I think if I recommend any book this year, this one is it. I look around me and I see the parallels between WWII and where we are headed with Trump. Have a heart for muslims and refugees. Are you a parent? Do you have a child that looks up to you? They are watching how you react to bans or non Americans, for example. Anyone who is different. Stand up for what is right. Judge a person upon their behavior, not where they were born nor their religion. This book is an inspiration.
"In their work on bystander intervention, social psychologists Bib Latane and John Darley have delineated a five stage process by which observers turn into active participants. Their stages are: noticing that something is amiss, interpreting the Situation as one in which people need help, assuming responsibility to offer that help, choosing a form of help, and finally, implementing that help. Latane and Darley's first two stages- noticing and interpreting- are what I call awareness" page 41
"While local citizens were aware that Jews were losing their civil liberties, most interpreted this change as temporary, not fatal and not necessarily warranting intervention." Page 44
"Rescuers framed the question in other terms: 'Can I live with myself if I say no?'" Page 60
"Love us not the result, but the foundation of conscience" page 255
"Hoffman, who has studied parental techniques of discipline and its effects on altruism, found that parents who explained rules and used inductive reasoning instead of harsh punishment tend to have children who care for and about others. After all, parents who voluntarily relinquish the use of force in favor of reasoning send their children a message about how the powerful should treat the weak" page 257
" In talking with rescuers from all kinds of different homes, I found that one quality above all others was emphasized time and again: a familial acceptance of people who were different....The conviction that all people, no matter how marginal, are of equal value was conveyed to children of both religious and no religious households" page 259
"Time, at last, to tell my sons how love, belief, and will can help a human being get through pain and evil times, where each minute is an hour, each day a month, each month a year.....I do not say this lightly. I've asked myself many times whether my work in the resistance was worth losing my health, my marriage, and 10 years of my life, which is what it took before I could get a hold of my nerves, get my energy back, and give myself completely to my work.......my answer is still the same: yes." Pages 296-297