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Live Love Now: Relieve the Pressure and Find Real Connection with Our Kids
In Live Love Now, New York Times bestselling author Rachel Macy Stafford tackles the biggest challenges facing kids today and equips adults to engage them with humanness and heart, compassion and honesty to discover the deep, life-giving connection everyone is longing for.
What do young people need now more than ever? Adults who are Truth-tellers not taskmasters. Encouragers not enforcers. Guides not half-listeners. The good news is, it's not too late! No matter what's happened in the past, you can help the kids you love face the top stressors of today, including academic pressure, parental expectations, technoference, lack of purpose, isolation, and loneliness.
With illuminating, straightforward strategies, this guide reveals the importance of practicing acceptance, pursuing peace, and exploring wellness and purpose for yourself so you can be the kind of real, relevant, and lifelong role model young people are searching for. Engaging and thoughtful, each chapter includes moving stories from Rachel's personal journey as a mom of a teen and pre-teen along with illustrative narratives and prompts to help you reflect and take steps toward becoming the kind of adult young people trust.
Whether you're a parent, educator, older sibling, coach, or anyone in a role of leading young people, this book will help you meet the goal of raising and guiding young people to become resilient, compassionate, and capable adults.
What do young people need now more than ever? Adults who are Truth-tellers not taskmasters. Encouragers not enforcers. Guides not half-listeners. The good news is, it's not too late! No matter what's happened in the past, you can help the kids you love face the top stressors of today, including academic pressure, parental expectations, technoference, lack of purpose, isolation, and loneliness.
With illuminating, straightforward strategies, this guide reveals the importance of practicing acceptance, pursuing peace, and exploring wellness and purpose for yourself so you can be the kind of real, relevant, and lifelong role model young people are searching for. Engaging and thoughtful, each chapter includes moving stories from Rachel's personal journey as a mom of a teen and pre-teen along with illustrative narratives and prompts to help you reflect and take steps toward becoming the kind of adult young people trust.
Whether you're a parent, educator, older sibling, coach, or anyone in a role of leading young people, this book will help you meet the goal of raising and guiding young people to become resilient, compassionate, and capable adults.
272 pages, Hardcover
Published April 28, 2020
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About the author
Rachel Macy Stafford
17 books337 followersNine years ago, Rachel Macy Stafford admitted the honest answer to the question that had been a long-time source of pride: "How do you do it all?" Rachel's answer was painfully simple: "I miss out on life, and what I miss I cannot get back." That very day, Rachel began her Hands Free journey to let go of distraction, perfection, and societal pressure to grasp what really matters in life. This life-long writer and certified special education teacher felt compelled to share her journey with others through the blog, "Hands Free Mama." Using her skills as a writer, teacher, and encourager, Rachel provides readers with simple, non-intimidating, and motivating methods to let go of distraction and connect with their loved ones. Rachel's work has been featured in USA Today, TIME.com, MSN.com, PBS.com, The Huffington Post, Reader's Digest, and hundreds of other online and print publications. Her blog currently averages one million visitors a month. Rachel loves being outdoors, baking, and volunteering with her family who inspire her daily.
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April 8, 2020
Live Love Now is a masterpiece!
I cannot say enough good things about this book. It truly is life-giving and life changing. I am deeply grateful to Rachel Macy Stafford for the perspective shifts I experienced while reading this book. Her important messages are uplifting and motivating and fill me with so much HOPE. I feel so fortunate to get to experience this book now, and soak in the important lessons now, before my children are teenagers, but truly the lessons are universal to all ages/relationships and the things I’ve learned from the book are already positively affecting my interactions with my children. The questions at the end of each chapter are well thought out and incredibly helpful- I sat down with a notebook and pen and was amazed by what came out. I had some profound realizations and a clear idea of how to move forward. One line from the book that I keep reminding myself of is: “It’s okay. I know you aren’t yourself today.” It’s so simple, but just keeping that in mind has already shifted how I interact with my boys. It’s so easy to get defensive or irritated when they are grouchy or whiny, and I tend to start lecturing about why they shouldn’t be feeling/acting the way they do. Just this one small tweak, of thinking this line to myself and not responding in my “normal” way, has made a profound difference in our connection and also how long their grumpiness lasts! Another powerful thought I keep repeating to myself is the line: “I could take offense, but that would be a waste of precious time. And time is already going too quickly- it takes my breath away.” Brilliant! The timing of this book is not an accident- we are living in unprecedented times right now and need these insights and directions more than ever before. I am reading the book for the second time and I know it will be one that I read over and over, as I desire to etch these words deeply into my soul. This book is for anyone who wants the privilege of really KNOWING their child. What an honor and a priceless gift that truly is, for both the parent and the child.
I cannot say enough good things about this book. It truly is life-giving and life changing. I am deeply grateful to Rachel Macy Stafford for the perspective shifts I experienced while reading this book. Her important messages are uplifting and motivating and fill me with so much HOPE. I feel so fortunate to get to experience this book now, and soak in the important lessons now, before my children are teenagers, but truly the lessons are universal to all ages/relationships and the things I’ve learned from the book are already positively affecting my interactions with my children. The questions at the end of each chapter are well thought out and incredibly helpful- I sat down with a notebook and pen and was amazed by what came out. I had some profound realizations and a clear idea of how to move forward. One line from the book that I keep reminding myself of is: “It’s okay. I know you aren’t yourself today.” It’s so simple, but just keeping that in mind has already shifted how I interact with my boys. It’s so easy to get defensive or irritated when they are grouchy or whiny, and I tend to start lecturing about why they shouldn’t be feeling/acting the way they do. Just this one small tweak, of thinking this line to myself and not responding in my “normal” way, has made a profound difference in our connection and also how long their grumpiness lasts! Another powerful thought I keep repeating to myself is the line: “I could take offense, but that would be a waste of precious time. And time is already going too quickly- it takes my breath away.” Brilliant! The timing of this book is not an accident- we are living in unprecedented times right now and need these insights and directions more than ever before. I am reading the book for the second time and I know it will be one that I read over and over, as I desire to etch these words deeply into my soul. This book is for anyone who wants the privilege of really KNOWING their child. What an honor and a priceless gift that truly is, for both the parent and the child.
