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Unoffendable: The Art of Thriving in a World Full of Jerks
‘Being offended’ has become a common occurrence in a world of increasing censorship, inclusive language-guides, and safe-spaces. It’s a good thing to strive for more kindness and compassion. But wishing that humanity becomes entirely inoffensive is pointless because there’s always something that offends someone. Fortunately, there’s another path... The ancient Stoics observed that some things are in our control and others are not. We cannot control the foul language of people, opinions that oppose our own, and that there will always be a bunch of trolls that intend to trigger us for fun. What happens in our environment isn’t up to us. But what is up to us, is the way we handle it. Many choose to spend heaps of time and energy on the mere words of others, which withholds them to pursue meaningful goals and being at peace in an unruly universe. What a waste! Unoffendable explores philosophical ideas backed by personal anecdotes to figure out how we can thrive in a world full of jerks, bullies, and people we simply don’t agree with.
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Published December 8, 2019
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July 17, 2020
One very strong impression that surfaces, while reading the book, is that the author is someone like a privileged, easily offendable, princess, not a spartan, who after having fought a long war with life, tired, finally sat down to commit to pages his life experiences. The author's views though valid (because he stands on the shoulders of the philosopher giants) are coming out of a tender and inexperienced person. What the author sites as examples of his being offended by the world are not even somethings that one should even consider as problems worth noting in a book that is supposed to help people cope with life. I mean, consider the problems that people in some of the areas of Africa, or Afghanistan, or Syria or Iraq are facing, life-threatening problems. The guy never faced any life-threatening situation let alone a physically threatening one and he has complaints about life treating him not well and then he comes up advice for the rest of us. The advice is well-meant, only the examples from his personal life water them down. I wouldn't think anyone would find those examples so oppressing that one would sit down to write a book about them. He is not someone who is suffering from a crippling condition, not even colored (looks like belonging to an ethnic group does not qualify as belonging to a downtrodden class), living in a developed part of the world; its nothing like being born in a slum of India, belonging to the untouchable cast, so what are all those complaints about that he moans about in his book.
According to author "I’d say that judging is just another form of repression"; now consider a person who has no penny on his person, a homeless guy, a person who hasn't had a thing to eat for three days, a guy who has been thrown out of his home, someone who has been diagnosed by cancer; and our author finds others "judging" something to be concerned about while your life and livelihood is not even threatened and you are thriving otherwise. What problems is he even talking about?
The author hates his own father and brags about it throughout the book. When his father encourages him to become a man, he finds him controlling and manipulative. Thankfully he finds lots of other men to write good words about throughout the book. A man needs advise from other men to find his path through life.
Just look at the people he looks up to;
"This may sound weird, but I kind of look up to the outcasts of society, even though I donʼt agree with them or support their actions. For example, Dutch politician Geert Wilders from the Dutch Freedom Party (PVV) is one of the most criticized and ridiculed people in the Netherlands. Not only because of his anti-Islam agenda and controversial statements but also because of his dyed blonde hair. Despite insults, death threats, and the need for 24/7 security, he keeps on doing his thing. Even the ‘life coach’ I told you about gains at least a modicum of my respect because, despite all the dislikes below his videos as well as trolls, parodies, satire, and downright hateful comments, he just keeps putting himself out there."
A few pages back youtube life-coach was an example of wrong behavior and few pages later, what you read in the quote up there. This guy is confused; should have taken his time before writing a book. This is a messy book to look into for advice.
"After we received our grades, I asked the arrogant young lady about her grade: “A seven,” she said irritated. I laughed and went straight to the pub with my awesome group members to celebrate our victory. This was really one of the best payback moments I’d ever experienced in my life."
A horrible example of a book that claims to teach stoic virtues. Revenge seeking is vice. What is this guy teaching in this book? Contradiction after contradiction.
According to author "I’d say that judging is just another form of repression"; now consider a person who has no penny on his person, a homeless guy, a person who hasn't had a thing to eat for three days, a guy who has been thrown out of his home, someone who has been diagnosed by cancer; and our author finds others "judging" something to be concerned about while your life and livelihood is not even threatened and you are thriving otherwise. What problems is he even talking about?
The author hates his own father and brags about it throughout the book. When his father encourages him to become a man, he finds him controlling and manipulative. Thankfully he finds lots of other men to write good words about throughout the book. A man needs advise from other men to find his path through life.
