What can I say about this absolutely beautiful book? For those of you who know me, I really don't love non-fiction. It really has to be special. This one has been on my list for a while, and I have felt called to it. This turned out to be the perfect time.
Yes, I saw that it had an "E" it the title which fit the challenge this month. But I have been thinking a lot about the changing relationships in my family, and about current and anticipatory grief. I just felt like I wanted to read something with values and life lessons. And this was chock full of that. Plus, our own Jenna Bush Hager is something of a reader's reader. She runs a nationwide bookclub, and is an American treasure. I sort of wanted to hear what she has learned over her life, and take something of that in. Admittedly, I also wanted to hear about a time where we could be proud of our presidential figures and a time where politicians stood for families and values. Watching all the recent divisiveness and negativity, (coming really from one disgusting direction that really colors the whole sea of our American Political Climate) I really wanted to see and remember a more wholesome and pure time. And I also admit I thought it would be nice to hear it from the Republican side, so we can remind ourselves that there is more than the current filth and slime we see. That was Jenna's hope too, not just to present her family, all of it and from every side, known and unknown, but that in the parts of her family that were political figures, that we see them the way she does. Which is beautiful. My knowledge of her father "Dubya" and mother comes from the completely fictional perspective American Wife by Curtis Sittenfeld, but also from one of my favorite non-fiction books, How's Your Faith by David Gregory. I think these days, its not about differing politics anymore. Its about figuring out how even if how to get there or how to think about it is different, we need to return to a time where we can trust that all of the candidates are coming from love and from a desire to do good, and import the values they live by as guides for how we think about progress and help and establishing a fair and beautiful country for all. Reading this re-established the history of that premise for me, but also gave me something I was really seeking. A beautiful book about the values that are passed between grandparents, parents, siblings, friends, how we raise children and think about the world. Jenna's family came from love. They were not perfect, but they were perfect together. They prized their family and values over everything. That was how they lived in every way that each of the individuals comprised in the book did what their calling was to do. And it was simply beautiful. It brought me every wholesome feeling I desired. I laughed, I cried, I related, and I felt. That is what reading and shared experience is - we are supposed to be moved. There is a right timing for everything, and that is what the title was supposed to convey. So this was my right timing for me to share a little bit with the Bush and Hager family, and Laura's parents as well. Thank you for sharing them with us. I do see them as you do - you got your wish. And it seems like I got mine.