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The Vagina Book: An Owner's Manual for Taking Care of Your Down There
The Vagina Book is an essential guide packed with invaluable information about sexual health that everyone should know, but might be too afraid to ask.
With sections on anatomy, periods, hormones, sex, contraception, fertility, hair care, and so much more, this fun-to-read guide helps readers make healthy decisions for their bodies.
Compelling personal essays from a diverse group of luminary figures—including Margaret Cho, Roxane Gay, and Blair Imani—are sprinkled throughout, enriching the pages with beauty, strength, and honesty.
• From OB/GYN Dr. Jennifer Conti and the team behind the beloved Thinx period products
• Dispenses with taboos and misinformation about the female body
• Provides the latest health research in easy-to-digest entries
Advice includes yoga poses to help with PMS and cramping, a cheat sheet for making sense of contraception options, why you should care about your pelvic floor (plus easy strengthening exercises!), and the illustrated history of feminine hygiene products, from ancient Egypt through for every modern woman.
• A must-have handbook for anyone with a vagina
• Presented in a luxe, cushioned case filled with more than a hundred vibrant illustrations
• Perfect woman-to-woman gift for anyone who is passionate about sexual health, feminism, and learning more about their body, as well as readers of Refinery29 and GOOP
• Add it to the shelf with books like Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski PhD;, WomanCode: Perfect Your Cycle, Amplify Your Fertility, Supercharge Your Sex Drive, and Become a Power Source by Alisa Vitti; and Pussy: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashaue.
With sections on anatomy, periods, hormones, sex, contraception, fertility, hair care, and so much more, this fun-to-read guide helps readers make healthy decisions for their bodies.
Compelling personal essays from a diverse group of luminary figures—including Margaret Cho, Roxane Gay, and Blair Imani—are sprinkled throughout, enriching the pages with beauty, strength, and honesty.
• From OB/GYN Dr. Jennifer Conti and the team behind the beloved Thinx period products
• Dispenses with taboos and misinformation about the female body
• Provides the latest health research in easy-to-digest entries
Advice includes yoga poses to help with PMS and cramping, a cheat sheet for making sense of contraception options, why you should care about your pelvic floor (plus easy strengthening exercises!), and the illustrated history of feminine hygiene products, from ancient Egypt through for every modern woman.
• A must-have handbook for anyone with a vagina
• Presented in a luxe, cushioned case filled with more than a hundred vibrant illustrations
• Perfect woman-to-woman gift for anyone who is passionate about sexual health, feminism, and learning more about their body, as well as readers of Refinery29 and GOOP
• Add it to the shelf with books like Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski PhD;, WomanCode: Perfect Your Cycle, Amplify Your Fertility, Supercharge Your Sex Drive, and Become a Power Source by Alisa Vitti; and Pussy: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashaue.
240 pages, Hardcover
First published August 18, 2020
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April 20, 2020
Welp, I guess I’m not as period positive as I thought— more period neutral. Is that a thing? I think menstruation shouldn’t be shamed and it shouldn’t be the taboo topic it is, but it *is* blood coming from your genitals. It’s bio-hazardous waste, and it should be disposed of properly.
With that in mind, I’m sure you can imagine my shock when a woman proudly writes about the time where, as a child, she’d leave used, bloody pads “on the back of the toilet, on the floor, or in my white canopy bed” because she was a “rebel” and “doesn’t hide anything.” (Imagine a child leaving feces-covered or urine-soaked toilet paper everywhere, and then speaking about it proudly as an adult? NO bodily function should be shamed— they’re natural, vital to our survival as a species, and we can’t stop them— but that doesn’t prevent the fluids or solids from those functions from being unsanitary and needing proper disposal.) The book also mentions free-bleeding, which I’m not a fan of, for reasons stated earlier. In your house? Sure, you do you, but please don’t do it in public where your blood (if it soaks through your clothing and onto things other people will touch) poses a risk to others.
At the end of the period sex segment, they mention how only you know your body and to do what makes *YOU* comfortable, completely ignoring the other party— or parties. They need to be fully willing, too. It’s okay for a partner to not want to engage in sex when blood is involved, for whatever reason. It’s okay for them to feel uncomfortable and to say no because of the blood. No, they’re not shaming you for having a period just for declining and no, it isn’t The Patriarchy™’s fault.
I would’ve liked to go over the modern options for hygiene products and how to use them, including reusable cloth pads that are often overlooked. There’s a spread about the history of period products, but not a list of current options with explanations, pros and cons, and tips on how to choose what’s best for you which I think would’ve been super helpful.
As for positives:
While my childhood was pretty traumatic, I feel very fortunate that I had very sex-positive parents who made sure I knew I could ask them about anything. I also recall having pretty in-depth sex-ed, which makes me feel even luckier— this (unfortunately) isn’t the norm. Although this book didn’t teach me much personally, I’m certain it'll help a lot of people learn more about their bodies and its sexual/reproductive functions.
A couple things that it did teach me, though, was about menopause. As I’m a few decades away from that I never really looked into it, but I now feel like I have a better understanding of the women I love and what they’re going through or have gone through. I love the tips on how to survive it, and I’ll definitely spread the info! :-)
Even though I didn't agree with everything, I think books like The Vagina Book are important and I do recommend reading it.
A big thank you to the publisher, Chronicle Books, for allowing me to read this title in exchange for an honest review.
