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Where We Go From Here
An absorbing debut novel about three gay young adults in Brazil whose lives become intertwined in the face of HIV, perfect for fans of Adam Silvera and Bill Konigsberg
Ian has just been diagnosed with HIV.
Victor, to his great relief, has tested negative.
Henrique has been living with HIV for the past three years.
When Victor finds himself getting tested for HIV for the first time, he can't help but question his entire relationship with Henrique, the guy he has-had-been dating. See, Henrique didn't disclose his positive HIV status to Victor until after they had sex, and even though Henrique insisted on using every possible precaution, Victor is livid.
That's when Victor meets Ian, a guy who's also getting tested for HIV. But Ian's test comes back positive, and his world is about to change forever. Though Victor is loath to think about Henrique, he offers to put the two of them in touch, hoping that perhaps Henrique can help Ian navigate his new life. In the process, the lives of Ian, Victor, and Henrique will become intertwined in a story of friendship, love, and stigma-a story about hitting what you think is rock bottom, but finding the courage and support to keep moving forward.
Set in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, this utterly engrossing debut by Brazilian author Lucas Rocha calls back to Alex Sanchez's Rainbow Boys series, bringing attention to how far we've come with HIV, while shining a harsh light on just how far we have yet to go.
Ian has just been diagnosed with HIV.
Victor, to his great relief, has tested negative.
Henrique has been living with HIV for the past three years.
When Victor finds himself getting tested for HIV for the first time, he can't help but question his entire relationship with Henrique, the guy he has-had-been dating. See, Henrique didn't disclose his positive HIV status to Victor until after they had sex, and even though Henrique insisted on using every possible precaution, Victor is livid.
That's when Victor meets Ian, a guy who's also getting tested for HIV. But Ian's test comes back positive, and his world is about to change forever. Though Victor is loath to think about Henrique, he offers to put the two of them in touch, hoping that perhaps Henrique can help Ian navigate his new life. In the process, the lives of Ian, Victor, and Henrique will become intertwined in a story of friendship, love, and stigma-a story about hitting what you think is rock bottom, but finding the courage and support to keep moving forward.
Set in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, this utterly engrossing debut by Brazilian author Lucas Rocha calls back to Alex Sanchez's Rainbow Boys series, bringing attention to how far we've come with HIV, while shining a harsh light on just how far we have yet to go.
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First published August 6, 2018
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May 31, 2022
This was such a pleasant surprise! I randomly found this one at the library and I thought that I would give a try after seeing that a couple of mutuals have read it. This has quite a few content warnings including: homophobia, revealing of HIV status without consent, anti-HIV feelings/behavior, online harassment.
Where We Go From Here follows three characters Ian, Victor, and Henrique. Ian has just been diagnosed with HIV, Henrique has had HIV for three years, Ian tested negative after finding out that Henrique has HIV. The story follows the characters as they navigate peoples perceptions of HIV and the impact it has on relationships whether romantic or platonic. It also explores how Brazil as a country responds to individuals who test positive for HIV culturally as well as the medical treatment that the government offers.
One of my favorite aspects of this book was the tackling of misconceptions that people have about HIV. Even though I was familIar with some of the things that the characters discussed, I found myself connecting with the characters emotionally especially Henrique who has continuously found trouble with romantic relationships because of his status. The bigotry that causes a sense of hopelessness really broke my heart. It was even more interesting to know that some of that bigotry came from Ian. Readers get the opportunity to see him work through his emotions and misconceptions as he attempts to determine whether he should be in a relationship with Henrique. There was also an emotional connection to Victor who doesn’t know what to do with his life once he tests positive for HIV. It was great seeing him find that support system within the friendship he builds with Ian and Henrique.
I think that some people will find the end of the novel tough to make it through because it explores the emotional fallout of someone’s HIV status getting exposed online without their consent. The pure hatred that is displayed from individuals is quite hard to digest at some points. Overall, I thought this novel was well written and definitely makes me want to explore more translated young adult books. There was so much to learn from this especially about a topic from the lens of a different culture and country. I definitely recommend picking it up.
Where We Go From Here follows three characters Ian, Victor, and Henrique. Ian has just been diagnosed with HIV, Henrique has had HIV for three years, Ian tested negative after finding out that Henrique has HIV. The story follows the characters as they navigate peoples perceptions of HIV and the impact it has on relationships whether romantic or platonic. It also explores how Brazil as a country responds to individuals who test positive for HIV culturally as well as the medical treatment that the government offers.
One of my favorite aspects of this book was the tackling of misconceptions that people have about HIV. Even though I was familIar with some of the things that the characters discussed, I found myself connecting with the characters emotionally especially Henrique who has continuously found trouble with romantic relationships because of his status. The bigotry that causes a sense of hopelessness really broke my heart. It was even more interesting to know that some of that bigotry came from Ian. Readers get the opportunity to see him work through his emotions and misconceptions as he attempts to determine whether he should be in a relationship with Henrique. There was also an emotional connection to Victor who doesn’t know what to do with his life once he tests positive for HIV. It was great seeing him find that support system within the friendship he builds with Ian and Henrique.
I think that some people will find the end of the novel tough to make it through because it explores the emotional fallout of someone’s HIV status getting exposed online without their consent. The pure hatred that is displayed from individuals is quite hard to digest at some points. Overall, I thought this novel was well written and definitely makes me want to explore more translated young adult books. There was so much to learn from this especially about a topic from the lens of a different culture and country. I definitely recommend picking it up.
May 18, 2020
rep: Brazilian cast, gay mcs, HIV positive mcs, gay side characters, drag queen side characters
tw: outing, homophobia, prejudices against HIV
ARC provided by the publisher.
Where We Go From Here is definitely an important book and I’m very glad it exists, and that it finally got translated into English, so more teens can read it. It’s a perfectly okay written book about a relevant issue and frankly, might be the first YA novel I have ever read that deals with HIV.
All that being said, it’s also actually just that: an okay book.
Let’s start with the positives, because there are quite a few of those.
First of all, the sole idea for this book is amazing. Three young adult gay men trying to navigate life in the face of the HIV virus. Each of them is at a different place in that journey, which seems like a great choice narrative-wise and allows for more exploration of the issue. One of them isn’t actually positive himself and instead has to confront his prejudices, and learn from his mistakes.
Which is a big theme in the novel as a whole. Not one single character here is perfect and we’re never led to believe otherwise. The first person POV also helps with making sure the reader knows when mistakes have been made and when a character realises said mistake themself. They all constantly strive to grow, to become a better version of themself and it’s a beautiful thing to behold.
A big part of the novel is, in fact, a discussion about whether or not people should be forgiven for their past transgressions. We’re given both sides of the story, with all its ups and downs. We follow the guys along as they try to figure out not so much where they did something that hurt another person (because they already know that) but why they did what they did. And more importantly, if they should try to atone for it or maybe if they were actually in the right all along in trying to protect themself.
It’s not a black-and-white story and it’s very clear about that at every turn.
Where We Go From Here shines light on the HIV virus and how it affects people’s lives. It’s not shy about it, either. There are whole scenes where one of the guys is at a doctor’s appointment discussing possible treatments, there are discussions among teen not personally affected by it in any way but just trying to figure out why it’s still viewed as a death sentence. The book does a great job at showing that being HIV positive isn’t the end of the world and that it really can be anyone’s reality.
