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100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear
Every one of us has tremendous power to either build others up or tear them down through the words we speak every day, and nowhere is this more evident than in our marriages. Are you being purposeful in how you use the power of your words to speak encouragement, strength, and love--breathing life into the heart of your spouse? Or are careless words having a negative impact on your marriage and on the heart of the one you love most?
Matt and Lisa Jacobson want you and your spouse to discover the powerful ways you can build one another up in love with the words that you choose to say every day--words that every husband and wife need to hear. These books offer you 100 Things to say to your husband or wife that deeply encourage, affirm, and inspire. Start speaking these words into each other's lives and watch your spouse--and your relationship--transform before your eyes.
Matt and Lisa Jacobson want you and your spouse to discover the powerful ways you can build one another up in love with the words that you choose to say every day--words that every husband and wife need to hear. These books offer you 100 Things to say to your husband or wife that deeply encourage, affirm, and inspire. Start speaking these words into each other's lives and watch your spouse--and your relationship--transform before your eyes.
144 pages, Kindle Edition
Published October 1, 2019
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Lisa Jacobson
19 books137 followersI love reading and have an interest in many types of books--from fiction to nonfiction. These are my personal reviews based on the following criteria:
★★★★★ - A book I loved with strong writing and powerful content. One I'd keep on my bookshelf!
★★★★ - A book that is well-written and interesting or inspiring. Would likely reread.
★★★ - A book that I enjoyed but wouldn't necessarily read again.
★★ - A book I didn't enjoy but had some merit.
★ - A book I truly hated or couldn't finish.
Lisa Jacobson is an author, a speaker, and the founder of Club31Women. She is the author of the bestselling 100 Ways to Love Your Husband and other marriage and parenting books.
A graduate of Western Seminary, Lisa lives with her husband, Matt, in the Pacific Northwest, where they have raised their eight children. Together, Matt and Lisa are cohosts of the popular FAITHFUL LIFE podcast.
★★★★★ - A book I loved with strong writing and powerful content. One I'd keep on my bookshelf!
★★★★ - A book that is well-written and interesting or inspiring. Would likely reread.
★★★ - A book that I enjoyed but wouldn't necessarily read again.
★★ - A book I didn't enjoy but had some merit.
★ - A book I truly hated or couldn't finish.
Lisa Jacobson is an author, a speaker, and the founder of Club31Women. She is the author of the bestselling 100 Ways to Love Your Husband and other marriage and parenting books.
A graduate of Western Seminary, Lisa lives with her husband, Matt, in the Pacific Northwest, where they have raised their eight children. Together, Matt and Lisa are cohosts of the popular FAITHFUL LIFE podcast.
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October 25, 2019
I put this book into practice right off the bat! It was actually bit humorous at first, but somewhat effective. I sat down with my husband and started reading the words of affirmation - "I love what you build with your hands", "You are the best man I know", "I need you", "I'm sticking with you when everything falls apart". The kids were kind of laughing and hating all the "mushy" stuff. And some of it was kind of awkward actually, so yes, this is going to take some practice. But it was fun and interesting to see his reactions.
Ok... So I know that wasn't exactly how this book was designed to be used. It has a new phrase on each page. Each page also includes a short story to go with the phrase. Most of the stories are personal experiences the author and her husband and family have gone through. They included things he had done for her, ways he may have defended her, protected her, laughed with her. She reminds us in these tales to encourage our men, our husbands; to build them up instead of tearing them down.
I can definitely learn a lot from this book. I would definitely recommend it.
I received a copy of this book courtesy of Revell. I was not asked to review this book positively. All opinions are my own.
Ok... So I know that wasn't exactly how this book was designed to be used. It has a new phrase on each page. Each page also includes a short story to go with the phrase. Most of the stories are personal experiences the author and her husband and family have gone through. They included things he had done for her, ways he may have defended her, protected her, laughed with her. She reminds us in these tales to encourage our men, our husbands; to build them up instead of tearing them down.
I can definitely learn a lot from this book. I would definitely recommend it.
I received a copy of this book courtesy of Revell. I was not asked to review this book positively. All opinions are my own.
October 5, 2019
I don't read marriage books, because I find most to be unbiblical and/or predictable. In fact, until a couple years ago I hadn't touched any since we were required to read some for Pre-marriage counseling. But I found this website (club31women.com) full of humble experiences and biblical advice from women who have been married much longer than myself and just are it up. So I decided to download a book called "100 was to love your husband" the founder of the website. Her husband also wrote a "love your wife" version. Simple. Practical. Biblical. This sweet couple has very recently released this new set that is equally as wonderful. I so appreciate their honesty and humility as they share tidbits of their successes and mistakes that have helped them to grow in their marriage. It's short, but full of practical advice to strengthen your marriage. Not only what to say, but why. I recommend this book for both novice couples and oldies alike.
September 30, 2020
I found this short book repetitive and not as helpful as her other book “100 Ways to Love Your Husband.” However, I have been reminded how important my words are and how being a wife means being an encourager - so I’m thankful for that reminder.
February 17, 2020
Well I had such high hopes for this book. I first read the companion book "100 ways to love your husband" but didn't love it, so I hoped this one would be a little bit more practical since the sections were a bit longer. However, I'm left with similar feelings as I was with the aforementioned book. I feel like Jacobson isn't super relatable, and neither is her marriage. I'm sure they have had some hard times. I'm sure that she has been annoyed by her husband. I'm sure that they have lived a realistic, relatable life. But none of that comes across throughout this book.
I've been married to my husband 17 years, and he is a wonderful man, a wonderful husband, and a wonderful father. We have the typical issues, where the little things get annoying, or we show our love in completely different ways. Which is why I wanted to pick up a marriage book to boost our love levels and give me some practicals. This wasn't the book for that.
