I love the narrator, also a first time for me listening to her; I looove the accent, Australian (?) Idk as nobody says “mate” and that’s my only clue to an Australian 😁
I will start with the secondary characters: Kat is for Sam what every funny and witty gay guy is for every girl (straight or not) in good movies - I loved her and their friendship, hilarious, honest, open, everything one could wish in a friendship. Every relationship where I can freely use swear words as a love language is my ideal type of friendship!
I didn’t know anything about “melbournians”, not even that Australians from Melbourne are called that, if that’s true KJ 🤨, as I never been to Australia myself nor have I met an Australian in person actually now that I think about it, but mate (to you all Australian out there), if you are half as funny as Sam and Kat, I sure need some of you as my future best friends.
About the author and the book in general: KJ is a new author to me and “Coming home” is the first book from her that I read. I love her writing style and humor, both are... slightly subtle and different, good different. It reminds me of London and Florence, both due to the cultural differences and also because of a slightly slowly rhythm in the flow of living despite busy work and lives of the MCs. This is a weird sentence, but it’s because this book is.. different. And because I am kind of weird, it’s ok, judge away, I love my weirdness 😁. This is turning into a tourism guide, so I should focus on the book itself, but the book was for me different (still good different 😁) from other books in this genre I have read / listened to until now. As mentioned above, the book also presents a very exciting and interesting subject to me personally: cultural psychology. Again, in a very funny way. When Sam meets “enormous guy 1 and 2” and asks them not to kill her... I loved that whole scene and I could definitely see it happening in real life between people from different cultures.
About the MCs: I have seen some other reviews where both the book and specifically the relationship between Abigail and Sam were criticized because it was supposedly at first, lacking and then evolving way too fast between the two women. I must say, I disagree completely with this assessment: first of all, the story is told from Sam’s POV as it also starts with her getting the gig as Grace’s tutor. So we don’t get to be inside Abby’s head. But at the same time, Abby is both quite touchy-feely with Sam from their first meeting and we are also told, Sam wonders if they still talk about “the pet rock” or... well, something else in their first conversation. So, subtle it’s true, but imo, we are shown Abby’s interest in Sam from the moment they meet too. They also directly flirt with each other when talking just the two of them from the beginning.
And also, it would be totally understandable that Abby won’t just jump all over Sam, she is busy and also super famous which explains why she has to get to know and trust a person before opening up, which all in all, it’s just sound advice for all of us, famous or not 😁.
I love Sam. She is so funny, even when she doesn’t know she is. Maybe a defense mechanism as Abby remarks the very first time they talk alone, but it makes Sam a positive and open person, which I really like. Aside from the fact that Sam likes people, which I definitely do NOT identify with 😁, I recognize myself in Sam: I too make important decisions after saying “fuck it!” 😎😁🤣
And Abby, well, she has been written exceptionally well for who she is supposed to be: she is this super famous person, sexy, beautiful, slightly guarded. But at the same time she shows Sam, she is “just like the rest of us”. Their chemistry is off the charts in my opinion. The way they look at each other when the other doesn’t notice, the small physical touches between them, the considerations they show for each other with small gifts / gestures and similar, their flirting through out every one of their conversations... even in front of Grace (i.e. the talk about the “page corners folderer”, which had me both in tears of laughter and slightly turned on 😁). The fact that their relationship evolves reaaalllyy slowly physically made the whole story much more exciting. For me everything was really sensual, erotic and slightly sexuality frustrating 😁. These are two people, falling in love, yet not knowing how their relationship would work and therefore not jumping into things as not to hurt each other. Plus there’s a kid they both have to and do consider.
This book was very.. zen for me. When I began listening to it, I thought I would find it annoying because both the narrator and the story itself was way too slow for me. I am not a very slow physically nor patient person, but I must say, both these things - the narrator and the story itself were just perfect 👌. Besides the zen factor, this book is one that has tugged at my own heart strings.. something I haven’t experienced in a while... It tore me apart and put me back together... It made me hear and feel the song “Hotel Sayre” from “The great Gatsby” as a background...
This ended up being quite a lengthy review, but this book has been... different, good different 😁😊