Just look at the people he looks up to;
"This may sound weird, but I kind of look up to the outcasts of society, even though I donʼt agree with them or support their actions. For example, Dutch politician Geert Wilders from the Dutch Freedom Party (PVV) is one of the most criticized and ridiculed people in the Netherlands. Not only because of his anti-Islam agenda and controversial statements but also because of his dyed blonde hair. Despite insults, death threats, and the need for 24/7 security, he keeps on doing his thing. Even the ‘life coach’ I told you about gains at least a modicum of my respect because, despite all the dislikes below his videos as well as trolls, parodies, satire, and downright hateful comments, he just keeps putting himself out there."
A few pages back youtube life-coach was an example of wrong behavior and few pages later, what you read in the quote up there. This guy is confused; should have taken his time before writing a book. This is a messy book to look into for advice.
"After we received our grades, I asked the arrogant young lady about her grade: “A seven,” she said irritated. I laughed and went straight to the pub with my awesome group members to celebrate our victory. This was really one of the best payback moments I’d ever experienced in my life."
A horrible example of a book that claims to teach stoic virtues. Revenge seeking is vice. What is this guy teaching in this book? Contradiction after contradiction.
January 1, 2022
I was familiar with most of the topics and Stoic principles covered in the book, but unlike most of the similar books and articles, the author shares his story, highs and lows, and that’s something I really appreciate.
March 16, 2020
The main idea, and a brilliant one, is the quote from Seneca:
“If deservedly, it is not an insult, but a judicial sentence; if undeservedly, then he who does injustice ought to blush, not I. And what is this which is called an insult? Someone has made a joke about the baldness of my head, the weakness of my eyes, the thinness of my legs, the shortness of my stature; what insult is there in telling me that which everyone sees?” ~ Lucius Annaeus Seneca, On The Firmness of the Wise Man, XVI (translated by Aubrey Stewart, 1900)
“If deservedly, it is not an insult, but a judicial sentence; if undeservedly, then he who does injustice ought to blush, not I. And what is this which is called an insult? Someone has made a joke about the baldness of my head, the weakness of my eyes, the thinness of my legs, the shortness of my stature; what insult is there in telling me that which everyone sees?” ~ Lucius Annaeus Seneca, On The Firmness of the Wise Man, XVI (translated by Aubrey Stewart, 1900)
February 20, 2020
I got this book after seeing some of Einzelganger's YouTube videos.
It complements them nicely, giving something of an insight into Stoic philosophy.
The book is quite autobiographical, which is fine.
Whilst reading I could relate to some of my own personal issues and also to the suggesting methods of addressing them.
My interest is kindled (pun) in Stoic philosophy from reading this and I will do further research into it.
All in all quite a good read, not too long, so it stays 'on-topic' and is good to put some detail and further understanding to the YT channel.
It complements them nicely, giving something of an insight into Stoic philosophy.
The book is quite autobiographical, which is fine.
Whilst reading I could relate to some of my own personal issues and also to the suggesting methods of addressing them.
My interest is kindled (pun) in Stoic philosophy from reading this and I will do further research into it.
All in all quite a good read, not too long, so it stays 'on-topic' and is good to put some detail and further understanding to the YT channel.
January 5, 2020
Well Done
A personal story with lessons shared. Great perspective on taking and not taking offense from people and situations surrounding our lives.
A personal story with lessons shared. Great perspective on taking and not taking offense from people and situations surrounding our lives.
December 30, 2019
Really enjoyable book that is essentially a summarized version of the author's YouTube channel. Amor Fati, Einzelgänger!
May 12, 2020
Unoffendable es un libro honesto y sincero. El autor logra retratar a través de su propias experiencias vivencias que me atrevo a decir son casi universales. Con gran sencillez y con ayuda de los grandes maestros del estoicismo logra dar luces en un mundo lleno de imbéciles.
May 13, 2022
Written by an youtuber with a Good message: Be resilient enough not to get offended. If you haven’t read anything spiritual in your life this book might have some value for you. Otherwise the book might appear very shallow with good borrowed up quotes which are often misused. Personal examples could have been better. The nature of examples takes away all the weightage.
June 26, 2020
Just as Great as his YouTube!