April 18, 2020
Rachel Macy Stafford’s "Live Love Now" is the book that every parent who has every doubted themselves has been waiting for. This book is a loving toolbox full of practical advice, kindness and personal, heartfelt examples showing us how to navigate our way to a solid, positive, loving relationship with our children while also allowing them to become the people they are meant to be. Though it mainly addresses navigating the tween and teen years, it is truly meant for any age group at any point in time. Rachel assures us that all of our children, at any age, are still reachable, no matter what the past may have dealt us.
I found it extremely helpful that Rachel uses the first section of her book to help us identify our own internal pressures, beliefs and anxieties that can lead towards strained interactions with, not only our children, but everyone around us. I appreciate that she allowed me to focus on some things that I could do to reframe how I interact with and present myself to my children. I feel that I was better able to absorb the rest of the book by looking inwards first.
Rachel uses poignant examples from her own life and life experiences to allow us to imagine a world where we speak to our children (and to ourselves) in the most genuine, supportive way possible. Imagine learning how to encourage your children to become the best “them” possible (not who you think they should be!) just by the way you speak with them and interact with them on a daily basis?
I love that Rachel encourages us to share ourselves, our experiences, and even our faults, with our children (though always at an age-appropriate level). In a world that often discourages that and tells us we should be strong, superhuman, and even without emotion (especially negative ones) in front of our children, this is like a breath of fresh air. Opening up to our children helps them to understand things that are going on, allows them to observe how we process information (good and bad) and shows them that our reactions are human and so are theirs. It allows our children to feel more comfortable coming to us with their own problems and questions.
For any parent, teacher, grandparent or guardian who reads this book and takes it to heart, your children, tweens and teens are going to grow up in a more positive environment than they otherwise would have. Maybe small changes for some, maybe enormous changes for others, but all of them will be that much better off for it thanks to the guidance, encouragement and love that Rachel chose to share with us. Allowing our children to follow their own internal compasses, learning how to shift our perspectives and become truth-tellers, encouragers and guides rather than taskmasters, enforcers and half-listeners, is an opportunity none of us can afford to miss out on.
Rachel’s ability to share her personal experiences in such an honest, real, way allows the reader to feel like they’re sitting on the couch with a best friend who sees them as the perfectly imperfect parent that they are while she gives them the advice and guidance they are seeking.
Note: While I did receive a pre-publication copy of this book in exchange for an honest review, I did also purchase the actual book and I assure you that I plan to highlight, dog-ear, bookmark and re-read it for a long time to come!
I found it extremely helpful that Rachel uses the first section of her book to help us identify our own internal pressures, beliefs and anxieties that can lead towards strained interactions with, not only our children, but everyone around us. I appreciate that she allowed me to focus on some things that I could do to reframe how I interact with and present myself to my children. I feel that I was better able to absorb the rest of the book by looking inwards first.
Rachel uses poignant examples from her own life and life experiences to allow us to imagine a world where we speak to our children (and to ourselves) in the most genuine, supportive way possible. Imagine learning how to encourage your children to become the best “them” possible (not who you think they should be!) just by the way you speak with them and interact with them on a daily basis?
I love that Rachel encourages us to share ourselves, our experiences, and even our faults, with our children (though always at an age-appropriate level). In a world that often discourages that and tells us we should be strong, superhuman, and even without emotion (especially negative ones) in front of our children, this is like a breath of fresh air. Opening up to our children helps them to understand things that are going on, allows them to observe how we process information (good and bad) and shows them that our reactions are human and so are theirs. It allows our children to feel more comfortable coming to us with their own problems and questions.
For any parent, teacher, grandparent or guardian who reads this book and takes it to heart, your children, tweens and teens are going to grow up in a more positive environment than they otherwise would have. Maybe small changes for some, maybe enormous changes for others, but all of them will be that much better off for it thanks to the guidance, encouragement and love that Rachel chose to share with us. Allowing our children to follow their own internal compasses, learning how to shift our perspectives and become truth-tellers, encouragers and guides rather than taskmasters, enforcers and half-listeners, is an opportunity none of us can afford to miss out on.
Rachel’s ability to share her personal experiences in such an honest, real, way allows the reader to feel like they’re sitting on the couch with a best friend who sees them as the perfectly imperfect parent that they are while she gives them the advice and guidance they are seeking.
Note: While I did receive a pre-publication copy of this book in exchange for an honest review, I did also purchase the actual book and I assure you that I plan to highlight, dog-ear, bookmark and re-read it for a long time to come!
April 18, 2020
I was part way through the 2nd chapter when I put the book down and got up to order it for a friend. I knew this book would be a powerful gift for her and I believe it will be for you also. As I read Rachels insights, I felt like I was connecting to her as though she were a wise grandmother or aunt although she is close to my age. As I sat quarantined reading beside my daughter (as she read her own book), I enjoyed stories and antidotes modeling authenticity. I loved that I was modeling reading as I read about ways to model for my kids how to acknowledge mistakes, be authentic in our own relationships and how to offer grace not only to our kids but to ourselves. I like some of the outspoken bold women authors of today, (Hatmaker, GD, Berne’), but Rachel’s words feel more my style. Powerful connections and conversations from a quiet calm modeling. Persistent and present but in a more mellow approach that fits my personality. Parenting by modeling, showing up, being present and being available even when teens and kids (appear they) don’t want to connection can be humbling but it’s such a gift to ourselves and to our kids as we *both* grow to be kinder and more accepting of ourselves. This is not a book telling you what to do or reinforcing real or perceived failures. It is stories and ideas of how we can give/receive grace and build connection so we can truly see AND accept who we and our loved ones are as we work to “Live, Love, Now.”