But alas, it’s still just an okay book and there are some things that don’t work very well. While describing in details all the doctor’s appointments helps greatly with normalising the experience, it can also make it feel like we’re reading a biology textbook. There’s a lot of medical theory here that helps the reader understand what the characters are going through and it makes sense for a patient to be listening to it from their doctor, but surely all of that could have been done in a less conspicuous way.
There’s also the fact that despite the book being written in first person pov changing between all three of the main characters, which usually (when well done) tends to give even more insight into the characters’ psyche - despite that, the guys somehow feel flat and pretty one dimensional. Even when they change their life views, when they essentially do some growing up, it doesn’t seem like they become more fleshed out. The whole reading experience is kind of reminiscent of looking through a window glass and not ever being able to touch the people we observe and make sure they are people.
The other problem I personally have with Where We Go From Here - and it might not be a problem at all for other readers! - is the age gap between Victor and Henrique. Victor is 18, a freshman at university, while Henrique is 21 and already works at a full-time job. Henrique himself comments on this once and says that the age gap isn’t huge but he still feels it existing anyway, and that Victor is pretty immature in his eyes. My question is: why was it necessary for the story to make the guys three years apart? Why couldn’t it have been just a single year? At that tender age of slowly exiting teenagehood, three years actually are a huge amount of time.
A complete side-note, but in the epilogue the first person pov suddenly changes into Ian speaking directly to the reader and nothing about the book explains why that shift happened.
All in all, Where We Go From Here is definitely a book that should be on your radar. The subject alone makes it a very eye-opening read that a lot of us could use. I just wish it was a little bit more subtle about it and a little bit more well written.
tw: outing, homophobia, prejudices against HIV
ARC provided by the publisher.
Where We Go From Here is definitely an important book and I’m very glad it exists, and that it finally got translated into English, so more teens can read it. It’s a perfectly okay written book about a relevant issue and frankly, might be the first YA novel I have ever read that deals with HIV.
All that being said, it’s also actually just that: an okay book.
Let’s start with the positives, because there are quite a few of those.
First of all, the sole idea for this book is amazing. Three young adult gay men trying to navigate life in the face of the HIV virus. Each of them is at a different place in that journey, which seems like a great choice narrative-wise and allows for more exploration of the issue. One of them isn’t actually positive himself and instead has to confront his prejudices, and learn from his mistakes.
Which is a big theme in the novel as a whole. Not one single character here is perfect and we’re never led to believe otherwise. The first person POV also helps with making sure the reader knows when mistakes have been made and when a character realises said mistake themself. They all constantly strive to grow, to become a better version of themself and it’s a beautiful thing to behold.
A big part of the novel is, in fact, a discussion about whether or not people should be forgiven for their past transgressions. We’re given both sides of the story, with all its ups and downs. We follow the guys along as they try to figure out not so much where they did something that hurt another person (because they already know that) but why they did what they did. And more importantly, if they should try to atone for it or maybe if they were actually in the right all along in trying to protect themself.
It’s not a black-and-white story and it’s very clear about that at every turn.
Where We Go From Here shines light on the HIV virus and how it affects people’s lives. It’s not shy about it, either. There are whole scenes where one of the guys is at a doctor’s appointment discussing possible treatments, there are discussions among teen not personally affected by it in any way but just trying to figure out why it’s still viewed as a death sentence. The book does a great job at showing that being HIV positive isn’t the end of the world and that it really can be anyone’s reality.
But alas, it’s still just an okay book and there are some things that don’t work very well. While describing in details all the doctor’s appointments helps greatly with normalising the experience, it can also make it feel like we’re reading a biology textbook. There’s a lot of medical theory here that helps the reader understand what the characters are going through and it makes sense for a patient to be listening to it from their doctor, but surely all of that could have been done in a less conspicuous way.
There’s also the fact that despite the book being written in first person pov changing between all three of the main characters, which usually (when well done) tends to give even more insight into the characters’ psyche - despite that, the guys somehow feel flat and pretty one dimensional. Even when they change their life views, when they essentially do some growing up, it doesn’t seem like they become more fleshed out. The whole reading experience is kind of reminiscent of looking through a window glass and not ever being able to touch the people we observe and make sure they are people.
The other problem I personally have with Where We Go From Here - and it might not be a problem at all for other readers! - is the age gap between Victor and Henrique. Victor is 18, a freshman at university, while Henrique is 21 and already works at a full-time job. Henrique himself comments on this once and says that the age gap isn’t huge but he still feels it existing anyway, and that Victor is pretty immature in his eyes. My question is: why was it necessary for the story to make the guys three years apart? Why couldn’t it have been just a single year? At that tender age of slowly exiting teenagehood, three years actually are a huge amount of time.
A complete side-note, but in the epilogue the first person pov suddenly changes into Ian speaking directly to the reader and nothing about the book explains why that shift happened.
All in all, Where We Go From Here is definitely a book that should be on your radar. The subject alone makes it a very eye-opening read that a lot of us could use. I just wish it was a little bit more subtle about it and a little bit more well written.
July 9, 2021
Where We Go From Here offers a look into the lives of three young queer men living in Brazil and dealing with HIV, whether their own diagnosis or that of someone they love. Rocha doesn’t shy away from exploring the harsh realities of the disease, particularly through the lens of the global south while also telling a touching story of community, love and acceptance.
I had been highly anticipating this book and particularly looking forward to being able to read about queer issues and HIV from a completely different perspective to my own and this book delivered. Where We Go From Here is simultaneously entertaining and informative and makes for a really interesting read. The discussions of HIV and how it affected the three main characters were the strong point of the book and felt very honest, particularly as it examined some of the (often subconscious) prejudices people hold towards those who are HIV positive. This book deals very effectively with the stigma surrounding the disease and I really enjoyed reading about the main characters breaking it down.
This brings me to something I loved – the community spirit. There was a really strong sense of community and love and support throughout that made all of these difficult conversations and situations the characters found themselves in so much easier to bear.
However, I really struggled to connect with this book or care for the characters. I think this is down to the writing style not pulling me in enough and finding the three perspectives difficult to differentiate. The characters were very one dimensional outside of their connection to HIV, whether a diagnosis or working through their prejudices surrounding the disease. This had the result of making it difficult to root for their relationships or development. This issue was exacerbated by the first person narrative style which is usually associated with a deeper connection with the narrator and their thoughts and emotions.
Where We Go From Here is a poignant, informative read that doesn’t shy away from tackling the harsh realities and stigma associated with HIV, particularly from a country in the global south, while also showing the power of community and support networks to craft a touching story of love and acceptance.
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*eARC received in exchange for an honest review via Netgalley*
I had been highly anticipating this book and particularly looking forward to being able to read about queer issues and HIV from a completely different perspective to my own and this book delivered. Where We Go From Here is simultaneously entertaining and informative and makes for a really interesting read. The discussions of HIV and how it affected the three main characters were the strong point of the book and felt very honest, particularly as it examined some of the (often subconscious) prejudices people hold towards those who are HIV positive. This book deals very effectively with the stigma surrounding the disease and I really enjoyed reading about the main characters breaking it down.
This brings me to something I loved – the community spirit. There was a really strong sense of community and love and support throughout that made all of these difficult conversations and situations the characters found themselves in so much easier to bear.