This book actually left me feeling more blah at my husband. Like, so many of the affirmations were things that I didn't feel like I could say. I'm a realist. I understand the biblical aspect of speaking love and life into a person to bring the potential out in them. But I think there's a fine line between speaking to someone's potential and lying through your lips.
So some of these affirmations weren't relatable, weren't something every wife could even say to their husband, and some simply made me go, "Why isn't my husband like that?" Exactly the opposite effect than what the author - I'm sure - intended or wanted.
So the book wasn't for me.
It might be for you. *shrugs*
I've been married to my husband 17 years, and he is a wonderful man, a wonderful husband, and a wonderful father. We have the typical issues, where the little things get annoying, or we show our love in completely different ways. Which is why I wanted to pick up a marriage book to boost our love levels and give me some practicals. This wasn't the book for that.
This book actually left me feeling more blah at my husband. Like, so many of the affirmations were things that I didn't feel like I could say. I'm a realist. I understand the biblical aspect of speaking love and life into a person to bring the potential out in them. But I think there's a fine line between speaking to someone's potential and lying through your lips.
So some of these affirmations weren't relatable, weren't something every wife could even say to their husband, and some simply made me go, "Why isn't my husband like that?" Exactly the opposite effect than what the author - I'm sure - intended or wanted.
So the book wasn't for me.
It might be for you. *shrugs*
November 2, 2019
This book was so helpful and practical... Being married to a man who's love language is "words of affirmation" this book gave me lots of ideas!
I appreciate Lisa Jacobson's practical approach to loving our husbands well. The personal stories and illustrations she shares in this book were also insightful.
I would highly recommend this book to any married woman (whether words of affirmation is your husbands love language or not). Words are so powerful and we ought to use them to build up our husbands!
This book was given to me free of charge in exchange for an honest review. All thoughts and opinions are solely my own.
I appreciate Lisa Jacobson's practical approach to loving our husbands well. The personal stories and illustrations she shares in this book were also insightful.
I would highly recommend this book to any married woman (whether words of affirmation is your husbands love language or not). Words are so powerful and we ought to use them to build up our husbands!
This book was given to me free of charge in exchange for an honest review. All thoughts and opinions are solely my own.
September 19, 2019
Simple. Practical. Applicable.
October 1, 2019
Put This On A Pedtal,And Stand
I love what you build with our hands.(pg.65 Hers).
Amazing,touching and active books.
There's no place like home. And every time you read these pages in between these books,you find truths,treasures and a way to bless your God -given Gift,God calls your spouse to you.
You can find hope for the newlyweds, to the reconnection for the life-long married couple.
These are fantastic gifts to share within your home,as gifts for all those who come to mind,and better yet,a starting point to bring blessing to your home.
A vision given,A hope that can,A plan that will make you both ,you and your spouse look again and again to see what's next.
So easy to add to your everyday routine. WORDS OF LOVE ON THE GO.
WORDS AT HEART TO STOP AND GIVE.
These books are blessings to those who hold them.
Value to those who read them.And a must to those who seek for love to be rekindled,your thought life will be changed from the inside out. You find yourself the more you read them,the more yourself needs a change.
My life is in Your hands,Lord.
These books together are so powerful, that I know they will touch you and yours in a very special way.
Rekindle the fire that you once had for the love of your life.
Start a fresh fire of love for your newly " beloved" spouse.
And pass them on as gifts to all those you love and watch God take them places like none before.
So honored to be apart of these books,bless the Authors,who have and will touch many lives with these books.
You must make it your priority to put these on your Christain bookshelves. Your adult children's bookshelves, your church Library's bookshelves.
Trust me,they are meant to be.
Thank you for standing by me.(pg.65 His).
For HIS Glory,
Tonya
I love what you build with our hands.(pg.65 Hers).
Amazing,touching and active books.
There's no place like home. And every time you read these pages in between these books,you find truths,treasures and a way to bless your God -given Gift,God calls your spouse to you.
You can find hope for the newlyweds, to the reconnection for the life-long married couple.
These are fantastic gifts to share within your home,as gifts for all those who come to mind,and better yet,a starting point to bring blessing to your home.
A vision given,A hope that can,A plan that will make you both ,you and your spouse look again and again to see what's next.
So easy to add to your everyday routine. WORDS OF LOVE ON THE GO.
WORDS AT HEART TO STOP AND GIVE.
These books are blessings to those who hold them.
Value to those who read them.And a must to those who seek for love to be rekindled,your thought life will be changed from the inside out. You find yourself the more you read them,the more yourself needs a change.
My life is in Your hands,Lord.
These books together are so powerful, that I know they will touch you and yours in a very special way.
Rekindle the fire that you once had for the love of your life.
Start a fresh fire of love for your newly " beloved" spouse.
And pass them on as gifts to all those you love and watch God take them places like none before.
So honored to be apart of these books,bless the Authors,who have and will touch many lives with these books.
You must make it your priority to put these on your Christain bookshelves. Your adult children's bookshelves, your church Library's bookshelves.
Trust me,they are meant to be.
Thank you for standing by me.(pg.65 His).
For HIS Glory,
Tonya
October 30, 2019
Everyone has the power to build others up or tear them down with their words. It is so important for wives to learn how to encourage their husbands and that they do it every single day. Much of what we see on television and in movies are husbands being made fun of and torn down. It's time we set an example for our children to see how to really treat people.
Lisa Jacobsen helps us discover ways to use the power of words to benefit our spouse in "100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear". Just as important as what you say is how you say it. You must mean what you say. Jacobsen's book is a great guide to use as you practice saying affirmative things to your husband. Choose affirming words you know your husband will cherish and take as encouragement from you.