With that in mind, I’m sure you can imagine my shock when a woman proudly writes about the time where, as a child, she’d leave used, bloody pads “on the back of the toilet, on the floor, or in my white canopy bed” because she was a “rebel” and “doesn’t hide anything.” (Imagine a child leaving feces-covered or urine-soaked toilet paper everywhere, and then speaking about it proudly as an adult? NO bodily function should be shamed— they’re natural, vital to our survival as a species, and we can’t stop them— but that doesn’t prevent the fluids or solids from those functions from being unsanitary and needing proper disposal.) The book also mentions free-bleeding, which I’m not a fan of, for reasons stated earlier. In your house? Sure, you do you, but please don’t do it in public where your blood (if it soaks through your clothing and onto things other people will touch) poses a risk to others.
At the end of the period sex segment, they mention how only you know your body and to do what makes *YOU* comfortable, completely ignoring the other party— or parties. They need to be fully willing, too. It’s okay for a partner to not want to engage in sex when blood is involved, for whatever reason. It’s okay for them to feel uncomfortable and to say no because of the blood. No, they’re not shaming you for having a period just for declining and no, it isn’t The Patriarchy™’s fault.
I would’ve liked to go over the modern options for hygiene products and how to use them, including reusable cloth pads that are often overlooked. There’s a spread about the history of period products, but not a list of current options with explanations, pros and cons, and tips on how to choose what’s best for you which I think would’ve been super helpful.
As for positives:
While my childhood was pretty traumatic, I feel very fortunate that I had very sex-positive parents who made sure I knew I could ask them about anything. I also recall having pretty in-depth sex-ed, which makes me feel even luckier— this (unfortunately) isn’t the norm. Although this book didn’t teach me much personally, I’m certain it'll help a lot of people learn more about their bodies and its sexual/reproductive functions.
A couple things that it did teach me, though, was about menopause. As I’m a few decades away from that I never really looked into it, but I now feel like I have a better understanding of the women I love and what they’re going through or have gone through. I love the tips on how to survive it, and I’ll definitely spread the info! :-)
Even though I didn't agree with everything, I think books like The Vagina Book are important and I do recommend reading it.
A big thank you to the publisher, Chronicle Books, for allowing me to read this title in exchange for an honest review.
November 6, 2020
2.5 stars. This is more of a dabble into vagina health and issues than an informative book. Reducing the font size and going a bit deeper would have been good. Too much telling and not enough explaining why.
April 26, 2020
4⭐️
I really never talked to anyone about my periods. Looking back in horror now I remember lots of embarrassing experiences.
I remembered locking myself in my family bathroom with my twin sister while we struggled to use tampons for the first time before a run with our critical father. We were laughing, then crying because we didn’t know what we were doing.
I didn’t love everything about this but it had some good things. Its a must read for all females who have questions. Vaginal care, periods, sex(birth control), and menopause. Why aren’t we talking about this more??
I am so grateful for the Netgalley ARC from the publisher and all opinions are my own. I have given an honest review.
I really never talked to anyone about my periods. Looking back in horror now I remember lots of embarrassing experiences.
I remembered locking myself in my family bathroom with my twin sister while we struggled to use tampons for the first time before a run with our critical father. We were laughing, then crying because we didn’t know what we were doing.
I didn’t love everything about this but it had some good things. Its a must read for all females who have questions. Vaginal care, periods, sex(birth control), and menopause. Why aren’t we talking about this more??
I am so grateful for the Netgalley ARC from the publisher and all opinions are my own. I have given an honest review.
October 17, 2020
Brilliant!! I am consistently surprised by what I don’t know about my down there! Every time I read a book about it I learn something new. I love this one not only for what it thought me but for the approachable language used, inclusivity and its acceptant attitude towards every little wonderful and cringey thing that happens down there. A must read for everyone with or without a vulva.
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Read more reviews and other bookish content on my blog https://elainehowlin.com
November 26, 2023
This is in my opinion the modern-day women’s version of the American girl doll body book I once read as a pre-pubescent teen.
I appreciate all the tips and tricks.
I appreciate all the tips and tricks.
June 1, 2020
First off, thanks to NetGalley for this ARC, I’ll star off by saying this is a category of books that I love. A category that I truly believe that all women, or those who identify as women need to read. This book is no different, like other books that I’ve read, The Vagina Book, digs even deeper than just the vagina. Dr Jennifer Conti goes beyond the classic anatomy lesson, she speaks about wellness and self care, she speaks about abortion, about pregnancy, about body hair and STI’s. There are stories from a number of women, about periods, pregnancy loss and masturbation. This is a book that should be in school libraries, women need to have all the correct knowledge when it comes to their own bodies.
April 21, 2020
If you or a loved one owns a vagina, BUY THIS BOOK. I was originally skeptical as it is co-authored by a period-product company, imagining the shallow advice and propaganda touting the miracles of their products. ALAS! Expertly written with authentic medical consultation and personal stories, this book is a great combination of fact delivered in a concise, digestible way. The topics range from essential period knowledge to safe sex with external resources and HUGE emphasis on queer expression. TWO EGGS UP.
April 22, 2020
Just wow. This book blew me away. There were some things I knew and so many things I did not know. I loved how this book was laid out with the ability to explore knowledge and testimonials. It also had a lot of professional opinions to help make the learning more believable and relatable. The fact that so many OBGYN contributed to the making of this book just made it so special. Would highly recommend to anyone. Of all ages. I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
April 24, 2020
I have been looking for the perfect book for my teenage daughter. This is the one! I’ve found the ideal companion book.
This covers every topic you could want. From mensuration to hormones. Sexual heath. Even down to shaving.
The topics covered are done in a clear and sensitive way. Done in such a way as to educate and not make judgement over right and wrong.
All teenagers and their moms should have access to this book. Thank you for the ARC. I will definitely be purchasing a copy when released as a reference book.
#thevaginabook #netgalley #jenniferconti
This covers every topic you could want. From mensuration to hormones. Sexual heath. Even down to shaving.
The topics covered are done in a clear and sensitive way. Done in such a way as to educate and not make judgement over right and wrong.
