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Irrfan Khan: The Man, The Dreamer, The Star
An actor whose eyes narrate a sea of stories.
Irrfan Khan is a gentle dreamer with arresting eyes, a towering presence and an illustrious filmography. Most of us know the man only through the characters that he has played: Roohdaar in Haider, Maqbool in the eponymous film, Rana in Piku, Saajan in The Lunchbox, and of course, Ashoke in The Namesake. Today, these characters have made him a recognized name around the world.
Irrfan Khan is an intimate and meticulously researched account of this refreshingly unique and unconventional Indian icon. Drawn from personal interviews and told through many voices, Aseem Chhabra traces Irrfan’s personal and artistic life in all its many shades. Rich in detail and peppered with anecdotes, it is a fascinating look at the life and work of the actor that begins in a small household in Rajasthan and culminates in his face gazing down from billboards in Hollywood. It explores some of his greatest performances that have shown India and the world what cinema can do.
At the heart of this story, however, is a man, possibly the finest actor of his generation, his passion for the craft of acting and his love for unusual characters.
Irrfan Khan is a gentle dreamer with arresting eyes, a towering presence and an illustrious filmography. Most of us know the man only through the characters that he has played: Roohdaar in Haider, Maqbool in the eponymous film, Rana in Piku, Saajan in The Lunchbox, and of course, Ashoke in The Namesake. Today, these characters have made him a recognized name around the world.
Irrfan Khan is an intimate and meticulously researched account of this refreshingly unique and unconventional Indian icon. Drawn from personal interviews and told through many voices, Aseem Chhabra traces Irrfan’s personal and artistic life in all its many shades. Rich in detail and peppered with anecdotes, it is a fascinating look at the life and work of the actor that begins in a small household in Rajasthan and culminates in his face gazing down from billboards in Hollywood. It explores some of his greatest performances that have shown India and the world what cinema can do.
At the heart of this story, however, is a man, possibly the finest actor of his generation, his passion for the craft of acting and his love for unusual characters.
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Published January 1, 2020
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September 7, 2025
I enjoyed reading about the life of Mr. Khan. I learned about his early years in India and how he pursued his dream to work in the film industry. Sad to learn of the passing of his father at a tender age, and then he himself passed too early at age 53. RIP. I hope Irfan made his peace with God before his passing, as it states in his early life that he strayed from his faith. I only watched this actor's work in Hollywood movies and did not see any of his work in Bollywood. I really like his work. It will be interesting to follow his son (who is now 26) and what he accomplishes in the entertainment industry. So far, it looks like his son (Babil) is probably making Dad proud. Overall, a short, easy read of about 200 pages.
February 19, 2020
Irrfan Khan: The Man, The Dreamer, The Star by Aseem Chhabra captures the career growth of one of the finest actors who has left an indelible mark both in Indian as well as global cinema. It truly gave me immense pleasure to dig into his life and get valuable chunks of information surrounding this man of humility. I believe that a man who lives, day in and day out, with a dream definitely succeeds. Irrfan Khan proved this to me :)
Right from his early days in Jaipur to joining NSD, Delhi, Irrfan never let go of his ambitions. He waited, persisted, and eventually landed into a place he desired forever. And even after foraying into glam and glitz of the Bollywood, he kept his humanity and simplicity intact. Throughout the book, the author Aseem has narrated the incidents people shared with recounting their encounters with Irrfan. It was pleasant to read about how Irrfan gave his all to his art, how his arresting eyes said a lot more than words, how passionate he was toward his career, and even more committed to his work ethics. The book traces his journey in the theatre, television, Bollywood and then, Hollywood. It was an amazing experience to get to know this star so closely.
The book covers some of his finest performances in a detailed manner. The author's research is visible in the way the book brings out the personality Irrfan is. I am more drawn toward watching his movies now especially The Namesake as this book talks it beautifully.
The author's play with words made it possible for me to traverse through a pool of factual content. The narrative, though was descriptive, yet didn't give me a dull moment. I guess everyone, regardless of one's interest in movies, would enjoy reading about Irrfan. Although I would have liked the book more if I could get a clearer glimpse of Irrfan's personal life nevertheless, this one did take e through his professional life wonderfully.
Right from his early days in Jaipur to joining NSD, Delhi, Irrfan never let go of his ambitions. He waited, persisted, and eventually landed into a place he desired forever. And even after foraying into glam and glitz of the Bollywood, he kept his humanity and simplicity intact. Throughout the book, the author Aseem has narrated the incidents people shared with recounting their encounters with Irrfan. It was pleasant to read about how Irrfan gave his all to his art, how his arresting eyes said a lot more than words, how passionate he was toward his career, and even more committed to his work ethics. The book traces his journey in the theatre, television, Bollywood and then, Hollywood. It was an amazing experience to get to know this star so closely.
The book covers some of his finest performances in a detailed manner. The author's research is visible in the way the book brings out the personality Irrfan is. I am more drawn toward watching his movies now especially The Namesake as this book talks it beautifully.
