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The Angry Parent
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72 pages, online book
Published January 1, 2018
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January 7, 2020
**Spoiler Alert and Rant Alert**
Bought this book out of curiosity. Currently have a toddler going through the terrible twos and was hoping to get some insight/advice on how, as parents, we should react during these meltdowns. I don't necessarily struggle with anger but I do get frustrated during meltdowns or tantrums.
Quick Summary: It promises way too much but doesn't deliver on any of the promises. It's a complete waste of time and money.
I have to admit, I was duped by those darn Facebook ads, how did they know I needed some meltdown advice right now?
To prove my point, here are a few of the promises made by the author:
- This is the most important book you'll ever read.
Ok, set the bar high there a little with this statement. I should have probably realised that I would be disappointed when I read this line.
- This is not some “foo foo”, Peaceful Parenting book that’s going to tell you to let your kids do whatever they want without any rules or limitations.
And I quote: Let them feel their feelings, especially during a storm when something has gone wrong, when you’re unhappy or when they’re unhappy. Let them feel their feelings and give them
room and space and encourage them to feel their feelings.
How is this not "FOO FOO"? And what does "FOO FOO" even mean? I have looked up the definition of "FOO FOO" : dough made from boiled and ground plantain or cassava, used as a staple food in parts of western and central Africa. Sounds delish, and probably more useful than this book. I'd have a full tummy by now.
- How to easily move past any meltdown, without ever raising your voice. Page 23
This is the reason I bought this book in the first place and was hoping for a tidbit of advice.
I'm a little disappointed in the method suggested.
Quote: Let them feel their feelings, especially during a storm when something has gone wrong, when you’re unhappy or when they’re unhappy. Let them feel their feelings and give them
room and space and encourage them to feel their feelings.
I guess I was expecting a more practical method.
- Find out the reason why your kids aren't listening, and the simple 2 step approach to getting cooperation the first time! page 33.
I am struggling to find the 2 step approach...is it feeling your feelings and then getting your child to feel their feelings? It's not really outlined in the book.
- The one singular cause behind EVERY “meltdown” your child has and the simple fix you can put in place immediately to stop them. Page 58
The cause behind every meltdown as per the author????
An Unmet need
*Explosion sounds as mind is blown away*
Please tell this to my two year old son during a meltdown in front of 27 people in a hair salon after I took away PawPatrol on my phone so we can leave to go home.(For those judging me, it was to ensure he will stare in one place during the haircut so we do not get a Bart Simpson hairdo for Santa pictures).
I struggle to wonder what the unmet need is here....? The need to find out what the outcome of the show was???? Spoiler alert son: Chickaletta was saved by the team! Hooray! Now let's get a move one so we can go home.
- First of all, this is different from every other “parenting” book you’ve ever read. Right away, I jump straight into telling you exactly what to do to overcome your anger... no fluff or filler.
LIES. LIES I TELL YOU!
This book is advertised as being a quick read at only 72 pages long. I have gone through the exercise of counting the pages.
- 3 pages: Cover and table of contents. I'll give her these 3 pages - they are kind of required.
- 8 pages: A Page to announce the chapter with a nice image. Not really required. We do have a table of content and the chapter number and title is stated on the next page. But ok.
- 25 pages: Basically a one-liner repeated on a single page. I believe this is for dramatic effect or for a reader who may have missed the line in the previous paragraph. for example on page read: "Get curious, Not Furious". Oh for FLUFF sakes!
- 3 pages: About the author
- 36 pages: Content
My point: Half of this book is "Filler Pages". I finally came to the conclusion they were required to make this book seem like it has interesting content.
- And, This Book Is About MORE Than Just Parenting
She goes on about how it saved one marriage and how one client repaired her relationship with her parents and also how Sandra improved relationships at work...etc. She is basically listing other issues anyone could have and how her book solved them in order to expand her audience to make more money.
The list of promises goes on and on. I've spent more time writing this review than actually reading the book. She's already duped me, now don't let her trick you into buying this book.
Even if the book is only $5.90, Lisa Smith is robbing you. The only thing good about this book is at least there is a 100% Money back Guarantee. I will let you know if this is a scam and if I ever do get my money back....
Sorry if I have offended anyone who actually have found this book helpful. I wish you the best.