April 7, 2020
Originally inspired to give parents tools to connect better with their teens, this book can help anyone!! Anyone! Rachel is a gifted author who puts into words what we all feel. Her philosophy includes “come as you are” and “today matters more than yesterday”. She draws on her experience as a special education teacher to provide small steps and tools for connection that are accessible to everyone. Her experience as a mother of two teens as well as access to hundreds of teens as a guest speaker in schools, gives us insight to the challenges and pressures current teens face which mimics all of our challenges in the fast-paced, highly-filtered, accomplishment-
based culture we live in. Most importantly, she provides HOPE with a road map to improve life’s most valuable investments, authentic relationships. It’s not too late. It’s not too early. I will be referring to this book often in the years to come and giving copies to my friends. It’s a must read!!
based culture we live in. Most importantly, she provides HOPE with a road map to improve life’s most valuable investments, authentic relationships. It’s not too late. It’s not too early. I will be referring to this book often in the years to come and giving copies to my friends. It’s a must read!!
April 17, 2020
Rachel Macy Stafford has done it again! She has invested her heart into a new amazing book that is going to change the lives of anyone who can get their hands on it. This book is directed toward our pre-teens, teens and I would dare say even young adults and teaches them so much about finding their place in this world, their worth and their purpose. I would highly recommend parents read this with their kids!! I will tell you as a woman with grown children and grandchildren it spoke to the very depths of my soul! It helped me understand a lot about myself and my relationships with other people. Rachel's heart-warming, soul-building love for others lays a beautiful foundation for you to take and build upon to create the life you want for those that you love and care for as well. She has taken something so complex and broken it down into something manageable - compassion and understanding. There are many applications for this book from parents, grandparents, foster parents to school counselors and educators. Everyone will learn something from reading "Live Love Now" - Congratulations Rachel you hit this one out of the park!!
April 7, 2020
Live Love Now is a must-read for every parent, educator, or any adult who has contact with young people. Rachel Macy Stafford writes in a way that makes you feel like a longtime friend is taking your hand and walking you through oftentimes painful truths. Through her honesty, kindness, and the sharing of her own experiences, she replaces any guilt one might feel with hope. Hope that we can be the adults that our young people need us to be and that by doing that, we are able to help them live the lives they are meant for. Relationships will be renewed and connections solidified through this timely book. I know that I will be reading it more than once and will be referring back to it often. It holds life changing words within.
April 6, 2020
I had the privilege of reviewing an advanced copy of Live Love Now. As a developmental psychologist, researcher, and author in the field of positive youth development, I read and review a lot of books for parents and educators. This is the first book in many years I couldn't put down. Rachel is such a gifted writer! And more importantly, Rachel's experience and poignant stories are supported by the research in child and adolescent development. This book shares strategies that value the reader's own experiences as well as ways to apply new concepts to the shifting challenges of raising and educating children in a high-pressured world. I recommend this book to the world and beyond!
April 7, 2020
This book is a breath of fresh air at this time. Rachel's words are calming and encouraging. She gives tools for better communication , not only with children, but anyone. Small shifts anyone can make to improve relationships with others and yourself! Rachel is transparent and a master story teller, which makes this book a fun read. If I could only buy one book this year, this would be it!
March 29, 2023
Imagine for a moment that you could find an author whose voice is so genuine, so real and so vulnerable, that as you read words on a page, it seems as though you are spending time with your oldest and dearest friend. That is the magic of Rachel Macy Stafford. Inside the summer-sky blue cover of “Live Love Now” is a safe haven for anyone who longs to “relieve the pressure and find real connection with their kids.”
Rachel invites us to become “truth-tellers instead of task-masters,” “encouragers instead of enforcers,” and “guides instead of half-listeners.” Rachel takes on the role of a truth-teller as she discusses sometimes difficult topics that affect tweens and teens such as mental health, the use of technology, and the pressure to succeed in school. She is an encourager, as she connects with the reader in her signature loving and authentic voice that gifts a heart with hope instead of condemnation. She is a guide, as she provides concrete tools through her experience as a special education teacher, a writer and motivational speaker and most importantly, a parent who has spent years learning from her mistakes, celebrating the victories, and trying to be a little better today than she was yesterday.
I invite you to read “Live Love Now” and prepare for a miraculous journey. As you read, don’t be surprised to experience your own heart going back in time to your adolescence, and you may find that the loving words serve as a soothing balm for old wounds that were never healed…until now.
I suppose there may be many ways to measure the mark of a successful book. But the mark of an extraordinary book, is its capacity to change a heart for the better. Trust me, you are in for something extraordinary.
Rachel invites us to become “truth-tellers instead of task-masters,” “encouragers instead of enforcers,” and “guides instead of half-listeners.” Rachel takes on the role of a truth-teller as she discusses sometimes difficult topics that affect tweens and teens such as mental health, the use of technology, and the pressure to succeed in school. She is an encourager, as she connects with the reader in her signature loving and authentic voice that gifts a heart with hope instead of condemnation. She is a guide, as she provides concrete tools through her experience as a special education teacher, a writer and motivational speaker and most importantly, a parent who has spent years learning from her mistakes, celebrating the victories, and trying to be a little better today than she was yesterday.
I invite you to read “Live Love Now” and prepare for a miraculous journey. As you read, don’t be surprised to experience your own heart going back in time to your adolescence, and you may find that the loving words serve as a soothing balm for old wounds that were never healed…until now.
I suppose there may be many ways to measure the mark of a successful book. But the mark of an extraordinary book, is its capacity to change a heart for the better. Trust me, you are in for something extraordinary.
April 7, 2020
Isn’t what we want the most for our loved ones to feel is that they are good enough, capable of success, and worthy of love for who they already are today?
Hearts young and old all possess the inherent need to be seen, heard, and accepted for who they are at their core. Because Rachel Macy Stafford reached out to young people and leaned into what they had to say, those who read this book will not only be provided with the six top stressors that young people face, but they will be equipped to identify warning signs – warning signs that pressure needs to be relieved and that real connection needs occur.
Covering everything from knowing and embracing loved ones as unique and valued individuals, to the rise of technology, the importance of a dialogue involving mental health, and the significance in building strong relationships with a foundation in being authentic and real, ‘Live Love Now’ guides readers to pause and examine how we can love ourselves and those who are dear to us better.
Through Stafford’s deep introspection of herself, her immense compassion for others, her expertise in the classroom, and her devotion to teaching, Stafford offers achievable actions that combat feelings of rejection and insecurity by empowering readers with tools and perspective shifts. These tools and perspective shifts enable readers to cultivate independence, resilience, and a strong inner compass that will serve young people well throughout the remainder of their lives.