The author's play with words made it possible for me to traverse through a pool of factual content. The narrative, though was descriptive, yet didn't give me a dull moment. I guess everyone, regardless of one's interest in movies, would enjoy reading about Irrfan. Although I would have liked the book more if I could get a clearer glimpse of Irrfan's personal life nevertheless, this one did take e through his professional life wonderfully.
February 14, 2020
Actual Rating - 3.6/5
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| Book Review | Irrfan Khan - The Man, The Dreamer, The Star.
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"He's a real reader. On the set he was always with a book. And it was not a coincidence. It was about how smart he is. He could perceive from what we were doing and what the tone of the movie was going to be. I think books are very helpful in capturing the tone of the film, even more so than movies. In fact, I don't want to be watching a movie while I am making one". - Ritesh.
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The first time I noticed Irrfan Khan was for his acting in The Lunchbox. It was a beautifully curated movie in which Irrfan glows like a firefly. I remember feeling forlorn while watching it because his loneliness in the movie felt absolutely real. The concept was fairly ordinary but the characters took it up a notch while pouring their emotions on to the screen. I later saw him in Karwaan, Life of Pi, Jurassic World, Hindi Medium, Piku and couple of other movies. Even though I watched and enjoyed his movies, I didn't know much about his personal life and this book educated me more about who Irrfan Khan truly is as a person. I must say, he's everything I imagined him to be and so much more.
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Born in Rajasthan to a middle-class family, Irrfan had a normal childhood which he spent by flying kites and going on hunting trips with his father. As he grew up, he recognised his desire to act and joined NSD which groomed him as an actor. It is here that he meets Sutapa whom he ends up marrying and makes lifelong friends who have very nice things to say about him. He was always called a recluse who enjoyed reading and spending hours in silence. Even during his acting days at the institute, people remember him for being a distinct actor, his hooded eyes adding an extra oomph element to his personality. His appetite for learning was immense and was slowly casted into smaller roles in plays and movies. Many directors recall their first meeting with Irrfan in which he appeared to be shy and introvert. It is this quality of him that eventually takes him to great places acting with the finest actors of both Bollywood as well as Hollywood.
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Irrfan Khan is known for being versatile in choosing his roles. In fact, he was one of the first Indian actor to pave his way to Hollywood, opening doors to movies that changed his life. Apart from the known Bollywood movies, he has acted in many Hollywood movies that elevated his role in the cinema industry. He acted alongside Natalie Portman, Angelina Jolie and other significant co-stars when no one else from the Indian industry had previously done so. It is said that in spite of acting in many crucial movies and after receiving fame, he still remains humble and gets along with his fellow movie stars comfortably. His accomodating nature has eased the burden on directors over the years.
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This book is an informative read in which Chhabra lists down Irrfan's acting and personal life in a detailed manner and perhaps this is why many might find it boring. Although I did enjoy getting to know more about the infamous actor, it did feel incredibly slow to me. There's no doubt that Chhabra is a brilliant writer and this book portrays his ability to put forth an impressive narration but I usually do not insist upon reading such a lenghty career focused book. But it does make a good read for serious movie buffs.
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| Book Review | Irrfan Khan - The Man, The Dreamer, The Star.
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"He's a real reader. On the set he was always with a book. And it was not a coincidence. It was about how smart he is. He could perceive from what we were doing and what the tone of the movie was going to be. I think books are very helpful in capturing the tone of the film, even more so than movies. In fact, I don't want to be watching a movie while I am making one". - Ritesh.
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The first time I noticed Irrfan Khan was for his acting in The Lunchbox. It was a beautifully curated movie in which Irrfan glows like a firefly. I remember feeling forlorn while watching it because his loneliness in the movie felt absolutely real. The concept was fairly ordinary but the characters took it up a notch while pouring their emotions on to the screen. I later saw him in Karwaan, Life of Pi, Jurassic World, Hindi Medium, Piku and couple of other movies. Even though I watched and enjoyed his movies, I didn't know much about his personal life and this book educated me more about who Irrfan Khan truly is as a person. I must say, he's everything I imagined him to be and so much more.
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Born in Rajasthan to a middle-class family, Irrfan had a normal childhood which he spent by flying kites and going on hunting trips with his father. As he grew up, he recognised his desire to act and joined NSD which groomed him as an actor. It is here that he meets Sutapa whom he ends up marrying and makes lifelong friends who have very nice things to say about him. He was always called a recluse who enjoyed reading and spending hours in silence. Even during his acting days at the institute, people remember him for being a distinct actor, his hooded eyes adding an extra oomph element to his personality. His appetite for learning was immense and was slowly casted into smaller roles in plays and movies. Many directors recall their first meeting with Irrfan in which he appeared to be shy and introvert. It is this quality of him that eventually takes him to great places acting with the finest actors of both Bollywood as well as Hollywood.