All teenagers and their moms should have access to this book. Thank you for the ARC. I will definitely be purchasing a copy when released as a reference book.
#thevaginabook #netgalley #jenniferconti
June 1, 2020
I’m always on the hunt for a good sex-positive read, and even more so for books I can recommend to others as a crash course or guide to their own bodies. (Especially because you know, sex education in the US is far from comprehensive!) The Vagina Book will certainly make its way onto that list of resources! I was surprised to see so many other reviewers seemed to be put off by Margaret Cho’s foreword - I might be biased because I already enjoy her, but it just seems to speak a bit to how important having a period, body, and sex positive resource like this is. Despite being “written by the makers of Thinx” surprisingly there’s not a single drop of this book that comes across as trying to sell me something. (Unlike some of the feminine-hygiene bran funded sex ed tapes!)
The addition of Daiana Ruiz’s illustration - simple, bright - and inclusive of all sorts of shapes and skin colors, keeps the Vagina Book from feeling too much like you’re reading a stereo manual. Each chapter includes a page or so from other women offering advice (“what would you tell your younger self about birth control?” “What are your favorite ways to get relief during your period?” etc.) and a bit by Dr. Jenn Conti typically answering a question or two mentioned in each section. Again, keeping things light hearted and not too encyclopedia-esque.
But it does function as an encyclopedia of sorts - almost everything under the sun regarding having a vagina is mentioned! From masturbation, to grooming, to anatomy that we weren’t taught in school, the concept of “virginity”, to fertility & even menopause. (Which I rarely see mentioned at all, period!) The last section on the importance of self-care (and the many forms it can come in, form hot baths to therapy!) was great to read - especially because it didn’t focus on the more capitalism-centric aspects of “self care” as a buzzword, and actually got to the root & importance of caring for yourself.
I would happily hand this book off to any teenager I knew that needed an honest resource on the care and keeping of their bodies - and even my peers (I’m in my mid-twenties) I think most people with a vagina could benefit from a book like this - even as someone that considers themselves well versed in sexuality & their own health there were a few things mentioned that I wouldn’t have given a second thought before. Better read in parts though - some of the chapters can seem sort of randomized as they try to cover so much ground. (That’s a minor complaint, I wasn’t really bothered by it reading in one sitting but I can see how others could.)
The Vagina Book sets out to be an “honest, compassionate, and inclusive resource” and for the most part they achieve that. My only complaint with that is that this books phrasing leans heavily on cisgender women and beside a brief mention of LGBTQ identities & intersex people in the section about sex, the concept that people with vaginas (and that have children, and have periods…) aren’t always women wasn’t brought up. So, one inclusivity point was lost of me for that, though the book tries it’s best to be inclusive as far as race & sexuality goes - and that’s always awesome to see.
My only other negative point would be that in a resource that “mostly” manages to be so sex positive (even talking about the importance of sex work decriminalization, never assuming that someone reading the book is monogamous, lots of great - positive points!) immediately after a segment explaining revenge porn, what it is - and how to report it, “What People Can Do To Protect Their Private Images” gets a bit shame-y. The blame shouldn’t be shifted to the victims of revenge porn (“Avoid taking compromising photos - and keep them to yourselves if you do” - paraphrased, but still shit advice, frankly.) and it gave me a bit of whiplash because again - for the most part, this is an incredibly sex-positive resource free of shame on many other topics.
Nobody’s perfect though, and The Vagina Book does a great job for the most part. (I’m just notoriously nitpicky at times.) And in case what’s included isn’t enough, there’s a slew of resources in the back of the book - from more things to read, online resources, and organizations to reach out to & support. It was a quick read for me, but I can see it being something I would refer to & “check back” with as it definitely has great reread value.
Thank you NetGalley for giving me an ARC in return for my honest feedback & review, I’ll be editing this with a link to a “full” review on my blog closer to it’s release date. (August 2020)
The addition of Daiana Ruiz’s illustration - simple, bright - and inclusive of all sorts of shapes and skin colors, keeps the Vagina Book from feeling too much like you’re reading a stereo manual. Each chapter includes a page or so from other women offering advice (“what would you tell your younger self about birth control?” “What are your favorite ways to get relief during your period?” etc.) and a bit by Dr. Jenn Conti typically answering a question or two mentioned in each section. Again, keeping things light hearted and not too encyclopedia-esque.
But it does function as an encyclopedia of sorts - almost everything under the sun regarding having a vagina is mentioned! From masturbation, to grooming, to anatomy that we weren’t taught in school, the concept of “virginity”, to fertility & even menopause. (Which I rarely see mentioned at all, period!) The last section on the importance of self-care (and the many forms it can come in, form hot baths to therapy!) was great to read - especially because it didn’t focus on the more capitalism-centric aspects of “self care” as a buzzword, and actually got to the root & importance of caring for yourself.
I would happily hand this book off to any teenager I knew that needed an honest resource on the care and keeping of their bodies - and even my peers (I’m in my mid-twenties) I think most people with a vagina could benefit from a book like this - even as someone that considers themselves well versed in sexuality & their own health there were a few things mentioned that I wouldn’t have given a second thought before. Better read in parts though - some of the chapters can seem sort of randomized as they try to cover so much ground. (That’s a minor complaint, I wasn’t really bothered by it reading in one sitting but I can see how others could.)
The Vagina Book sets out to be an “honest, compassionate, and inclusive resource” and for the most part they achieve that. My only complaint with that is that this books phrasing leans heavily on cisgender women and beside a brief mention of LGBTQ identities & intersex people in the section about sex, the concept that people with vaginas (and that have children, and have periods…) aren’t always women wasn’t brought up. So, one inclusivity point was lost of me for that, though the book tries it’s best to be inclusive as far as race & sexuality goes - and that’s always awesome to see.