If you have not encouraged your husband often, start slowly and develop a daily habit.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Revell, a division of Baker Publishing Group, as part of its Book Review Blogger Program. I was not required to write a review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
Lisa Jacobsen helps us discover ways to use the power of words to benefit our spouse in "100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear". Just as important as what you say is how you say it. You must mean what you say. Jacobsen's book is a great guide to use as you practice saying affirmative things to your husband. Choose affirming words you know your husband will cherish and take as encouragement from you.
If you have not encouraged your husband often, start slowly and develop a daily habit.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Revell, a division of Baker Publishing Group, as part of its Book Review Blogger Program. I was not required to write a review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
February 5, 2020
We all need affirmation and giving affirmation to those we love is a blessing and life giving. If your relationship needs a pick up and you do not know where to start, Lisa Jacobson will be able to give you some ideals on the power of words to your husband. Words of affirmation to our spouse will be life changing as you may give your spouse confidence that he may lack because he may be only hearing the words that bring him down. Words of Affirmation is good for your marriage, your relationship and your well-being. Highly recommend.
A Special Thank you to Revell and Netgalley for the ARC and the opportunity to post an honest review.
A Special Thank you to Revell and Netgalley for the ARC and the opportunity to post an honest review.
September 22, 2019
I've been going one day at a time finding ways to say these affirmations to my husband in my own words or similar, and the feedback I've been getting from him is amazing! He doesn't know I'm reading this book, though he may after I give feedback, lol. I always tell him that he is amazing. But just that one word doesn't seem to get through to him.. Though I mean it sincerely, it's not as descriptive or affirming as the affirmations in this book. And the stories that go along with the affirmations, just reassure me that I'm doing good by trying to build up my husband with truths that are more detailed than "you're amazing." When my husband and I met, we had both wandered from the Faith, long before we met. But together, we helped each other be better people and come back to the church. When I was doubting and because of having chronic illnesses some in the church were telling me my Faith was not strong enough, my prayers not sincere enough, because Jesus had not yet healed me; it was my husband who helped build me back up and grow my Faith. I know this book will continue to help me find the words I've always meant when I tell my husband he is amazing, but in greater detail, so that he can believe how truly amazing I believe he is.
October 1, 2019
This little book is packed full of relatable ideas to affirm your husband. My love language is most definitely NOT words of affirmation but this book encouraged me and helped me in a very practical way. I'm so excited to share this book with others and more importantly, continue using this tool for a better marriage.
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June 22, 2020The perfect book to have in your purse or next to your desk, 100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear provides insight into the importance of words of affirmation in marriage--no matter your love language. Written in a quick and easy-to-read style!
November 19, 2019
One of the things I like about this book is that the affirmations are written in a way that sounds like the average wife could say them, or close enough that they could just be altered slightly. They aren't long, flowery speeches that might put some women off, they are short, simple truths. I also liked that while some of them are things I already say to my husband, some of them made me realize places where I was missing opportunities to encourage him.
This book would make an excellent gift for any wife, whether a newlywed or celebrating fifty years of marriage.
This book would make an excellent gift for any wife, whether a newlywed or celebrating fifty years of marriage.
September 20, 2019
This book has such practical ways to make sure your husband knows you truly care about, respect, and love him. I can’t wait to share each one with my husband. I even used it to write my husband a little birthday card! Highly recommend.
I received a advanced copy from the publisher.
I received a advanced copy from the publisher.
July 28, 2021
Besser als befürchtet, aber schlechter als erhofft. Ich hatte ganz ehrlich Bedenken, in was für eine Richtung es bei diesem Titel geht, aber es war tatsächlich nicht die sexistische shitshow die ich vor Augen hatte. Wäre es etwas inklusiver und nicht so heteronormativ auf Ehemann/Ehefrau gemünzt, könnten sicher mehr Menschen etwas damit anfangen.
Leider lässt auch der Inhalt etwas zu wünschen übrig. Kurz gesagt ist dieses Buch eine Liste von 100 Nettigkeiten, die man seinem Partner doch einmal öfter sagen sollte. Nichts davon ist besonders neu oder weltbewegend und auf mich wirkte es eher wie eine Gelegenheit für die Autorin, Anekdoten ihrer Ehe zu erzählen.
Kommt mit in die Kategorie "Klobücher".
Leider lässt auch der Inhalt etwas zu wünschen übrig. Kurz gesagt ist dieses Buch eine Liste von 100 Nettigkeiten, die man seinem Partner doch einmal öfter sagen sollte. Nichts davon ist besonders neu oder weltbewegend und auf mich wirkte es eher wie eine Gelegenheit für die Autorin, Anekdoten ihrer Ehe zu erzählen.
Kommt mit in die Kategorie "Klobücher".
May 19, 2020
If you're someone who perhaps communication doesn't come easy, or verbal affection isn't comfortable for you, I can see how these prompts could be useful.
However, if you know even the basics of communication skills in your relationship, these are pretty common sense. It also paints a picture where the woman is solely responsible for her husbands happiness, which in turn is the key to hers. It doesn't seem to give value to a marriage being a partnership, or how these affections could also help to guide a relationship for both parties.
Honestly, if you Google some prompts or nice things to say to a husband, you can gain the same prompts and skip the condescending tone.
However, if you know even the basics of communication skills in your relationship, these are pretty common sense. It also paints a picture where the woman is solely responsible for her husbands happiness, which in turn is the key to hers. It doesn't seem to give value to a marriage being a partnership, or how these affections could also help to guide a relationship for both parties.
Honestly, if you Google some prompts or nice things to say to a husband, you can gain the same prompts and skip the condescending tone.
February 16, 2020
This book is helpful and practical. The author’s stories about her own marriage are open and vulnerable. She doesn’t tell you what to do she takes you through her own experience in a way that teaches you a new and better way to relate.