Hearts young and old all possess the inherent need to be seen, heard, and accepted for who they are at their core. Because Rachel Macy Stafford reached out to young people and leaned into what they had to say, those who read this book will not only be provided with the six top stressors that young people face, but they will be equipped to identify warning signs – warning signs that pressure needs to be relieved and that real connection needs occur.
Covering everything from knowing and embracing loved ones as unique and valued individuals, to the rise of technology, the importance of a dialogue involving mental health, and the significance in building strong relationships with a foundation in being authentic and real, ‘Live Love Now’ guides readers to pause and examine how we can love ourselves and those who are dear to us better.
Through Stafford’s deep introspection of herself, her immense compassion for others, her expertise in the classroom, and her devotion to teaching, Stafford offers achievable actions that combat feelings of rejection and insecurity by empowering readers with tools and perspective shifts. These tools and perspective shifts enable readers to cultivate independence, resilience, and a strong inner compass that will serve young people well throughout the remainder of their lives.
April 20, 2020
The gift of Rachel’s writing is profound and full of promise for the unexpected time in which it now sees the light. With an incredible talent for bringing something that seems beyond reach, within reach, Rachel’s latest book, Live Love Now, takes that to another level, loving the next generation into life.
Rachel’s vulnerable stories always give me permission, without shame or guilt, to bring my own shadows into the light, as I see myself reflected in the often-painful truths she tells. As much as this book will build bridges between parents and young people, it has the power to help all readers rediscover their own inner Dreamer, Noticer and Wanderer. Living Rachel's wisdom is life saving and life giving for everyone!
As the future becomes more uncertain, Live Love Now, is a lifeline for families right now, full of easy-to-understand wisdom and practical strategies that can sow seeds of hope inside the heart of any parent wanting to find a way back to connection with the young people they love. Watering those seeds by bravely showing up and being the Truth-Tellers, Encouragers and Guides our young people are asking us to be means families can blossom not battle and flourish not fight.
Rachel’s vulnerable stories always give me permission, without shame or guilt, to bring my own shadows into the light, as I see myself reflected in the often-painful truths she tells. As much as this book will build bridges between parents and young people, it has the power to help all readers rediscover their own inner Dreamer, Noticer and Wanderer. Living Rachel's wisdom is life saving and life giving for everyone!
As the future becomes more uncertain, Live Love Now, is a lifeline for families right now, full of easy-to-understand wisdom and practical strategies that can sow seeds of hope inside the heart of any parent wanting to find a way back to connection with the young people they love. Watering those seeds by bravely showing up and being the Truth-Tellers, Encouragers and Guides our young people are asking us to be means families can blossom not battle and flourish not fight.
June 24, 2023
My therapist recommended this book. I’m glad she did and glad I finished. Some great nuggets in here. It just felt super preachy at times. I got tired of it for very long stretches. There are some nice reflection questions at the end of each chapter, and I think these will be great to go back to periodically.
April 8, 2020
Three years ago my sister gifted me a copy of “Only Love Today” by Rachel Macy Stafford and it marked a turning point in my life. When Rachel bravely shared stories about raising her kids, I found they were remarkably similar to my own stories and I learned so many lessons from them. Her mantra, “Only Love Today,” became my mantra too.
When I heard her new book, “Live Love Now: Relieve the Pressure and Find Real Connection with Our Kids” was being released, I couldn’t wait to read more of her wisdom as I try to navigate raising a 17-year-old during these challenging times.
The book is divided into three parts: Truth Teller, Encourager and Guide, and is full of real life examples and wisdom from Rachel’s years of working with teenagers and raising her own daughters. There are invaluable contributions from both of her daughters, as well as teenagers she has had the chance to meet over the past two years at speaking engagements. They give the reader insights into the challenges that teenagers are facing today. Rachel provides us with a number of tools so that we can connect with our children and help them discover their identity and the unique contributions they have to offer the world.
Rachel opens one chapter with this quote by Laura Parrott Perry, “What light can you shed by sharing your dark places? It is time to give your pain purpose. Time to put work boots on it. Send it out into the world. Give it a job.” In sharing “Live Love Now” with the world she has done exactly that.
When I heard her new book, “Live Love Now: Relieve the Pressure and Find Real Connection with Our Kids” was being released, I couldn’t wait to read more of her wisdom as I try to navigate raising a 17-year-old during these challenging times.
The book is divided into three parts: Truth Teller, Encourager and Guide, and is full of real life examples and wisdom from Rachel’s years of working with teenagers and raising her own daughters. There are invaluable contributions from both of her daughters, as well as teenagers she has had the chance to meet over the past two years at speaking engagements. They give the reader insights into the challenges that teenagers are facing today. Rachel provides us with a number of tools so that we can connect with our children and help them discover their identity and the unique contributions they have to offer the world.
Rachel opens one chapter with this quote by Laura Parrott Perry, “What light can you shed by sharing your dark places? It is time to give your pain purpose. Time to put work boots on it. Send it out into the world. Give it a job.” In sharing “Live Love Now” with the world she has done exactly that.
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April 8, 2020Rachel Macy Stafford is a modern day gifted writer with her new book Live Love Now. Tapping into her own personal struggles with micromanaging daily life with her young family and a career, being over scheduled, caring more about impressions rather than the lasting damage being done to her daughters due to her critical and destructive responses to them, she has written a beautiful and powerful book to help us all cope with today's pressures of raising teenagers. She shares a delicate balance of personal painful truths coupled with scientific evidence and tools and strategies to help parents open the lines of communication with their teenagers. Her ability to be vulnerable throughout the book makes you feel like you're listening to a friend talk to you, giving you first hand advice. Written with the intention of connecting with teenagers, this book is written for everyone. As a former special education educator, her approach in Live Love Now is soft and gentle, patient and understanding. Regardless of personal challenges in your own life, her words will resonate with your soul. You will no doubt be touched deeply and leave with new approaches to creating space for you and your teenager to develop a stronger long-lasting relationship.