Honest. Relatable. Smart. Genuine. Vulnerable. All great things! The book flowed really well & thus, I read it in one sitting.
Honest. Relatable. Smart. Genuine. Vulnerable. All great things! The book flowed really well & thus, I read it in one sitting.
October 9, 2020
Enjoyable pop take on Stoicism- something that we desperately need right now.
October 1, 2023
This book contains stories that hit right to my heart. I could relate and now I evaluate how I think of my story that I tell myself over and over again. Simply beautiful. Thank you for giving me the push to pursue what really matters. Your work is exceptional.
March 3, 2020
I prefer this form of writing where personal examples are used to explain concepts and ideas. It gives it more life than just listing facts or statistics.
I am the poster child for taking offense. My emotions kind of resemble a riptide. They don't necessarily show most of the time - until they do.
What I found most helpful was the idea that other people's feelings and opinions are none of my business. Sure, it should be obvious, but I am prone to projecting. I imagine I can't be alone in projecting judgments and ideals onto others. I doubt most humans even think of me at all.
Maybe the point is that I should feel better about that; therefore, focusing on what I want and need vs. what others want and need. Even if I was right, and my projections are true (not actually projections, then), I probably don't need to please most others - or hate them.
Though, any attempts at being liked inauthentically tend to result in self-sabotage since I must know deep inside that it's all a lie.
I am trying to accept the impermanence of life (especially my feelings) and the mindfulness I continue to avoid, but I guess I have a long journey ahead of me in the search for inner peace. I haven't exactly dealt with the various parts of my shadow. I'm currently looking into energy healing and possibly metaphysics, soon enough.
I think I've done so much that is un-Stoic, non-Buddhist, and so not in accordance with Taoism. More than anything, I don't think I am "alive."
My core issue is fear with overthinking which leads to a lack of action which results in regret and spiritual death. Perhaps that sounds like a bit much, but it's something I know so well.
I've watched many of the YouTube videos, yet I've mainly targetted shadow work (no, I refuse to take cold showers). That's been interesting... Everyone has their own method. I found one that suits me. I have many triggers connected to emotions, lifelong memories, childhood trauma, and projections. I have an ugly history of feeling insulted by true and false insults.
But I get it:
"The world isn't responsible for how I feel: I am. Embracing this is crucial to becoming unoffendable."
I don't want to be a slave to others (and yet I do).
I'm not sure about ever actually approaching the philosophies that are mentioned in the book since I have my own random combination based on Christianity and various strains of "paganism." I could certainly modify some pieces. I will find a way to throw in more of that healthy detachment, but that will definitely be a process.
I actually read this book in one evening, but I am slow to update. As I already stated, I'm a sucker for personal stories (especially if they involve details of pain and sorrow). I was engrossed.
Interestingly enough, I felt like I was reading my own life's story with some differences here and there, of course.
I wonder if I've been a doomer, myself, though I'm not sure if that's valid for women.
Regardless, I found the presented information to be very useful for the fallen souls similar to me. Whether I entirely implement it is another story.
I am the poster child for taking offense. My emotions kind of resemble a riptide. They don't necessarily show most of the time - until they do.
What I found most helpful was the idea that other people's feelings and opinions are none of my business. Sure, it should be obvious, but I am prone to projecting. I imagine I can't be alone in projecting judgments and ideals onto others. I doubt most humans even think of me at all.
Maybe the point is that I should feel better about that; therefore, focusing on what I want and need vs. what others want and need. Even if I was right, and my projections are true (not actually projections, then), I probably don't need to please most others - or hate them.
Though, any attempts at being liked inauthentically tend to result in self-sabotage since I must know deep inside that it's all a lie.
I am trying to accept the impermanence of life (especially my feelings) and the mindfulness I continue to avoid, but I guess I have a long journey ahead of me in the search for inner peace. I haven't exactly dealt with the various parts of my shadow. I'm currently looking into energy healing and possibly metaphysics, soon enough.
I think I've done so much that is un-Stoic, non-Buddhist, and so not in accordance with Taoism. More than anything, I don't think I am "alive."
My core issue is fear with overthinking which leads to a lack of action which results in regret and spiritual death. Perhaps that sounds like a bit much, but it's something I know so well.