However, I really struggled to connect with this book or care for the characters. I think this is down to the writing style not pulling me in enough and finding the three perspectives difficult to differentiate. The characters were very one dimensional outside of their connection to HIV, whether a diagnosis or working through their prejudices surrounding the disease. This had the result of making it difficult to root for their relationships or development. This issue was exacerbated by the first person narrative style which is usually associated with a deeper connection with the narrator and their thoughts and emotions.
Where We Go From Here is a poignant, informative read that doesn’t shy away from tackling the harsh realities and stigma associated with HIV, particularly from a country in the global south, while also showing the power of community and support networks to craft a touching story of love and acceptance.
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*eARC received in exchange for an honest review via Netgalley*
June 11, 2020
Let me start this review by saying that you need to add this book to your TBR lists right now. Where We Go From Here is the one that broke the curse of me suffering through disappointing contemporary reads. This book will make your heart curl with pain, it will make your heart jump in excitement and romance, and it will make your heart hope for something.
Where We Go From Here is a deeply heartwarming story about friendship, found family, and the journey to overcoming your fears. Above all, it is a highly informative novel that shines light into HIV and aims to stop the stigma that surrounds it. It follows the story of three young men in Brazil, whose lives intertwine because of one significant day at the clinic. Ian just found out he’s HIV-positive, Victor just found out he’s negative, and Henrique has been living with HIV for three years now. Their lives intersect when Victor comforts Ian after they meet at the clinic, and suggests that he should meet Henrique. The story hits it off from there.
The writing style is great and I was impressed with how distinct the characterisation was despite the multiple, alternating point of views. The storyline is light and funny at the right times, but the author is also not afraid to point out the nuances of HIV and the prejudice aimed at those who live with the virus. A few times, though, I felt like the dialogue can go on and the character’s inner thoughts would fade away, which is a setback since I would love to see more of their thoughts and feelings.
What I love most about this book is the three main characters and their perspectives. Ian just found out about his results and he’s scared more than anything. I remember reading some of his early chapters and just feeling so scared as he is. Henrique, on the other hand, has been living with HIV for years now and although he has already overcome the initial fear Ian is feeling, he also has his own struggles with his relationships and the prejudice he deals with. Meanwhile, Victor is happy about his negative results, but conflicted about his and Henrique’s relationship. I found Victor’s perspective particularly interesting because he’s still biased and he still carries the prejudice and the stigma so many people are perpetuating to this day. But as I read through the book, he changes and he tries to understand Henrique, and I love that. Reading the story through their perspectives allowed me to absorb their different lives and see just how people can deal with HIV in different ways.
This book is also very educational. As someone who had little knowledge about HIV prior to reading this book, I welcomed and appreciated all the information I got. There are numerous facts about HIV all throughout the book—about how it actually affects the body, the medicine an HIV-positive person should take, the best practices they should do to control their condition, and more. The author also brought forth the idea that those who have HIV can live great lives, and that they are in fact living great lives. The author did this so wonderfully and I believe whoever reads this book will be enlightened just as I am.
I believe a story such as Where We Go From Here is important and necessary and can make an impact to all kinds of people. Henrique, Victor, and Ian’s stories need to be heard because their stories are those of hundreds and maybe thousands of people as well. This is exactly the story people need to read, whether they are a part of the LGBTQ+ community or not, whether they are HIV positive or not.
(This review was first published on The Nerd Daily.)
Where We Go From Here is a deeply heartwarming story about friendship, found family, and the journey to overcoming your fears. Above all, it is a highly informative novel that shines light into HIV and aims to stop the stigma that surrounds it. It follows the story of three young men in Brazil, whose lives intertwine because of one significant day at the clinic. Ian just found out he’s HIV-positive, Victor just found out he’s negative, and Henrique has been living with HIV for three years now. Their lives intersect when Victor comforts Ian after they meet at the clinic, and suggests that he should meet Henrique. The story hits it off from there.
The writing style is great and I was impressed with how distinct the characterisation was despite the multiple, alternating point of views. The storyline is light and funny at the right times, but the author is also not afraid to point out the nuances of HIV and the prejudice aimed at those who live with the virus. A few times, though, I felt like the dialogue can go on and the character’s inner thoughts would fade away, which is a setback since I would love to see more of their thoughts and feelings.
What I love most about this book is the three main characters and their perspectives. Ian just found out about his results and he’s scared more than anything. I remember reading some of his early chapters and just feeling so scared as he is. Henrique, on the other hand, has been living with HIV for years now and although he has already overcome the initial fear Ian is feeling, he also has his own struggles with his relationships and the prejudice he deals with. Meanwhile, Victor is happy about his negative results, but conflicted about his and Henrique’s relationship. I found Victor’s perspective particularly interesting because he’s still biased and he still carries the prejudice and the stigma so many people are perpetuating to this day. But as I read through the book, he changes and he tries to understand Henrique, and I love that. Reading the story through their perspectives allowed me to absorb their different lives and see just how people can deal with HIV in different ways.
This book is also very educational. As someone who had little knowledge about HIV prior to reading this book, I welcomed and appreciated all the information I got. There are numerous facts about HIV all throughout the book—about how it actually affects the body, the medicine an HIV-positive person should take, the best practices they should do to control their condition, and more. The author also brought forth the idea that those who have HIV can live great lives, and that they are in fact living great lives. The author did this so wonderfully and I believe whoever reads this book will be enlightened just as I am.
I believe a story such as Where We Go From Here is important and necessary and can make an impact to all kinds of people. Henrique, Victor, and Ian’s stories need to be heard because their stories are those of hundreds and maybe thousands of people as well. This is exactly the story people need to read, whether they are a part of the LGBTQ+ community or not, whether they are HIV positive or not.
(This review was first published on The Nerd Daily.)
June 3, 2021
A heartwarming, important, and very informative story about three boys and HIV.
Knowing is not the same as feeling. Knowing is not living without the fear that things might go wrong.
Ian, Victor, and Henrique are all in different stages of HIV; one has just been diagnosed, one has just tested negative, and one has been living with HIV for three years now. What I loved most about this book is that it’s so incredibly educational. A lot of information about HIV is woven into the story without being preachy. It’s very well done, and the story is an enjoyable and sometimes even humorous read. Each boy has his own POV, and Ian, Victor, and Henrique are real persons with their own perspectives on HIV, boyfriends, and life. It’s so important to have such easy-to-read YA books on topics like this!
I liked the way the boys met and interacted. I understood their fears because, let’s face it, we all think HIV is horrible, don’t we? At least I did, even though I know intellectually that we’ve made so much progress since the eighties and that HIV is not the same as Aids. But still ... How do you tell your family and friends that you tested positive? How will they react? What do you do when you find out the boy you like so much has HIV? How do you tell someone you like that you have HIV? In the meantime feeling ashamed of yourself for making a mistake. A mistake a lot of people make, but most of them don’t get HIV.
I believe this book belongs in school libraries. Not only because it’s so informative, but also because of the shame I mentioned above. Teens make mistakes and don’t always think things through (actually, we all do at times). I liked the message that we should help instead of judging each other.
I received an ARC from David Fickling Books (thank you for approving so incredibly fast!) and NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
Knowing is not the same as feeling. Knowing is not living without the fear that things might go wrong.