I would Recommend this for any married woman. The book is well written and easy to read,
The publisher made this book available for even on netgalley. This is my honest opinion,
I would Recommend this for any married woman. The book is well written and easy to read,
The publisher made this book available for even on netgalley. This is my honest opinion,
November 18, 2019
*I received 100 Words of Affirmation your Husband Needs to Hear from Revell in exchange for an honest review- all opinions are my own.*
I picked 100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear by Lisa Jacobson to read next, after reviewing 100 Ways to Love Your Husband. If you know anything about love languages, and know the one of your spouse- I’ve found that it really has an impact on how well your marriage works. I am a typical Gifts person. Gifts make me feel loved. I love surprises. It can be a tiny gesture- a coffee or a bundle of flowers. It doesn’t matter. And my Husband speaks my love language fluently. I, on the other hand have never been that great at speaking his.
Words of Affirmation
He is definitely a words of affirmation guy. Me telling him how wonderful he is, what a great job he’s doing, what an amazing father he is- these words of affirmation totally fill his cup! But, after telling him those things- I tend to run out of ideas on how else to compliment him. Especially ways that still feel genuine. That’s where this book comes in!
This book is chock full of sweet, and REAL ways to tell your Husband how amazing he is- without feeling like you’re trying to hard. Nice ways you can affirm him each and every day. I love all of the ideas that Lisa Jacobson gives us. Some I would have never even thought of. But, I know they’re working, because I’ve already slipped in a few of them here and there in conversation- and I can tell my Husband totally appreciates it!
I love that Lisa and her Husband still have a fresh and fun marriage, even after 25 years. That’s something I strive for! My Husband and I are best friends and partners. And we protect and serve one another. That’s one thing she pointed out that I really loved- to support your Husband. Even when you’re talking to your friends. Talk him up! I try to never speak ill of my Husband to others. Because that can tear him down, and a marriage really quick.
There are all sorts of short and sweet ways this book taught me, that I can speak my Husband’s love language. And it was a super quick read, making it slip into my reading list seamlessly. So, if you’re on the lookout for ways to speak life into your marriage- and your spouse, this book may be for you.
I picked 100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear by Lisa Jacobson to read next, after reviewing 100 Ways to Love Your Husband. If you know anything about love languages, and know the one of your spouse- I’ve found that it really has an impact on how well your marriage works. I am a typical Gifts person. Gifts make me feel loved. I love surprises. It can be a tiny gesture- a coffee or a bundle of flowers. It doesn’t matter. And my Husband speaks my love language fluently. I, on the other hand have never been that great at speaking his.
Words of Affirmation
He is definitely a words of affirmation guy. Me telling him how wonderful he is, what a great job he’s doing, what an amazing father he is- these words of affirmation totally fill his cup! But, after telling him those things- I tend to run out of ideas on how else to compliment him. Especially ways that still feel genuine. That’s where this book comes in!
This book is chock full of sweet, and REAL ways to tell your Husband how amazing he is- without feeling like you’re trying to hard. Nice ways you can affirm him each and every day. I love all of the ideas that Lisa Jacobson gives us. Some I would have never even thought of. But, I know they’re working, because I’ve already slipped in a few of them here and there in conversation- and I can tell my Husband totally appreciates it!
I love that Lisa and her Husband still have a fresh and fun marriage, even after 25 years. That’s something I strive for! My Husband and I are best friends and partners. And we protect and serve one another. That’s one thing she pointed out that I really loved- to support your Husband. Even when you’re talking to your friends. Talk him up! I try to never speak ill of my Husband to others. Because that can tear him down, and a marriage really quick.
There are all sorts of short and sweet ways this book taught me, that I can speak my Husband’s love language. And it was a super quick read, making it slip into my reading list seamlessly. So, if you’re on the lookout for ways to speak life into your marriage- and your spouse, this book may be for you.
January 23, 2020
Title: 100 Words Of Affirmation Your Husband Needs To Hear
Author: Lisa Jacobson
Genre: Nonfiction, Self-Help, Marriage, Husbands, Christian.
Plot: Straight forward and simple, pastor's wife Lisa Jacobson lists one hundred words or phrases rather which your husband needs to hear from you. These range from "You are my protector" to "Thank you for supporting our family" and "You are one handsome man."
Lisa and her husband Matt have been married for over 20 years and she has learned through trial, error and experimentation exactly what her husband needs to hear. This book is a product of those years of effort, love and learning that you van now apply to your marriage and affirm your husband in a loving and God-honoring way.
Likes/Dislikes: One of the things I really enjoyed about this book was that Lisa dived right into the things to say to your husband and didn't waste time telling us who this book was for, how to save your marriage, or why you should fight for your marriage in an abusive or otherwise uncomfortable situation like other marriage books I've read have done. While those books have their place, they all end up feeling preachy or guilt-tripping me for not doing enough or sacrificing enough. This book by Lisa made me feel like getting into the habit of affirming and loving my husband every day is something easy, fun and simple to do. The doable aspect was very appealing and I started texting my husband while reading the book.
For those of you curious, there is a companion book on ways to actively show love to your husband and the flip side to those books for showing love and 100 affirming words for wives. They make a great bundle for a wedding or anniversary gift.
Rating: PG-15 and up, mainly for reading level and content (it's a marriage book)
Date Reviewed: January 22nd, 2020
I received a copy of this book courtesy of Netgalley for my honest opinion. I wasn't required to write a positive review and the opinions expressed in the above review are my own.
Author: Lisa Jacobson
Genre: Nonfiction, Self-Help, Marriage, Husbands, Christian.