I've watched many of the YouTube videos, yet I've mainly targetted shadow work (no, I refuse to take cold showers). That's been interesting... Everyone has their own method. I found one that suits me. I have many triggers connected to emotions, lifelong memories, childhood trauma, and projections. I have an ugly history of feeling insulted by true and false insults.
But I get it:
"The world isn't responsible for how I feel: I am. Embracing this is crucial to becoming unoffendable."
I don't want to be a slave to others (and yet I do).
I'm not sure about ever actually approaching the philosophies that are mentioned in the book since I have my own random combination based on Christianity and various strains of "paganism." I could certainly modify some pieces. I will find a way to throw in more of that healthy detachment, but that will definitely be a process.
I actually read this book in one evening, but I am slow to update. As I already stated, I'm a sucker for personal stories (especially if they involve details of pain and sorrow). I was engrossed.
Interestingly enough, I felt like I was reading my own life's story with some differences here and there, of course.
I wonder if I've been a doomer, myself, though I'm not sure if that's valid for women.
Regardless, I found the presented information to be very useful for the fallen souls similar to me. Whether I entirely implement it is another story.
June 1, 2020
4.5 stars
February 20, 2021
I like the idea of this book and there are some great quotes in this book, but it felt less like a book teaching you to be ‘Unoffendable’ and more like the author listing all of the problems he has faced in his life, and in many cases not even handled all that well.
A good example is a chapter that I think is supposed to be about not reading too much into other people’s actions because what you see as offensive they mean to be friendly. He describes a co-worker who gives him a horrible nickname and by calling him this makes him think that she hates him and it makes his life harder. Upon leaving another job though, she exclaims how much she enjoyed working with him and how she will miss their laughter, showing that she never meant any offence in what she was doing and she thought that she was being friendly.
It was a good anecdote of how poor communication and prejudging caused this man to hate an aspect of his life when he could have either cleared the air and not let it bother him and he would have been much happier. He even comes to a similar conclusion in the book, making you think that he has learnt his lesson. Then he says this:
These are hardly the words of someone who had learned he was wrong about a person and had looked on a situation in a new light. Instead it is a petty and insulting point of view of a woman and situation that he seemed to have got wrong by over thinking things and getting offended over something that was not her intent.
This is obviously just one point in the book, but I felt similar issues with other chapters. The lessons were small, the examples were long, and it seemed to dwell more on the injustices of his own life than the lessons that helped turn him into a better person, as I am not sure that actually happened in the 50% of the book I read.
A good example is a chapter that I think is supposed to be about not reading too much into other people’s actions because what you see as offensive they mean to be friendly. He describes a co-worker who gives him a horrible nickname and by calling him this makes him think that she hates him and it makes his life harder. Upon leaving another job though, she exclaims how much she enjoyed working with him and how she will miss their laughter, showing that she never meant any offence in what she was doing and she thought that she was being friendly.
It was a good anecdote of how poor communication and prejudging caused this man to hate an aspect of his life when he could have either cleared the air and not let it bother him and he would have been much happier. He even comes to a similar conclusion in the book, making you think that he has learnt his lesson. Then he says this:
”Ill-willed or not, I can’t deny that I found her manner of socializing repulsive and her demeanor arrogant. I suspect she isn’t a happy person and I’m glad she isn’t my girlfriend.”
These are hardly the words of someone who had learned he was wrong about a person and had looked on a situation in a new light. Instead it is a petty and insulting point of view of a woman and situation that he seemed to have got wrong by over thinking things and getting offended over something that was not her intent.
This is obviously just one point in the book, but I felt similar issues with other chapters. The lessons were small, the examples were long, and it seemed to dwell more on the injustices of his own life than the lessons that helped turn him into a better person, as I am not sure that actually happened in the 50% of the book I read.
May 26, 2020
Excellent read. Very helpful!
May 22, 2020
Author has explained some very fundamental ideas about True wisdom and True Happiness. Most of us are in pursuit of superficial happiness and look for sensual gratification and often end up being unhappy and unsatisfied. The author very well explains the source of true happiness. A must read.
January 20, 2020
As if I saw a reflection of myself
I have read your book and I found it inspiring. That transformation from being triggered by a simple word to becoming almost immune and managing to make progress in life as well as yourself. You came in terms with yourself and said "Screw this. This is my life and I decide how things work around me" therefore ignoring nonsense that used to drive you out of control.