•
Irrfan Khan is known for being versatile in choosing his roles. In fact, he was one of the first Indian actor to pave his way to Hollywood, opening doors to movies that changed his life. Apart from the known Bollywood movies, he has acted in many Hollywood movies that elevated his role in the cinema industry. He acted alongside Natalie Portman, Angelina Jolie and other significant co-stars when no one else from the Indian industry had previously done so. It is said that in spite of acting in many crucial movies and after receiving fame, he still remains humble and gets along with his fellow movie stars comfortably. His accomodating nature has eased the burden on directors over the years.
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This book is an informative read in which Chhabra lists down Irrfan's acting and personal life in a detailed manner and perhaps this is why many might find it boring. Although I did enjoy getting to know more about the infamous actor, it did feel incredibly slow to me. There's no doubt that Chhabra is a brilliant writer and this book portrays his ability to put forth an impressive narration but I usually do not insist upon reading such a lenghty career focused book. But it does make a good read for serious movie buffs.
July 23, 2020
This book was an easy flip through. As a nerd and Irrfan fan, I already knew a lot of the things mentioned in the book. It is essentially a compilation of his interviews and a few interviews with his closest people. Some parts of the book (especially about his struggling years) were fascinating. It's a shame, Aseem Chhabra could not get Irrfan's perspective in the book. Mostly because Irrfan was already dealing with his illness by the time Aseem began his research.
Reading this book has made me realise how it's okay to be unhappy and dissatisfied as an artist, as long as you strive to find your way. Irrfan's hard work is infectious.
An autobiography on Irrfan would be magical. But it's sad that won't happen.
Reading this book has made me realise how it's okay to be unhappy and dissatisfied as an artist, as long as you strive to find your way. Irrfan's hard work is infectious.
An autobiography on Irrfan would be magical. But it's sad that won't happen.
February 4, 2020
A big thank you to the publisher for sending me a copy of this book! :)
I haven't watched all of Irrfan Khan's acting, but I admire him and his brand of acting so much! So when this book was coming out, I was really excited to read it, wanting a glimpse into the genius called Irrfan Khan, his beginnings, and how it all came about.
And I was not disappointed! Aseem Chhabra's writing is easy and fluid and pulls you in, giving you a crisp picture of Irrfan Khan's life and character. By the end of the book, you get the feeling that you know the actor, the man really well, thanks to the vivid picture that the author has painted. Right from his beginnings in Rajasthan to his cancer treatment in London, Irrfan the actor and the amazing human being comes to life in Aseem Chhabra's words.
My only (and a very annoyed) complaint with this book is that the author pretty callously reveals plots of movies and books in this book. I hadn't watched 'The Namesake' because I wanted to read the book before watching it, but the author tells what happens at the end the movie and now I'm heartbroken! I understand that it's been a while since both the book and the movie came out, but this is not how a bookworm functions. :(
I felt like 40% of the book is the author telling the stories of the movies that Irrfan has acted in. :/
I otherwise enjoyed the book and enjoyed learning about the phenomenal man called Irrfan Khan and the way he has affected the global film industry as a whole. Recommend!
I haven't watched all of Irrfan Khan's acting, but I admire him and his brand of acting so much! So when this book was coming out, I was really excited to read it, wanting a glimpse into the genius called Irrfan Khan, his beginnings, and how it all came about.
And I was not disappointed! Aseem Chhabra's writing is easy and fluid and pulls you in, giving you a crisp picture of Irrfan Khan's life and character. By the end of the book, you get the feeling that you know the actor, the man really well, thanks to the vivid picture that the author has painted. Right from his beginnings in Rajasthan to his cancer treatment in London, Irrfan the actor and the amazing human being comes to life in Aseem Chhabra's words.
My only (and a very annoyed) complaint with this book is that the author pretty callously reveals plots of movies and books in this book. I hadn't watched 'The Namesake' because I wanted to read the book before watching it, but the author tells what happens at the end the movie and now I'm heartbroken! I understand that it's been a while since both the book and the movie came out, but this is not how a bookworm functions. :(
I felt like 40% of the book is the author telling the stories of the movies that Irrfan has acted in. :/
I otherwise enjoyed the book and enjoyed learning about the phenomenal man called Irrfan Khan and the way he has affected the global film industry as a whole. Recommend!
February 15, 2021
This one will make you appreciate Irrfan even more!
Travelling through Irrfan's acting journey, makes you connect with the actor on a deeper level. You start to like him even more. The love he had for his craft is clearly evident through his acting and that echoes throughout the book. As a reader I wished to hear from Irrfan himself, but unfortunately destiny was not kind enough. Nonetheless I was gald to get to know the process and thinking went behind the movies he has acted in.
Travelling through Irrfan's acting journey, makes you connect with the actor on a deeper level. You start to like him even more. The love he had for his craft is clearly evident through his acting and that echoes throughout the book. As a reader I wished to hear from Irrfan himself, but unfortunately destiny was not kind enough. Nonetheless I was gald to get to know the process and thinking went behind the movies he has acted in.
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April 29, 2020RIP Irrfan Khan. This hurts like a motherf*****
May 2, 2020
A life filled with diligence, passion and thespian lucidity.