April 8, 2020
Live Love Now is like an oasis in the desert, both a relief to read and a delight to devour the content. It is poignant and impactful but more than anything else, it is truthful and brave. This book helps guide HUMANS to deeper connection and promotes these bonds, created through openly sharing mistakes and working together instead of against our loved ones. From the beginning, with the heartwarming dedication to the Wanderers, Noticers and Dreamers, Rachel guides you through the story of her own recognition on the importance of looking inward which forged new bonds where disconnect was growing previously. She will provide real life Waypoints throughout the book to anchor the reader in truth and guide the reader to connectedness. She will inspire you to truly determine what your ‘No Trade’ declarations look like. Rachel will show you why “labels that stereotype are damaging for so many reasons” and she will help each reader find the truth in her statement: “We have to be vulnerable first. That means our humanness stops being a scary secret right now so we can become respected role models for the young people we love.” Be prepared to laugh, to jot down notes, to shed a few tears but most of all to want to share this with everyone you know!!
April 8, 2020
In Live Love Now, Stafford shares wisdom and insight into the needs and stressors in the daily lives of teens. She shares that we must be truth tellers, encouragers and guides for the teens in our lives. That we must use these qualities to lead teens down the path of their "dreamer girl" dreams so they can become who they were meant to be. It is our job to guide and encourage them to fulfill their dreams regardless as to whether we feel their dreams are worth pursuing or that their dreams line up with our dream for their life. Stafford reminds us to do our part to build the trust so that they will share with us their deepest thoughts and passions and strengthen our relationships. We are here to encourage and guide them to become resilient, compassionate adults living the life they were put on this earth to live. Every person who has relationships and influence over young adults should read this book.
April 7, 2020
Rachel's new book 'Live Live Now' has arrived at just the right time in my parenting journey! Her honesty and vulnerability help me to know that I am not alone in my journey to be a better parent. In 'Live Love Now', Rachel shares her personal struggles and how she has learned to work with them and overcome them. Each chapter includes helpful tips and ideas to help readers navigate the challenges we face as parents today. One of my biggest a-ha moments while reading the book was that while spending quality time with our children is invaluable, the ongoing invites to spend time together, even if declined by your child, are just as invaluable. I have read many parenting books in my 15 years of being a parent and I have to say that 'Live Love Now' is definitely at the top of my list! It is a must read! Thank you Rachel Macy Stafford!
April 8, 2020
This book will not only touch your heart- it will guide your heart. Rachel has such a way with words that you are touched to the core and changed by reading and taking in all that she has to say.
Our kids need us-especially our teens and preteens. Many of us need to change the way we react to difficulties our children face and the personal way that they respond to them.
We need to listen with our ears, hearts and souls. Our children need to be heard and need to be able to be who they are without us trying to guide them to our idea of perfection, or our goals for their lives.
This book will show you how to open your ears and open your heart to take in your children just as they are and celebrate their uniqueness and individuality.
Our kids need us-especially our teens and preteens. Many of us need to change the way we react to difficulties our children face and the personal way that they respond to them.
We need to listen with our ears, hearts and souls. Our children need to be heard and need to be able to be who they are without us trying to guide them to our idea of perfection, or our goals for their lives.
This book will show you how to open your ears and open your heart to take in your children just as they are and celebrate their uniqueness and individuality.
April 10, 2020
From the first words to the very last page, this book is an essential resource for parents of teens. Not only does Stafford provide actionable steps parents can take to ground their relationships with their teens in support and understanding, she also reaches through the pages to give the parents an important message: this is hard sometimes but you can do it. It's been a long time since I've read a book that conveyed such clear empathy and understanding wrapped up in specific steps to help parents reduce stress and build fulfilling relationships with their kids.
April 7, 2020
Rachel Macy Stafford's message in Live Love Now is one of gentle encouragement of a friend who has been there. Through the pages of this book, you get to know Rachel and her heart for children, teens, and young adults. Rachel describes being a place of refuge for the young person in your life. She shared that you need to turn away from distractions to embrace the sacred. Rachel encourages us to stop rushing and give loved ones our presence. I would recommend this book to anyone who longs to truly connect with a young person in their life.
I am a member of Live Love Now launch team. I received an early release copy of this book. All of the opinions expressed here are my own.
I am a member of Live Love Now launch team. I received an early release copy of this book. All of the opinions expressed here are my own.
April 8, 2020
Such a timely book about just listening without needing to fix. Encouraging strengths instead of focusing on the shortcomings. Learning to listen 80% of the time and only talk 20%. As a mom, of an almost 5 year old and 2 year old, so much of this book validated my struggles with trying to be a good parent in this digital age.
"The pauses are just as important as the guidance, and perhaps more important than the words. They make space to observe, to ask, to listen, and to remember."
I believe mom's with children of any age can appreciate the insights Rachel has shared, but especially those with middle school or high school aged children.
"The pauses are just as important as the guidance, and perhaps more important than the words. They make space to observe, to ask, to listen, and to remember."
I believe mom's with children of any age can appreciate the insights Rachel has shared, but especially those with middle school or high school aged children.
April 8, 2020
I am a huge RMS fan and have followed her for years. I think people who read this book as their first introduction will find themselves in love! I enjoyed this book very much and learned so many important truths. This book teaches us to how to encourage and empower the teens in our life. We learn that success isn’t GPA or college admissions but finding one’s purpose. Parenting is a privilege. It’s hard work-but the challenge is what makes its so good, to quote Ms. Avery Stafford :)
Loyal followers will recognize a good portion of the material from the blog and social media posts but the familiar stories will continue to ring true.
Written in an easy to read format, readers will find themselves lost in the pages and then find themselves again in the thought provoking questions. The application sections were particularly useful to me.
Thank you Rachel and the launch team for providing me this opportunity to read an advanced copy.
Loyal followers will recognize a good portion of the material from the blog and social media posts but the familiar stories will continue to ring true.
Written in an easy to read format, readers will find themselves lost in the pages and then find themselves again in the thought provoking questions. The application sections were particularly useful to me.
Thank you Rachel and the launch team for providing me this opportunity to read an advanced copy.