Plot: Straight forward and simple, pastor's wife Lisa Jacobson lists one hundred words or phrases rather which your husband needs to hear from you. These range from "You are my protector" to "Thank you for supporting our family" and "You are one handsome man."
Lisa and her husband Matt have been married for over 20 years and she has learned through trial, error and experimentation exactly what her husband needs to hear. This book is a product of those years of effort, love and learning that you van now apply to your marriage and affirm your husband in a loving and God-honoring way.
Likes/Dislikes: One of the things I really enjoyed about this book was that Lisa dived right into the things to say to your husband and didn't waste time telling us who this book was for, how to save your marriage, or why you should fight for your marriage in an abusive or otherwise uncomfortable situation like other marriage books I've read have done. While those books have their place, they all end up feeling preachy or guilt-tripping me for not doing enough or sacrificing enough. This book by Lisa made me feel like getting into the habit of affirming and loving my husband every day is something easy, fun and simple to do. The doable aspect was very appealing and I started texting my husband while reading the book.
For those of you curious, there is a companion book on ways to actively show love to your husband and the flip side to those books for showing love and 100 affirming words for wives. They make a great bundle for a wedding or anniversary gift.
Rating: PG-15 and up, mainly for reading level and content (it's a marriage book)
Date Reviewed: January 22nd, 2020
I received a copy of this book courtesy of Netgalley for my honest opinion. I wasn't required to write a positive review and the opinions expressed in the above review are my own.
November 8, 2019
The absolute best book for any married couple to read, no matter if you have been married a year or fifty, it will remind you of the little things you can be thankful for in your spouse.
Inside each and every one of us, we have the ability to “Speak Life”, as TobyMac says or bring others down with our words. It is important to remember that the person we share our lives with should hear those words of life from us and often. How do you speak to your husband? Is it with love? How do your children hear you speak to their father? These are all important questions that we need to ask ourselves as we go throughout our daily lives. How often do you actually tell your husband the little things that mean so much for him to hear from you?
I feel like I have a great relationship with my husband and as I read through this list I agreed with everything written within but realized I am seriously lacking on telling my husband many of them. I don’t know that I have ever told him I want to grow closer or thanked him for having my back. And even though he knows I trust his judgment I don’t think I have actually told him that in a very long time. My husband provides for us above and beyond but I don’t think to tell him he is a big success. So many little things that could make such a difference if we just think to tell the man in our lives these positive affirmations.
I love the way Lisa Jacobson used little examples from her life to help readers see that she isn’t trying to prove she is better than anyone else, she is showing us that we can all do better and be better for each other and our spouses. So much wisdom and truth in the pages, this is a book that will need to be read again and again to help us remember how much we have to be grateful for in who we married.
I received a complimentary copy of this title from the publisher. The views and opinions expressed with are my own.
Inside each and every one of us, we have the ability to “Speak Life”, as TobyMac says or bring others down with our words. It is important to remember that the person we share our lives with should hear those words of life from us and often. How do you speak to your husband? Is it with love? How do your children hear you speak to their father? These are all important questions that we need to ask ourselves as we go throughout our daily lives. How often do you actually tell your husband the little things that mean so much for him to hear from you?
I feel like I have a great relationship with my husband and as I read through this list I agreed with everything written within but realized I am seriously lacking on telling my husband many of them. I don’t know that I have ever told him I want to grow closer or thanked him for having my back. And even though he knows I trust his judgment I don’t think I have actually told him that in a very long time. My husband provides for us above and beyond but I don’t think to tell him he is a big success. So many little things that could make such a difference if we just think to tell the man in our lives these positive affirmations.
I love the way Lisa Jacobson used little examples from her life to help readers see that she isn’t trying to prove she is better than anyone else, she is showing us that we can all do better and be better for each other and our spouses. So much wisdom and truth in the pages, this is a book that will need to be read again and again to help us remember how much we have to be grateful for in who we married.
I received a complimentary copy of this title from the publisher. The views and opinions expressed with are my own.
November 13, 2019
Quick read. Basic, sound tips.
Author Lisa Jacobson’s 100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear is filled with short, basic tidbits that wives may overlook in the busy-ness of everyday living. It’s the complement to 100 Words of Affirmation Your Wife Needs to Hear and the set can be used by married couples who’re looking to amp up their Godly marriages.
Most affirmations are accompanied by a short description of how they applied to the author’s marriage. Many of us aren’t ‘good’ at actually saying the words, so affirmations are often bypassed on a daily basis. But it's important for spouses to hear affirmations to feel good about themselves and their marriage.
100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear can be used as a daily prompt to keep a strong marriage on track or help bring life to a stagnant or failing marriage. I believe that using the pair together would be a useful tool for a couple aiming to pull their marriage together.
How this book affected me:
As a book reviewer, I recently read the author’s 100 Ways to Love Your Husband also accompanied by 100 Ways to Love Your Wife. This book set is very similar in nature to 100 Affirmations. If I had to recommend one, it would be the more versatile 100 Ways to Love Your Husband.
Who would enjoy this book:
This book might make a good gift for a newly engaged or married wife or the pair of books for a newly married couple or as wedding gifts. It can also serve as a reality-check for wives struggling within their marriage or those who want to improve a good marriage.
Our Christian Book Reviews:
The 100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear at Finding God Among Us focus on Christian books - adult and children, fiction and nonfiction. We're proud to be included in the Top 50 Christian Book Review Blogs. I chose to read an ARC from Revell, a division of Baker Publishing Group. This review is my honest opinion.
Author Lisa Jacobson’s 100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear is filled with short, basic tidbits that wives may overlook in the busy-ness of everyday living. It’s the complement to 100 Words of Affirmation Your Wife Needs to Hear and the set can be used by married couples who’re looking to amp up their Godly marriages.