June 6, 2021
The Dreamer, The Star and so many more adjectives are nothing for this man. Inspired me in real life, felt like a personal loss when he died. The book really delves into his personal life and career.
May 18, 2020
You can trust Aseem Chhabra to weave a fluid and engaging biography even when he has not interviewed the subject concerned for the same.He did it for the biography of Shashi Kapoor and Priyanka Chopra. Irrfan Khan:The Man,The Dreamer,The Star was always on my reading radar given how I have loved Aseem's earlier works.So yes, this is entirely about the mind of an actor who has delivered in every role, no matter what its length or medium.Collated from various interviews of the actor along with interviews of long term friends and work collaborators or both rolled into one as with the case of film directors Tigmanshu Dhulia and Vishal Bharadwaj, this book weaves a wonderful narrative of what made Irrfan Khan the actor he was.
The anecdotes and reminiscences featured go back to the days of his roots in Jaipur, shifting then to his NSD days and then Mumbai, all threaded by a common element: that of a constant struggle to find himself as an actor and person. Aseem's insights into films as a critic allows the reader to get a sense of his own reading of Irrfan Khan as an actor, as does his personal interactions that reveal a thoughtful, philosophical person behind the small town boy who became one of the most sought after actor in Hollywood because of his star appeal.
A biography on Irrfan Khan obviously means revisiting the stories behind his most important roles and characters but we also get to know of little known films that the actor took up because the idea of a character or the thought behind the film appealed to him. The only thing missing from the book for me personally is a filmography of the actor listing all his works in theatre, TV and films.
The anecdotes and reminiscences featured go back to the days of his roots in Jaipur, shifting then to his NSD days and then Mumbai, all threaded by a common element: that of a constant struggle to find himself as an actor and person. Aseem's insights into films as a critic allows the reader to get a sense of his own reading of Irrfan Khan as an actor, as does his personal interactions that reveal a thoughtful, philosophical person behind the small town boy who became one of the most sought after actor in Hollywood because of his star appeal.
A biography on Irrfan Khan obviously means revisiting the stories behind his most important roles and characters but we also get to know of little known films that the actor took up because the idea of a character or the thought behind the film appealed to him. The only thing missing from the book for me personally is a filmography of the actor listing all his works in theatre, TV and films.
January 22, 2022
A biography, in a country like India, is mostly an eulogy. It glorifies, worships and sanctifies the uniqueness of the person in question in a manner similar to cementing of a gravestone. Buying a biography, hence, can turn out to be a tricky affair, you see ...
Yet, the only thing that prompted me to go for this book was the man concerned. Irrfan Khan, or Irrfan, as he himself had opted for. The beautiful thing about Irrfan is that he is so much of a 'human' that even two-hundred pages of eulogy cannot place him on a pedestal higher and more superior than ours. And it is exactly this feature that took me through this book.
Aseem Chhabra has the gift of a lucid prose. It does not take much time to go through the pages, getting to know Irrfan's struggle to success. The childhood and the NSD-days have been dealt with care and affection by the author, and Irrfan's journey from his earliest on-screen ventures to the present day finds a pace of its own, too.
The narration is beautifully interspersed with bits and pieces of interviews of Irrfan's close friends – some actors, some from his yet-to-act days. Throughout, the man's stumbling efforts, follies and not-so-great times have not been kept hidden from readers – a thing I really appreciated while reading.
The book ends at a time when Irrfan has been diagnosed with the terminal disease, post 'Karavaan'. It happened so that I read it after Irrfan left. So (though I would have loved not to have it), I could extend the book's conclusive pages straight into a fresh, real experience of his departure – finding a discomfort, yet an assurance that endings generally bring with them.
Yet, the only thing that prompted me to go for this book was the man concerned. Irrfan Khan, or Irrfan, as he himself had opted for. The beautiful thing about Irrfan is that he is so much of a 'human' that even two-hundred pages of eulogy cannot place him on a pedestal higher and more superior than ours. And it is exactly this feature that took me through this book.
Aseem Chhabra has the gift of a lucid prose. It does not take much time to go through the pages, getting to know Irrfan's struggle to success. The childhood and the NSD-days have been dealt with care and affection by the author, and Irrfan's journey from his earliest on-screen ventures to the present day finds a pace of its own, too.
The narration is beautifully interspersed with bits and pieces of interviews of Irrfan's close friends – some actors, some from his yet-to-act days. Throughout, the man's stumbling efforts, follies and not-so-great times have not been kept hidden from readers – a thing I really appreciated while reading.
The book ends at a time when Irrfan has been diagnosed with the terminal disease, post 'Karavaan'. It happened so that I read it after Irrfan left. So (though I would have loved not to have it), I could extend the book's conclusive pages straight into a fresh, real experience of his departure – finding a discomfort, yet an assurance that endings generally bring with them.
