فاصله‌ات را با من حفظ کن!: راهنمای رعایت حقوق دیگران

by Julia Cook, Carrie Hartman (Illustrator), عرفانه جوادپور (Translator)

فاصله‌ات را با من حفظ کن! نوشته جولیا کوک(-۱۹۶۴)، نویسنده ادبیات کودک و نوجوان است. این کتاب برای آموزش رعایت حقوق دیگران از جمله فضای شخصی به کودکان است.

Genres: Picture Books, Childrens, Fiction, School, Social Work, Adhd, Counselling

32 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 2007

About the author

"In order to teach children, you must enter their view of the world."
~ Julia Cook

JULIA COOK, M.S. is a national award winning children’s author, counselor and parenting expert. She has presented in thousands of schools across the country and abroad, regularly speaks at national education and counseling conferences, and has published children’s books on a wide range of character and social development topics. The goal behind Cook’s work is to actively involve young people in fun, memorable stories and teach them to become lifelong problem solvers. Inspiration for her books comes from working with children and carefully listening to counselors, parents, and teachers, in order to stay on top of needs in the classroom and at home. Cook has the innate ability to enter the worldview of a child through storybooks, giving children both the “what to say” and the “how to say it”.

Reviews

[Maryam Zarei · Rating 4 out of 5]

کتاب ادبیات و قصه‌ی جالبی داره در مورد حفظ فاصله و رعایت حریم دیگران، در قالب داستان مثال‌هایی زده از دردسرهایی که رعایت نکردن این مسئله به وجود میاره و به زبان ساده‌ی کودکانه خیلی خوب تونسته موضوع رو جا بندازه

[Yelda Basar Moers · Rating 5 out of 5]

I LOVED this book!!! Once in a while you read a picture book that you can't stop reading over and over again! Not just for your child, but for yourself! This is a hilarious book that adults should read together with children! Have you ever been waiting at a register and someone behind you just takes over your space when it's not their turn yet? This has happened to me sometimes and it drives me crazy when people have no space boundaries and assert themselves over others. I love that this book tries to teach children the concept of personal space in a positive and funny manner! My five-year-old son Noah wants to read this book every night and can't get enough of it! The writing is so strong and clever, and I love the characters. A must read for any mom of a Kindergartener or a tot!

I also read a lot of picture books not only because I have a five and eight year old, but because I love them! I'm actually crazy for picture books! And I finished writing one myself, now working on publishing it!

[Effie · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book was entertaining and had great ideas for how to illustrate personal space to kids. Often I find books that serve a purpose like this to be not-so-well written, but this one is a pretty good read and I think kids will enjoy it while learning something too.

[Molly · Rating 3 out of 5]

Teaches about personal space (or COVID safety guidelines🙄).

[Tanya · Rating 1 out of 5]

I really dislike this book. The main character is constantly chastised by adults using their 'cranky voice' for getting into other kid's personal space. Not one adult tries to explain to him what personal space means, and he finally gets sent to the principle with other kids who have the same issue. He's treated as a naughty kid, when he has no idea what's expected of him. Just didn't sit right with me, my son also hates it.

[Rozana AlBanawi · Rating 5 out of 5]

The activities in the story make learning about personal space and one's personal bubble, a meaningful and fun experience. In the different groups that I worked with, this book was always a success. The children absolutely loved it!

[Kimberly · Rating 2 out of 5]

There’s valuable information here but I HATED the illustrations.

[Atiyeh]

Personal Space Camp by Julia Cook is a thoughtfully crafted picture book that tackles the important topic of respecting others' physical boundaries—a vital social skill for children to develop. With a fun and engaging narrative, Julia Cook helps young readers understand why personal space matters and how to recognise and respect the invisible “bubble” that surrounds each person.

The story follows a young boy who struggles with keeping an appropriate distance from others, often standing too close and making friends uncomfortable. To help him learn, he is sent to “Personal Space Camp,” where he discovers practical tips and playful strategies to maintain respectful boundaries. Through relatable scenarios and gentle humour, the book teaches kids that respecting space is a way of showing kindness and respect.

Julia Cook’s clear, straightforward storytelling makes the lesson accessible and memorable for children, while avoiding any tone of judgment or embarrassment. The message empowers kids to be mindful of their own space and that of others.

Carrie Hartman’s bright, lively illustrations perfectly complement the text, bringing warmth and humour to the story. Her expressive characters and clear visuals help reinforce the concept of personal space in a way that young children can easily grasp.

Recommended for ages 5–9, Personal Space Camp is a wonderful tool for parents, teachers, and counsellors. It’s ideal for use in classrooms, social skills groups, or at home to foster respectful behaviour and healthy social interactions.

[Jj · Rating 3 out of 5]

Well, I think the idea behind this book is a good one--talking about PERSONAL SPACE with kids. The title was also enticing; who doesn't want to find out what Personal Space Camp is all about? Unfortunately, the way the main character's obsession with Outer Space is overlaid onto the idea of Personal Space ends up just kind of confusing the issue. It's definitely something with an educational angle and there are elements here that I like, but would most likely pull those out rather than just read the book with children. The way it pits the students against each other and the educators is also awkward, and the main character seems antagonized until the end of the story, which further makes for some questionable handling of his actions by the adults around him.

