You Can Be The Happiest Woman In The World

by Aid al-Qarni

Product description Description from the Do you want to be happy? We are all looking for an escape from worry, stress, depression, and for ways to find happiness. This book presents the route to happiness in a nutshell, drawing on Islamic teachings and the voices of "experts" both western and eastern. So sit back, relax, and read it from cover to cover, or dip into it a page or two at a time in between other activities in a busy life as a wife, mother, student, or worker. You are holding in your hands a treasure chest of reminders that will help you learn important lessons and set you on the path to happiness in this world and in the hereafter, insha'Allah

Genres: Islam, Spirituality

541 pages, Kindle Edition

Published August 26, 2019

Reviews

[Fì · Rating 1 out of 5]

Talks about how if women are obedient to men it will make them “happy”, a bit too much when the focus should on satisfying women rather then men. Compares muslim to non muslims and basically calls women who do not have a faith trash and worthless, is this how women should be talked about?
However, it has some good points such as how pleasing Allah will make us happier which I 100% agree with, just not valid explanations and ignores other factors to make us happy.

[.🍃. thecursed_Reader · Rating 4 out of 5]

After reading this book and complaining about some, if not many of the writer perspective, my mother said I scare her 😅

[Kat · Rating 4 out of 5]

This was a good book. A lot easier to understand than Don't Be Sad and very inspirational. The only thing I didn't really understand was the quotes titles and and topic of the chapters sometimes had nothing to do with one another

[Mizah Norsaipul · Rating 3 out of 5]

It is surely a good book from islamic point of view. Yet, thw wavelength is not mine.

[Filzah Aliah · Rating 3 out of 5]

The telling of Muslim women should be at disposal of men (their husbands) are a bit too much. This book may be at glory back when conventional thinking is still deep rooted in our community. I’m not saying that Muslim women shouldn’t listen to their husband or can’t be told advices, just that with generations came different life challenges. And to face that challenges, our new generation has adapted to new ways but still abiding the teachings of Islam. Respecting your spouse should come both ways (husbands to wives, and wives to husbands). Some of the advices (regarding relationships between spouses) given in this book may not be applicable in today’s scene.

Nevertheless, some of the advices are useful reminder that can be applied in life such as remembrance of Allah, believing in Him, put Him above everything and. always always be grateful even you’re tested or blessed.

[Maryam Safiya · Rating 4 out of 5]

Regalo una stella solo per fare un favore al fratello, ma il libro ne vale tre.

Non è niente di che, raccoglie le solite frasi motivazionali dette e ridette, tra cui alcune riprese dal medioevo o da libri di self-development non islamici, e spesso i titoli dei capitoli non c’entravano nulla con il loro contenuto.

La lettura di questo libro non ha né tolto né aggiunto nulla alla mia vita. Decisamente meglio “Don’t be sad”. Fortunatamente è stato un regalo.

[Jess]

I got this as a gift, so I read it.

The intolerance of and colourful insults targeted at “disbelievers”, especially female ones in this case, will make it difficult for agnostics, atheists or people of a different religion to enjoy this book. Personally, I luckily found them amusing.

In general, the book holds many positive ideas that self help books, Buddhism and Christian literature all share.
Also, from a societal point of view, historically, I can understand and emphasise with the role of women propagated by Islam.

However, as with most restrictive religions, I wholeheartedly disagree with unquestionably upholding it in today’s society.

From a content-agnostic perspective, the book is highly repetitive, unstructured and as pointed out by others, the many quotes inserted rarely relate to the chapter’s content, hinting at the lack of a proper editor being involved in its publication.

[taz nasser · Rating 4 out of 5]

I give it 4 stars just because the topics were a bit scattered! I wish it was more synchronized by topic. The quotes before and after each piece were also a bit confusing and unrelated to the topic. Though, I really did love the many inspirational stories provided, and learnt a lot on women’s roles through this book. This book should be read by all young Muslim living in today’s particular society, the society that hides its definition of “feminism”: rebelling towards men. Inshallah will be reading Don’t Be Sad by this author soon, I heard it was a very good book.

[WxP · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book was gifted to me at the perfect time. I read it in an instant and it had me hooked although id say you should take your time to digest the words of the author. I still refer to random chapters when i need to be uplifted or just for some inspiration!

It does exactly what it says and actually helps in finding contentment :)

[Minha Roomy · Rating 4 out of 5]

Such an inspiring and motivational book filled with powerful messages. It uplifts the mindset with its wisdom, faith-based guidance, and practical advice for overcoming challenges. The book contains so much valuable information that it’s impossible to absorb everything in one read. I’ve decided to read it again because of its depth and impact. I absolutely love this book!

[Rozie Bakar · Rating 4 out of 5]

A simple, straightforward content. Not entirely about women, but a great book to just sit back and a good read in between tasks/chores. Very light content.

A perfect reminder to always be grateful.

[Hadicha Aziz · Rating 4 out of 5]

I love this book, it’s a nice light hearted reminder of how we can look at things in a better perspective and strengthen our iman. Only thing I would say is there is no particular structure, it’s just random topics compiled together.

[Aisha · Rating 4 out of 5]

A book that provides so much peace within one's life, loved it.
Very simple, kept it concise to read anywhere no matter how busy you might be, acted like a little remedy for instant calmness and relief.
Beautiful read.

[Lala Enchilada · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is amazing I feel like it was talking to me in some ways it helped me so much understanding a lot of things.

[Naziya Kalim · Rating 5 out of 5]

Very helpful and peaceful read.

[Melanie · Rating 1 out of 5]

I don't actually even remember reading this, which probably explains the one star