May 2, 2020
I never imagine in my weirdest dream that when I'm reading his biography, he was not in this world , so for me going through this book is altogether a new experience ,when a person left so many memories for this world and left a remark on everyone's mind. He is not only a good actor but an excellent human being. He had not only established himself as a major actor in the Hindi film industry and even in Hollywood, but had also already taken enough risks. Now he was ready to head into a territory that was still unchartered for him—to act as a romantic lead. He had revealed the romantic streak in him in films ranging from The Namesake.This book really a must read for Irrfan fan's. Book is written in a simple language so everyone can read it easily.
June 27, 2021
For an actor whom the world admired, who left us very early unfortunately, this book is miniscule of a tribute to what he actually deserves.
The writer puts the story very well, not chronologically, but in a way which paints the actor and his journey as well. It perfectly resonates with someone like me who has admired the actor right from his time he started in movies.
Will miss this actor, but the trove of works he has left us, will be visited often and memories cherished.
The writer puts the story very well, not chronologically, but in a way which paints the actor and his journey as well. It perfectly resonates with someone like me who has admired the actor right from his time he started in movies.
Will miss this actor, but the trove of works he has left us, will be visited often and memories cherished.
February 18, 2020
Irrfan Khan by Aseem Chhabra is a biography that is composed of anecdotes of personal meetings, interviews and events. Following a strong narrative and an even stronger approach, this book is promising as it delivers what is expected out of it.
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October 10, 2020
3.5/5
March 10, 2023
I am not an ardent fan of Irrfan. But I like to follow what's happening around the Indian Cinema.
I came across this book when I was trying to find a light read after heavy business books, and I am glad that I made this choice.
Coming to the book, it's more like a collection of wikipedia articles, reviews and interviews about the actor and by the actor. While I did like the structure, I wanted to know more about a few aspects of Irrfan sir's life, like when he got married and when he had Babil. His emotions are missing. Finally, wanted to know more about the last stages of his life, wanted to know him beyond his movies, which I felt is missing big time in the book.
Nonetheless, the novel introduced me to some of his finest works which I wouldn't have otherwise discovered. I was amazed to know his range of projects that he did in Hollywood.
I loved following his craft through this book, his thought process behind selecting or rejecting a script, his acting techniques and the relationships that he nurtured throughout his life.
Few lines from the book have my heart (It was quoted by Irrfan sir in an interview after he was diagnosed with cancer, the book has a half version, here's the full quote) -
“I had been in a different game, I was travelling on a speedy train ride, had dreams, plans, aspirations, goals, was fully engaged in them. And suddenly someone taps on my shoulder and I turn to see. It’s the TC: “Your destination is about to come. Please get down.” I am confused: “No, no. My destination hasn’t come.” “No, this is it. This is how it is sometimes. The suddenness made me realise how you are just a cork floating in the ocean with UNPREDICTABLE currents! And you are desperately trying to control it.”
Lastly, the book also led me to some of the finest interviews I have seen about celebrities.(Loved her wife's interviews and Babil's poetries.)
Respect for the man and love to the family.
I came across this book when I was trying to find a light read after heavy business books, and I am glad that I made this choice.
Coming to the book, it's more like a collection of wikipedia articles, reviews and interviews about the actor and by the actor. While I did like the structure, I wanted to know more about a few aspects of Irrfan sir's life, like when he got married and when he had Babil. His emotions are missing. Finally, wanted to know more about the last stages of his life, wanted to know him beyond his movies, which I felt is missing big time in the book.
Nonetheless, the novel introduced me to some of his finest works which I wouldn't have otherwise discovered. I was amazed to know his range of projects that he did in Hollywood.
I loved following his craft through this book, his thought process behind selecting or rejecting a script, his acting techniques and the relationships that he nurtured throughout his life.
Few lines from the book have my heart (It was quoted by Irrfan sir in an interview after he was diagnosed with cancer, the book has a half version, here's the full quote) -
“I had been in a different game, I was travelling on a speedy train ride, had dreams, plans, aspirations, goals, was fully engaged in them. And suddenly someone taps on my shoulder and I turn to see. It’s the TC: “Your destination is about to come. Please get down.” I am confused: “No, no. My destination hasn’t come.” “No, this is it. This is how it is sometimes. The suddenness made me realise how you are just a cork floating in the ocean with UNPREDICTABLE currents! And you are desperately trying to control it.”
Lastly, the book also led me to some of the finest interviews I have seen about celebrities.(Loved her wife's interviews and Babil's poetries.)
Respect for the man and love to the family.
August 28, 2024
It's great to read his story from beginning to the end. The writer has done a great job in research and writing it in a way that keeps the reader interested. After reading this book, I am again at a sense of deep loss. Irrfan is the only actor who is being missed by the masses, not only because he was such a great actor, but also was a great human. He always questioned every ridiculous thing, be it religious or political, all he followed was to be a better human. It's also reflected in his films. I really miss him a lot. In the present era of OTT, he would have given so many memorable characters but God had other plans for him. Wherever he is now, he is being loved by everyone.
October 19, 2023
More than Irrfan , the book explores about his various iconic characters and how they came into existence. Worth a read if you are wanting to walk down the late actor's brilliance and relive some of his iconic roles
February 3, 2021
"Movie stars are like friends who live far away, and yet we believe we know them well. We like to stay in touch with them . . . but if we do not hear from them regularly, we just assume all is well," Aseem Chhabra writes near the end of his Hindi film star biography, "Irrfan Khan: The Man, The Dreamer. The Star."