My only other negative point would be that in a resource that “mostly” manages to be so sex positive (even talking about the importance of sex work decriminalization, never assuming that someone reading the book is monogamous, lots of great - positive points!) immediately after a segment explaining revenge porn, what it is - and how to report it, “What People Can Do To Protect Their Private Images” gets a bit shame-y. The blame shouldn’t be shifted to the victims of revenge porn (“Avoid taking compromising photos - and keep them to yourselves if you do” - paraphrased, but still shit advice, frankly.) and it gave me a bit of whiplash because again - for the most part, this is an incredibly sex-positive resource free of shame on many other topics.
Nobody’s perfect though, and The Vagina Book does a great job for the most part. (I’m just notoriously nitpicky at times.) And in case what’s included isn’t enough, there’s a slew of resources in the back of the book - from more things to read, online resources, and organizations to reach out to & support. It was a quick read for me, but I can see it being something I would refer to & “check back” with as it definitely has great reread value.
Thank you NetGalley for giving me an ARC in return for my honest feedback & review, I’ll be editing this with a link to a “full” review on my blog closer to it’s release date. (August 2020)
March 5, 2021
I didn't like the graphic design. Too modern-cold for me, will feel dated fast. And there are no illustrations of the actual vagina setup, or other anatomy.
The info is good, if basic, the essys about various period politics are good. A book to use as a staring point, rather than a period- ha.
The info is good, if basic, the essys about various period politics are good. A book to use as a staring point, rather than a period- ha.
October 1, 2020
Got this to add to my collection for my dream retirement job as a sex educator. Cute layout, good info, but not earth shattering/a little to thinx-ad-y for me.
July 8, 2020
Give this book to every single teenage girl in the world. I wish someone had spoken to me as openly and honest as Conti does in this book. From contraception, periods, safe sex, and anatomy, this book covers everything you have ever questioned or had concerns on. It’s beautifully illustrated and written in a way that educates without any judgment. If I ever have a daughter you’re damn sure I’ll be giving this book to her. Hell, I’m about to be buying this book for every teenage girl in my family.
September 8, 2020
Imagine: I go back to school, study astrophysics, become the world's most experienced astrophysicist, invent the world's first time machine, take this book, go back in time, and shove it in front of every person with a vagina on their thirteenth birthday. I LOVE this book so much. It was absolutely thrilling, which, believe me, is not what I expected to say about a book about vaginas. The amount of information they have included this book makes me giddy and so, so, SO excited for young girls everywhere. Hell, even young adults. Proper, fully-grown adults. I've been on this planet for 25 years, and I learned so much from this book. It's incredibly reaffirming. Every page made me feel immeasurably comfortable by simply reminding me that I am NOT ALONE. We are NOT ALONE. There is an incredible group of people out there that should exist to support one another, and throughout history, we NEVER HAVE. From periods and vaginal health, to sex & contraception and wellness & self-care, this book covers everything you have ever wanted to know. Everything you ever NEEDED to know. Everything you didn't even know you wanted or needed to know. EVERYTHING!
Bonus things that particularly made me happy while reading this INCREDIBLY HELPFUL AND RESOURCEFUL BOOK:
-"we must understand that virginity is an idea formulated eons ago by people concerned with policing bodies with vaginas"
-"we must combat the bullsh*t around virginity and replace it with inclusive, healthy, and medically accurate sex education; we must do this because virginity simply does not exist"
-"if you find you're uncomfortable with some of your desires or their origins, or if there are certain practices that start to overwhelm your life, it's worth taking a look at what's driving you"
-the very concept of cultural orgasms
-the fact that not in a single instance did they reference girls or women (although I know I did, above), but instead PEOPLE WITH VAGINAS
-filmed pornography was invented almost at the same time as film, which means humans are kinky af
-"learning how to ask for, recognize, and give consent requires communication and emotional maturity"
-"the idea that sex is something men try to 'get' and women have to protect against, for example, takes away agency from both parties, and ignores queer identities altogether"
-"there are three parts of a person's gender: body, identity, and expression. All these parts operate independently"
-the fact that they included talking about sex workers and their rights!!!
-this sentence: "opt for slower, low-impact exercise [while on your period] like yoga, Pilates, or walking to the store that's kinda far from your apartment but carries the ice cream you like (it counts, OK?)"
-this sentence, also: "and hey, maybe anyone who thinks they deserve an opinion on your pubes doesn't deserve access to your vagina, just a thought"
-advice on finding a therapist to work on your mental health, which is a huge part of owning a vagina!! (and life, in general)
-of course, like any good non-fiction book, including a list of other reading resources for further information
Things that Did Not Bring Me Joy that I learned:
-reminding me that free healthcare does not exist in Some Parts of the world, and lack of access is often the most debilitating thing when it comes to taking care of yourself
-the fact that I was never once introduced to the concept of a female condom in school
-SIX different American states (Alabama, Louisiana, Mississippi, Oklahoma, South Carolina, and Texas) all have laws that PROHIBIT the mention of homosexual relationships apart from teaching that gay sex is associated with AIDS (particularly horrifying, imho)
-There is some underlying tones when you consider that the same states that try to implement "heartbeat bills" and other similar cutthroat laws are typically the same states that formed the Confederate States in the attempt to prolong slavery
Overall, an EXCELLENT book and resource for absolutely everyone. EVERYONE. I would happily read a book titled "The Penis Book" because everyone should know about human bodies. There is just SO MUCH TO KNOW and SO LITTLE that we learned. Learn it, appreciate it. Love it.
I received an advanced copy of this book from the publisher via Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.