Ian, Victor, and Henrique are all in different stages of HIV; one has just been diagnosed, one has just tested negative, and one has been living with HIV for three years now. What I loved most about this book is that it’s so incredibly educational. A lot of information about HIV is woven into the story without being preachy. It’s very well done, and the story is an enjoyable and sometimes even humorous read. Each boy has his own POV, and Ian, Victor, and Henrique are real persons with their own perspectives on HIV, boyfriends, and life. It’s so important to have such easy-to-read YA books on topics like this!
I liked the way the boys met and interacted. I understood their fears because, let’s face it, we all think HIV is horrible, don’t we? At least I did, even though I know intellectually that we’ve made so much progress since the eighties and that HIV is not the same as Aids. But still ... How do you tell your family and friends that you tested positive? How will they react? What do you do when you find out the boy you like so much has HIV? How do you tell someone you like that you have HIV? In the meantime feeling ashamed of yourself for making a mistake. A mistake a lot of people make, but most of them don’t get HIV.
I believe this book belongs in school libraries. Not only because it’s so informative, but also because of the shame I mentioned above. Teens make mistakes and don’t always think things through (actually, we all do at times). I liked the message that we should help instead of judging each other.
I received an ARC from David Fickling Books (thank you for approving so incredibly fast!) and NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
July 11, 2018
QUE LIVRO LINDO! AMEI DEMAIS!
Eu ainda to mto emocionada pra falar a respeito, mas aprendi e me envolvi muito na jornada desses personagens e na forma delicada que o Lucas contou essa história! Recomendo muito!
Eu ainda to mto emocionada pra falar a respeito, mas aprendi e me envolvi muito na jornada desses personagens e na forma delicada que o Lucas contou essa história! Recomendo muito!
May 31, 2020
Wow. I don't think I'm eloquent enough to do this book justice with simple words, but just, wow, know that this was a nearly perfect book for me.
This is the story of three young men dealing with HIV in very different ways and it showcased so much - from prejudice and internalized stigma all the way to educating yourself about something that is pushed under the rug far too often.
I loved how this story never became preachy and instead gave the reader a lot of information in a very accessible way, how it spoke about the fact that contracting HIV does not mean your life is over and that the most important part is to find people who will support you and listen to you instead of make you out to be some scapegoat. This also handled the conversations around honesty around sex very well and though I can't speak for the representation, it certainly felt authentic and respectful to me.
I really hope that this book makes it into school classrooms one day because I think that it is an excellent medium to learn more about an important topic in a very accessible way for younger readers in particular.
This is the story of three young men dealing with HIV in very different ways and it showcased so much - from prejudice and internalized stigma all the way to educating yourself about something that is pushed under the rug far too often.
I loved how this story never became preachy and instead gave the reader a lot of information in a very accessible way, how it spoke about the fact that contracting HIV does not mean your life is over and that the most important part is to find people who will support you and listen to you instead of make you out to be some scapegoat. This also handled the conversations around honesty around sex very well and though I can't speak for the representation, it certainly felt authentic and respectful to me.
I really hope that this book makes it into school classrooms one day because I think that it is an excellent medium to learn more about an important topic in a very accessible way for younger readers in particular.
June 28, 2020
I've been thinking a lot lately about why I haven't seen anyone talking about this book. I came across the title when searching for adult fiction for my queer book club and then found it available on Scribd as an audiobook and decided to try it out. I've since listened to it twice and bought this physical copy so that should give you some hint as to how much I liked it.
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Where We Go From Here follows three guys all navigating life with HIV. Henrique has been positive for 3 years, Ian is newly positive, and Victor is negative but is working through his prejudices surrounding HIV and attempting to sort out feelings regarding being in a relationship with someone who is HIV positive. The novel changes perspectives so we get all first person accounts from each guy and a real inside look into how their behavior and thoughts have been influenced.
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I really don't know if I can do justice to how important this story is. It is set is Brazil, with a full Brazilian cast and all three MCs are gay.
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The characters are flawed and unique and each of their stories are distinct. I've seen reviews that disagree with this but at least from an audio standpoint, where there were different narrators, each MCs voice was their own and I knew who was talking at each part.
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I was amazed at how much I learned about HIV with this book and while there are many scenes set in doctor's offices and medical appointments, they manage to do so without sounding preachy or too much like a biology textbook.
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TW: homophobia, outing, prejudices against HIV
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One of my personal goals this year has been to read stories set outside of the US and by non American authors and thus one fits the bill. Lucas Rocha is a librarian in Brazil and this was originally published in Brazilian Portuguese and translated to English earlier this year.
All the stars. Seriously
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Where We Go From Here follows three guys all navigating life with HIV. Henrique has been positive for 3 years, Ian is newly positive, and Victor is negative but is working through his prejudices surrounding HIV and attempting to sort out feelings regarding being in a relationship with someone who is HIV positive. The novel changes perspectives so we get all first person accounts from each guy and a real inside look into how their behavior and thoughts have been influenced.
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I really don't know if I can do justice to how important this story is. It is set is Brazil, with a full Brazilian cast and all three MCs are gay.
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The characters are flawed and unique and each of their stories are distinct. I've seen reviews that disagree with this but at least from an audio standpoint, where there were different narrators, each MCs voice was their own and I knew who was talking at each part.
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I was amazed at how much I learned about HIV with this book and while there are many scenes set in doctor's offices and medical appointments, they manage to do so without sounding preachy or too much like a biology textbook.
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TW: homophobia, outing, prejudices against HIV
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One of my personal goals this year has been to read stories set outside of the US and by non American authors and thus one fits the bill. Lucas Rocha is a librarian in Brazil and this was originally published in Brazilian Portuguese and translated to English earlier this year.
All the stars. Seriously
March 3, 2023
Estou assustada em como eu li esse livro rapido!!! Eu comecei ONTEM!!! Esse livro estava na minha estante faz meses e eu demorei pra começar pq pensava que seria um livro pesado, pq afinal é sobre HIV e historias de HIV sao sempre tristes e pesadas. O livro deu uma grande risada da minha cara e do meu pré-conceito. É um livro leve, sensivel, divertido e ao mesmo tempo muito informativo. Fiquei muito interessada na historia e nos personagens desde a primeira pagina. Tem momentos tensos e tristes mas voce acaba o livro com um sorisso e de coraçao quentinho. Uma leitura INCRIVEL, com certeza uma das melhores do ano pra mim.
October 17, 2020
Lido a primeira vez em 2018 e relido em 2020, dessa vez em inglês. Continua sendo um livro incrível com uma história divertida, informativa e que todo mundo precisa conhecer. <3
April 21, 2023
This was lovely as it was sad.
But not hopeless sad, just a realistic kind of sad.
3 boys, affected by HIV in different ways navigate the health and social aftereffects of HIV while also trying to live a normal life.
I liked how the meeting and relationships were natural.
I also loved how all the info given about HIV was given smoothly and without preaching.
Overall a great read for me.
But not hopeless sad, just a realistic kind of sad.
3 boys, affected by HIV in different ways navigate the health and social aftereffects of HIV while also trying to live a normal life.
I liked how the meeting and relationships were natural.
I also loved how all the info given about HIV was given smoothly and without preaching.
Overall a great read for me.
April 18, 2021
Lots of non-fiction content in this informative fictional story. The talks at the few doctor's appointments brings the reader up on basic HIV treatment today. The (loveable) three main characters' thoughts reveal the psychological struggles still going on, even if U=U, undetectable = untransmittable.
