Do you worry a lot? Is it common for you to dread upcoming events? Does pressure or stress trigger outbursts of anger, isolation, depression, or feelings of failure? Do you have a hard time finishing what you start? Do you find it impossible to work in the middle of chaos? Do you wonder if God is really going to come through for you in difficult times?In Still, Jenny Donnelly teaches you how to experience true, life-giving rest even in the midst of chaos. While most of us think of rest as something we do, Jenny shares how rest is a place from which we live and work. Sharing her own personal story of struggling with life's pressures and spiritual exhaustion, she introduces you to the source of peace and Jesus. She shows you the steps to take to access rest anytime, anyplace, under any conditions. And she reveals how operating from a place of stillness powers your identity, creativity, relationships, and so much more.If you've been stressed and anxious, operating on autopilot as life whizzes by, it's time you discovered the resting place God designed for you.
There were quite a few things that I totally loved and appreciated, but in turn there were quite a few things that perpetuate some Christian mottos and beliefs that can be very damaging to those who are clinically depressed or deal with high levels of anxiety. If you read it, be prepared to ‘fish and bone’ it a bit.
3.7/5, rounded up to 4* I think this book can serve as an excellent starting point for those struggling to gain the upper hand on anxiety, fear, and other debilitating problems. This book focuses on finding the root cause of your anxieties, rather than simply trying to cover them up with quick fixes. When it's a spiritual issue, it's not going to be an easy thing to work through - but that doesn't mean that you CAN'T. This book gives you an essential toolbox for starting that journey.
I do wish that this book had a little more "meat" to it, like most nonfiction books I read, but as I said, this book is a great starting point for your journey, and maybe that's exactly what you need. It might take some time to work through all of the prompts Donnelly includes, and that's exactly what it's meant for. This book includes spaces to write notes or answer prompted questions meant to hit at or discover the core problem you're facing, asking God to reveal it so it can be cleansed. I also have to admit that some portions of the book seemed as though they were skimmed over, making it seem as though the journey to "calm" easier than it is, which I could see actually becoming a source of discouragement for some. Her strategies are also a new perspective, at least for me, so if you're tired of the same-old-same-old self help books, this may very well be what you need. It's an easy read and definitely worth a shot!
Jenny L. Donnelly’s “STILL” immediately took me back to vivid memories of labor with my second baby. My first delivery had been long and hard. I weathered hours of contractions spiking off the charts and lasting double the usual time before I was granted the longed-for epidural that would take the edge off so I could think straight.
My second labor had come on fast and furious. It was progressing quickly and I watched in shock as my doctor donned those notorious blue scrubs. “Wait!?” I squeaked out, “is the baby is almost here? Can I still get an epidural??!”
“Oh, no,” she replied gently but confidently, “there’s no time for that! You are going to deliver this baby.” I opened my eyes wide. “Can I do that??!?” “Women do it every day!” she responded with a smile and a wink. Then in all seriousness, she shared one important piece of advice, “Don’t fight the contractions. Just imagine sinking into the bed as the pain washes over you. Let your body do its job. It is delivering your baby, just as it was designed to do! This pain has purpose.”
I prayed for help. I closed my eyes, unclenched my fists, and focused on the doctor’s words. It was a free-fall I can hardly describe! The LORD answered those prayers, allowing me to relax completely, letting the contractions take control.
The pain was still intense. Beyond belief! But I leaned into the LORD’s help, trusted the doctor’s expertise, and heeded my husband’s reminders to breathe! And before I knew it, I was holding our son, basking in the miracle of a new life entering the world!
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Life can feel like labor. Painful. Unrelenting. An onslaught from every direction. A merry-go-round spinning too fast, leaving us nauseous and disoriented. Like a tornado. Could there be a way to “sink into the bed and let pain do its perfect work” in all of life’s challenges?
In “STILL: 7 Ways to Find Calm in the Chaos,” Jenny L. Donnelly says, “Yes!” The winds may swirl around us, but we can find a place of stillness and REST, sinking deep into the Savior’s embrace. When we focus on His heartbeat, we can learn new rhythms of REST.
Jenny assures us there are priceless treasures to uncover as pain does its perfect work. We can wrestle it, fight against it, angling for control that alludes us. OR . . .
We can surrender control to the only One we can truly rely on to orchestrate the best outcome. The more we hunger to know His heart, the more confidently we will stand against the torrent, knowing the breadth and depth of His love, His power, and His limitless resources to provide anything and everything we could possibly need! And that speaks PEACE.
Let Jenny cast a new vision for stress management. If the challenges of this life leave you feeling tossed about on a stormy sea, with her help, imagine stepping from the frightening confines of a rocking boat to the broadening expanse of a beautiful, peaceful, thriving garden. Trust that pain can lead to progress. Believe broken can become beautiful, that it is possible to “release every single thing” and REST (p. 165).
