SHE ASKED FOR WHY SMART WOMEN PUT UP WITH VIOLENT MEN If her husband had become violent before their wedding, Heather surely would have left him immediately. But, instead, the nightmare came on gradually, almost imperceptibly. Heather realized something wasn't right, but kept trying to make it work. She always kept the focus on If only she could be prettier, more fun, a better cook, then John would love her. When the beatings began, Heather continued to blame herself for her husband’s unhappiness, his excessive drinking, and not coming home at night. She continued to believe that if she changed, maybe he would change and her friends and family would see him for the man she loved and married—not the abusive bully they encouraged her to leave. It is not until tragedy strikes that Heather is forced to make decisions for the first time, just as a dark, criminal secret from her childhood mysteriously surfaces. Heather must choose between the comforts of allowing others to lead her, or learn how to regain control of her own life.
Love this author. I have read three of her books now and can't wait to read the last title available. I have a few friends who have suffered abuse in their relationships. The author does a good job of reflecting the slow crossing of that line of abuse, to the point of out of control behavior. It definitely makes you realize that there is life after all this horror, and getting better makes your life and other relationships take on new meaning. Highly recommended.