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How to Lose a Husband and Gain a Life

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On the surface, Ruby Gallagher has the perfect life: an adoring husband, Manny, a beautiful home and a luxury lifestyle that involves shopping, holidays and not much else. It's safe, predictable - exactly what she needs after her turbulent past. Until one day it all collapses as Manny is arrested for fraud. And it seems it's not only his business deals that have been shady - Ruby discovers he's been hiding a mistress and son too. But as her designer lifestyle is repossessed, Ruby dusts herself down and starts again. With the help of some good friends, bad wine and a new business venture, Ruby discovers that she's a lot better off without her husband holding her back. If only he would see it that way ...Fabulous characters and a warm and funny story make How to Lose a Husband and Gain a Life unputdownable.

330 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 2009

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Bernadette Strachan

9 books34 followers
Bernadette Strachan isn't sure whether she writes romantic books with funny bits or funny books with romantic bits. She was born in Fulham, London into an Irish Catholic family. Before becoming an author she ran a wool shop, produced radio commercials, and was a voice-over agent representing quite a lot of famous people.

She is starting her seventh book and working on a new stage musical with her husband, Matthew. They have one daughter, Niamh and a spaniel called Mavis.

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147 reviews
April 2, 2020
I picked this book up wanting a pleasant light read about a woman getting a life and was very disappointed - I had to force myself to finish this!

There is no story, you just read a woman’s day to day, although there is a plot twist about 100 pages before the end. Basically, I felt the book needed to be edited.

It is also very badly written. The “writer” tried hard, using loads of adjectives, metaphors and similes, but they cheapened the writing and gave it amateur status: “like a moose giving labour” is not something people can relate to and this was one of the better ones!

Don’t bother reading this, or anything else by this writer... It baffles me that she got published, has other books out there and convinced esteemed writers to add positive feedback to her cover!
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388 reviews1 follower
March 12, 2022
Loved this story from start to finish - full of fun and a little sad in places but you knew it would all come good in the end - well worth picking up.
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39 reviews
May 10, 2011
Loved it. Totally different from the usual Chick Lit. Laugh out loud funny. Her writing is certainly different, and her phrasing is very original. She doesn't miss an observation. This is my first book by Bernadette Strachan, I shall certainly be trying some more.
1 review1 follower
June 28, 2012
Fantastic. I enjoyed this book so much I have bought the rest of her novels.
It is not something I would normally choose, I got if free in an Iceland promotion, but once I opened the cover I couldn't put it down.
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2 reviews2 followers
October 11, 2015
I didn't enjoy this book and decided not to finish it, I got to chapter 7 and found I still wasn't enjoying it, I can't quite put my finger on it though, the whole story seemed kind of pointless! There was nothing in it which grabbed my attention and made me want to read on.
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68 reviews1 follower
August 18, 2024
There was one of those book exchange shelves in Morrisons. I picked this up as a joke … and actually read the whole thing. Trashy, pretty big holes in the plot and dubious character developments. I LOVED it.
266 reviews1 follower
January 23, 2019
I would have rated this a 3.5 for entertainment. This easy to read chic-lit had a predictable ending but interesting characters. The author creates a plausible story and a heroine that you can root for as she matures.
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April 24, 2020
Not bad. An easy read. Likeable characters. Not very challenging and, quite predictable.
65 reviews
January 18, 2021
My gold standard for rom-com getaways is Becky Bloomwood's eccentric encounters... This one does not hold up...
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5 reviews1 follower
November 18, 2024
It was lighthearted & pleasant read.

One if this books that was just ok?

Better than I could write though 🥰
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55 reviews
June 28, 2025
Delicious British, feel-good romcom, I had a great time.
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Author 43 books35 followers
April 7, 2011
This book is a light sponge cake after a heavy meal of a day at work. Predictable plot, stereotypical characters, no surprises anywhere, light reading that is easy on the mind. Highly recommended reading when traveling to work on the tube, during a flight, waiting, while sunbathing on a beach in an exotic location. This is a book you can put down for a couple of weeks, then pick up and carrying on where you left off. Frothy, fun, light entertainment.
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61 reviews1 follower
August 4, 2013
I always tend to enjoy a story about a character reinventing themselves after things falling apart, but didn't expect to enjoy this one so much. From the unexpected twists and funny characters such as Teddy, this book has the perfect balance of love, humour and a nice ending that wasn't too predictable. Such a good read!
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80 reviews13 followers
August 6, 2014
Nothing too excite happens within this book. The storyline had some potential but I just felt like it was a story of a woman who leaves her husband and starts out on her own instead of the adventure that I was expecting.
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234 reviews2 followers
August 6, 2021
Really wish the cover suited this book because it lets it down! It was so funny and witty and so many pop culture references, which you don’t get often. Could definitely be a film. The twist hit me like a bus.
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284 reviews29 followers
August 17, 2017
A scrumptious slice of Bernadette-lit, thoroughly satisfying.
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606 reviews132 followers
January 14, 2010
Good intelligent chick-lit. Likeable characters, good plot and a lovely love story. What more could a reader ask for?
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417 reviews6 followers
December 5, 2010
Enjoyed this book, loved the plot twists, and had to laugh - a lot - about the clown story.
Enjoyable chick-lit for sure!
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90 reviews2 followers
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July 26, 2011
I enjoyed this novel and didn't see the very obvious twist derr!!
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10 reviews3 followers
January 27, 2013
Not a bad read on a lazy summer holiday. Nothing in it to challenge you, but easy to read and enjoyable.
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August 25, 2013
Has a couple a plot twists that are fairly obvious, though that doesn't detract from the enjoyment of the story. I enjoyed it, it's easy and fun to read. And it ends as it should.
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28 reviews1 follower
January 26, 2015
Excellent book... very easy to read and enjoy!
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302 reviews17 followers
March 29, 2015
Gloriously funny, with a sly wit and a real skill with phrase-making - and a heck of a lot better than anyone would expect from the cover!
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119 reviews25 followers
April 29, 2017
The story was was wonderful, but the main character felt too pathetic, even if it it does mean that she's supposed to "comply" to the "main theme."
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519 reviews4 followers
January 19, 2020
I mean fun enough but I re read it 2 years later because it's entirely forget able
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