Bought this book out of curiosity. Currently have a toddler going through the terrible twos and was hoping to get some insight/advice on how, as parents, we should react during these meltdowns. I don't necessarily struggle with anger but I do get frustrated during meltdowns or tantrums.
Quick Summary: It promises way too much but doesn't deliver on any of the promises. It's a complete waste of time and money.
I have to admit, I was duped by those darn Facebook ads, how did they know I needed some meltdown advice right now?
To prove my point, here are a few of the promises made by the author:
- This is the most important book you'll ever read.
Ok, set the bar high there a little with this statement. I should have probably realised that I would be disappointed when I read this line.
- This is not some “foo foo”, Peaceful Parenting book that’s going to tell you to let your kids do whatever they want without any rules or limitations.
And I quote: Let them feel their feelings, especially during a storm when something has gone wrong, when you’re unhappy or when they’re unhappy. Let them feel their feelings and give them
room and space and encourage them to feel their feelings.
How is this not "FOO FOO"? And what does "FOO FOO" even mean? I have looked up the definition of "FOO FOO" : dough made from boiled and ground plantain or cassava, used as a staple food in parts of western and central Africa. Sounds delish, and probably more useful than this book. I'd have a full tummy by now.
- How to easily move past any meltdown, without ever raising your voice. Page 23
This is the reason I bought this book in the first place and was hoping for a tidbit of advice.
I'm a little disappointed in the method suggested.
Quote: Let them feel their feelings, especially during a storm when something has gone wrong, when you’re unhappy or when they’re unhappy. Let them feel their feelings and give them
room and space and encourage them to feel their feelings.
I guess I was expecting a more practical method.
- Find out the reason why your kids aren't listening, and the simple 2 step approach to getting cooperation the first time! page 33.
I am struggling to find the 2 step approach...is it feeling your feelings and then getting your child to feel their feelings? It's not really outlined in the book.
- The one singular cause behind EVERY “meltdown” your child has and the simple fix you can put in place immediately to stop them. Page 58
The cause behind every meltdown as per the author????
An Unmet need
*Explosion sounds as mind is blown away*
Please tell this to my two year old son during a meltdown in front of 27 people in a hair salon after I took away PawPatrol on my phone so we can leave to go home.(For those judging me, it was to ensure he will stare in one place during the haircut so we do not get a Bart Simpson hairdo for Santa pictures).
I struggle to wonder what the unmet need is here....? The need to find out what the outcome of the show was???? Spoiler alert son: Chickaletta was saved by the team! Hooray! Now let's get a move one so we can go home.
- First of all, this is different from every other “parenting” book you’ve ever read. Right away, I jump straight into telling you exactly what to do to overcome your anger... no fluff or filler.
LIES. LIES I TELL YOU!
This book is advertised as being a quick read at only 72 pages long. I have gone through the exercise of counting the pages.
- 3 pages: Cover and table of contents. I'll give her these 3 pages - they are kind of required.
- 8 pages: A Page to announce the chapter with a nice image. Not really required. We do have a table of content and the chapter number and title is stated on the next page. But ok.
- 25 pages: Basically a one-liner repeated on a single page. I believe this is for dramatic effect or for a reader who may have missed the line in the previous paragraph. for example on page read: "Get curious, Not Furious". Oh for FLUFF sakes!
- 3 pages: About the author
- 36 pages: Content
My point: Half of this book is "Filler Pages". I finally came to the conclusion they were required to make this book seem like it has interesting content.
- And, This Book Is About MORE Than Just Parenting
She goes on about how it saved one marriage and how one client repaired her relationship with her parents and also how Sandra improved relationships at work...etc. She is basically listing other issues anyone could have and how her book solved them in order to expand her audience to make more money.
The list of promises goes on and on. I've spent more time writing this review than actually reading the book. She's already duped me, now don't let her trick you into buying this book.
Even if the book is only $5.90, Lisa Smith is robbing you. The only thing good about this book is at least there is a 100% Money back Guarantee. I will let you know if this is a scam and if I ever do get my money back....
Sorry if I have offended anyone who actually have found this book helpful. I wish you the best.
January 6, 2020
Very little useful information. Read the whole book in 10 minutes.
December 24, 2019
I'm still deciding how I feel about this book. While it has useful information it is very short and does not go into much detail.