Most affirmations are accompanied by a short description of how they applied to the author’s marriage. Many of us aren’t ‘good’ at actually saying the words, so affirmations are often bypassed on a daily basis. But it's important for spouses to hear affirmations to feel good about themselves and their marriage.
100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear can be used as a daily prompt to keep a strong marriage on track or help bring life to a stagnant or failing marriage. I believe that using the pair together would be a useful tool for a couple aiming to pull their marriage together.
How this book affected me:
As a book reviewer, I recently read the author’s 100 Ways to Love Your Husband also accompanied by 100 Ways to Love Your Wife. This book set is very similar in nature to 100 Affirmations. If I had to recommend one, it would be the more versatile 100 Ways to Love Your Husband.
Who would enjoy this book:
This book might make a good gift for a newly engaged or married wife or the pair of books for a newly married couple or as wedding gifts. It can also serve as a reality-check for wives struggling within their marriage or those who want to improve a good marriage.
Our Christian Book Reviews:
The 100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear at Finding God Among Us focus on Christian books - adult and children, fiction and nonfiction. We're proud to be included in the Top 50 Christian Book Review Blogs. I chose to read an ARC from Revell, a division of Baker Publishing Group. This review is my honest opinion.
November 19, 2019
A sweet book by Lisa Jacobson about the words of affirmation husbands need to hear. It's not a matter of playing to his ego, but a matter of treating him with the love and honor and respect he rightly deserves. It's like Paul wrote to the church as well as to wives: "Wives, submit to your own husbands as to the Lord, for the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church. He is the Savior of the body. Now as the church submits to Christ, so wives are to submit to their husbands in everything" (Ephesians 5:22-24).
That's the thing, however; we ought to all submit to one another so that it honors and glorifies Christ Jesus the Head and ruler of His body, the Church. Husbands ought to be the kind of men that wives can themselves submit to as husbands lead and show their households--wife, children and all in his presence--to glorify and give thanks to the Lord. I know I diverge off Lisa Jacobson's book there, but it's to make the point that part of the love and duty a wife has with her husband is to bring him the respect and honor he needs.
The result of that in the end is he is able to both bring her the honor and the ability to purify her in all ways as to make her blameless and holy before the Lord, Jesus Christ. I did enjoy the book and rightly think that this little book will be of use to any woman who desires to strengthen her relationship to her husband. I received this book complimentary from Revell for an honest and fair review.
That's the thing, however; we ought to all submit to one another so that it honors and glorifies Christ Jesus the Head and ruler of His body, the Church. Husbands ought to be the kind of men that wives can themselves submit to as husbands lead and show their households--wife, children and all in his presence--to glorify and give thanks to the Lord. I know I diverge off Lisa Jacobson's book there, but it's to make the point that part of the love and duty a wife has with her husband is to bring him the respect and honor he needs.
The result of that in the end is he is able to both bring her the honor and the ability to purify her in all ways as to make her blameless and holy before the Lord, Jesus Christ. I did enjoy the book and rightly think that this little book will be of use to any woman who desires to strengthen her relationship to her husband. I received this book complimentary from Revell for an honest and fair review.
March 27, 2020
This is a wonderful book! I loved reading it.
Reading this book will change your life and your marriage. Even if you don't think there is anything you can fix about your marriage you're going to find that it gets better by implementing parts of this book.
How often do you tell your husband you appreciate him? We might think we do it multiple times a day but I think it will be eye-opening if you actually look at how much you say the words and how much you just take it for granted.
Take my challenge. Read this book. Just read the first chapter and then start implementing what you're reading while you keep reading.
What happens?
Do things change in your marriage? Are you happier? Do you find your husband reciprocating? Keep a journal.
I enjoyed reading this book and love the principles listed within. I think this would be a good book to gift to couples when they get married as well as the companion one that is affirmations for the wife.
Fun tip. Write the affirmations down. Stick one in his lunch every day. Put some on the walls. Stick one to the mirror after he's gone to bed at night. Get creative! They don't just have to be spoken!
I have voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book which I received from NetGalley. All views expressed are only my honest opinion. I was not required to write a positive review nor was I compensated in any other way. All opinions expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the FTC regulations.
Reading this book will change your life and your marriage. Even if you don't think there is anything you can fix about your marriage you're going to find that it gets better by implementing parts of this book.
How often do you tell your husband you appreciate him? We might think we do it multiple times a day but I think it will be eye-opening if you actually look at how much you say the words and how much you just take it for granted.
Take my challenge. Read this book. Just read the first chapter and then start implementing what you're reading while you keep reading.
What happens?
Do things change in your marriage? Are you happier? Do you find your husband reciprocating? Keep a journal.
I enjoyed reading this book and love the principles listed within. I think this would be a good book to gift to couples when they get married as well as the companion one that is affirmations for the wife.
Fun tip. Write the affirmations down. Stick one in his lunch every day. Put some on the walls. Stick one to the mirror after he's gone to bed at night. Get creative! They don't just have to be spoken!
I have voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book which I received from NetGalley. All views expressed are only my honest opinion. I was not required to write a positive review nor was I compensated in any other way. All opinions expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the FTC regulations.
October 31, 2019
My Reflections:
Lisa Jacobson's book hits the nail on the head with her book titled "100 words of affirmation your husband needs to hear." There were so many things I enjoyed about this book. I loved that it was small, easily read in bite-sized busy mom pieces. Her format is very clean precise and easy to maneuver. It's not overly wordy or flowery.
I adore my husband and want to show him just how much I do admire and love him. Life is busy and in that bluster, we often take for granted our treasured relationships. Jacobson's 100 words, is filled with her humour and candour. Jacobson reminds us that today is all we really have, let's seize this day to use the most powerful gift God has given us our tongue to uplift and strengthen our marriages. It starts with simple phrases like "I got your back Babe." My family roars at this because we have never used pet names, and that phrase is just so unlike our natural language that the kids think it's hilarious....however I think he secretly loves it!