April 20, 2020
What an amazing opportunity it has been to read Live Love Now during these uncertain times. The title alone is an incredible daily reminder. As we turn towards our loved ones while staying home Rachel's gentle reminders and guidance have been the words of encouragement that I have needed. This book is truly a work of heart. I have been a huge fan of all of Rachel's work and have read all of her books. This book is raw and powerful. The perspective that Rachel offers is amazing. She is someone you can relate to - she feels like an old friend. She offers you the opportunity to share in her struggles, struggles that we have all experienced and ways to apply such a positive path to progress. She writes about the rolls that we play in the lives of those around us. This isn't just for parents but it is extremely powerful if you are in that roll. "Today matters more than yesterday" is a mantra (among many of hers) that I use daily. We can't change yesterday nor can or should we live in the past. Each morning is a fresh start to whatever your heart holds. She outlines the rolls of Truth-Teller, Encourager, and Guide in regards to our children in order to create stronger connections with those we love. If we do nothing else during this time with our family, I hope you can create special bonds and moments of connection with those who we hold dear and Rachel's book will help you do just that. As I walk through struggles with my own children, Rachel's reminders to share that "no mistake you make is bigger than my love for you", "you are never alone", and "I love you, just as you are today" are so vitally important - more than we will ever know. Don't wait another second - preorder this amazing book and also enjoy her free audio series as a bonus (which I have listened to twice through).
April 19, 2020
In these times of isolation due to the coronavirus, there could be no more apt title for Rachel Macy Stafford’s latest gift to our hearts than “Live Love Now.” As we shelter in place, we can’t do much, but we can decide each day to live the day with love.
Stafford’s writing doesn’t so much speak to the mind as it does to the heart. Her words act as a soothing balm to the spirit, a gift held by precious few authors. In “Live Love Now” Stafford speaks to all of us who fear we are doing life wrong in regards to our relationships, especially in our parent-child relationships. Like many mothers, I often feel guilt over not bringing my best self to this parenting gig and worry that I am not always the mother my teens need. Yet Stafford doesn’t speak from a place of rebuke; over and over she models the grace that we can share with our own family.
Stafford’s most vital message to every parent is “today matters more than yesterday.” We can’t erase the mistakes of yesterday, but we can have a fresh start each morning. With some intentionality, I can put aside my baser nature of criticism and be more loving towards my teens as a Truth-Teller, Encourager, and Guide as outlined in this book. Stafford says, “Connection is key because listening is love.” If these times of social isolation have taught us anything, may it be that connection is key. Stafford’s writing is a primer for forging connection, especially with our teens.
Over and over in conversations with teens, Stafford has heard common stressors come up. The six chapters take up these stressors in turn: our teens feel unseen & unheard, they experience rejection often, technology can be all-consuming, they lack life skills, they lack coping skills, and they feel pressure both at home and at school. In the face of these stressors, our teens need us more than ever, even though it may seem like they are trying to shut us out.
If we do nothing else with these weeks at home, may we use them to forge stronger connections with those we love most. Maybe we need this time for a fresh start with our teens. They desperately need to hear us say three vital truths that Stafford lays out: “No mistake you make is bigger than my love for you” and “You are never alone” and “I love you, just as you are today.”
My copy is full of highlights and bookmarks and I promise you that yours will be too if you’ll take the time to soak in the heartfelt guidance that Stafford is offering.
(My review is based on an advanced copy of this book. I did not receive anything in exchange for my honest review.)
Stafford’s writing doesn’t so much speak to the mind as it does to the heart. Her words act as a soothing balm to the spirit, a gift held by precious few authors. In “Live Love Now” Stafford speaks to all of us who fear we are doing life wrong in regards to our relationships, especially in our parent-child relationships. Like many mothers, I often feel guilt over not bringing my best self to this parenting gig and worry that I am not always the mother my teens need. Yet Stafford doesn’t speak from a place of rebuke; over and over she models the grace that we can share with our own family.
Stafford’s most vital message to every parent is “today matters more than yesterday.” We can’t erase the mistakes of yesterday, but we can have a fresh start each morning. With some intentionality, I can put aside my baser nature of criticism and be more loving towards my teens as a Truth-Teller, Encourager, and Guide as outlined in this book. Stafford says, “Connection is key because listening is love.” If these times of social isolation have taught us anything, may it be that connection is key. Stafford’s writing is a primer for forging connection, especially with our teens.
Over and over in conversations with teens, Stafford has heard common stressors come up. The six chapters take up these stressors in turn: our teens feel unseen & unheard, they experience rejection often, technology can be all-consuming, they lack life skills, they lack coping skills, and they feel pressure both at home and at school. In the face of these stressors, our teens need us more than ever, even though it may seem like they are trying to shut us out.
If we do nothing else with these weeks at home, may we use them to forge stronger connections with those we love most. Maybe we need this time for a fresh start with our teens. They desperately need to hear us say three vital truths that Stafford lays out: “No mistake you make is bigger than my love for you” and “You are never alone” and “I love you, just as you are today.”
My copy is full of highlights and bookmarks and I promise you that yours will be too if you’ll take the time to soak in the heartfelt guidance that Stafford is offering.
(My review is based on an advanced copy of this book. I did not receive anything in exchange for my honest review.)
April 17, 2020
Live Love Now by Rachel Macy Stafford is a gift to parents of kids of all ages everywhere. She shares how and what it means to build strong relationships with the young people in our lives. To see our kids for who they were created to be and not who we want them to be. Rachel shares her own vulnerability with her own heartfelt stories throughout the book all while also providing guidance to parents in helping their kids find meaning and purpose for themselves. In helping parents see simple changes can often yield positive results.
It would be difficult for me to remember and share how many times I had to stop while reading this book to reflect on my own past and present actions and words that I’ve used with the people that mean the most to me. Below are just a few sentences that stayed with me:
“The truth is not the end; it is the beginning.”
“It is only when I speak my greatest fears, admit my most difficult truths, proclaim my greatest longings, and shed light on my darkest thoughts that I feel heard, truly alive, and at peace.”
I had to retrain my mind and body to perceive the actions of those around as representations of their true selves, not of me. They were each walking to the beat of their own special tune, so who was I to dictate the speed, style, or cadence of the music? These were their gifts, not problems that needed to be fixed, and I needed to remember that and respond accordingly when we encountered future obstacles.