This book has such a straightforward friendly vibe to it beginning with how Chhabra tells of an extremely gracious unexpected phone call he received from Irrfan after the world premiere of Irrfan's film, "The Namesake."
The formal title of this book is very Western, very American. But inside this book, the very old yet constantly redefined indigenous Hindi Sanskritic very un-Anglo Saxon exuberance, affability and friendliness abounds amidst the sometimes harsh foreign environments of India, America, Hollywood or the Hindi film industry.
The under story of this book from an American point of view is that of an odd unknown person who survives growing up in India, against all odds attains incredible success as an actor in the film industry there and then comes over to the United States to do it all over again. How to keep moving about in a strange environment yet never once losing one's essence or giving up one's dreams.
Film journalist Chhabra is a film expert extremely familiar with mainstream and independent Hindi cinema in India and with cross ties the industry has with Indian film industry luminaries all over world.
We find out all about Irrfan, through the actors, directors and screenwriters he worked with and a lot about the Hindi film industry and a lot about some of the best films ever made and one of the best actors, who starred in them.
If you really want enjoy this book twice as much, watch one of Irrfan's films in between reading it. Many Americans are put off by how Hindi sounds so different from English in even simple ways like verbs showing up at the end of a sentence rather than in the middle. Subtitles are often misleading (sometimes intentionally) and original context is elusive. But an actor like Irrfan subverts all objections by conveying the context of a situation not by the language so much as by the emotional tone (or lack of it) in what is said and how it is said and the beats, business or action that accompanies what is happening.
All the very well chosen Hindi quotes, both written and spoken are all translated into English after they appear. And the quotes and part of a poem at the end are especially well chosen.
Irrfan passed away at age 53 in Mumbai on April 23rd last year, so reading this book is bittersweet. It seems so harsh to have lost a great actor and all the awesome films he would have made. But the films we still have that we can watch are timeless in their insights into the anatomy of life's most secret most innermost thoughts and feelings which is the spiritual home of great Hindi cinema.
Chhabra's book celebrates Irrfan, the film legend, whose acting entertains us, teaches us and sometimes makes us laugh at and usually feel a little better about some of the adversities we might face in life.
This book has such a straightforward friendly vibe to it beginning with how Chhabra tells of an extremely gracious unexpected phone call he received from Irrfan after the world premiere of Irrfan's film, "The Namesake."
The formal title of this book is very Western, very American. But inside this book, the very old yet constantly redefined indigenous Hindi Sanskritic very un-Anglo Saxon exuberance, affability and friendliness abounds amidst the sometimes harsh foreign environments of India, America, Hollywood or the Hindi film industry.
The under story of this book from an American point of view is that of an odd unknown person who survives growing up in India, against all odds attains incredible success as an actor in the film industry there and then comes over to the United States to do it all over again. How to keep moving about in a strange environment yet never once losing one's essence or giving up one's dreams.
Film journalist Chhabra is a film expert extremely familiar with mainstream and independent Hindi cinema in India and with cross ties the industry has with Indian film industry luminaries all over world.
We find out all about Irrfan, through the actors, directors and screenwriters he worked with and a lot about the Hindi film industry and a lot about some of the best films ever made and one of the best actors, who starred in them.
If you really want enjoy this book twice as much, watch one of Irrfan's films in between reading it. Many Americans are put off by how Hindi sounds so different from English in even simple ways like verbs showing up at the end of a sentence rather than in the middle. Subtitles are often misleading (sometimes intentionally) and original context is elusive. But an actor like Irrfan subverts all objections by conveying the context of a situation not by the language so much as by the emotional tone (or lack of it) in what is said and how it is said and the beats, business or action that accompanies what is happening.
All the very well chosen Hindi quotes, both written and spoken are all translated into English after they appear. And the quotes and part of a poem at the end are especially well chosen.
Irrfan passed away at age 53 in Mumbai on April 23rd last year, so reading this book is bittersweet. It seems so harsh to have lost a great actor and all the awesome films he would have made. But the films we still have that we can watch are timeless in their insights into the anatomy of life's most secret most innermost thoughts and feelings which is the spiritual home of great Hindi cinema.
Chhabra's book celebrates Irrfan, the film legend, whose acting entertains us, teaches us and sometimes makes us laugh at and usually feel a little better about some of the adversities we might face in life.
July 16, 2020
A mindful read about a man's journey to success
The book shares the fine details about Irrfan's life and how he paved his way to the accolades that he earned over time. He is a natural actor. Improviser and non-methodical. The book mentions his story one chapter at a time.