Each of the best friends of the three MC's are a diverse support group you dream everyone could have. This makes this such a positive book to recommend and share. Almost a little too neat of a ribbon tied to the ending of this book, but what's wrong with a happy ending now and then!
Each chapter rotated from Ian, to Victor, to Henrique in a linear story-line. The three best friends made this entire 6-pak fun to listen to as a group of late teens to early 20's. An additional assortment of younger brothers, tolerant and homophobic parents, tight family quarters, parents working multiple jobs, all added a strong sense of reality to this story.
Even with lots of face-to-face meetings, and everyone having phones, communication is the problem to the answer(s) here. A little strong on some dramatics at mid-book and then the revenge (deserved) on Carlos.
The strength of friendship made me finish this book in a single day. Solid 4.5. While the writing isn't particularly remarkable, I have to round this up per the ability to hook me into reading this so quickly. And my great vibe about recommending this to anyone HIV-topic curious.
Each of the best friends of the three MC's are a diverse support group you dream everyone could have. This makes this such a positive book to recommend and share. Almost a little too neat of a ribbon tied to the ending of this book, but what's wrong with a happy ending now and then!
Each chapter rotated from Ian, to Victor, to Henrique in a linear story-line. The three best friends made this entire 6-pak fun to listen to as a group of late teens to early 20's. An additional assortment of younger brothers, tolerant and homophobic parents, tight family quarters, parents working multiple jobs, all added a strong sense of reality to this story.
Even with lots of face-to-face meetings, and everyone having phones, communication is the problem to the answer(s) here. A little strong on some dramatics at mid-book and then the revenge (deserved) on Carlos.
The strength of friendship made me finish this book in a single day. Solid 4.5. While the writing isn't particularly remarkable, I have to round this up per the ability to hook me into reading this so quickly. And my great vibe about recommending this to anyone HIV-topic curious.
October 22, 2020
O que falar desse livro que me fez chorar umas MIL vezes? A lição dessa história é valiosa demais: você pode criar a sua própria família. Nunca estamos sozinhos. <3 <3
June 21, 2021
Trigger Warnings: Homophobia, Outing, Suicide Mention, HIV Stigma, Self Hate
I was very kindly gifted this book by Pride Book Tours in exchange for an honest review.
This was a very touching and raw book, the premise is that it follows three men on their path with HIV, two have it and one has a “scare”. I genuinely found this book to be highly educational and informative and looking at the stigmas surrounding this.
The friendships in this were absolutely amazing and each person had that element of support and I loved this so much. I think seeing that if someone lives with HIV it’s not all doom and gloom and a person is able to live their life.
Each of the characters brings something different and all at different stages of their life and how they deal with the situations. It was a whirlwind of emotions and seeing the situation from another persons POV from it was just something so raw and also uplifting.
Extremely hard hitting and it made me sob so much, but a very very powerful read that I would strongly suggest others to do, excellently done!
I was very kindly gifted this book by Pride Book Tours in exchange for an honest review.
This was a very touching and raw book, the premise is that it follows three men on their path with HIV, two have it and one has a “scare”. I genuinely found this book to be highly educational and informative and looking at the stigmas surrounding this.
The friendships in this were absolutely amazing and each person had that element of support and I loved this so much. I think seeing that if someone lives with HIV it’s not all doom and gloom and a person is able to live their life.
Each of the characters brings something different and all at different stages of their life and how they deal with the situations. It was a whirlwind of emotions and seeing the situation from another persons POV from it was just something so raw and also uplifting.
Extremely hard hitting and it made me sob so much, but a very very powerful read that I would strongly suggest others to do, excellently done!
August 8, 2018
É difícil balancear três pontos de vista em uma narrativa, mas os três personagens principais de Você tem a vida inteira são tão diferentes e especiais a sua própria maneira que a leitura acabou sendo bem tranquila. Entre Ian, Victor e Henrique, temos três garotos gays com diferentes experiências sobre o HIV: um convive com o diagnóstico há anos, outro acabou de se descobrir soropositivo, e o outro fez o exame, mas deu negativo. Foi muito importante e rico pra história termos essas três perspectivas, fazendo do livro não só uma leitura incrível como também repleta de ensinamentos, quebra de preconceitos e valorização da amizade. Pontos extras por quatro personagens secundários que eu amei e deixaram a leitura ainda mais especial: Gabriel, Sandra, Vanessa e Eric. O Lucas Rocha criou um enredo extremamente relevante e com personagens marcantes, sem deixar que as discussões fizessem desse um livro triste. Pelo contrário, como antecipam o título e a capa, o sentimento da história é a esperança de uma vida colorida.
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June 3, 2021
DRC provided by David Fickling Books via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
Representation: gay Brazilian protagonists, gay Afro-Brazilian secondary character, Brazilian secondary and tertiary characters, Afro-Brazilian tertiary characters, queer Brazilian tertiary characters.
Content Warning: HIV ignorance and stigmatisation, sex-negativism, overexertion, homophobia, anxiety, HP mention, malicious disclosure of someone else’s status, slurs.
Where We Go from Here by Lucas Rocha, translated by Larissa Helena, is a very compelling book about HIV, about living with it and experiencing it from the outside, about the stigmatisation and ignorance that still follow those three letters, but it is also about love, learning to trust again and friendships.
I really liked the novel and its structure with the three very distinct points of view, but while I loved very much Ian and Henrique, even after finishing the book, I am still on the fence about Victor.
When I first started reading, I immediately hated him and his ignorance, moreover when I read he actually did research on HIV, but still maintained a prejudiced mind-set about it. I asked myself how could one, seemingly intelligent man who researched the matter at hand, still be so bigoted and also, when corrected by a professional on the issue, persist on being unbearable. And although he learned he was wrong on all levels, I still hated the character so much and I thought Henrique could do better than him.
The relationship with Victor was the only aspect I did not like about Henrique’s chapters, but I thought that my wishes to see him happy, after years of solitude because of the stigmatisation of being HIV-positive, made me overcome my hatred for that prick.
Ian was definitely the character with the heaviest chapters as he started to learn how to live with the virus and how being positive would affect his life, but I loved reading how he gradually became more and more cheerful about it and the ending really charmed me.
To conclude, Where We Go from Here was a quick and captivating reading experience that I highly suggest to everyone interested in reading about how HIV-positive individuals are often alienated because of ignorance and sex-negativism, but also the importance of friendship.
PS: I loved reading that cutting a groom’s tie is not a tradition exclusively done in Italy!
Representation: gay Brazilian protagonists, gay Afro-Brazilian secondary character, Brazilian secondary and tertiary characters, Afro-Brazilian tertiary characters, queer Brazilian tertiary characters.
Content Warning: HIV ignorance and stigmatisation, sex-negativism, overexertion, homophobia, anxiety, HP mention, malicious disclosure of someone else’s status, slurs.
Where We Go from Here by Lucas Rocha, translated by Larissa Helena, is a very compelling book about HIV, about living with it and experiencing it from the outside, about the stigmatisation and ignorance that still follow those three letters, but it is also about love, learning to trust again and friendships.
I really liked the novel and its structure with the three very distinct points of view, but while I loved very much Ian and Henrique, even after finishing the book, I am still on the fence about Victor.