I’ve had this recurring thought and feeling that maybe it’s too late to connect on different levels with my teen. This book gives me hope that it’s not. My connections with my family, especially my tween and teen can still be improved by the actions, words and attitude I choose to take each and every day. By the way I choose to listen, encourage and provide guidance. The delivery of my message to my children, whether by words or actions has a powerful impact in how it is received. Something I often forget until it’s been done. I will continually repeat the following sentences to myself at various times every day:
Don’t get ahead of yourself — stay right here.
Don’t get lost in the past — stay right here.
Love in the moment.
This is where life is.
Rachel helps parents connect and reconnect with their kids through acceptance, encouragement and guidance. She helps parents see and hear the message most kids are really trying to share is their desire and wish to be seen, heard and given the opportunity to be who they were made to be; to be able to take their own path not one that’s forged for them. This is a book I will reread again and again and one I will gift to many of my dearest friends.
It would be difficult for me to remember and share how many times I had to stop while reading this book to reflect on my own past and present actions and words that I’ve used with the people that mean the most to me. Below are just a few sentences that stayed with me:
“The truth is not the end; it is the beginning.”
“It is only when I speak my greatest fears, admit my most difficult truths, proclaim my greatest longings, and shed light on my darkest thoughts that I feel heard, truly alive, and at peace.”
I had to retrain my mind and body to perceive the actions of those around as representations of their true selves, not of me. They were each walking to the beat of their own special tune, so who was I to dictate the speed, style, or cadence of the music? These were their gifts, not problems that needed to be fixed, and I needed to remember that and respond accordingly when we encountered future obstacles.
I’ve had this recurring thought and feeling that maybe it’s too late to connect on different levels with my teen. This book gives me hope that it’s not. My connections with my family, especially my tween and teen can still be improved by the actions, words and attitude I choose to take each and every day. By the way I choose to listen, encourage and provide guidance. The delivery of my message to my children, whether by words or actions has a powerful impact in how it is received. Something I often forget until it’s been done. I will continually repeat the following sentences to myself at various times every day:
Don’t get ahead of yourself — stay right here.
Don’t get lost in the past — stay right here.
Love in the moment.
This is where life is.
Rachel helps parents connect and reconnect with their kids through acceptance, encouragement and guidance. She helps parents see and hear the message most kids are really trying to share is their desire and wish to be seen, heard and given the opportunity to be who they were made to be; to be able to take their own path not one that’s forged for them. This is a book I will reread again and again and one I will gift to many of my dearest friends.
April 23, 2020
Live Love Now is a book full of hope. Rachel shines light in the darkness of uncertainty and unfamiliarity with our children that we are oftentimes afraid to go alone. She inspires us to be truth-tellers, encouragers and guides in their lives. In order to be able to show up for our children in this way, we must first discover ourselves, get comfortable with the uncomfortable, and bravely take the walk alongside our loved ones.
By sharing her personal stories and exposing her innermost truths, Rachel becomes relatable and trustworthy, like a close friend holding your hand and supporting you through your most difficult times.
As early as page 17, Rachel’s words hit home:
“Be advised, you may uncover things—about yourself and your teen—you don’t expect, causing you to wonder if it’s too late. I am here to assure you that it is not.
No matter how many obstacles currently stand in your way, no matter how much damage you feel you have done, no matter how foreign the teenage world is to you, no matter how unfamiliar the young people in your life feel right now, teens want you to see them. And they want you to see yourself in them—nervous, uncertain, awkward, but showing up anyway, flawed and full of hope.”
I recommend this book to anyone who desires to build a strong relationship with their child, where YOU are their “safe haven” and “lighthouse” helping them forge their OWN path that lines up with their “internal compass.”
Like I mentioned at the beginning of my review, this book’s message is full of hope. I’ll leave you with a few more hope-filled words from Rachel.
“We may very well be living through an unprecedented time in human history, when division and distraction have us feeling lost and more disconnected than ever. Still, I dare to submit that with small steps and a little self- examination, real connection with the young people in our lives can happen today.
The truth is not the end; it is the beginning.”
If that is not hope in its purest form, I don’t know what is.
By sharing her personal stories and exposing her innermost truths, Rachel becomes relatable and trustworthy, like a close friend holding your hand and supporting you through your most difficult times.
As early as page 17, Rachel’s words hit home:
“Be advised, you may uncover things—about yourself and your teen—you don’t expect, causing you to wonder if it’s too late. I am here to assure you that it is not.
No matter how many obstacles currently stand in your way, no matter how much damage you feel you have done, no matter how foreign the teenage world is to you, no matter how unfamiliar the young people in your life feel right now, teens want you to see them. And they want you to see yourself in them—nervous, uncertain, awkward, but showing up anyway, flawed and full of hope.”
I recommend this book to anyone who desires to build a strong relationship with their child, where YOU are their “safe haven” and “lighthouse” helping them forge their OWN path that lines up with their “internal compass.”
Like I mentioned at the beginning of my review, this book’s message is full of hope. I’ll leave you with a few more hope-filled words from Rachel.
“We may very well be living through an unprecedented time in human history, when division and distraction have us feeling lost and more disconnected than ever. Still, I dare to submit that with small steps and a little self- examination, real connection with the young people in our lives can happen today.
The truth is not the end; it is the beginning.”
If that is not hope in its purest form, I don’t know what is.
April 25, 2020
Live Love Now (LLN) is written so beautifully. I was blessed to receive an early copy and was torn to race through it versus savour the simple, beautiful moments captured on its pages. I chose the latter, and I feel now it would have been hypocritical to do anything different. This is a book that stays with you long after you have closed the covers. It is not your typical parenting book with your "how too's". In fact I would go as far as to say that it is counter cultural in many of its facets and ideas. It offers an invitation to slow down. It encourages the philosophy that less is more in our fast paced, full lives.
The author, Rachel, takes readers on her own journey of both joyous and failed parenting moments. Along the way she learns that our young people need less of most things on offer. Less technology, less activities, less pressure, less advice and less anxiety. They need more belief and acceptance on who they are even whilst potentially (and probably) failing along the way. Rachel encourages us to be noticers, encouragers and guides.
One of the most amazing sentiments that resonated with me was the fact that we don't need to encourage young people to find their purpose, but rather, guide them to being authentically themselves and that in doing so, their purpose will find them. As both a parent and teacher, this idea has dramatically changed my outlook.