“Is it possible that the struggles of life are a gift?” (p. 183) “Is it possible to enter REST when we are being terribly irritable or stretched emotionally in a storm of life? Yes, it is. And when we master this, we experience a whole new realm of peace.” (p. 184)
With passion and confidence from the reality she has lived, Jenny urges (p. 185, 189):
Breathe in the burn. Welcome it. Dance with it. Praise Him in the storm. Wrestle into REST.
Just like the miracle of my son entering the world, your new birth into a world grounded and centered in the Savior’s love is worth the dance!
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Not a quick read but an intentional read that is worthy of the time.
Still is divided into three sections: The Search for Rest, which reveals a bit about the author's background and her own search for rest. Seven Ways to Rest, which offers suggestions for how to achieve REST in spite of the chaos life might be dishing out around us. Rest is a Position, which encourages readers to remain in REST.
I enjoyed the authentic tone of the author and her transparency. There was a good deal of self-reflection in the context, which I found applicable to my own life. The chapters/sections are not short. I thought I'd be able to read through a chapter and be done, adding it to my morning quiet time, but what I found was topics/discussion that require deeper soul-searching, not a speed-read.
Overall, I think this book has a lot of value but would encourage readers to take the time to be "STILL" and really take in Ms. Donnelly's words to truly appreciate what she offers.
***I received a copy of this book from the publisher. I was not required to give a positive review and all opinions expressed are my own.***
As the world delivers message after message of doing and working and striving, Jenny L. Donnelly offers a necessary reprieve in Still: 7 Ways to Find Calm in the Chaos. This book is a gentle, heartfelt reminder to rest. It may be difficult to do—and Donnelly does not shy from sharing her experience with the topic—but it proves a worthwhile pursuit when approached with intentionality.
Still offered me a lot on which to reflect, and I know I will continue to do so for weeks to come. There are plenty of times when I need more calm in my life, so I am glad to have this book as a helpful starting point.
I received a complimentary copy of this book and the opportunity to provide an honest review. I was not required to write a positive review, and all the opinions I have expressed are my own.
Jesus called us to rest but how can we when life is crazy? Donnelly shares her experience of learning to rest in the midst of chaos.
Donnelly teaches in the context of story and experience. She shares much of her own story in the first part of the book, such as her parents' divorce, losing her virginity in college, unresolved trauma causing bouts of crying. Her suggestions for developing rest come from the experiences of her children, a late night television show, a picture her daughter drew, an experience on a flight, and more. Scripture is then applied to the lesson.
This is a good book for people who like teaching developed within the context pf personal experience. This senior citizen matured on books teaching straight from the Bible. This one, developed through experience, is probably better suited for young people or new Christians not very familiar with the Bible. Young mothers would especially identify with many of the stories Donnelly tells.
Her description of being in the “pocket” while spinning is certainly a wake up call to be fully in the Lord's presence. I was glad to see a helpful Appendix with practical ideas for developing that practice.
Donnelly knows how to obtain rest within a busy life. She and her husband have five children, she owns a business, and she is a minister. Her teaching is not mere theory. She has lived it. She provides practical ideas and exercises to develop a heart that rests in the Lord.
I received a complimentary egalley of this book from the publisher. My comments are an independent and honest review.
In Jenny L. Donnelly’s new book, “Still: 7 Ways to Find Calm in the Chaos”, she beautifully paints a picture, even on the front cover of her book, of a silent and still eye of the storm seated in the middle of a hurricane.
Think of this statement Jenny makes in the book, “Water may be in the boat, but Jesus is too.” Sometimes I think we, as Christians, forget that we are in this boat of life with Jesus. Even when the storms are raging and He doesn’t calm the storm, He can calm the storm inside of us. Learning to be still and accessing God’s REST helps us to have the strength, perseverance, and endurance needed to pull through and come out of the storm and to the other side.
She does an incredible job of capturing God’s REST for us, even keeping the word in all caps throughout her book, to remind you that it is possible to walk through the most anxiety driven, fearful, and even depressing times with REST in our minds, spirit, and soul.
Still: 7 Ways to Find Calm in the Chaos by Jenny L. Donnelly is a self-help book designed to guide readers toward inner peace amidst the noise and distractions of modern life. Through seven practical strategies, Donnelly promises to help individuals navigate the chaos of daily responsibilities, stress, and emotional turmoil by embracing stillness and cultivating moments of calm.
The book is well-intentioned and filled with positive affirmations, offering tools like mindfulness, meditation, and reflective practices aimed at reducing anxiety and fostering a sense of peace. Donnelly’s tone is compassionate, and her encouragement to slow down and prioritise stillness resonates with readers who may be struggling with the demands of busy lives. Each chapter introduces a new concept, such as the power of breathing, the importance of rest, and the practice of gratitude, all of which are designed to help readers reconnect with their inner selves and the present moment.
