I don't normally write reviews but I feel obliged this time round.
Being on Goodreads implies you love books, be it reading or as doorstops. What is rarely discussed are the books we hate, the ones we would not touch.
For me, there are two, Sports books and Autobiographical Novels. (I have read one in my life) Needless to say, Openside by Sam Warburton, ticks both those boxes.
I know these boxes are ticked as I am pulling it out of the wrapping paper my girlfriend has lovingly gifted it to me in. She, she does not.
I love breathing almost as much as her and agree to read it straight away, thinking I can get a chapter or two in, then add this "openside" to my ruck of books that are partially read but never finished due to my problem of not liking them.
However my loving partner has played her cards very well.
I love Wales. I love Rugby (To be honest with you, they are usually synonymous). I love leaders. I am therefore a little curious, after all Sam got the captaince when he was what? 22? 23? How do you deal with that pressure? With what is asked of you? Alyn-Wyn, Gethin, surely these players would of been the smarter choice at the time?
I open the book. I close the book. 350 odd pages have gone by, two days of my life and more questions from the answers I read, all in all. I absolutely bloody loved it.
For lots of little reasons and one big one.
The honesty, growing up in the Amman (The Valleys) you are used to rugby boys talking smack and never delivering, but Sam does not, he approaches it from a different angle. He pulls you to one side and is open about his feelings on matters and why he went right when others went left and did it workout or not and why.
I cried more through out this book than anything else I have read. It was a complete mess of emotions, from two boys in New Zealand getting tickets or 2015 knockouts. All of it, Hiraeth through and through. (Google the word).
The dividing of the book between an autobiographical and leadership sections was much appreciated by chaps like myself who are already not an AutoBio fanboy.
Thinks I didn't like, the coordinates at the start of every chapter. I am not a fighter pilot or a five year old. The big dislike is McCaw on the bench, what are you doing with Pocock starting?
Indifference towards the flash forwards, not my cup of tea however It is a good hook at the start of the chapters but I always found my self reading it, arriving at that part and then (basically) skipping over what I had read earlier, which kills the pacing.
My big love of this book is that I never picked it. I would of walked passed it on the shelf in every bookstore and Tescos, never once buying it. Her on the other hand, my other half, she knew I would love it.
I love her, Always have but this book helps me "know" I love her. This book will be used at our wedding as exhibit A, on where it all went wrong. No doubt staying in my Top books forever.
Thank you Mr. Warburton, for the two tours and eight years of service to the Welsh people and Rugby fans everywhere.
Enjoy being a father.
Hiraeth.