When I first started reading, I immediately hated him and his ignorance, moreover when I read he actually did research on HIV, but still maintained a prejudiced mind-set about it. I asked myself how could one, seemingly intelligent man who researched the matter at hand, still be so bigoted and also, when corrected by a professional on the issue, persist on being unbearable. And although he learned he was wrong on all levels, I still hated the character so much and I thought Henrique could do better than him.
The relationship with Victor was the only aspect I did not like about Henrique’s chapters, but I thought that my wishes to see him happy, after years of solitude because of the stigmatisation of being HIV-positive, made me overcome my hatred for that prick.
Ian was definitely the character with the heaviest chapters as he started to learn how to live with the virus and how being positive would affect his life, but I loved reading how he gradually became more and more cheerful about it and the ending really charmed me.
To conclude, Where We Go from Here was a quick and captivating reading experience that I highly suggest to everyone interested in reading about how HIV-positive individuals are often alienated because of ignorance and sex-negativism, but also the importance of friendship.
PS: I loved reading that cutting a groom’s tie is not a tradition exclusively done in Italy!
July 7, 2020
*3.5 Stars*
This story follows 3 different characters, Ian, Henrique and Victor, and their viewpoints. Each of them are gay men at different stages of their journey with HIV. Henrique has been HIV positive for 3 years, Victor is newly diagnosed and Ian, who doesn't have HIV, has to confront his prejudice.
What I Liked:
Themes and education. This book really shone a light on how HIV affects people and how far we've come in the treatment for this condition. I think it also did a great job discussing the stereo types and stigma surrounding HIV, how it can become anyones "reality" and how quickly prejudice kicks in when confronted with this issue. I really liked how it tackled forgiveness and whether people should be forgiven for past transgressions and how they can go about learning from their mistakes. It did this well because the 3 POV's were written from 1st person and, therefore , we could see into each characters thought process and follow them through their journey of accepting their mistakes and trying to correct them.
What I Didn't Like:
Development. Despite each viewpoint being written from 1st person perspective, these characters still felt one dimensional and I struggled to find a personality outside of the conversation about HIV.
Overall this was an enlightening book that opened my eyes to what an HIV diagnosis really means. It didn't have enough development or personality for me to feel connected to the characters and as a result it was a pretty average read.
This story follows 3 different characters, Ian, Henrique and Victor, and their viewpoints. Each of them are gay men at different stages of their journey with HIV. Henrique has been HIV positive for 3 years, Victor is newly diagnosed and Ian, who doesn't have HIV, has to confront his prejudice.
What I Liked:
Themes and education. This book really shone a light on how HIV affects people and how far we've come in the treatment for this condition. I think it also did a great job discussing the stereo types and stigma surrounding HIV, how it can become anyones "reality" and how quickly prejudice kicks in when confronted with this issue. I really liked how it tackled forgiveness and whether people should be forgiven for past transgressions and how they can go about learning from their mistakes. It did this well because the 3 POV's were written from 1st person and, therefore , we could see into each characters thought process and follow them through their journey of accepting their mistakes and trying to correct them.
What I Didn't Like:
Development. Despite each viewpoint being written from 1st person perspective, these characters still felt one dimensional and I struggled to find a personality outside of the conversation about HIV.
Overall this was an enlightening book that opened my eyes to what an HIV diagnosis really means. It didn't have enough development or personality for me to feel connected to the characters and as a result it was a pretty average read.
June 6, 2021
Actual rating: 4,5
Wow, this book was really amazing!
It’s written from three POVs, with three main characters dealing with HIV in some way.
One MC is living with HIV since three years already, the other two meet after taking a test at a clinic - with different test results.
I loved how their stories are all interconnected and how each of them is dealing with HIV in very different ways. This brought a lot of depth into the story and helped to look at the topic from different angles. It was very realistic that way.
This book was super informative, while at the same time having an amazing story that makes you want to read it in one go.
I read a few books already that deal with HIV and there is still so much to learn about it.
It’s a very important topic many people only know so little about and there are so many prejudices toward people that test positive.
I loved how all this is addressed in this book and I absolutely loved the characters.
How they stood up for each other and supported each other, overcame some of their problems and prejudices. Learned from each other and became friends.
All of the characters are 18 or older, some in their early 20s so I would rather categorise it as a New adult book though.
The scene at the party wasn’t super realistic and there was a little miscommunication between two of the characters that got a little out of hand in my opinion, but that’s honestly the only part of this book I minded a little.
10/10 would recommend!
Wow, this book was really amazing!
It’s written from three POVs, with three main characters dealing with HIV in some way.
One MC is living with HIV since three years already, the other two meet after taking a test at a clinic - with different test results.
I loved how their stories are all interconnected and how each of them is dealing with HIV in very different ways. This brought a lot of depth into the story and helped to look at the topic from different angles. It was very realistic that way.
This book was super informative, while at the same time having an amazing story that makes you want to read it in one go.
I read a few books already that deal with HIV and there is still so much to learn about it.
It’s a very important topic many people only know so little about and there are so many prejudices toward people that test positive.
I loved how all this is addressed in this book and I absolutely loved the characters.
How they stood up for each other and supported each other, overcame some of their problems and prejudices. Learned from each other and became friends.
All of the characters are 18 or older, some in their early 20s so I would rather categorise it as a New adult book though.
The scene at the party wasn’t super realistic and there was a little miscommunication between two of the characters that got a little out of hand in my opinion, but that’s honestly the only part of this book I minded a little.
10/10 would recommend!
April 26, 2021
Where We Go From Here is a powerful and supportive story about three young gay men in Brazil, who all find themselves dealing with HIV. Where Ian and Henrique process their positive diagnosis, Viktor struggles to decide whether he wants to continue dating Henrique.
This is the first (YA) novel that I've read about HIV in the modern day, and it proved so educational. Alongside the characters I learned about the difference between HIV and Aids, the meaning of words like 'undetectable load' and 'Prep' and how treatment actually works in your body.
The focus of this book is on our three main guys, and Rocha decribes them with a caring, yet mature voice: both Viktor and Henrique make good points on why dating someone with HIV is a/no problem. However, the most response the boys encounter from other people is encouraging, accepting and without judgement.
And while the book is great to read, I would highly recommend listening to the audiobook: all three narrators are Latinx men who place such emotion in their voice, from choking back tears to drunk happiness. It really added to the enjoyment and impact of the story.
Therefore, I take my rating of 3,5 stars up to 4, and I would certainly recommend this book if you want to read an affirming, moving novel about love and hope for the future. HIV plays a big role, but most important is the friendship and support the young men find with each other.
(I listened to the free Scholastic audiobook, which you can find on Spotify)
This is the first (YA) novel that I've read about HIV in the modern day, and it proved so educational. Alongside the characters I learned about the difference between HIV and Aids, the meaning of words like 'undetectable load' and 'Prep' and how treatment actually works in your body.
The focus of this book is on our three main guys, and Rocha decribes them with a caring, yet mature voice: both Viktor and Henrique make good points on why dating someone with HIV is a/no problem. However, the most response the boys encounter from other people is encouraging, accepting and without judgement.
And while the book is great to read, I would highly recommend listening to the audiobook: all three narrators are Latinx men who place such emotion in their voice, from choking back tears to drunk happiness. It really added to the enjoyment and impact of the story.
Therefore, I take my rating of 3,5 stars up to 4, and I would certainly recommend this book if you want to read an affirming, moving novel about love and hope for the future. HIV plays a big role, but most important is the friendship and support the young men find with each other.