However, despite the book's heartfelt message, I found it difficult to engage with at times. The tone felt overwhelmingly "American" in its approach, with an emphasis on self-improvement, individualism, and productivity that didn't resonate with me. The focus on achieving calm through structured techniques and goal-setting can come across as a bit rigid or formulaic, making it hard to connect with the deeper, more reflective aspects of the message. For those who are looking for a more introspective or culturally nuanced exploration of calm, the book may feel too centered on Western ideals of control and self-management.
Additionally, the book's repetitive nature at times detracts from its overall impact. While each of the seven strategies is valuable in theory, the way they are presented often feels like reiteration of similar concepts, leaving little room for deeper exploration of what stillness means beyond just "finding calm."
For readers who prefer more nuanced approaches to peace and mindfulness, 'Still' may feel too simplistic or overly prescriptive. While the book has its merits in offering actionable steps to reduce chaos, its heavy reliance on American self-help frameworks and productivity culture makes it difficult to fully appreciate the broader, more global and diverse meanings of peace.
In conclusion, Still may be useful for those who are looking for a straightforward, no-nonsense guide to finding calm in a hectic world, but it may fall short for readers who prefer a deeper, more culturally sensitive approach to personal growth. Ultimately, while it offers some practical tools, the book didn’t fully resonate with me, particularly due to its Americanised perspective and formulaic structure.
Thank you in advance to Revell Books for providing a review copy. A positive review was not required, and all words are my own.
In an effort to expand what genres of books I read – I chose this self-help book to see how it would help me in finding some calm in the chaos of life. Despite not really working, there is always something to do around my house – some things NEVER get done. And, sometimes I don’t always have help to do it. Often I don't feel like I get any real “REST”. Admittedly, there are times I get frustrated.
So, this seemed like a relevant and appropriate read.
“Still” is a self-help guide providing the reader with a faith based approach to find calm, and more importantly “REST” in the chaos of life.
The author recounts her past life and how it led her to understand why she was doing certain things and how it held her back from fully enjoying life, and finding ways to REST. There was a story about a pile of hangars and I found myself relating to what the writer had felt in the moment.
The cover is very simple – and symbolizes the “still” in the calm or eye of a storm. It also symbolizes clarity and focus. The author has a clear, fluid, and coherent style that made this book easy to read, and I enjoyed reading it.
Donnelly delves into finding what is wrong, and uses both God and Jesus as instruments in leading the reader to easing moments of anxiety, depression, being overwhelmed.
She talks about temporary fixes that don’t get to and solve the root of the problem, how many think it is their circumstances that cause it. Additionally, Donnelly recognizes that many of us believe there are outside influences that surround our own happiness and keep us bogged down when it is our reactions.
Much of what was said in the first chapter was so relevant, especially to me.
The author doesn’t shy away from using scripture to guide the reader through a chaotic existence. What I found interesting was the DO-ING vs. BE-ING. IN that we’re busy DOING and not BEING. That we spend more time worrying about what we should be DOING, but not “BEING” in a moment. Such as us being physically present in a situation, but mentally we’re someplace else.
Often “hurry” can steal the moment as well – but, why are we in a “hurry”?? Donnelly carefully examines that as well.
Another aspect I enjoyed was the CONTROL vs. CHAOS. She explains that while we try to control things in our lives, we have less peace. In chaos, we have some moments of calm. While that wouldn’t make any sense to some, Donnelly has a way of putting it into perspective.
For example, there are certain things, situations, and people we cannot control. Influence? Yes. Control – not so much. But, that despite the chaos, we tend to find those calm moments.
She uses certain scriptures, and bible stories, to put things into perspective.
This is not a one-time read. This is a companion type book, or rather a “workbook” to use for daily reassurance, self-motivation, and reflection. Whether or not a reader feels this book has helped them; will depend where they are in their faith journey and relationship with God.
There are points where the author asks the reader to examine, and analyze their relationship with God. Some might feel as though they’re judging themselves and that relationship – or lack thereof. Perhaps that is the entire point of this book.
I would consider this a relevant read to those of the Christian faith, and perhaps even for those who are Jewish-Christian.
**Disclosure**This book was sent to me free of charge for my honest review from the author. All opinions are my own.
About the Book:
Do you worry a lot? Is it common for you to dread upcoming events? Does pressure or stress trigger outbursts of anger, isolation, depression, or feelings of failure? Do you have a hard time finishing what you start? Do you find it impossible to work in the middle of chaos? Do you wonder if God is really going to come through for you in difficult times?
