Why Did I Cheat?: Help your partner (and yourself) recover from your affair

by Andrew G. Marshall

You’ve told your partner you’re sorry, recognised you’ve made some bad choices and want to put the past behind you. Unfortunately, your attempts to make things better blow up in your face and your partner keeps getting hurt all over again. Alternatively, you don’t know what you truly want. One minute you’re committed to saving your marriage and the next wondering if it’s past saving and tempted to contact your affair partner again. Whatever the circumstances, your discussions about the affair go round in circles or keep coming back to the same questions that either you can’t answer or your partner considers your responses inadequate. Andrew G. Marshall is a marital therapist with over thirty years’ experience helping couples recover from infidelity and in this compassionate book, he will help - Find clarity for once and for all. - Stop getting overwhelmed by the pain and communicate more effectively. - Avoid the traps which suck the hope out of your recovery. - Find the answers to important questions from your partner. - Tackle both the immediate crisis and the underlying problems that caused it. - Break the cycle that’s hurting you both. - Work together as a team to find a way forward. If you’re the injured party and can’t get your head round how your partner could have been unfaithful, this book will help you too. By putting it into your partner’s hands, you’ll open his or her eyes to why he or she keeps making matters worse. Just as importantly, you’ll get an insight into what’s going on inside his or her mind.

306 pages, Kindle Edition

Published December 26, 2019

About the author

Andrew has been a marital therapist for almost thirty years. He trained with RELATE the UK's leading couple counselling charity. He now has a private practice in London and Sussex (England), gives workshops on relationship and inspirational talks. His books have been translated into twenty languages (including French, German, Spanish, Japanese, Chinese and Italian). He also writes for UK newspapers Daily Mail and Mail on Sunday.

Andrew is also the host of the podcast "The Meaningful Life with Andrew G Marshall" where each week I interview therapists, academics and people with a story to tell about making better relationships, deeper connections understanding yourself and what makes life meaningful.

Reviews

[Nao Jojo · Rating 4 out of 5]

I caught him cheating with his boss, I became suspicious overtime due to the late nights at the office, the sudden business trips the distance that has creeped into our marriage, I couldn't sit down and watch anymore so l reached out to
. I saw his email conversations, explicit undeniable text messages and pictures, It was all too much to process at once but I am happy I found the truth. If you are in need for this type of service reach out to them and in 24hours you will
have your answer
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