I really wanted to like this.
It's never good to start out a review that way, is it?
When I think of reading a romance novel, I think of maybe 2, 3, max 4 sex scenes. Little snippets of hot action in between, maybe, stolen kisses, a furtive grope, or a "fade to black" moment in between chapters.
There was... way too much sex in this book.
I'm kinky, poly, and queer. I really really wanted this book to be the one I could excitedly show my friends and go "Look! Kinky poly queer romance novel! It's us!!!" But I can't in good faith tell them to read this, because it doesn't feel like a romance novel. It even had two characters that were nonwhite, one character that was openly described as plus-size and sexy, and depictions of the struggles that queer youth go through. The ingredients for "oh, you don't see this very often" in a romance novel were all there, and I was excited for that. I actually quite enjoyed the backstories.
But overall it felt like erotica with some sort of side plot.
And erotica is great! And good! And an excellent genre! But this is not billed as erotica, not structured as one, but that's what it eventually became. I started flipping through entire sex scenes near the end, because it just got so repetitive that they would have sex so often. I get it. With 3 characters doing sexy things in the book, there's a lot of sex. But this just got to be at least 70-80% of the book, it felt like.
It's far easier to find poly, kinky, queer erotica, probably because writing a sex scene doesn't require the kind of emotional leverage and know-how of writing in-depth poly and queer relationships. You've got a few more hands and elbows to manage in writing poly erotica, sure, but the parts in the book that hinted at the kind of structuring a poly book needs (such as addressing jealousy in seeing your partner with other partners, who does what during alone time, if that's even a reasonable request, etc) were quickly funneled into a sex scene. I distinctly remember a part where two characters were discussing their painful pasts, and it almost got to a good deep point of discussion, but then boom! Sidetracked by sex.
If you are looking for queer kinky poly erotica, this is definitely a book to check out. If you want your romance stories with occasional spicy scenes, you may spend some time flipping through this book to pass over the sex scenes.