In Still, Jenny Donnelly teaches you how to experience true, life-giving rest even in the midst of chaos. While most of us think of rest as something we do, Jenny shares how rest is a place from which we live and work. Sharing her own personal story of struggling with life's pressures and spiritual exhaustion, she introduces you to the source of peace and rest: Jesus. She shows you the steps to take to access rest anytime, anyplace, under any conditions. And she reveals how operating from a place of stillness powers your identity, creativity, relationships, and so much more.
If you've been stressed and anxious, operating on autopilot as life whizzes by, it's time you discovered the resting place God designed for you.
My Review:
I have always been a worrier. As a child, I would get tummy aches worried about if my parents could pay the phone bills. I grew up not 'dirt poor" but extremely close to it. I have carried that anxiety and worry over into adulthood. I have several diagnosis' that coincide with a worrier. So to say its deep in my bones would be an understatement. I would say that is who I am. Jesus is trying to teach me every day to not be so quick to react out of my fear.
Because worry and fear are basically the same coin only they have two different sides. Sometimes, I succeed and sometimes I don't. But God has never left my side even in my fear and worry and He has assured me that He never will. He is my constant and the ONLY thing I can count on in this life. I know that to my core.
Fear and worry can quickly transpire over into the spiritual side of us. Very commonly, we are saying that we don't trust God with our fears so to work through these things are incredibly difficult. But the great thing about God is He made us so He knows how we work and how we think. He never gives up on us even in the midst of doubt and fear.
The author of Still, comes along beside us and shows us how easy it is to be still and let God work these things out. He has come to my side many times and said, "Hey, why are you worried about this?" "Its not going to happen like you think it is." And He will be right. Its hard to trust anyone but God tells us in His word that if we just let Him carry our burdens.
Worry, anxiety and fear are always going to be a part of me but with God by my side, He will show me the navigation plan to keep the sky blue and clear when it all seems so cloudy.
A powerful and actionable guide to finding rest in God.
Author Jenny L. Donnelly skillfully walks readers through a comprehensive journey through the pains, frustrations, and chaos of daily life and the transformative power and grace that is ours if we invite God into our hearts. As she explains, “The pocket is where you are enveloped in the love of God so completely that nothing is blocking his voice and all that he has for you.”
A central message is one that Christians have heard many times. Let go and let God. But the simple concept can be difficult to grasp and implement.
Still - 7 Ways to Find Calm in the Chaos provides a distinct roadmap, including all the road signs, traffic lights, and detours. Each of the seven actionable steps is explained with excellent clarity and applicable Bible verses. Ms. Donnelly weaves many examples from her life, including bruises from her childhood. Her life now is filled with every reason to be a stressed mess - as a successful businesswoman, nonprofit founder, and a married mother of five. Yet, she describes that finding REST is a place, not an action. It doesn’t mean escaping your chaotic life. It means finding God’s refuge within it.
Still is a timely book for today’s chaotic lifestyle. The guidance is applicable for those living within the most chaotic circumstances to those chilling in retirement. It’s for anyone looking for a deeper and more meaningful relationship with God. The resources in the Appendix provide even more tools to support the journey.
How this book affected me: With all the great books in the Christian market, they can start blurring together with their common themes. I admit that I assumed Still would be 'just another one', but it wasn’t. What stood out for me was the distinct roadmap – the clear explanation and directions, the action steps, the homework assignments, and the bible verses. All the elements worked together to create a tool that truly has life-changing potential if the reader is open-minded and willing to put in time and effort. As a book reviewer, I didn’t have the luxury of time to savor the book as it’s intended to be, but I will be re-reading to fully absorb and apply the message to my life. I've made strides in letting go, but I'm still a work in progress.
Who would enjoy this book: Ideal readers for Still have a hard time finding God or fitting Him into their chaotic lives. I personally think the message is valuable and applicable for anyone who’s looking for peace or trying to strengthen their relationship with God.
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Jenny Donnelly’s “Still: 7 Ways to Find Calm in the Chaos” is a very timely read for me, even more so than when I requested it a few weeks ago. Ironically, due to multiple deadlines and an overall crazy month, I had to read it much more quickly than I would have preferred; I absolutely intend to read it again at a slower pace in order to let the suggestions sink in and reap the maximum benefit. This is a wonderful resource, with personal anecdotes from the author’s life woven in and lending it a warm, conversational tone. An interactive element makes this book appropriate for individual or group study, with lines to write out answers to personal questions and also prayers included in several of the chapters. An appendix includes advice and instructions on how to implement rest into daily life.