Bonus things that particularly made me happy while reading this INCREDIBLY HELPFUL AND RESOURCEFUL BOOK:
-"we must understand that virginity is an idea formulated eons ago by people concerned with policing bodies with vaginas"
-"we must combat the bullsh*t around virginity and replace it with inclusive, healthy, and medically accurate sex education; we must do this because virginity simply does not exist"
-"if you find you're uncomfortable with some of your desires or their origins, or if there are certain practices that start to overwhelm your life, it's worth taking a look at what's driving you"
-the very concept of cultural orgasms
-the fact that not in a single instance did they reference girls or women (although I know I did, above), but instead PEOPLE WITH VAGINAS
-filmed pornography was invented almost at the same time as film, which means humans are kinky af
-"learning how to ask for, recognize, and give consent requires communication and emotional maturity"
-"the idea that sex is something men try to 'get' and women have to protect against, for example, takes away agency from both parties, and ignores queer identities altogether"
-"there are three parts of a person's gender: body, identity, and expression. All these parts operate independently"
-the fact that they included talking about sex workers and their rights!!!
-this sentence: "opt for slower, low-impact exercise [while on your period] like yoga, Pilates, or walking to the store that's kinda far from your apartment but carries the ice cream you like (it counts, OK?)"
-this sentence, also: "and hey, maybe anyone who thinks they deserve an opinion on your pubes doesn't deserve access to your vagina, just a thought"
-advice on finding a therapist to work on your mental health, which is a huge part of owning a vagina!! (and life, in general)
-of course, like any good non-fiction book, including a list of other reading resources for further information
Things that Did Not Bring Me Joy that I learned:
-reminding me that free healthcare does not exist in Some Parts of the world, and lack of access is often the most debilitating thing when it comes to taking care of yourself
-the fact that I was never once introduced to the concept of a female condom in school
-SIX different American states (Alabama, Louisiana, Mississippi, Oklahoma, South Carolina, and Texas) all have laws that PROHIBIT the mention of homosexual relationships apart from teaching that gay sex is associated with AIDS (particularly horrifying, imho)
-There is some underlying tones when you consider that the same states that try to implement "heartbeat bills" and other similar cutthroat laws are typically the same states that formed the Confederate States in the attempt to prolong slavery
Overall, an EXCELLENT book and resource for absolutely everyone. EVERYONE. I would happily read a book titled "The Penis Book" because everyone should know about human bodies. There is just SO MUCH TO KNOW and SO LITTLE that we learned. Learn it, appreciate it. Love it.
I received an advanced copy of this book from the publisher via Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.
June 27, 2020
OMG !!! I wish I read this book when I was a teen (I'm 36).
Let's say it out loud : VAGINA! All women have one, why do we feel ashamed or embarrassed when we're having any type of issue or discomfort,
I think everyone should read this... even if you don't have one, get educated!
A natural hidden body part. Yes, it can leak weird sticky liquid at times (not talking red) or smell...
It's natural, don't be ashamed!
So many questions I never dared to ask a doctor, so much shame...
Well written, interesting, full of info... not boring!
Thank you for allowing me access to this book. This is my honest review. All opinions are my own.
Let's say it out loud : VAGINA! All women have one, why do we feel ashamed or embarrassed when we're having any type of issue or discomfort,
I think everyone should read this... even if you don't have one, get educated!
A natural hidden body part. Yes, it can leak weird sticky liquid at times (not talking red) or smell...
It's natural, don't be ashamed!
So many questions I never dared to ask a doctor, so much shame...
Well written, interesting, full of info... not boring!
Thank you for allowing me access to this book. This is my honest review. All opinions are my own.
October 9, 2020
I won this book in a Goodreads giveaway in exchange for an honest review.
I'm not sure of the intended audience for this book. As a 43 year old woman with 4 children, there is little to nothing in this book that I didn't already know. I was interested in the book for the menopause section and period yoga relief positions/movements, and even for those topics, I felt like there was very limited info (very underwhelming). There is some basic anatomy and menstruation info which would be targeted towards young girls, but then also sections on sexual positions, sex on your period, sex toys, "queer" sex and sex workers that I think would be a bit "advanced" for 6th-7th grade girls who are just hitting puberty and learning to figure out their bodies. I guess I feel like the best target age would be maybe 16-25.
I feel like this is a book that attempts to hit on way too many topics, without really giving much in depth information on any of them. It more or less skims the surface on everything. Here's an example. The shaving section is maybe 2-3 pages and it basically says this - use a men's razor and shave in the direction of hair growth or you can wax. But if you wax, use a professional. Leave any ingrown hairs alone. The end. Literally this is all the info it says and every topic is like this.
It is also devoid of real, factual information but is more or less a book of opinion and personal experiences. Issues like sex working (prostitution, escorting etc), abortion, curriculum of sex ed classes etc are discussed but all presented as one sided - clearly pushing an agenda rather than giving out factual info and encompassing viewpoints on the topics as a whole.
I think there have got to be better books out there on the individual topics, rather than this jack if all trades, master of none book that provides limited information.
I'm not sure of the intended audience for this book. As a 43 year old woman with 4 children, there is little to nothing in this book that I didn't already know. I was interested in the book for the menopause section and period yoga relief positions/movements, and even for those topics, I felt like there was very limited info (very underwhelming). There is some basic anatomy and menstruation info which would be targeted towards young girls, but then also sections on sexual positions, sex on your period, sex toys, "queer" sex and sex workers that I think would be a bit "advanced" for 6th-7th grade girls who are just hitting puberty and learning to figure out their bodies. I guess I feel like the best target age would be maybe 16-25.
I feel like this is a book that attempts to hit on way too many topics, without really giving much in depth information on any of them. It more or less skims the surface on everything. Here's an example. The shaving section is maybe 2-3 pages and it basically says this - use a men's razor and shave in the direction of hair growth or you can wax. But if you wax, use a professional. Leave any ingrown hairs alone. The end. Literally this is all the info it says and every topic is like this.