February 27, 2020
Wow, this was just terrible. I can’t even write a proper review because this “book” had so little content. My expectations weren’t very high in the first place, but after reading, I realize they definitely weren’t low enough lol.
January 14, 2020
Agreed with the lady who went on the long rant.... its a lot filler and doesn't really give you any good tips. When your kid loses their minds over not wanting to wear the proper shoes I am supposed to "stop parenting" and become their "emotional supporter"?? No I just need you to wear something other than those boots that you have worn so much that there is hardly any fake leather left on them. I don't think there is any deep meaning behind her not wanting to wear ANY other shoes. Super disappointed in myself for being duped by FB ads and reviews as well... save yourself the time and money. Here is her main point "anger is an unmet need" (duuuuhhh)... figure out how to solve that unmet need and voila, no one is angry or yelling. I just hope you all read these reviews before you buy instead of her FB reviews, which are clearly filtered.
April 6, 2020
Sorry but this was a waste of money for me. I understand what Lisa was saying, however, I do not feel Lisa gave any good real-life examples of how to use her tips. In the book, it showed an example of a parent asking the child to brush their teeth and how the child was defiant saying no, so the parent forcefully escalates the situation. Where is Lisa's suggestion of how to it would have gone in the perfect world of parenting? People need examples of wrong ways to do things but also shown multiple ways to use the right technique. I know it is about selling books then getting you to join and pay for multiple next steps and tips, but honestly, this was not good. When I first opened the book online and saw it had 72 pages I was like oh no, a lot of reading. I soon realised it wasn't as the font type was very big, then every second page was just a blurb from the book re-written. Then the last 4 pages were about Lisa. It doesn't need 4 pages. Just write it on the back of the cover. I am sorry for being harsh, I just truly wanted to learn more about stopping the eruptions in the house and did hope this would help.
August 15, 2020
I’m really pissed I fell for this and bought it.
This book is 68 pages.
Every other page in the book is merely filled with a quote, so approx 34 are content.
Well save for the TOC, conclusion, etc.
so say 20 pages, but the pages are actually not the same size as a book, more square. So more like 10-15 pages of content. The tips she gives are:
Feelings are a volcano and you have to meet your needs to avoid anger. And to get your kids to listen, let them feel.
Okay..... Now what?! This woman makes false claims. There is no practical real life ways to turns meltdowns into something different. I let my child feel her feelings. She’s still squirming on the floor not taking a nap. What do I do NOW?!
This book is 68 pages.
Every other page in the book is merely filled with a quote, so approx 34 are content.
Well save for the TOC, conclusion, etc.
so say 20 pages, but the pages are actually not the same size as a book, more square. So more like 10-15 pages of content. The tips she gives are:
Feelings are a volcano and you have to meet your needs to avoid anger. And to get your kids to listen, let them feel.
Okay..... Now what?! This woman makes false claims. There is no practical real life ways to turns meltdowns into something different. I let my child feel her feelings. She’s still squirming on the floor not taking a nap. What do I do NOW?!
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
August 3, 2020
I never purchase things from Facebook advertisements and I never comment on them either BUT this caught my eye. I was skeptical but this book honestly changed the way I talk to my 5 year old. I instantly became more patient and was able to step back from her tantrums and figure out why she was so upset and without yelling, I was able to calm her down. This came at a perfect time because I was starting to feel like a really bad mom. Definitely worth the $5.90 and made a difference in my parenting.
August 1, 2020
Where was the advice? Where were the strategies? I guess it would be difficult to provide groundbreaking insight in less than 40 pages of large font writing, but at least make an effort. Feel your feelings and allow your kids to feel theirs. Wow. Now that is some amazing insight. Absolute waste of time and money.
May 9, 2020
I agree with the negative feedback provided by others who tested it 1 star. Especially the reader who went into a lot of detail on what was actually in it. A lot of empty filler, very little content and very disappointing. Don't waste your time.
July 23, 2020
The content in this book is incredibly insightful. I even hired her a coach and the impact on my family was astounding. The philosophies around parenting and communication with your child are deeply impactful and I can't recommend it enough.
July 23, 2020
This book is amazing and helpful
March 10, 2025
Extremely quick read. Didn’t feel like it was very helpful, but I guess we’ll see. Definitely going to try the volcano method.
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