Regardless of your background or vocation, “Still” addresses the ubiquitous chaos and turmoil that challenges each of us daily and offers insight into how to move beyond it to calm refreshment and renewal. A point that Donnelly makes early on gives new perspective; she writes that resting is not about avoiding chaos or waiting for things to slow down, but rather being peaceful in the midst of it. Rest has always seemed like something that comes when activity ceases, i.e. a relaxing activity in itself, but here the author makes a clear distinction, remarking that “It is critical to understand where REST exists: REST is an inside place. It exists within you.” How profound! That means that we can rest anywhere, anytime. One of the best ways to make the most out of this gift is by praying continually; as Donnelly articulates, “Dressing yourself in constant expressions of praise is one of the fastest ways to enter the place of REST!”
First and foremost, however, in order to rest we need to relinquish control over all aspects of our lives to God. Focusing on Jesus rather than on the storms raging around us is also an essential part of the process. One of the seven ways to rest that I found most enlightening was the concept of “wrestling into rest.” Donnelly explains that this entails releasing every single thing (an apt acronym for REST), seeing others through God’s eyes of love, and sometimes merely waiting for God to act. Resting, I think, is an ongoing learning experience as we draw nearer and closer to Jesus, whose open invitation is “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” (Matthew 11:28).
I received a complimentary copy of this book from Revell and was under no obligation to post a positive review. All opinions are my own.
Fairly good book on resting in God, but lacks substance
In her new book, “Still: 7 Ways to Find Calm in the Chaos,” Jenny L. Donnelly tells readers there is a rest we believers can enter into despite what’s happening around us. The first approach to getting to the root of the problem of rest is asking what’s causing the “unrest (page 22).”
Published by Revell Reads, Donnelly’s 224-page book lays out seven ways we believers can be still and know He is God: Lean, let go, cultivate intimacy, put on praise, live in the present in God’s presence and power, enter the garden, and wrestle into rest.
In fact, the very crux of her book is resting in the Lord and waiting patiently for Him: “My friends, this is the essence of deep REST – that we are able to come fully face-to-face with God Himself. Being able to stand in God’s perfect light without shame or guilt is a trust like no other that brings us to a place of REST,” she writes (page 62).
One interesting point she makes is “every storm has a center where everything is perfectly still (page 65).” Donnelly adds, “God was calling me to find rest in the middle of cleaning house, raising toddlers, building a business, working on projects, and attending meetings (page 66).”
While her book is actually fairly good, it doesn’t have a lot of substance or “teeth” to it. It lacks an exhaustive study on being still and on rest. In addition, the writing can at times be very juvenile in explaining resting in God – especially when describing such characters as “SAD” and “control monster (page 101).”
Moreover, there are several parts in the book that are repetitious. What may have helped is if the book included individual word studies of the word rest and being still, as well as questions after each chapter, and a study guide for further discussion.
Overall, however, readers will get something out of reading this take on resting in God.
I gave Donnelly’s book a 3 out of 5 stars.
Full disclosure: In accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255, I received this book free through the Bloggers Program of Revell Reads, a division of Baker Books. My opinions are my own and I wasn’t required to write a positive review.
This was DEFINITElY better than Max Lucado's Anxious for Nothing. The author shares genuine struggles and mental battles, and I really liked her personal examples. However, I didn't find much that was helpful from this book, especially compared with the things I found harmful (oversimplification of anxiety as simply needing to trust in God more; typical purity culture garbage; calling pornography use just as bad of a sin as sexual abuse of another person; etc). Basically, this is one big evangelical sermon. You need rest? Jesus. You are anxious? You're a sinner. You want peace? God. This is quite typical of this genre but I still always hope for more.
What I found helpful: -The half-hour "meditation" that she doesn't call as such but that's really where it is. Laying down, putting on worship music (you know, can be any music) and just listening to what God has to say. Not thinking, just listening. -Dance with the pain. She describes doing this experience of finding "the pocket" during exercise by taking 100 slow breaths from deep within the belly, living with the discomfort, becoming euphoric rather than focused on how much longer until it was over. There is a science behind this, which I think was a missed opportunity to talk about, though not surprising from an evangelical perspective like this, but how the body has natural responses to stress that help us become stronger and more capable of handling it. The same way a vaccine boosts our immunity by stressing our immune responses. I appreciated this viewpoint all the same, and will continue to use this technique in exercise and other difficult things in life. -Grace is provided at the exact moment that we need it and in the measure that we need it. -God created Adam and then took a day of rest, so Adam's first day on earth was a day of rest! Sunday as first day of the week? Whole earth as our art cabinet to make what we can dream up.
And...that's it. Not the worst, but I received so much more from Thich Nhat Hanh's messages.
We live in a chaotic hurry up world. Most days feel like a race to the finish line, to get as many items checked off of the to-do list as possible. But, this is not what God intended for us as His children. God does not want us to spend our days worrying, stressed, dreading the future, and feeling depressed. He wants us to discover the place of rest that He intended for us.
