respect for him, and I often wondered why Kim stayed. But it's easy to love the celebrity side of Glen Campbell; it's harder to love the flesh and blood human beneath the shiny veneer. I think Kim showed great strength in staying and helping Glen to heal.
The latter half of the book was just as hard to read, but for a different reason. Alzheimer's is such an evil, insidious disease. I can't imagine what it was like for Kim and their family to watch someone they loved disintegrate until they were a husk of the person they used to be. I hope I never have to watch my loved ones fail in that way. It was hard enough to watch my grandmother whittle away from Lou Gehrig's disease; at least she retained her mind up until the very end.
This book was a roller coaster ride, but one I was glad to be invited on. It gave me a deeper understanding of Glen Campbell and the power of his music. Thank you, Kim, for writing this book.
July 15, 2020
Gentle on My Mind tells the story of Kim Campbell’s thirty-four-year marriage to music legend Glen Campbell. The story begins when Kim is a twenty-two year old dancer in New York and is set up on a blind date with Glen Campbell, who is twenty-three years her senior.
Kim provides readers with a front row seat into their marriage, which spanned over three decades. The first half of the novel illuminates their struggles with Glen’s addictions and the importance of religion in their relationship. The second half of the novel focuses on Glen’s diagnosis with Alzheimer's and his final tour, which would cement his lasting legacy not only as a music legend, but as someone who brought Alzheimer’s to national attention. I found the second half to be the most interesting because I, like so many people, have a personal connection to Alzheimer’s. It was heartbreaking to read about their everyday struggles to care for Glen, particularly as he reached the late stages of Alzheimer’s. I do think there was too much emphasis placed on the “adversary” and I think that detracted from the final half of the book.
The first half of the book was difficult to read, especially as Kim described in detail the emotional and mental abuse she suffered while dealing with Glen’s alcoholism. It did provided insight into their relationship and how early on Kim was forced to assume the role of caregiver, which she maintained for the duration of their marriage.
This novel was definitely not my typical read, but I was interested largely because I am a Glen Campbell fan, having grown up on his music. At times, I found the writing disjointed and all over the place, with the book jumping from story to story. Overall, I enjoyed the read because it gave me some insight into both of their lives and it made me reminisce on Glen’s music career.
Thank you to NetGalley and Nelson Books for providing me with a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
Kim provides readers with a front row seat into their marriage, which spanned over three decades. The first half of the novel illuminates their struggles with Glen’s addictions and the importance of religion in their relationship. The second half of the novel focuses on Glen’s diagnosis with Alzheimer's and his final tour, which would cement his lasting legacy not only as a music legend, but as someone who brought Alzheimer’s to national attention. I found the second half to be the most interesting because I, like so many people, have a personal connection to Alzheimer’s. It was heartbreaking to read about their everyday struggles to care for Glen, particularly as he reached the late stages of Alzheimer’s. I do think there was too much emphasis placed on the “adversary” and I think that detracted from the final half of the book.
The first half of the book was difficult to read, especially as Kim described in detail the emotional and mental abuse she suffered while dealing with Glen’s alcoholism. It did provided insight into their relationship and how early on Kim was forced to assume the role of caregiver, which she maintained for the duration of their marriage.
This novel was definitely not my typical read, but I was interested largely because I am a Glen Campbell fan, having grown up on his music. At times, I found the writing disjointed and all over the place, with the book jumping from story to story. Overall, I enjoyed the read because it gave me some insight into both of their lives and it made me reminisce on Glen’s music career.
Thank you to NetGalley and Nelson Books for providing me with a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
June 24, 2020
Gentle on My Mind by Kim Campbell is a highly readable memoir of the author’s life with the entertainer Glen Campbell. This is a story of fortitude for the four-time married singer who was 23 years older than his ballerina wife. They faced many challenges during their 34-year marriage including substance abuse, alcoholism, spousal abuse, and finally, Alzheimer’s disease.
A dancer at Radio City Music Hall when Kim was introduced by a friend to Campbell, she was quickly attracted to Glen although she had some misgivings. Kim had her first glimpse of his alcohol-fueled bad behavior at the end of their very first date. After a few missteps on Glen’s part, including rebounding to the singer Tanya Tucker for a brief interlude, Glen swept Kim off her dancing feet and away with him.
Kim peels away all the veneer from the relationship and exposes both the highs and the lows of their lives together. Her faith in God sustained her through the lows while other women would have left the marriage. Her story is a heart-breaking yet loving tribute to a very complicated, troubled man.
Her candid telling of Glen’s life both before she met him and through their enduring marriage is a testimony to her patience and strength. Her endurance through Glen’s decline into dementia is extraordinary as is the support of their family and friends during this nightmare experience.
Kim Campbell, the mother of three of Glen’s eight children, is the founder of Careliving.org, “a blog, lifestyle guide, and social movement designed to inspire, encourage and empower caregivers to care for themselves while caring for others.” For fans of Glen Campbell, this is a must read.