When I was reading this book I didn't see a coach or a celebrity giving quotes. I saw a reflection of myself. A Middle Eastern who has moved to a Northern country. Facing racism, anger, fear and shame. The realization of how careless I was to assume that the world should act the way I wanted it to be.
I have been observing your YouTube Channel and I have learned quite a few things and have read this book to find that you haven't always been like this gives me hope that anybody can crawl out of their hole and become who they always wanted to be.
I, Therefore thank you for this experience. Totally worth checking this book out. It's a 5 star from me. Keep doing what you love. ✌
I have read your book and I found it inspiring. That transformation from being triggered by a simple word to becoming almost immune and managing to make progress in life as well as yourself. You came in terms with yourself and said "Screw this. This is my life and I decide how things work around me" therefore ignoring nonsense that used to drive you out of control.
When I was reading this book I didn't see a coach or a celebrity giving quotes. I saw a reflection of myself. A Middle Eastern who has moved to a Northern country. Facing racism, anger, fear and shame. The realization of how careless I was to assume that the world should act the way I wanted it to be.
I have been observing your YouTube Channel and I have learned quite a few things and have read this book to find that you haven't always been like this gives me hope that anybody can crawl out of their hole and become who they always wanted to be.
I, Therefore thank you for this experience. Totally worth checking this book out. It's a 5 star from me. Keep doing what you love. ✌
May 16, 2020
Awesome
Inspirational, motivational, personable. When he said bibliography I thought oh god here we go, but it’s incredibly relatable to society in general of what we go through. Thank you to the author for putting yourself out there!
Inspirational, motivational, personable. When he said bibliography I thought oh god here we go, but it’s incredibly relatable to society in general of what we go through. Thank you to the author for putting yourself out there!
January 12, 2020
The author explains how to apply the Marcus Aurelius philosophy in daily life by improving our perspective of everything.
If you are searching for a book that helps to improve your life and also you're interested in the Stoic philosophy, this is your book.
If you are searching for a book that helps to improve your life and also you're interested in the Stoic philosophy, this is your book.
December 31, 2020
I like how the author also included his flaws and insecurities while writing this book.
It's very easy to read for non-native English speakers like me.
Great read as introduction to stoicism, I guess.
It's very easy to read for non-native English speakers like me.
Great read as introduction to stoicism, I guess.
July 28, 2024
3.5 Stars
I stumbled upon Einzelgänger on Youtube when I was miserable in my life. I was in a stage of self-sabotage, impostor syndrome, not having the best relationship with my mom, envious of other people's seemly "perfect life" etc, so I was looking for something to help me get out of these negative thoughts online (of course I also went to therapist but I thought I also need to do my own work outside of the sessions), and there it was, Einzelgänger's Youtube talking about stoicism implemented in real life. Thanks to that YouTube channel, I learned that even people in the 3rd century BC struggled with gossip from neighbors or colleagues. It made me realize I'm not alone.
After watching a few videos, I felt that I learned more about the knowledge of stoicism through Einzelgänger's way of explanation, so I decided to read his book. The author is like a big brother who shares his life experiences, weaving in stoic quotes and lessons he's learned. I felt resonation with his experiences as he pointed out his family issue and the relationships with others including friends, partners and also colleagues so I found it quite useful how he handled all of the issues he identified.
This isn't a technical book with specific instructions, but rather a personal account of the author's highs and lows. He shares his experiences overcoming challenges and finding inner peace. It's a good read if you would like to know how he overcame the self-sabotaging life and became unoffendable.
I stumbled upon Einzelgänger on Youtube when I was miserable in my life. I was in a stage of self-sabotage, impostor syndrome, not having the best relationship with my mom, envious of other people's seemly "perfect life" etc, so I was looking for something to help me get out of these negative thoughts online (of course I also went to therapist but I thought I also need to do my own work outside of the sessions), and there it was, Einzelgänger's Youtube talking about stoicism implemented in real life. Thanks to that YouTube channel, I learned that even people in the 3rd century BC struggled with gossip from neighbors or colleagues. It made me realize I'm not alone.
After watching a few videos, I felt that I learned more about the knowledge of stoicism through Einzelgänger's way of explanation, so I decided to read his book. The author is like a big brother who shares his life experiences, weaving in stoic quotes and lessons he's learned. I felt resonation with his experiences as he pointed out his family issue and the relationships with others including friends, partners and also colleagues so I found it quite useful how he handled all of the issues he identified.