[Emily · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a great book because it teaches a lesson without forcing it into the kid's face. This is about a boy who loves space, but has a hard time giving space to others and understanding why it is important. His teacher or principal sends him to personal space camp, which he is excited for. However, he realizes he is not actually learning about space. He is reluctant to participate until it becomes fun for him. He graduates from personal space camp and learns now to give others that space. Not only did he learn, but the kids who read the book will learn this too in a creative and fun way. Good for kindergarten to 4th grade

[Angel Butler]

This story follows Louis, a boy who really likes outer space but is having a difficult time giving others around him "personal space". His principal sends him to 'Personal space camp' where he learns about personal space. This book is a great tool to introduce the idea of personal space to young children. While it touches on the topic, further class discussions might be needed to really connect the pieces of the concept. The book is entertaining and most young children will enjoy it. The book contains important points that can be discussed with the class.

[Nicole · Rating 5 out of 5]

As a fairly new (starting my second year now) elementary school counselor, I've been struggling with finding resources to address personal space and boundary issues with students. I ran into this on a counselor exchange group and have been on the waitlist at my library for awhile. Totally worth the wait! A very effective, kid-friendly way to make sense of what personal space is all about. I will definitely use a few of the strategies with some students who I'm currently working with!

[Abigail Hix · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a great book to read to a classroom. Especially if you have some kids who have a hard time understanding personal space. I like this book because it is told in the perspective of the kid, Louis, so it is easier for students to relate to. I also like how there is a few tips that can be used in real life to help show students the appropriate amount of personal space. There is also an activity book that can be purchased along with this book to further aid you.

[Kris · Rating 3 out of 5]

I hate when adults assume that kids understand something without ever making sure they do. In this one, the main character thinks personal space has something to do with outer space, and is constantly befuddled about what he is doing wrong. The explanation helps him, but basically, he is punished for violating boundaries that he doesn't know exist, so that's annoying.

[Heather · Rating 4 out of 5]

This was entertaining, with good pictures and dialog. It was clear to see what the people were doing on each page. The message of the book was understandable, and my Kindergartners even remembered it the next day.

[Villain E · Rating 2 out of 5]

Well-intentioned but a miss. A boy who likes outer space is sent to a workshop called personal space camp. He spends way too much of the book not understanding what's going on. Super wordy. And I didn't like the art.

[Danielle · Rating 4 out of 5]

This one was okay. It has several interesting exercises for children to do who have a problems invading others' personal space.

[Kim · Rating 3 out of 5]

A nice introduction to personal space and gives a few examples of how to maintain personal space while in school.

[Brooke Holzbaur]

This is a cute way to incorporate space. This helps students find personal space and space to share with others.

[Alissa Peanasky · Rating 3 out of 5]

Great topic, but I don't feel like it explains it in a super clear way.

[Linda · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great book that we read over and over. Important lesson on comfort levels and personal space. How to be more aware, and a bit less of a space cadet.

[Ashley Adams · Rating 5 out of 5]

Super cute, and full of ideas on how to tangibly show children how to monitor their personal space, and be conscious of the space in which they exist.

[Adrianne Rosal · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is when we all need some personal space!!

[Nikki · Rating 4 out of 5]

IT is a great book to read to a classroom.

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[Jackie · Rating 5 out of 5]

How many times do we as teachers or parents have to remind students to keep their hands to themselves or leave their friends' belongings alone? This book is a great read aloud for elementary kids. Out counselor came in and read this book to our kinder students and did an activity afterwards to help reinforce every individual's need for personal space. This book helps students see how each person has their own "space" in which they are comfortable and to respect each other's personal space.

[Christyweber1 · Rating 5 out of 5]

roman and i just finished this one, very helpful for him learning about how to behave at kindergarten. i also like some of the things this book uses to help him visualise "personal Space" and also address how the size of your comfort bubble changes with the situation. roman laughed and laughed as we practiced our "at home" bubbles ( squished together cheek to cheek) and our "at School" bubbles( about a foot apart not touching) lol

[The Brothers · Rating 3 out of 5]

I (like the young boy in the book) thought that personal space camp was going to be something quite different than what it turned out to be. I expected this book to be about going to a camp to learn about space and astronauts (judging a book by its cover again!) and it turns out it about respecting other people's boundaries and exhibiting self control. So while not a bad book, certainly not what I nor Dex (7yo) was expecting.

Illustrations are good.

[Kristin Traina · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is so cute and would be very useful with young kids, especially those with adhd. Its all about learning personal space and how to be aware of others around us. It is a really cute story about one little eboy who does not really understand what personal space is, he just loves outer space.

[Kerry · Rating 5 out of 5]

I love this book. I work with young children who often have problems with Personal Space and this book is a regular part of the therapy plan. There is a workbook that goes with it that is also. I love the pictures and the story, but most of all I love Lewis. Great book, great resource and one of my favourites.