In the book Still, Jenny Donnelly outlines seven ways to rest: lean, let go, cultivate intimacy, put on the praise, live in the present in God’s presence and power, enter the garden, and wrestle into rest. Each way is designed to slow down our pace and draw as closer to God as we travel this journey of life. I found all of the ways to be meaningful and applicable, but the way that stuck out to me the most was “enter the garden”. My word of the year for 2020 is abide, and this way gave me more insight on how to abide in God. “To abide is to remain. If we remain connected to God, then life will be continually pumping in and through us. It is a 24/7 reliance on God, who is good and kind and has fruit that he wants to produce through us. How do we translate garden living into a Monday? How do we abide on the vine in the midst of the mundane? We do this by inviting Jesus, the Master Gardener, into everything we do. Ask Jesus to come to work with you. Invite him to do the dishes with you…”
I would recommend this book for anyone, but especially for busy women who feel like they are pouring out so much into others that there is never enough time for rest and relationship with God. Applying these seven ways to rest to your everyday life will be a game changer!
I received a copy of this book from Revell, in return for an honest review. All opinions are my own.
"I wonder what would happen if we begged God to change us with the same desperation we ask him to change someone else?" Okay, with quotes like that, my toes are thoroughly stomped on.
The purpose of this book is to help us learn to live in REST, to rely on God completely and learn to bask in His presence all the time. If I have it right, it's to live in the eye of the tornado, where chaos is swirling around us, but we are not upset or frustrated by it.
The concept is good, I think a lot of the points are spot on and made me say wow, that is good. I think someone who is living on the edge and frustrated and grasping would gain a lot of benefit from it.
I would say for myself, it wasn't necessarily the right season. It's wintertime, life is a bit slower for me right now, I don't feel fully caught in the chaos of life. I can certainly go there, I do feel like right in this immediate timeframe there is a lot of stuff going on, but I also feel I have a pretty good handle on it. Now that I said that, everything will probably blow up in my face and I'll be a nervous wreck. Basically, what I'm saying is this book didn't fully connect with me. I didn't think as I was reading that I really needed this book. I will also say that some of the breathing out the frustration and breathing in God is a little out there for me. I am not saying it wouldn't work, but I hesitate a bit on stuff like that.
There is another quote I want to leave you with, one that I do need to remember: Grace - "supernatural empowerment that is provided at the exact moment we need it and to the exact measure we need it."
I received this book from Revell and was not required to write a positive review. All opinions expressed are my own.
The first book this month I get the utmost pleasure of reviewing is Jenny Donnelly's book, Still. She has a wonderful way of telling stories and giving advice that centers around the point she's making. The graphic alone, for the book, looks chaotic and busy (just like how our lives work day in and day out). The whole point of that here is of what Jesus told the disciples as well as us today: "Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled; do not be afraid" (John 14:27, Berean Study).
This brings me to the tag of the book, which says, "7 ways to find calm in the chaos." I personally like the tag, and she seems to know how to find a way to be and to get calm when storms come zipping to us. The big thing I will say is that God speaks to each of us even without the help of Jenny Donnelly. I'm not trying to suggest her book isn't needed, but that He gives us far more than our own words can give. I'd even say my own words aren't sufficient.
What I can and will say about Jenny's book is that she gives great insight, as well as advice on finding ways to handle the stressful day to day, being balanced, finding the peace God desires to give us in His Son, Jesus Christ. What's in a name that demon's flee and mountains move and storms cease? The name above all names Jesus Christ of Nazareth, born in Nazareth, to die on a cross so that you and I have not only right-standing with Him, but to have peace as only He can give.
I received a complimentary copy of this book from Revell for a fair and honest review.
Still: 7 Ways to Find Calm in the Chaos is a read about finding calm through God. Author, Donnelly’s focus is providing 7 steps to REST. Rest in this context is not an act, verb or state of doing. Rest is inside of us, a place. So, what can readers expect from this book, a deeper understanding in how one can do the following to find calm:
Lean – the act of putting weight on something. Support is right in front of you each and every day, per Donnelly, find God and you will find your support.
Let go – you cannot control everything, a good lesson for all.
Cultivate intimacy – don’t just give “honey do” lists, the foundation of relationships comes from friendship first.
Put on praise – praise is to be looked at as a garment we wear through the “positivity confetti” we spread.
Live in the present – as we’ve become a “hurry up” culture we’ve depleted our rest.
Enter the garden – we must prune, tend, plant and water our garden to be beautiful and full. The same goes for ourselves.
Wrestle into rest – release everything and see with love while walking with wisdom. Learn to feast on peace not panic.
There are many important lessons that can be learned through this read, but they are hidden amongst references of scripture and God. *Disclaimer: A review copy was provided by the publisher. All opinions are my own.
Three boys chasing each other around the living room while their sister tries to vacuum…not the most ideal circumstances to write about the need and importance of rest and stillness in our lives.