Being a voracious reader Irrfan overcame all of the challanges, his life offered to him. And as he tweeted when he informed the world about his neuroendocrine tumor, "Life is under no obligation to give us what we expect"
One thing that I personally missed in the book was more details about how he coped up with his cancer. A first hand experience about what difficulties or traumas he went through, what was his inspiration, how he faced all that shit and came out. Knowing thay I would have felt more close to the Man for people like Irrfan Khan aren't just stars or celebrity that drive media and attention, they rather inspire the people like us who are still struggling to find their kick. We relate to these people who've started from ground zero, had no privileges. We relate to these people who have carved their own way into this beautiful world. They're our role models.
The book shares the fine details about Irrfan's life and how he paved his way to the accolades that he earned over time. He is a natural actor. Improviser and non-methodical. The book mentions his story one chapter at a time.
Being a voracious reader Irrfan overcame all of the challanges, his life offered to him. And as he tweeted when he informed the world about his neuroendocrine tumor, "Life is under no obligation to give us what we expect"
One thing that I personally missed in the book was more details about how he coped up with his cancer. A first hand experience about what difficulties or traumas he went through, what was his inspiration, how he faced all that shit and came out. Knowing thay I would have felt more close to the Man for people like Irrfan Khan aren't just stars or celebrity that drive media and attention, they rather inspire the people like us who are still struggling to find their kick. We relate to these people who've started from ground zero, had no privileges. We relate to these people who have carved their own way into this beautiful world. They're our role models.
March 19, 2020
Irrfan Khan is one of the bollywood actors who can act with his eyes. Despite of his magnificent acting in Maqbool, Haasil, Pan Singh Tomar and Slumdog Millionare, he was underrated but now he is getting his value in the Bollywood.
The biography is divided into seven parts which beautifully connects each phase of Irrfan Khan's ups and downs during his wonderful journey in the Bollywood as well as in the Hollywood. It made me recall all the movies starring Irrfan Khan , their cast and adding little details that took here and there in their shooting and promotions. It even gave me a list of movies starring Irrfan Khan which I had missed out as his work wasn't highlighted all the time.
This book isn't just about the star but it does show the love of the author, who has researched for this book and genuinely loved the star.
It was a pure delight to know the journey of this shy guy from Rajasthan to the Hollywood. He has conquered several hearts all around the globe by his marvelous acting.
Rating- 5/5🌟
I would suggest you to read it.
The biography is divided into seven parts which beautifully connects each phase of Irrfan Khan's ups and downs during his wonderful journey in the Bollywood as well as in the Hollywood. It made me recall all the movies starring Irrfan Khan , their cast and adding little details that took here and there in their shooting and promotions. It even gave me a list of movies starring Irrfan Khan which I had missed out as his work wasn't highlighted all the time.
This book isn't just about the star but it does show the love of the author, who has researched for this book and genuinely loved the star.
It was a pure delight to know the journey of this shy guy from Rajasthan to the Hollywood. He has conquered several hearts all around the globe by his marvelous acting.
Rating- 5/5🌟
I would suggest you to read it.
April 5, 2022
The day Irrfan Khan passed away of neuroendocrine cancer, I felt a sense of loss that was more than what one would feel for celebrities. That day, I commissioned a piece on him, and published this, titled: A Few Good Men: Why Irrfan Khan's Loss Seems So Personal To So Many (https://www.womensweb.in/2020/04/trib...)
I think in some ways, Irrfan, as a cis het man in the film industry, gave some hope that there are still a few good men there. And he was just coming well into his own, doing such good work. Such men should live long, productive lives, unlike others we know.
So in a way, reading this excellent researched and narrated biography was a labour of love.
I'd recommend this to everyone who has loved his work.
I've loved every movie of his that I have watched, and as I look at his filmography, I realise there is so much more to discover. Those I watched:
The Lunchbox
Qarib Qarib Singlle
Kaarwan
Piku
Paan Singh Tomar
Life of Pi
I think in some ways, Irrfan, as a cis het man in the film industry, gave some hope that there are still a few good men there. And he was just coming well into his own, doing such good work. Such men should live long, productive lives, unlike others we know.
So in a way, reading this excellent researched and narrated biography was a labour of love.
I'd recommend this to everyone who has loved his work.
I've loved every movie of his that I have watched, and as I look at his filmography, I realise there is so much more to discover. Those I watched:
The Lunchbox
Qarib Qarib Singlle
Kaarwan
Piku
Paan Singh Tomar
Life of Pi
August 12, 2020
I remember randomly watching Pan Singh Tomar on Netflix one fine day. And that's when I started taking cinema seriously. Especially Indian cinema that's otherwise dominated by unmemorable productions. And I started falling in love with Irrfan. His untimely demise hurt like hell and I picked up this book (the only work about him) to know more about the man that I admired and loved.
I didn't know what to expect from this book but one thing I didn't expect were mostly spoilers for all the movies he'd acted in. For someone who wanted to watch each and every movie of his, it was utterly disappointing. Needless to say, I tried skipping portions of the book so I can enjoy the movies when I get around to them. The language and narration style could also have been better.
Regardless, I did get to know more about Irrfan for sure; his love for the craft and the endless struggles, determination and hardwork that went into honing it.