If you are looking for ways that you can use simple words to empower your relationships this may just be the book for you. I know I certainly enjoyed implementing these easy to use phrases into our everyday conversations.
Book has been provided courtesy of Baker Publishing Group and Graf-Martin Communications, Inc.https://citygirlmovestothecountry-tan...
Lisa Jacobson's book hits the nail on the head with her book titled "100 words of affirmation your husband needs to hear." There were so many things I enjoyed about this book. I loved that it was small, easily read in bite-sized busy mom pieces. Her format is very clean precise and easy to maneuver. It's not overly wordy or flowery.
I adore my husband and want to show him just how much I do admire and love him. Life is busy and in that bluster, we often take for granted our treasured relationships. Jacobson's 100 words, is filled with her humour and candour. Jacobson reminds us that today is all we really have, let's seize this day to use the most powerful gift God has given us our tongue to uplift and strengthen our marriages. It starts with simple phrases like "I got your back Babe." My family roars at this because we have never used pet names, and that phrase is just so unlike our natural language that the kids think it's hilarious....however I think he secretly loves it!
If you are looking for ways that you can use simple words to empower your relationships this may just be the book for you. I know I certainly enjoyed implementing these easy to use phrases into our everyday conversations.
Book has been provided courtesy of Baker Publishing Group and Graf-Martin Communications, Inc.https://citygirlmovestothecountry-tan...
December 12, 2019
100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear
By Lisa Jacobson
First off let’s level and start with marriage is hard. Each stage of marriage brings about different challenges and as we grow in life the goal is to grow together in marriage. That is not always a given or an easy feat. I work entirely different than my husband and as life’s little bumps enter our life our instincts pull us different directions. It is important to acknowledge this and be intentional about stepping out of our shoes and into our spouses. I struggle with this and I was greatly encouraged by this book and how it brought simple thoughts to light. I need to show my husband love in my actions and words. This is not to puff him up but to encourage him, to love him. Lisa gives simple yet impacting words for wives to give to our husbands. It doesn’t have to be complicated or long-winded but simple genuine words of truth. Whether you are feeling the truth of the sentiments or not they can still be said and maybe needed to be said to restore or heal your relationship. I don’t always realize how my words affect my marriage but when I take the time to slow down and hear my words, I see how they can set the stage for my relationship. Our words can go a long way in making our marriage better or worse. Lisa encourages us to build each other up with words of love.
I received a copy of this book via NetGalley in exchange for my honest opinion shared here.
By Lisa Jacobson
First off let’s level and start with marriage is hard. Each stage of marriage brings about different challenges and as we grow in life the goal is to grow together in marriage. That is not always a given or an easy feat. I work entirely different than my husband and as life’s little bumps enter our life our instincts pull us different directions. It is important to acknowledge this and be intentional about stepping out of our shoes and into our spouses. I struggle with this and I was greatly encouraged by this book and how it brought simple thoughts to light. I need to show my husband love in my actions and words. This is not to puff him up but to encourage him, to love him. Lisa gives simple yet impacting words for wives to give to our husbands. It doesn’t have to be complicated or long-winded but simple genuine words of truth. Whether you are feeling the truth of the sentiments or not they can still be said and maybe needed to be said to restore or heal your relationship. I don’t always realize how my words affect my marriage but when I take the time to slow down and hear my words, I see how they can set the stage for my relationship. Our words can go a long way in making our marriage better or worse. Lisa encourages us to build each other up with words of love.
I received a copy of this book via NetGalley in exchange for my honest opinion shared here.
November 13, 2019
Sometimes laughter, sometimes tears, sometimes a fervent prayer for forgiveness. Sometimes affirmation, sometimes kind remonstrances, sometimes silence. Relationships are forged within these behaviors and so much more.
Affirmation comes from considering, really thinking about, what your spouse needs and even wants to hear. Have you taken the time to think about those areas of everyday life that we so often take for granted? Perhaps it's time to do so.
Such things as saying yes, being careful of the other's feelings, pulling back when you really want to argue (and win), and letting them know you really like and care about them, make all the difference in any relationship. Although this book focuses on wives affirming and supporting their husbands there is much that applies to all good and growing relationships.
I found 100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear thought-provoking and inspiring. Lisa Jacobson's life experiences and words of wisdom are timely and much needed in this season of negativity and put-downs.
Much is written in this volume about affirmation and support. Which of course is what the title implies. I would love to see, from the same author(s) what they, as individuals, want to be affirmed, supported, and thanked for. Would there be a difference?
Affirmation comes from considering, really thinking about, what your spouse needs and even wants to hear. Have you taken the time to think about those areas of everyday life that we so often take for granted? Perhaps it's time to do so.
Such things as saying yes, being careful of the other's feelings, pulling back when you really want to argue (and win), and letting them know you really like and care about them, make all the difference in any relationship. Although this book focuses on wives affirming and supporting their husbands there is much that applies to all good and growing relationships.
I found 100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear thought-provoking and inspiring. Lisa Jacobson's life experiences and words of wisdom are timely and much needed in this season of negativity and put-downs.
Much is written in this volume about affirmation and support. Which of course is what the title implies. I would love to see, from the same author(s) what they, as individuals, want to be affirmed, supported, and thanked for. Would there be a difference?
November 19, 2019
This book would make a great stocking stuffer - maybe into your own stocking as a husband though. Or, if both of you are working on your marriage, buy this one and it’s companion book 100 Words of Affirmation Your Wife Needs to Hear and put one in each!