It is also devoid of real, factual information but is more or less a book of opinion and personal experiences. Issues like sex working (prostitution, escorting etc), abortion, curriculum of sex ed classes etc are discussed but all presented as one sided - clearly pushing an agenda rather than giving out factual info and encompassing viewpoints on the topics as a whole.
I think there have got to be better books out there on the individual topics, rather than this jack if all trades, master of none book that provides limited information.
June 25, 2024
The Vagina Book: An Owner's Manual for Taking Care of Your Down There by Thinx and Jenn Conti is like the IKEA manual for your lady bits—minus the confusing diagrams and Swedish meatballs. This gem of a book doesn't just stick to the basics; it dives right into the deep end of the vagina pool with the finesse of a synchronized swimmer.
First off, the tone of this book is so refreshingly fun that you'll almost forget you're reading a manual about your nether regions. Jenn Conti and the folks at Thinx manage to strike the perfect balance between informative and entertaining, like getting a biology lesson from your hilariously quirky best friend who also happens to have a medical degree.
The book covers everything from anatomy and menstruation to sex and self-care, and it does so with a mix of humor, science, and a dash of feminist flair. It's like if Bill Nye and Leslie Knope teamed up to give you the lowdown on your downtown. You'll learn why vaginas are basically superheroes, capable of cleaning themselves and even stretching to accommodate a small human. Talk about multi-talented.
What I particularly love is how the book addresses topics that are often swept under the rug or spoken about in hushed tones. It tackles the awkward stuff head-on, making you feel like it's totally okay to ask about that weird discharge or the best way to handle a yeast infection. It’s like the authors are holding your hand through the labyrinth of lady parts, reassuring you that whatever you're experiencing is perfectly normal.
And let’s not forget the illustrations. They're not just there for decoration; they genuinely help demystify the complex workings of the vagina. Who knew that learning about your own anatomy could be so visually appealing? It’s like flipping through a really cool, informative comic book.
In conclusion, The Vagina Book is a must-read for anyone with a vagina, anyone who loves someone with a vagina, or anyone who's just curious about the magical world of vaginas. It’s empowering, educational, and an absolute riot to read. Plus, it's the perfect coffee table book for sparking interesting conversations. Just be prepared for your guests to start oversharing about their own vaginal escapades.
First off, the tone of this book is so refreshingly fun that you'll almost forget you're reading a manual about your nether regions. Jenn Conti and the folks at Thinx manage to strike the perfect balance between informative and entertaining, like getting a biology lesson from your hilariously quirky best friend who also happens to have a medical degree.
The book covers everything from anatomy and menstruation to sex and self-care, and it does so with a mix of humor, science, and a dash of feminist flair. It's like if Bill Nye and Leslie Knope teamed up to give you the lowdown on your downtown. You'll learn why vaginas are basically superheroes, capable of cleaning themselves and even stretching to accommodate a small human. Talk about multi-talented.
What I particularly love is how the book addresses topics that are often swept under the rug or spoken about in hushed tones. It tackles the awkward stuff head-on, making you feel like it's totally okay to ask about that weird discharge or the best way to handle a yeast infection. It’s like the authors are holding your hand through the labyrinth of lady parts, reassuring you that whatever you're experiencing is perfectly normal.
And let’s not forget the illustrations. They're not just there for decoration; they genuinely help demystify the complex workings of the vagina. Who knew that learning about your own anatomy could be so visually appealing? It’s like flipping through a really cool, informative comic book.
In conclusion, The Vagina Book is a must-read for anyone with a vagina, anyone who loves someone with a vagina, or anyone who's just curious about the magical world of vaginas. It’s empowering, educational, and an absolute riot to read. Plus, it's the perfect coffee table book for sparking interesting conversations. Just be prepared for your guests to start oversharing about their own vaginal escapades.
June 22, 2020
It's been so long since I've accepted an ARC for review, so I figured a book about vaginas written by a company selling special period underwear was as good a choice as any for diving back into book reviews. Although I wasn't originally familiar with Thinx, a quick browse of the company's website definitely opened my curiosity, although I'm not sure how likely I am to try these... unique.... products in the near future.
Anyways, I initially thought The Vagina Book might be intended for much younger readers, like the awkward books your mother pushes under the door around age 11 that awkwardly discuss arm pit hair and picking your first maxi pads .... but a quick flip to the chapter showing the best positions for period sex quickly changed my mind on the intended audience. I assume this book is more targeted to a slightly older crowd, mostly seeking validation and inclusivity more so than novel facts, as I think the personal stories that relate to the audience are probably a much bigger selling point than the facts (none of which are particularly new or earth-shattering). It was a nice touch to have authentically candid stories from well-known voices like YouTuber Ingrid Nilsen, who related her struggles balancing her emotional health during her menstrual cycle, making a familiar topic feel more relatable and a little less taboo.
The book focuses a lot on inclusivity of size, gender, and sexuality, which ventured into a little more politics than I was expecting. Again, there's probably nothing that you've never heard somewhere else here, but it's convenient and easy to have such an easily accessible collection of voices speaking on such a wide topic of women's issues.
*I did receive an ARC copy of this book for the purposes of providing an honest review. The manner in which the work was received did not influence my thoughts or opinions on the book.
Anyways, I initially thought The Vagina Book might be intended for much younger readers, like the awkward books your mother pushes under the door around age 11 that awkwardly discuss arm pit hair and picking your first maxi pads .... but a quick flip to the chapter showing the best positions for period sex quickly changed my mind on the intended audience. I assume this book is more targeted to a slightly older crowd, mostly seeking validation and inclusivity more so than novel facts, as I think the personal stories that relate to the audience are probably a much bigger selling point than the facts (none of which are particularly new or earth-shattering). It was a nice touch to have authentically candid stories from well-known voices like YouTuber Ingrid Nilsen, who related her struggles balancing her emotional health during her menstrual cycle, making a familiar topic feel more relatable and a little less taboo.
