Awesome book. I read it in less than 24 hours.
I enjoyed this so much, because of the stark realism. When I was a kid, living in a 2 sq mi town with ethnic neighborhoods (even a 2 family Chinese one), we had so many Russian emigres, the First Wave came in as the Bolshevik revolution was ongoing until some time after it had finished. In the confusion over whether the White and Red Russian armies were fighting each other, or temporarily allied to fight a common enemy, escape was sometimes possible. Revolutions do take a while, after all. Then there were those who managed to escape in the confusion of the post WWII years when there were so many refugees that one more made little difference. There were the Hungarians, whose rebellion against the USSR in 1956 was brutally suppressed, some of whom managed to cross borders and leave. Tjey came here with next to nothing, learning English as adults. I took Russuan on high school, and I don't care which way you're going linguistically, the languages are so vastly different that it can be a real slog either way.
And their stories, which I asked to hear, were much the same as the stories of these 5 generations of women. I'm 68. I was 8, defending a 3 yr old neighbor from bullying, a little soul whose mother had died giving birth to her, and whose father - well, IMNSHO, her sperm donor - had run away. Her aunt didn't want a 3 year old cramping her style or her hunt for a rich man. Her grandmother was aged beyond her years from the tension of living under Communism and their escape to the US. I asked permission to be the little girl's unofficial big sister, and promised they would supervise me to their heart's content. All I asked in return was the grandmother's story of her escape. In my growing up years, I counted among my friends people from 3 to 97 years of age...most of them escapees from Communism.
Every "Bernie Bro" and like IDIOTS needs to read this book despite its being written from a female point of view. These young "democratic socialists" who have taken over one of our major political parties should read this. And stories of people from Cuba, N. Korea, China, Vietnam, Venezuela, and other Communist countries. Every one of them condemned Stalin and said THEY would "get socialism right." And nobody has ever succeeded.
Young people who hijack peaceful protests and turn them into riots, arson, beatings, murder, looting, over admittedly cops who are bad apples in a group that is otherwise laudatory, and who scream to defiund the police, are funded and led by admittedly "trained Marxists." Communists, in other words. They need to read about the NKVD & KGB in this book. No Communist regime escapes having secret police, and secret police make the worst, most corrupt cops in America look like pansies. They should be careful what they ask for. They just might get it.
Since our schools are now also run by Marxist trained educators - and since I got a teaching degree in elementary education in 1974, and they tried to brainwash me into being a Marxist (obviously, it didn't take, since I had been listening to why people left Communist countries all my life to that point and I knew better), I can say with assurance, having had more than half of the profs at this large (12,000 students back in the 1970s) public university preach Marxism at me, that Marxism has been inculcated into university education for decades before I matriculated. It has only gotten worse.
If you want to equip your kids with facts about Communism, this book - and others like it - should be required reading -or even listening if you prefer - for the entire family from 13 on up (there is some adult oriented content that is a necessary component of the story).
And the last section, Zoe, is hilarious, and, although this srory is about Jewish people and their persecution, Orthodox and Roman Catholic families were very similar in their dynamics...this book crosses cultureal and religious borders pn the maon theme - Communism fulfils the criteria of being a religion, the State Religion of every Communist country...which means, while persecution wasn't quite as bad for Catholics of either stripe, all other religions are persecuted in Communism. You worship the Party, infidels who insist on worshipping other deities will be suitably punished.
Please, take the time to read, to share, and after you're done, to seek books about those who have escaped N. Korea and Vietnam, as well as Cuba and Venezuela. Woth all its faults, I believe you can say, at the end of this book and kthers like it, Communi@m is worse. Makes me feel sorry for those poor sods who fought to get rid of the tsars and discovered that they had jumped from the frying pan into the fire with Communism.