I didn't know what to expect from this book but one thing I didn't expect were mostly spoilers for all the movies he'd acted in. For someone who wanted to watch each and every movie of his, it was utterly disappointing. Needless to say, I tried skipping portions of the book so I can enjoy the movies when I get around to them. The language and narration style could also have been better.
Regardless, I did get to know more about Irrfan for sure; his love for the craft and the endless struggles, determination and hardwork that went into honing it.
July 31, 2021
This is the 4th autobiography I have read of a Bollywood personality and this was very underwhelming.
The other actors were Nawazuddin Siddique, Pran , Mehmood and all of these books apart from listing their journey and their body of work gave an intimate look into the person. From Nawaz's reveal about his arduous struggles in Bombay to Mehmoods family troubles, the autobiography revealed it all.
However this book showed only glimpses, not much is mentioned of his childhood and all of Irfaans stories come from people who have worked with him. It was their opinion on Irrfan rather than Irrfans own views.
Nawaz delved deep into his acting methods, his school of thought,his opnions but not in the case for Irrfans autobiography.
Nonetheless its a quick read and lets you peek into the actors being and mental state.
The other actors were Nawazuddin Siddique, Pran , Mehmood and all of these books apart from listing their journey and their body of work gave an intimate look into the person. From Nawaz's reveal about his arduous struggles in Bombay to Mehmoods family troubles, the autobiography revealed it all.
However this book showed only glimpses, not much is mentioned of his childhood and all of Irfaans stories come from people who have worked with him. It was their opinion on Irrfan rather than Irrfans own views.
Nawaz delved deep into his acting methods, his school of thought,his opnions but not in the case for Irrfans autobiography.
Nonetheless its a quick read and lets you peek into the actors being and mental state.
February 5, 2020
It is not a biography of the Star per se but a celebration of the brilliant actor who is Irrfan Khan. Adored and respected by many, this book contains anecdotes from famous personalities that provides a picture of the fascinating life of "... the Man, The Dreamer, The Star".
The book tries to capture his journey from Rajasthan to Delhi to Mumbai, through plays, films to the Hollywood. Some of his greatest performances in India and abroad are discussed as well as his personal struggles and achievements till date.
Overall, the book gives a good picture into the Life of the Star. My only issue with the book: it could have more significant, insightful pictures of the Actor.
The book tries to capture his journey from Rajasthan to Delhi to Mumbai, through plays, films to the Hollywood. Some of his greatest performances in India and abroad are discussed as well as his personal struggles and achievements till date.
Overall, the book gives a good picture into the Life of the Star. My only issue with the book: it could have more significant, insightful pictures of the Actor.
February 13, 2020
Written in simple language and peppered with pictures, this book talks about Irrfan Khan, the human being. It talks about his childhood, his life in a middle class family in Rajasthan, his graduation from the National School of Drama and his struggles, his performances and his achievements from plays to films to Hollywood. I loved reading about the actor’s life and his struggles. It also contains anecdotes from famous personalities. The book also has some interesting facts about his life. The author has gathered information through interviews.
This book helps the reader understand the person behind the star.
A must read for all fans of the actor.
This book helps the reader understand the person behind the star.
A must read for all fans of the actor.
January 23, 2021
I do not know what propelled me to read this book. I am not a movie buff. I have not ardently followed Irrfan Khan’s work. I have loved him in the few movies I have seen him in. My favourites being Maqbool and Piku. Reading this book made me want to revisit his work and notice the nuances in his performance I missed the first time. I find rating biographies the hardest. How can one give stars to someone’s life? I just wish there were more time for this book to be written the way his story deserved to be told, the way he performs-slowly unfolding, cherishing the process, thoughtfully sewn together, unexpected at times but memorable nonetheless.
January 2, 2021
As delightful as it was to soak up the recounting of every little detail of every project Irrfan Khan ever worked on, this book leaves me wanting for more. It lacks the inner workings of the actor’s mind that went into the preparation of aforementioned roles. Thus reducing the book to a compilation of poignant anecdotes and observations of people IK collaborated with during his brilliant career cut too short.
April 11, 2021
There were so many things I didn’t knew about Irrfan, author covers almost all stages of his life starting from his childhood in jaipur, his NSD days - struggle period and when his career both at Bollywood and Hollywood. He was a great actor, I really liked his work especially movie Talvaar. Great actor gone too soon!!
This book covers his personal life and career growth in a very good way citing many examples and breathtaking scenes he had delivered. I enjoyed the book.
This book covers his personal life and career growth in a very good way citing many examples and breathtaking scenes he had delivered. I enjoyed the book.
December 19, 2022
Good book about versatile actor Mr.Irrfan Khan. Such a great actor and humble being. This book was written by Aseeem Ji after consulting with the near and dear ones of this great actor. Irrfan Ji was not in a state of mind to write his own autobiography. The movie industry will and is missing a actor of his calibre.
Those who are interested in knowing this actor more closely can definitely pick up this one and it won't disappoint them.
Those who are interested in knowing this actor more closely can definitely pick up this one and it won't disappoint them.
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