The book focuses a lot on inclusivity of size, gender, and sexuality, which ventured into a little more politics than I was expecting. Again, there's probably nothing that you've never heard somewhere else here, but it's convenient and easy to have such an easily accessible collection of voices speaking on such a wide topic of women's issues.
*I did receive an ARC copy of this book for the purposes of providing an honest review. The manner in which the work was received did not influence my thoughts or opinions on the book.
September 10, 2022
Hi,
I hope all is progressing well.
The Vagina Book: An Owner's Manual for Taking Care of Your Down There by The Thinx Inc. Team, Dr. Jenn Conti, MD, and Daiana Ruiz (Illustrator) is an insightful text about healthily approaching a vagina in relation to a broader spectrum of better health connecting to as well as branching from a woman. While browsing Barnes and Noble, I find the book in an art section before reserving the text then picking it up a day after the reservation expiration to find it, with the help of an employee, in a health section. I like reading a book of the sort because I think it's important to be cognizant of a woman's body/a body one might want to care more about, and I like to have a book of the sort in my library of books so a woman that decides to spend time with me may learn a bit of herself (if she doesn't already know information I may already/have available) especially/particularly when browsing my library of books. I find the text to be very informative of menstruation which I have a deeper respect for—through better understanding—now. I find certain aspects of the text can/need to be a lot clearer especially regarding human development as well as sexual communication boundaries. I think the style of the book overall between textures of the cover and pages, illustrations, and font styles makes the book like an adult-child-friendly book.
Onward and Upward,
Kevin Dufresne
www.Piatures.com
IG: @Dufreshest
I hope all is progressing well.
The Vagina Book: An Owner's Manual for Taking Care of Your Down There by The Thinx Inc. Team, Dr. Jenn Conti, MD, and Daiana Ruiz (Illustrator) is an insightful text about healthily approaching a vagina in relation to a broader spectrum of better health connecting to as well as branching from a woman. While browsing Barnes and Noble, I find the book in an art section before reserving the text then picking it up a day after the reservation expiration to find it, with the help of an employee, in a health section. I like reading a book of the sort because I think it's important to be cognizant of a woman's body/a body one might want to care more about, and I like to have a book of the sort in my library of books so a woman that decides to spend time with me may learn a bit of herself (if she doesn't already know information I may already/have available) especially/particularly when browsing my library of books. I find the text to be very informative of menstruation which I have a deeper respect for—through better understanding—now. I find certain aspects of the text can/need to be a lot clearer especially regarding human development as well as sexual communication boundaries. I think the style of the book overall between textures of the cover and pages, illustrations, and font styles makes the book like an adult-child-friendly book.
Onward and Upward,
Kevin Dufresne
www.Piatures.com
IG: @Dufreshest
April 24, 2020
How to begin with? this book blew my mind, I wish my younger self have had read something like this.
I consider myself like one of the lucky ones, I had a mom who explained me what sex, periods, cramps were; but reading this in my mid twenties there were so many things I didn't knew. Things that women in my family didn't teach me because, simply, they didn´t knew.
My mother comes from a poor-ish farm family (in a latin american country), the fist time she saw a tampon asked her mother what it was and was hitted for touching "indecent things". The fist time she had her period cryied like crazy because she tought she was dying, no one had ever explained her what menstruation was.
And if you ask my grandmother why she was like this, you get another sadly answer, it was the only way she knew how to react. She hasnt had any sexual education either.
So for me, this kind of book are precious.
Every girl, woman, grandma, should read it, mens too!
P.D: I was shock by the Plan B fact, Consider that I am not in the weight range it covers it is good that I don't have any kids yet
I consider myself like one of the lucky ones, I had a mom who explained me what sex, periods, cramps were; but reading this in my mid twenties there were so many things I didn't knew. Things that women in my family didn't teach me because, simply, they didn´t knew.
My mother comes from a poor-ish farm family (in a latin american country), the fist time she saw a tampon asked her mother what it was and was hitted for touching "indecent things". The fist time she had her period cryied like crazy because she tought she was dying, no one had ever explained her what menstruation was.
And if you ask my grandmother why she was like this, you get another sadly answer, it was the only way she knew how to react. She hasnt had any sexual education either.
So for me, this kind of book are precious.
Every girl, woman, grandma, should read it, mens too!
P.D: I was shock by the Plan B fact, Consider that I am not in the weight range it covers it is good that I don't have any kids yet
August 27, 2020
I won a copy of this book in a Goodreads Giveaway. I didn't originally realize that it was by Thinx, and when I saw that, let's just say that expected this book to be one long ad for their products. When it showed up and I started reading it, I was pleasantly surprised. It's a highly informative book that would be absolutely perfect for teenagers (certainly it's far more informative and way more comprehensive than anything I ever got in Health class way back in the day). There's very little mention of Thinx products overall, which honestly makes me think more of the company. It appears as though they're genuinely trying to educate women and teens about physiology, and they do it in a manner that's informative without being technical. I'm not a fan of the art style they chose, and I'm not a fan of the occasional red background pages that cropped up - it made reading those pages very difficult - my eyes got quite angry with it - but those are the only two things I could say it has going against it.
September 29, 2020
I honestly wish I had this book when I was a teenager. The Vagina Book: An Owner's Manual for Taking Care of Your Down There, by Thinx with Dr Jennifer Conti is an in-depth text with no-nonsense explanations of the Vagina, Sexual Health, Hormones - everything to do with the reproductive system. Margaret Cho provides a relatable, yet hilarious introduction to this beautiful text, explaining (without embarrassment) her own experiences learning about the Female Reproductive Organs.