(I listened to the free Scholastic audiobook, which you can find on Spotify)
September 9, 2020
Quero muito escrever uma resenha sobre!
Mas já digo logo que amei ❤️
Mas já digo logo que amei ❤️
June 17, 2022
CW: homophobia, outing, Anti-HIV prejudice
I saw this book featured on a booktubers account that I love, and thought I would give it a go, and it was such an impactful read.
I think it’s an important book for young adults to have access to as it deals with some complex topics such as HIV that continues to receive a lot of stigma today.
This book follows three young adult gay men navigating life as the HIV epidemic rises. This is a translated work that takes place in Brazil. Although there were a lot of of similarities that mirrored that of the HIV epidemic in the US, I want to point this out as there may be differences due to the cultural context that this story was written within.
I thought this book did a great job shining light on the complexities of living with and during a time where stigma around HIV was heightened. It looked at the prejudice that many individuals receive not only from the communities surrounding them, but the prejudice they may place on themselves as they try to navigate societal pressures and stigmas.
Although I enjoyed the content of this book, the only thing that took away from the story for me was how one dimensional the characters felt. I wasn’t really invested in any one character. It felt as if they only existed to get the story across, which isn’t necessarily a problem, I just preferred more character development in books.
Overall, great read and definitely worth your time!
I saw this book featured on a booktubers account that I love, and thought I would give it a go, and it was such an impactful read.
I think it’s an important book for young adults to have access to as it deals with some complex topics such as HIV that continues to receive a lot of stigma today.
This book follows three young adult gay men navigating life as the HIV epidemic rises. This is a translated work that takes place in Brazil. Although there were a lot of of similarities that mirrored that of the HIV epidemic in the US, I want to point this out as there may be differences due to the cultural context that this story was written within.
I thought this book did a great job shining light on the complexities of living with and during a time where stigma around HIV was heightened. It looked at the prejudice that many individuals receive not only from the communities surrounding them, but the prejudice they may place on themselves as they try to navigate societal pressures and stigmas.
Although I enjoyed the content of this book, the only thing that took away from the story for me was how one dimensional the characters felt. I wasn’t really invested in any one character. It felt as if they only existed to get the story across, which isn’t necessarily a problem, I just preferred more character development in books.
Overall, great read and definitely worth your time!
August 8, 2018
Mais uma amostra incrível de um livro YA nacional que não deve nada pros livros gringos celebrados lá fora e aqui. Apesar da temática potencialmente delicada, "Você tem a vida inteira" é um livro bonito, sensível e alto astral ao mesmo tempo em que aborda com muita responsabilidade e sem tabus os conflitos sobre o diagnóstico e a vida com HIV. A história é linda e envolvente, do tipo que faz a gente virar as páginas sem perceber, e a narrativa do Lucas é super gostosa e muito bem humorada. Mas o grande trunfo do livro são os personagens. Todos são reais, profundos e tridimensionais, o que me fez acabar o livro amando-os (ou odiando-os, né). Ah, a construção da trama é muito inteligente, porque a partir de um determinado momento eu simplesmente não conseguia mais parar de ler (quase gritei na virada de enredo no final). Até por isso, a única mini-ressalva que eu tenho é que não me senti investida de imediato, apesar do livro começar com o conflito principal dos personagens. Talvez um in media res puxando a trama do meio do livro, onde muitas coisas interessantíssimas acontecem, funcionasse bem! Recomendo pra todo mundo!
June 22, 2020
The characters in this book have a lot of important conversations about HIV. I think it does a great job of exploring the stigmas and misinformation that still exist today. However, as an actual story I think this was just…… fine?
The story follows three young gay men living in Rio de Janeiro. Ian has just tested positive for HIV, Victor tested negative, and Henrique has been living with HIV for three years. Through Ian’s eyes you see the fear in testing positive and learning about treatment plans. Victor is dealing with the fear he has about being with Henrique, even though he knows that Henrique is undetectable. And Henrique is feeling like he won’t be able to find love since his relationships keep falling apart because of his positive status.
I think this book does a great job of explaining the current state of living with HIV, what it means to be undetectable, and what taking PrEP can do. I also thought it was interesting to see this story set in Brazil. I don’t think I’ve previously read any books Brazilian books.
My biggest complaint about this book is that none of the three main characters had any personalities. They all just felt like interchangeable cardboard cutouts. It made it really difficult to care about any of them when I couldn’t even tell whose perspective I was reading from until a name was mentioned. So much of the story was just incredibly bland.
There’s definitely a lot of great information in the book. And I think it will be helpful for readers to see how the negative stigmas associated with HIV can impact people who are living with HIV. But I just wish that I cared more about the actual story and characters within the book.
The story follows three young gay men living in Rio de Janeiro. Ian has just tested positive for HIV, Victor tested negative, and Henrique has been living with HIV for three years. Through Ian’s eyes you see the fear in testing positive and learning about treatment plans. Victor is dealing with the fear he has about being with Henrique, even though he knows that Henrique is undetectable. And Henrique is feeling like he won’t be able to find love since his relationships keep falling apart because of his positive status.
I think this book does a great job of explaining the current state of living with HIV, what it means to be undetectable, and what taking PrEP can do. I also thought it was interesting to see this story set in Brazil. I don’t think I’ve previously read any books Brazilian books.
My biggest complaint about this book is that none of the three main characters had any personalities. They all just felt like interchangeable cardboard cutouts. It made it really difficult to care about any of them when I couldn’t even tell whose perspective I was reading from until a name was mentioned. So much of the story was just incredibly bland.
There’s definitely a lot of great information in the book. And I think it will be helpful for readers to see how the negative stigmas associated with HIV can impact people who are living with HIV. But I just wish that I cared more about the actual story and characters within the book.
October 13, 2019
Tem livros que chegam pra gente e quando terminamos a única sensação que temos é: esse é um livro necessário.
Você tem a vida inteira é um livro necessário.
Ele é necessário porque a escrita do Lucas é algo formidável que o YA precisa. É necessário porque aborda uma série de questões relacionadas ao HIV que nem sempre são divulgadas na mídia porém são extremamente importantes (principalmente pra jovens LGBT). É necessário porque é um livro jovem nacional com personagens de 20 e poucos enfrentando dilemas da vida, relacionados ao HIV ou não, e que conseguem representar com muita verossimilhança as pessoas, os diálogos e os conflitos dessa faixa etária. Ele é necessário porque é realista, mostra pra gente que esse mundo aí não é perfeito e que essa é a realidade e que tá tudo bem no final das contas ser assim. Ele é necessário porque ainda existem pessoas boas no mundo e, se você não cruzou seu caminho com algumas, elas ainda vão te cercar por aí. Ele é necessário porque é um livro sobre vida. Ele é necessário porque é um livro sobre esperança e que dá esperança. Ele é necessário. Leiam.
Você tem a vida inteira é um livro necessário.