This isn't a technical book with specific instructions, but rather a personal account of the author's highs and lows. He shares his experiences overcoming challenges and finding inner peace. It's a good read if you would like to know how he overcame the self-sabotaging life and became unoffendable.
February 2, 2022
I like the content on his youtube channel. So, I wanted to give a try out this book. In short, it lacks depth.
I like that the author put down his insecurities and thought on them using philosophical principles. It's a matter of perspective but throughout the book, I didn't find any actual "problem". It looks like a teenager, who was bullied in school, read stoicism and wrote the book.
The whole book is about maintaining composure in the face of people's negativity. Similar stuff with different titles and examples. But if he is really ignoring all of these things and studying those ancient philosophers, I think he won't have elaborated some things in that detail esp. the type of insults where he explains the meaning of different phrases.
Moreover, I only saw problems. I am not sure if I found any example of tough struggle, somewhere he showed resilience, discipline or control.
I think the author is still struggling with the issues he wrote about. Trying to heal his wounds. May you heal faster! The book shares a content that other people facing the same issues can connect with. It's helpful, I get that; but that's it.
I like that the author put down his insecurities and thought on them using philosophical principles. It's a matter of perspective but throughout the book, I didn't find any actual "problem". It looks like a teenager, who was bullied in school, read stoicism and wrote the book.
The whole book is about maintaining composure in the face of people's negativity. Similar stuff with different titles and examples. But if he is really ignoring all of these things and studying those ancient philosophers, I think he won't have elaborated some things in that detail esp. the type of insults where he explains the meaning of different phrases.
Moreover, I only saw problems. I am not sure if I found any example of tough struggle, somewhere he showed resilience, discipline or control.
I think the author is still struggling with the issues he wrote about. Trying to heal his wounds. May you heal faster! The book shares a content that other people facing the same issues can connect with. It's helpful, I get that; but that's it.
October 13, 2023
This book had some useful observations and was short and simple to read. I got the sense the author was young and a bit "green", but that's fine - he was working through his own self analysis and had good perspectives to share along the way. I felt like he gave us a glimpse of his early life and coming of age. I appreciated his framework and ties to the Stoics and great philosophers like Epictetus with timeless truths, plus the Buddhist nature of what he had to share.
This book is a good antidote to the double-speak of political correctness. Instead, people can adopt a healthy detachment from what others say and do, by figuring out what triggers them and then learning not to waste time on anger and taking offense.
Key takeaways: you can't control what happens to you and what others say; you can control how you react. Much of life's suffering comes from our own choices and what we get fixated on. Don't sweat the small stuff!
This book is a good antidote to the double-speak of political correctness. Instead, people can adopt a healthy detachment from what others say and do, by figuring out what triggers them and then learning not to waste time on anger and taking offense.
Key takeaways: you can't control what happens to you and what others say; you can control how you react. Much of life's suffering comes from our own choices and what we get fixated on. Don't sweat the small stuff!
January 17, 2023
Added this book on my to read list on: Jun/6/2020
Finally finished reading this book on: Jan/16/2023
Reallyyyy loved reading this book. I remember I used to watch einzelgänger youtube videos ever since I was in highschool and I remember when he announced his book I remember being so excited being the reader that I am/person who loves to read and was finally able to get my copy a few years late due to some reasons.
And finally when I read the book and finished it here is some of my review:
The book is a great and really teaches you how to be more detached to become more cool and (unoffendable) I remember laughing at some parts in the books because you can truly feel that the writer does have this unoffendable mentality at hand and it does show through personality and thoughts shared in this book. 💭👍
Finally finished reading this book on: Jan/16/2023
Reallyyyy loved reading this book. I remember I used to watch einzelgänger youtube videos ever since I was in highschool and I remember when he announced his book I remember being so excited being the reader that I am/person who loves to read and was finally able to get my copy a few years late due to some reasons.