In my honest opinion, this is a brilliant book that I'd hope to give to my Teenage Daughter, one day.
I received a complementary copy of this book from the publisher and Netgalley, in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own.
In my honest opinion, this is a brilliant book that I'd hope to give to my Teenage Daughter, one day.
I received a complementary copy of this book from the publisher and Netgalley, in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own.
July 24, 2023
It's a good starting point for people who are interested in learning more about their vaginas, but is far from comprehensive. There are some exerpts I would show friends with questions, but the book overall had some points where it could not escape that it is authored by a brand. There was also one section written by someone who bragged about not throwing away used pads as a child and instead leaving them behind the toilet or in the bed canopy because she was a "rebel", it doesn't feel as though it is promoting proper hygiene for preteens who might be interested in this book in that section.
Overall good, minus that one essay and the occasional thinx product inserts. It does in the end advise checking out Girl Sex 101 which I'd also advise, I'd argue it a better starting point.
Overall good, minus that one essay and the occasional thinx product inserts. It does in the end advise checking out Girl Sex 101 which I'd also advise, I'd argue it a better starting point.
April 21, 2020
The Vagina Book covers pretty much everything about your vagina, obviously. Starting with your period, orgasm, sex diseases, menopause, contraception, self-care, etc. Also breaking out the myths about the period, or virginity, the woman related. It suggests various yoga positions to reduce the period pain.
It has excerpts from other people about their pain during the period or opinion about sex ed. The illustrations are nice and bold, I like it. It would be nice to have an illustration as well for the vagina in the chapter that explains about vagina part. (in the book it is explained only through text).
It has excerpts from other people about their pain during the period or opinion about sex ed. The illustrations are nice and bold, I like it. It would be nice to have an illustration as well for the vagina in the chapter that explains about vagina part. (in the book it is explained only through text).
June 12, 2020
- Thanks Netgalley for the ARC -
Ok, so it was an enjoyable read with some very important information. Not groundbreaking though. I guess it is important for teens to have access to this book but as a 28 yo woman I was like "yeah ok I know that".
Probably because I was very lucky? Very not American?
Who knows!
I also think that it can be a good read for guys. They deserve to know what's going on too!
Anyway, I think it deserves a read anyway even though you think you know it all!
Plus it is funny, so yeah no reason at all not to read it.
Ok, so it was an enjoyable read with some very important information. Not groundbreaking though. I guess it is important for teens to have access to this book but as a 28 yo woman I was like "yeah ok I know that".
Probably because I was very lucky? Very not American?
Who knows!
I also think that it can be a good read for guys. They deserve to know what's going on too!
Anyway, I think it deserves a read anyway even though you think you know it all!
Plus it is funny, so yeah no reason at all not to read it.
October 16, 2020
The Vagina Book is a book perfect for any young women to be informed about not only their bodies but also other aspect of women hood from mental health to periods. It features facts and stories from a range of different people related to topics from sex education in school to tips for reducing the effects of PMS.
The only thing confusing I found with this book is because it's sponsored by Thinx period undies, I don't know if its a promotional item or just a book thats sponsored.
Thanks to Netgalley.com and Chronicle Books for my complimentary eARC copy.
The only thing confusing I found with this book is because it's sponsored by Thinx period undies, I don't know if its a promotional item or just a book thats sponsored.
Thanks to Netgalley.com and Chronicle Books for my complimentary eARC copy.
December 22, 2020
This was honestly quite an interesting book. The title caught my eye originally and upin flipping through the book I was happy to notice that most of the passages only took up two or three pages, making this book easy to consume in many small sittings. It was also broken down into 4 chapters which is how I read it.
I liked the various types of content that was included, from articles and reflections to quick quotes from various people.
This was a quick easy read and quite honestly I would probably recommend it.
I liked the various types of content that was included, from articles and reflections to quick quotes from various people.
This was a quick easy read and quite honestly I would probably recommend it.
September 24, 2021
The authors and contributors did a great job at presenting a variety of viewpoints from different backgrounds and ethnicities.
While I originally thought the book would be more about care for and things to know about the vagina/female sex organs, I was pleasantly surprised to get also get a cultural history as well.
The disappointment for me was that sources were not cited. To have contributing doctors and women of such academic and cultural stature and experience, I was left surprised that proper citation of sources of knowledge were omitted.
While I originally thought the book would be more about care for and things to know about the vagina/female sex organs, I was pleasantly surprised to get also get a cultural history as well.
The disappointment for me was that sources were not cited. To have contributing doctors and women of such academic and cultural stature and experience, I was left surprised that proper citation of sources of knowledge were omitted.
April 21, 2020
This book should be a must read for anyone with a vagina. There is so much good information in this book about periods, sex, ob gyn, etc. There's a lot of facts that often women are afraid or ashamed to ask about. Even though it is from Thinx, they do not push any agenda for their products other than mentioning what it is during a section describing products to be used for your period.
I received a free copy of this book from Netflix
I received a free copy of this book from Netflix
April 21, 2020
Can I say that I love the art in this book? The drawings make this a light read and for a topic that needs more attention, time and seriousness, this had bits and pieces that I could relate to regarding the vagina, proper menstrual health and hygiene.
There were some examples shared in or stories here that were disgusting- like the rebel leaving used pads on the bathroom floor, that's not cool at all.
All in all, it is a good read, thanks Netgalley for the eARC.
There were some examples shared in or stories here that were disgusting- like the rebel leaving used pads on the bathroom floor, that's not cool at all.
All in all, it is a good read, thanks Netgalley for the eARC.
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