Ele é necessário porque a escrita do Lucas é algo formidável que o YA precisa. É necessário porque aborda uma série de questões relacionadas ao HIV que nem sempre são divulgadas na mídia porém são extremamente importantes (principalmente pra jovens LGBT). É necessário porque é um livro jovem nacional com personagens de 20 e poucos enfrentando dilemas da vida, relacionados ao HIV ou não, e que conseguem representar com muita verossimilhança as pessoas, os diálogos e os conflitos dessa faixa etária. Ele é necessário porque é realista, mostra pra gente que esse mundo aí não é perfeito e que essa é a realidade e que tá tudo bem no final das contas ser assim. Ele é necessário porque ainda existem pessoas boas no mundo e, se você não cruzou seu caminho com algumas, elas ainda vão te cercar por aí. Ele é necessário porque é um livro sobre vida. Ele é necessário porque é um livro sobre esperança e que dá esperança. Ele é necessário. Leiam.
October 8, 2020
Okay, first things first. Add this book to your list right now. Done? Let's start.
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Where We Go From Here is the story of 3 gay boys who're dealing with HIV in some way or another.
Ian has just been tested +ve for HIV
Victor, luckily his reports came out -ve.
Henrique, it's been 3 years since he's dealing with HIV
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It's obvious that book revolves around HIV rather gay and HIV. It explains the process, mental condition, society, family and dozens of other aspects.
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It's set in Brazil and has multiple povs which gives us the closer view of the actual situation. 3 charecter dealing with HIV (directly or indirectly) and their perspectives just enhanced this book because it's not just a story of those 3 charecters, but thousand and millions of people. Someone would've gone through these same situations and same thoughts would've entered their minds.
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Of course it's filled with information and facts about HIV which will improve your knowledge A LOT. Author writes against prejudice which is the most important part of this book. It also has touch of humor at right places.
Perfect read for LGBTQ readers and Non LGBTQ readers as well
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Where We Go From Here is the story of 3 gay boys who're dealing with HIV in some way or another.
Ian has just been tested +ve for HIV
Victor, luckily his reports came out -ve.
Henrique, it's been 3 years since he's dealing with HIV
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It's obvious that book revolves around HIV rather gay and HIV. It explains the process, mental condition, society, family and dozens of other aspects.
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It's set in Brazil and has multiple povs which gives us the closer view of the actual situation. 3 charecter dealing with HIV (directly or indirectly) and their perspectives just enhanced this book because it's not just a story of those 3 charecters, but thousand and millions of people. Someone would've gone through these same situations and same thoughts would've entered their minds.
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Of course it's filled with information and facts about HIV which will improve your knowledge A LOT. Author writes against prejudice which is the most important part of this book. It also has touch of humor at right places.
Perfect read for LGBTQ readers and Non LGBTQ readers as well
October 22, 2020
Educational, heartwarming and so very necessary. I adored the cast of characters and their individual perspectives. The way their lives intertwined, whilst each very much having their own story to live and tell was wonderful to read. This book is filled with heart and honesty and I can't wait to recommend this to anyone and everyone. (The audiobook production is fab too.)
January 29, 2023
YA muito descomplexado sobre um grupo de rapazes que têm de lidar com uma nova condição de saúde nas suas vidas. Muito divertido, fofo e deveria ser de leitura obrigatória nas escolas, pois dá uma perspetiva muito atual sobre temas que são habitualmente tratados de forma muito depressiva e pesada.
Muitas vezes perguntam que livros sugeriria a um adolescente: aqui está um exemplo perfeito.
Muitas vezes perguntam que livros sugeriria a um adolescente: aqui está um exemplo perfeito.
June 16, 2021
“I take a deep breath, look ahead of me, and stare at the people speeding by, laughing without a care in the world. I start wondering if any of them are faking it, like I am, pretending everything is all right. If they are laughing just out of peer pressure, because it’s easier than locking yourself up in your bedroom to worry over the bad stuff.”
— where do we go from here, lucas rocha
3.5 stars!
the plot:
3 characters: ian, victor, + henrique, are all dealing with HIV (indirectly or directly) in brazil and their stories all intertwine as they navigate new territory.
but ‘where do we go from here’ is also a character-driven novel with a slow-paced (sometimes too slow) vibe full of love, found family, and the destigmitization of HIV.
the book dives into a great understanding of the virus + its treatments, in a simple way that doesn’t seem overwhelming to readers. our three characters are faced with navigating the reality of living with or alongside the virus and i thought it brought up some good points!
and while i stan a found family trope y’all + i loved the little group of theirs and the love between them, i thought victor was annoying, personally, and he + henrique are a toxic af duo and cringed every time they had a conversation. it was not great.
lastly, the writing style is a little choppy at times but that’s probably just due to the fact that it’s a translation and sometimes things don’t translate well. oh, and, the ending felt kind of abrupt, even more so because i was listening to the audiobook + all of a sudden they were saying “epilogue” and i wasn’t ready LOL
also, this didn’t really feel young adult genre-wise but more new adult since all the characters - aside from one of the siblings - is over 18.
CWs: Online harassment, public outing, homophobia and homophobic slurs, HIV stigma/hate, parental disownment
— where do we go from here, lucas rocha
3.5 stars!
the plot:
3 characters: ian, victor, + henrique, are all dealing with HIV (indirectly or directly) in brazil and their stories all intertwine as they navigate new territory.
but ‘where do we go from here’ is also a character-driven novel with a slow-paced (sometimes too slow) vibe full of love, found family, and the destigmitization of HIV.
the book dives into a great understanding of the virus + its treatments, in a simple way that doesn’t seem overwhelming to readers. our three characters are faced with navigating the reality of living with or alongside the virus and i thought it brought up some good points!
and while i stan a found family trope y’all + i loved the little group of theirs and the love between them, i thought victor was annoying, personally, and he + henrique are a toxic af duo and cringed every time they had a conversation. it was not great.
lastly, the writing style is a little choppy at times but that’s probably just due to the fact that it’s a translation and sometimes things don’t translate well. oh, and, the ending felt kind of abrupt, even more so because i was listening to the audiobook + all of a sudden they were saying “epilogue” and i wasn’t ready LOL
also, this didn’t really feel young adult genre-wise but more new adult since all the characters - aside from one of the siblings - is over 18.
CWs: Online harassment, public outing, homophobia and homophobic slurs, HIV stigma/hate, parental disownment
August 23, 2018
Não tenho palavras para expressar o que eu senti ao longo da leitura de Você tem a vida inteira. Uma mistura de felicidade, tristeza, esperança, amor, medo e muitos outros sentimentos. Chorei (várias vezes por sinal), sorri e me apaixonei por cada parágrafo, cada conversa entre os personagens e principalmente pela mensagem que o livro passa.
A forma como o autor detalha a vida de cada um dos 3 personagens e como eles se relacionam é incrível, da forma mais humana possível e muitas vezes surpreendente. Com certeza esse vai ser um daqueles livros que nunca vai sair da memória, assim como todos os aprendizados que o livro passa. Uma leitura que deveria ser obrigatório para toda a sociedade para desmistificar muitos dos tabus sobre o HIV.
A forma como o autor detalha a vida de cada um dos 3 personagens e como eles se relacionam é incrível, da forma mais humana possível e muitas vezes surpreendente. Com certeza esse vai ser um daqueles livros que nunca vai sair da memória, assim como todos os aprendizados que o livro passa. Uma leitura que deveria ser obrigatório para toda a sociedade para desmistificar muitos dos tabus sobre o HIV.
August 7, 2022
This book was so incredibly insightful, emotional and educational. I feel like I've learned so much about HIV, especially how it is treated in the healthcare system in Brazil, something I never would've thought to research without this book. Truly a beautiful book, the connections between the main characters were so sweet and I would definitely recommend this.
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