And finally when I read the book and finished it here is some of my review:
The book is a great and really teaches you how to be more detached to become more cool and (unoffendable) I remember laughing at some parts in the books because you can truly feel that the writer does have this unoffendable mentality at hand and it does show through personality and thoughts shared in this book. 💭👍
November 10, 2024
Einzelgänger, my favorite YouTuber, has crafted a compelling guide in “Unoffendable: The Art of Thriving in a World Full of Jerks.” Drawing from Stoic philosophy, Buddhism, and Taoism, he offers practical strategies to navigate a world rife with negativity and offense. The book emphasizes the importance of focusing on what we can control—our reactions and perceptions—rather than external provocations. Einzelgänger’s personal anecdotes enrich the narrative, making complex philosophical concepts accessible and relatable. For those seeking to cultivate resilience and inner peace amidst external chaos, “Unoffendable” is an invaluable resource. It not only complements his insightful YouTube content but also stands as a testament to his dedication to personal growth and wisdom. This book is a must-read for anyone aiming to thrive in today’s challenging social landscape.
March 24, 2021
This is an excellent book and I heartily recommend it to all thinking people. It is well written and is written in a simple and direct fashion. It combines commentary on principles laid down by Stoicism, Buddhism, and Taoism with real life examples. The Greeks had a principle they called Phronesis, meaning practical wisdom. And this book is full of practical wisdom.
The book could have used some more editing. On p. 19 he refers to a flow chart which was missing
on my Kindle version of the book. Also, there are misspellings and grammar errors. Still, the book
is so interesting and entertaining that these flaws are hardly noticeable. Also, if you haven't seen
seen Einzelganger's You Tube page you should definitely see it--you are in for a treat!
The book could have used some more editing. On p. 19 he refers to a flow chart which was missing
on my Kindle version of the book. Also, there are misspellings and grammar errors. Still, the book
is so interesting and entertaining that these flaws are hardly noticeable. Also, if you haven't seen
seen Einzelganger's You Tube page you should definitely see it--you are in for a treat!
July 16, 2021
True advice
I found this book very helpful and to the point. The non sense is set to minimum. I used to get offended with ease, even when offender did it accidentally. Now I know that its just my perception of the things and nothing else. I practice negative visualization daily and I find myself at peace in crowd, in traffic and places of public interest. I visualize that we are like an atom in universe and if we keep getting offended on petty stuff nobody would give us a damp.
I am at peace and happier.
I found this book very helpful and to the point. The non sense is set to minimum. I used to get offended with ease, even when offender did it accidentally. Now I know that its just my perception of the things and nothing else. I practice negative visualization daily and I find myself at peace in crowd, in traffic and places of public interest. I visualize that we are like an atom in universe and if we keep getting offended on petty stuff nobody would give us a damp.
I am at peace and happier.
July 23, 2022
This is the best book I read about withstanding insults from other people and avoiding getting triggered or angry from other people's words or actions.
It's written so simply that anyone can understand it and its lessons.
I highly recommend this book to anyone who has a hard time with getting angry or offended too easily if someone mocks them or anyone who tends to take so many things personally.
This book will give you the freedom to detach from what other people say or think about you and live life not caring about jerks or toxic people.
It's written so simply that anyone can understand it and its lessons.
I highly recommend this book to anyone who has a hard time with getting angry or offended too easily if someone mocks them or anyone who tends to take so many things personally.
This book will give you the freedom to detach from what other people say or think about you and live life not caring about jerks or toxic people.
May 28, 2023
"The sun is shining. It’s a beautiful day. Let’s cherish the time we have by caring less about the things that don’t matter so we can pursue the things that do. It doesn’t matter whether we seek to achieve spiritual enlightenment, travel the world, make a fortune, start a family, or perhaps just ask for help. Memento mori. The time is ticking, my friends."
This is a must read book. Be unoffendable by caring less what other people think. Be think-skinned and live your life the way you want to live it.
This is a must read book. Be unoffendable by caring less what other people think. Be think-skinned and live your life the way you want to live it.
September 11, 2025
Most of the book is more of an autobiography with the author providing different aspects of his life story and explaining his belief system. Unfortunately, he comes across as a bit jaded and quick to anger, which is surprising given that many of his inspirations lie in Buddhism and Stoicism.
I couldn't recommend the book to anyone as one's time would be better spent going straight to the source of the ideas. Go read Marcus Aurelius, Seneca, or Epictetus instead.
I couldn't recommend the book to anyone as one's time would be better spent going straight to the source of the ideas. Go read Marcus Aurelius, Seneca, or Epictetus instead.
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