This is my life. And rest is found right in the middle of it.
Still, p. 15 In reality, yelling children and a noisy vacuum are among the calmest of circumstances that I have faced in my life and in the midst of the turmoil and trials I always long for rest, for things to just be still. I appreciated Jenny Donnelly’s quote that “The kind of REST we are after has nothing to do with what we are doing. The REST I’m speaking of is not a verb. It is not the act of resting. This is critical to understand before we go any further: the REST that will change your life is deeper than what you are doing and completely disconnected from the condition of your life circumstances.”
She goes on to paint the imagery of a swirling tornado or hurricane, full of furry and destruction and life-altering chaos, and in the middle perfect calm and stillness. This is not a deep theological study, no real earth-shattering information, but that analogy and the illustrations surrounding its implementation make it well-worth reading.
*I received a complimentary copy from the publisher for review. All opinions are my own.
I received a copy of this book from Revell in exchange for writing my review. The author and her husband are involved in several ministries to Christian leaders based in Oregon. It seems to me that this devotional book would appeal most to busy young moms, but as an older woman I found it encouraging too. The basic premise is about finding spiritual rest in Jesus. Jenny tells her own story about her busy life as a mother of five plus minister and businesswoman. She also tells about her younger years during which she experienced a lot of sadness and loneliness after the divorce of her parents. She tried so hard to be a good and responsible person but blundered through bad relationships and drinking until she committed herself totally to Jesus. In Part 2 she lists 7 ways of getting into spiritual rest in Jesus, including leaning into Him, letting go of control, intimacy, praise, and more, even while training on a spin bike! In a short Part 3 she finally explains how rest is a spiritual position in Christ. Then she gives readers several exercises for getting into this spiritual rest in a short appendix. The book is very personal as Jenny shares intimate details of her own life and gives space for readers to write their own thoughts .
In “Still,” Jenny L. Donnelly helps us to still our souls and discover God’s life-giving rest at any time, in any place, and under any conditions. This beautiful perspective of rest powers our very identity, is the essence of our creativity, roots all our relationships and crowns everything in life.
Embraced by God’s love daily, Jenny exhorts us to stay rooted in rest, as we abide in Christ, to experience His life. Rest is a reset, to set our priorities right and reconcile ourselves to who we are and whose we are. Rest is rooted in God’s love. We learn to still our souls, even in chaos, to find God’s comforting presence, divine power, amazing grace and heartwarming love.
Jenny equips and empowers women to live and lead biblical truth. We understand the soul-satisfying beauty of resting in God. Our greatest battles are won by finding peace with God. Jenny sounds a bugle for this world, reverberating the hope and resurrection of Christ.
“Still” gives us rest in life’s crazy twists and turns. Penned with astounding grace and candor, in Jenny’s unique style, it provides powerful spiritual principles to fulfil our God-given assignments. As one of the most life-changing, faith-based books, I highly recommend it to all believers who wish to find rest in the midst of chaos.
Still is such a small title for this book filled with valuable suggestions! While I felt my life was reasonably calm these days, the new coronavirus, and the lifestyle changes it has caused have drastically made even the simplest things difficult. I found myself taking Jenny L. Donnelly’s advice to heart, and I thoroughly appreciated the exercises she has added throughout as a way to get closer to God. .
The book is broken down into three sections: in part 1, The Search for Rest, Jenny very openly talks about her own experiences and her search for better ways to live. She is very candid about her past. In Part 2, Seven Ways to Rest, Jenny talks about how she was led to find rest in her life even when she didn’t feel peaceful. Part 3, Rest is a Position, tells us we should stay in rest.
This, in my opinion, is definitely a five star book. I found so much valuable information, that much of my copy is highlighted. It is one I will be going back to often, and this is one I’ll want to pick up in softcover too because for books that have a huge impact on my life, I like to dog ear, highlight and mark in them ways that I can quickly and easily find the things that mattered most to me.
This is my first book I’ve read by Jenny L. Donnelly. I’ve not read the other book she has written. The subject of this book is the main reason I was so excited to read it. I feel like I constantly deal with fear and anxiety. From the very first chapter, Jenny had me captivated. I absolutely love her comparing fear and anxiety and their root to a tree. I’ve never thought much about the fact that if you ask yourself “What will make me feel better?” instead of “What is causing this?” (Page 21) then you’re only getting to a temporary solution to the problem or a branch and not to the cause for the problem or the root. I also really appreciated that she points out that she realized she was wrong when she originally thought that people dealing with these issues were of weak mind or faith. (Page 20-21). The author realized this because she herself started feeling fear and anxiety. The author divides the book into three sections: 1. The Search for Rest, 2. Seven Ways to Rest and 3. Rest is a Position. If you also deal with fear and anxiety, then this book will help you.
