Oooh, this is so good! Why didn't I hear y'all raving about this when it came out a couple years ago?! This is a graphic memoir with a focus on music and its relationship to the development of Pierre's twenties identity, including lots of break-ups. She's a musician, so that's central to her life, traveling around, performing, writing (mostly break-up) songs, performing, in and out of relationships with various men, but it is also specifically about mixtapes as the site of the now forty-something Pierre's sort of archaeological dig into her own life.
I really like how Pierre shares the lists of songs on various key mixtapes she makes for would-be boyfriends, old friends, family and how she analyzes her life through those choices. One turning point for her in her life occurs in 1994, when she listens to Liz Phair's Exile in Guyville and Hole's Live Through This, as she sees for the first time that someone else's music can speak directly to her own experience. Then throughout the book women musicians seem highlighted, though, interestingly enough, in the acknowledgements to key musicians she lists Tom Waits, Bruce Springsteen, Lou Reed, Neil Young, and then one woman, Gillian Welch.
As a person who for decades made and gave away my own mixtapes, you had better believe I was digging through old musty boxes for those (now unplayable? Hey, maybe I can find a cassette player at a yard sale this summer!) mix tapes. Who was that guy, and how do my fave songs reveal who I am? More mellow, acoustic stuff for me, for sure. I always liked to dance, but there is almost no dance music on this stack of tapes. Folk, blues, Dylan, CSNY, James Taylor, Van Morrison, Motown.
Anyway, fun book with some deeper mining with therapists's help, of Pierre's emotional struggles. I think this is a completely relatable book, though I especially think she is speaking to younger women in lots of exploratory relationships, trying to figure her younger self out, inviting us to join her in reflecting on our own relationship choices. One of my fave graphic works I have read this year.