In 100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear, Lisa Jacobson walks us though one hundred different ways that we can show our husband we love them. Words can either give life or crush someone’s spirit, so it is very important that we take the care of actually giving out life giving words to others. When we are constantly around someone (those in our family or those we work with), it is easy to just sit back and let the mundane kick in. This book helps stop that by being a breath of fresh air.
Some of the things to say have a longer explanation than others and at first I was miffed and wanted it more uninformed, but I came to realize that this was actually good! Some things just require more explanation than others, and this book does not waste space by being redundant and repeating this just for the sake of filling up space.
Lots of good advice for someone who is wanting to help build their husband up in a world that tends to drag us all down.
I received this book free from the publisher, Revell, and was not required to give a review. Al opinions are my own.
In 100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear, Lisa Jacobson walks us though one hundred different ways that we can show our husband we love them. Words can either give life or crush someone’s spirit, so it is very important that we take the care of actually giving out life giving words to others. When we are constantly around someone (those in our family or those we work with), it is easy to just sit back and let the mundane kick in. This book helps stop that by being a breath of fresh air.
Some of the things to say have a longer explanation than others and at first I was miffed and wanted it more uninformed, but I came to realize that this was actually good! Some things just require more explanation than others, and this book does not waste space by being redundant and repeating this just for the sake of filling up space.
Lots of good advice for someone who is wanting to help build their husband up in a world that tends to drag us all down.
I received this book free from the publisher, Revell, and was not required to give a review. Al opinions are my own.
October 12, 2019
I was excited to discover this book because this topic is something that has been on my mind since I got married eight years ago. I love my husband but sometimes I think I assume that he can read my mind when he does something that I like. I appreciate it when he empties the dishwasher or takes his clothes to the washing machine. I appreciate that he works so hard to provide for us. The list is endless. But I don't always think to actually tell him these things, I simply think of them in my mind. I know how important it is to respect and love your spouse and this book is a wonderful reminder on how to do that. It is so good to pray for your spouse and I think this book is so well done in explaining that. The ideas are short and to the point. She gives you an idea on an affirmation example: You're an excellent provider. She lists a quick example and moves on to the next one. Easy to read and a wonderful reminder to voice your thoughts and remember to encourage your husband.
Five stars.
"I received this book from Revell for free. All opinions are my own and I was not required to write a positive review."
Five stars.
"I received this book from Revell for free. All opinions are my own and I was not required to write a positive review."
November 13, 2019
My Thoughts:
So this book is set up like the "100 ways to Love your Husband" book. There are 100 different ideas on how to affirm your husband. Some of them did not apply to me (i.e. the one about being a great dad to our daughter - we don't have any girls), so there were only 99 ideas for me. Also, Lisa does not offer as many life stories in this book as she did in the "100 ways to Love..." book, which is one of the aspects I really enjoyed.
Words of affirmation is not one of my top love languages and it actually isn't one of my husbands either, but this gave me ideas on how to affirm him and love him better and appreciate all he does. This book nudged me to look at our life and see how amazing my husband is and all he does.
Sometimes life can become a rut and it can be hard to recognize or appreciate what your spouse is doing, this book gives you ways to recognize and appreciate what they are doing.
Just don't forget to tell them :)
Recommend?
Yes. I recommend this for engaged couples and couples who have been married for 6 months or 50 years.
Check out my blog for a full review: https://grzybee.weebly.com/book-revie...
So this book is set up like the "100 ways to Love your Husband" book. There are 100 different ideas on how to affirm your husband. Some of them did not apply to me (i.e. the one about being a great dad to our daughter - we don't have any girls), so there were only 99 ideas for me. Also, Lisa does not offer as many life stories in this book as she did in the "100 ways to Love..." book, which is one of the aspects I really enjoyed.
Words of affirmation is not one of my top love languages and it actually isn't one of my husbands either, but this gave me ideas on how to affirm him and love him better and appreciate all he does. This book nudged me to look at our life and see how amazing my husband is and all he does.
Sometimes life can become a rut and it can be hard to recognize or appreciate what your spouse is doing, this book gives you ways to recognize and appreciate what they are doing.
Just don't forget to tell them :)
Recommend?
Yes. I recommend this for engaged couples and couples who have been married for 6 months or 50 years.
Check out my blog for a full review: https://grzybee.weebly.com/book-revie...
November 19, 2019
Our husbands carry heavy loads and face trials every single day. But our words hold power, the power to build them up and to affirm the good we see. 100 Words of Affirmation Your Husband Needs to Hear is full of phrases to speak to our husbands to let them know we love, appreciate, respect, admire, and enjoy them.
Throughout the book, Lisa Jacobson gives practical insight, personal examples, and easy illustrations of ways to affirm our husbands. Suggestions range from appreciating his character to his appearance to the things he does around the house.
I love that these are simple enough that I can use just one of these affirmations a day to give my husband a boost of confidence and improve our marriage. Plus, they are generic enough that they are easy to adapt to our own marriage while being specific enough to be meaningful to him.
Overall, I am finding that using these words is a great way to love my husband.
Disclosure: I received a complimentary copy of this book to review from the publisher. However, all views expressed in this review are mine from my own reading of this book.
Throughout the book, Lisa Jacobson gives practical insight, personal examples, and easy illustrations of ways to affirm our husbands. Suggestions range from appreciating his character to his appearance to the things he does around the house.
I love that these are simple enough that I can use just one of these affirmations a day to give my husband a boost of confidence and improve our marriage. Plus, they are generic enough that they are easy to adapt to our own marriage while being specific enough to be meaningful to him.
Overall, I am finding that using these words is a great way to love my husband.
Disclosure: I received a complimentary copy of this book to review from the publisher. However, all views expressed in this review are mine from my own reading of this book.
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