Disclaimer: I received a free copy of this book in order to give an honest review.
The author and I have very different personalities, haha. Reading this book was hard for me because the author writes so romantically and seems, to me, to live her faith almost superstitiously.
That being said, there are a great number of helpful and wise insights in the book.
I just have a hard time when someone seems to like their analogies so much that the analogy almost gets in the way of the message. Quite often I felt that the analogies were held as dearly as scripture and that's a turnoff for me.
But I just heard a sermon recently on taking note of differences of opinion or theology, and being truly critical of whether these differences matter to our unity as followers of Jesus Christ. Are these *foundational* theological differences? So with that in mind, I can truly appreciate the truth and wisdom out forth by the author in this book. She continually points the reader back to Jesus Christ, and if maybe her methods seem a little squirrelly, that just means they're not for me, haha.
I think this book will appeal more to the "Marianne Dashwoods" of the world than to the "Elinor Dashwoods" and that's okay.
Still: 7 Ways to Find Calm in the Chaos by Jenny L. Donnelly 5/5 ⭐️
Thank you to Revell for the free review copy. All opinions are my own.
Busyness. It’s a label that a lot of us wear, and yet we don’t know how to get rid of it even though we desperately want to. That is why I so appreciated this book, and I know I will be going back to it time and time again to help me find REST. Donnelly shares in her book her struggles and what led her to this discovery of rest.
In the seven chapters on how to find and focus on rest, she tackles a small topic and expands on it not only with examples from her own life, but she also uses lots of Biblical truths and foundations in her teachings. While each chapter may focus on one simple way to find rest, there is a lot of depth explored on why that truth will help the person find true REST that can only be found in Christ.
This book is out now, and I highly recommend it. Take your time, savor it, and put into practice the principles of rest.
Which of us doesn’t want more calm in their daily lives? But does that seem unattainable for you? Jenny L. Donnelly lays out a specific plan that really works. She shares her testimony in the first half of the book, telling us how her hurts and failures tempted her to think that calm wasn’t available to her. After this, she unpacks a strategy called REST for seeking stillness in the center of chaos.
Her ways include leaning on God, letting go of expectations and attempts at perfectionism, cultivating intimacy with Jesus, and more practical ways to pause and engage your senses and faith. There are several places in the book where you can jot your feelings down and process what you’re learning. These blank spaces invite you to a place of calm, where you can realistically evaluate your life and reorient it toward God.
I enjoyed this book even more than I expected. A wonderful resource if you are feeling stressed out, overwhelmed, or far away from God.
Wow. This book was incredible. It totally blew my expectations out of the water. This is such an incredible hands-on book of how to help you connect with God and enter into His rest through Christ. I can’t recommend this book enough!
Jenny Donnelly made me think of coming to God in a completely different way that helps me calm my anxieties and survive my depression. She even references a time when she was depressed and gave a wonderful metaphor of how it felt and how she just had to trust that God would rescue her even though she couldn’t feel Him and he didn’t rescue her immediately.
I LOVE this book. The stories and anecdotes were so insightful, her voice and metaphors were perfect, and I gained so much from the ways she says to enter God’s rest in the book. What is even cooler is that we don’t even go to the same church, we are different denominations of Christian and yet her book spoke so much to me. Thank you, Jenny. I hope I get to meet you someday and tell you how much your book meant to me during a low time in my life.
"Still " by Jenny Donnelly is a nonfiction Christian book. The author shares her struggles with dealing with stress and anxiety. She teaches how she has learned to draw closer to the Lord to receive strength and peace. She teaches the reader several practical steps to lean and draw from Jesus the tranquility you need to face the ups and downs of your day. She reminds us that Jesus is there for us in our times of trial and will give us peace. He really does care for us. This book is helpful and practical. It would be a good resource for Christian pastors, counselors or for any Christian. Thank you to netgalley, the author, the publisher for allowing me to read and review this helpful and practical book. I will post my review on netgalley, Goodreads, facebook, my blog, Amazon. The book was given to me for review purposes only and the opinions are my own.
What a delightful book! It's real life. The comfor of Jesus is like "a little man wandering around my insides".
Jenny explains so well, the inner chaos of life. It's real. We deal with it win many different ways. But God's DNA is on our inside, so we do not have to stay in chaos.
She relates to many, as she explains of her parents divorce, and how as a child she had to deal with that ~~~ chaos for a kid who did not choose divorce~~~~ and parents who lived in different states.
Disfunction happens in all families. Separation anxiety, unforgiveness, trauma from the past can grow and fester. If you add the man made rules of religion and not the freedom of Christ, that can make things worse. We must know that God is about freedom. AND comfort.
Leaning into Him is the only way.
Great job explaining in simple terms and the reality of life which can become out of control. Get the control back God's way. He brings peace!