My review will be posted on Goodreads starting June 24, 2020.
I would like to thank Nelson Books, an imprint of Thomas Nelson, and NetGalley for providing me with an ARC in return for an objective review.
A dancer at Radio City Music Hall when Kim was introduced by a friend to Campbell, she was quickly attracted to Glen although she had some misgivings. Kim had her first glimpse of his alcohol-fueled bad behavior at the end of their very first date. After a few missteps on Glen’s part, including rebounding to the singer Tanya Tucker for a brief interlude, Glen swept Kim off her dancing feet and away with him.
Kim peels away all the veneer from the relationship and exposes both the highs and the lows of their lives together. Her faith in God sustained her through the lows while other women would have left the marriage. Her story is a heart-breaking yet loving tribute to a very complicated, troubled man.
Her candid telling of Glen’s life both before she met him and through their enduring marriage is a testimony to her patience and strength. Her endurance through Glen’s decline into dementia is extraordinary as is the support of their family and friends during this nightmare experience.
Kim Campbell, the mother of three of Glen’s eight children, is the founder of Careliving.org, “a blog, lifestyle guide, and social movement designed to inspire, encourage and empower caregivers to care for themselves while caring for others.” For fans of Glen Campbell, this is a must read.
My review will be posted on Goodreads starting June 24, 2020.
I would like to thank Nelson Books, an imprint of Thomas Nelson, and NetGalley for providing me with an ARC in return for an objective review.
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January 3, 2021I enjoyed this book. I think that it was truthful and didn't hold back any of the bad things that happened during their relationship, marriage, relationships with family members, or the struggles and difficulties going through Alzheimer with Glen. I have long admired Glen Campbell as an entertainer and singer...I still do. He had a great way of interpreting songs to make them not only his own, but the standard by which we sing and play the many hits that he had. Yeah, to Jimmy Webb, a terrific songwriter and really, not a bad performer/singer himself. I usually like the original singer/songwriter versions anyway. Glen and Jimmy certainly had a special relationship in regards to the music that they produced. I remember quite fondly watching the Glen Campbell Goodtime Hour with John Hartford, a singer/songwriter himself who penned one of Glen's big hits Gentle on my Mind. It's a song that I have loved ever since I first heard it and I sing it (or sang it) when we had music jams pre-2020 the year of COVID-19. There was one older fellow who would say that I sang this better than Glen. Bull! I don't think that I could come anywhere close to Glen's ability and I'm not selling myself short. I think the guy didn't like Glen as he probably experienced Glen in his days of getting drunk (and likely mean and nasty when he was) and perhaps when he did Coke. Anyway, it doesn't diminish how I feel about Glen Campbell. I truly love his daughter Ashley's song Remembering. Once again, I think the book was honest and I will say the total truth probably lies somewhere between the accounts of Kim Campbell and Glen's children from all of his marriages. I can honestly say that I am glad that I read the book.
June 24, 2020
Kim weaves a heartbreaking love story that spans nearly four decades and I couldn't put it down.
I can understand the apprehension by some who worry about divulging information about Glen's private life - but Glen was a public figure and lived a public lifestyle. He was not shy about his shortcomings or his long battle with alcohol and drug addiction (you can literally read how his marriage to Kim saved his life in his own autobiography - Rhinestone Cowboy - words straight from the man himself). Kim is now sharing her experience from her own perspective.
And that perspective is poignant and contains some beautiful prose (her descriptions of the day they took Glen to his first day of daycare was particularly beautiful and haunting). There are moments of humor and humility (the Mother's Day story stands out) that help balance the bleak reality of losing someone to Alzheimer's.
I am not a religious person by any stretch of the imagination and the book is peppered with quotes from scripture. I say this not to deter, because I will note that it is an integral part of the Campbell family's journey and did not come across as preaching to this reader.
It took me about 3.5 hours to finish this book in one sitting - it is an easy read, the chapters are not overly long or daunting, and there are pictures. I highly recommend this book!
I can understand the apprehension by some who worry about divulging information about Glen's private life - but Glen was a public figure and lived a public lifestyle. He was not shy about his shortcomings or his long battle with alcohol and drug addiction (you can literally read how his marriage to Kim saved his life in his own autobiography - Rhinestone Cowboy - words straight from the man himself). Kim is now sharing her experience from her own perspective.
And that perspective is poignant and contains some beautiful prose (her descriptions of the day they took Glen to his first day of daycare was particularly beautiful and haunting). There are moments of humor and humility (the Mother's Day story stands out) that help balance the bleak reality of losing someone to Alzheimer's.
I am not a religious person by any stretch of the imagination and the book is peppered with quotes from scripture. I say this not to deter, because I will note that it is an integral part of the Campbell family's journey and did not come across as preaching to this reader.
It took me about 3.5 hours to finish this book in one sitting - it is an easy read, the chapters are not overly long or daunting, and there are pictures. I highly recommend this book!
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