The entire book is honest and so inspirational, and I have highlighted so many quotes on so many pages. But I think my favourite quote is this one, the one that lingers on the last page: "The daily offering of love and presence- no matter how imperfect or small, are creating a better way. The damaging patterns we are overcoming- not perfectly, but wholeheartedly, are creating a better life."
We all need this timely, well written beautiful reminder in our chaotic lives. I highly recommend for parents, caregivers and educators. It is beautiful!
The author, Rachel, takes readers on her own journey of both joyous and failed parenting moments. Along the way she learns that our young people need less of most things on offer. Less technology, less activities, less pressure, less advice and less anxiety. They need more belief and acceptance on who they are even whilst potentially (and probably) failing along the way. Rachel encourages us to be noticers, encouragers and guides.
One of the most amazing sentiments that resonated with me was the fact that we don't need to encourage young people to find their purpose, but rather, guide them to being authentically themselves and that in doing so, their purpose will find them. As both a parent and teacher, this idea has dramatically changed my outlook.
The entire book is honest and so inspirational, and I have highlighted so many quotes on so many pages. But I think my favourite quote is this one, the one that lingers on the last page: "The daily offering of love and presence- no matter how imperfect or small, are creating a better way. The damaging patterns we are overcoming- not perfectly, but wholeheartedly, are creating a better life."
We all need this timely, well written beautiful reminder in our chaotic lives. I highly recommend for parents, caregivers and educators. It is beautiful!
April 24, 2020
I turned 40 last year; I'm officially "middle-aged." I discovered Rachel Macy Stafford's work about five years ago, and her books and social media posts have been like lifelines for me. I dearly wish I had discovered them earlier.
Live Love Now is just what I need as my oldest approaches teen-dom and all the raging hormones, epic highs, and debilitating lows that come with it. Even just the titles of the three parts of the book--"Be a Truth-teller, not a Taskmaster," "Be an Encourager, Not an Enforcer," "Be a Guide, Not a Half-Listener"--contain so much truth and guidance, this book will be a lifeline for parents and anyone who works with young people. No single person in this world likes to feel rejected, unseen, or micromanaged--yet so much, this is how we treat our young people. Don't you remember being young and feeling superfluous? I sure do. And this is not how I want my kids to grow up.
This is a hard time to be young. Expectations for youth are so much greater than they were thirty years ago, and social media has a large role in that. I love this sentence from Rachel: "We cannot control all the conflicting messages our kids receive, but we *can* control the messages they receive from us." Our family has been talking more and more about things we cannot and things we CAN control--and the message I send to my kids about their value is one I can and will control.
And Live Love Now does not just apply to how we treat our young people: it's a guidebook for how to be a decent human being. EVERYONE can benefit from reading and applying the ideas Rachel so eloquently presents. Her writing is a gift to the world.
Whether you're a parent, a teacher (of any age), a counselor, a spouse, a friend--no matter who you are, you will gain wisdom and love from Live Love Now.
Live Love Now is just what I need as my oldest approaches teen-dom and all the raging hormones, epic highs, and debilitating lows that come with it. Even just the titles of the three parts of the book--"Be a Truth-teller, not a Taskmaster," "Be an Encourager, Not an Enforcer," "Be a Guide, Not a Half-Listener"--contain so much truth and guidance, this book will be a lifeline for parents and anyone who works with young people. No single person in this world likes to feel rejected, unseen, or micromanaged--yet so much, this is how we treat our young people. Don't you remember being young and feeling superfluous? I sure do. And this is not how I want my kids to grow up.
This is a hard time to be young. Expectations for youth are so much greater than they were thirty years ago, and social media has a large role in that. I love this sentence from Rachel: "We cannot control all the conflicting messages our kids receive, but we *can* control the messages they receive from us." Our family has been talking more and more about things we cannot and things we CAN control--and the message I send to my kids about their value is one I can and will control.
And Live Love Now does not just apply to how we treat our young people: it's a guidebook for how to be a decent human being. EVERYONE can benefit from reading and applying the ideas Rachel so eloquently presents. Her writing is a gift to the world.
Whether you're a parent, a teacher (of any age), a counselor, a spouse, a friend--no matter who you are, you will gain wisdom and love from Live Love Now.
April 22, 2020
As a parent, I have often thought about how I can do things differently than my parents did or do it just like they did, so I can provide my child(ren) with the parenting I wish I had. Rachel Macy Stafford's inspiring book, Live Love Now draws out the truths and wisdom we have within us and encourages us ‘to first be aligned with our true essence (be who you are with your actions and words) so we can establish that safe, spacious, nurturing environment that allows our child(ren) to develop their own internal compass of who they are (not who we expect) even when they are surrounded by a perfection demanding, externally focused culture’.
The book is divided into three sections and is a comfortable read mixed between real stories and evidence based research that ties directly with the chapters topic. Additionally, at the end of each chapter there are a few questions that she suggests we ask ourselves. Initially, I wanted to skip the questions, but as I have found through Rachel’s writing- her questions always tie back to self discovery. A beautiful thread that is woven through the book is affirmations and poems- and a truly heartfelt appeal closing the book, One WIndow, that drives it all home.
Upon finishing the book, there were many insights I had gained, just looking at my notes in the book margin one would wonder if there was a page that didn’t resonate with me. Two that truly resonated deeply and I found myself practicing immediately were to become a repeat inviter in activities and experiences with my child(ren) from inviting them everyday if they would join me on a walk/run or make a salad. Also, that I can model (and invite) them in installing healthy coping strategies as it is these strategies that become ingrained in the brain’s circuitry.
I encourage you to read this book, there is a starting point for each of us and many opportunities to reset and ‘Just be’ as we live each day.
The book is divided into three sections and is a comfortable read mixed between real stories and evidence based research that ties directly with the chapters topic. Additionally, at the end of each chapter there are a few questions that she suggests we ask ourselves. Initially, I wanted to skip the questions, but as I have found through Rachel’s writing- her questions always tie back to self discovery. A beautiful thread that is woven through the book is affirmations and poems- and a truly heartfelt appeal closing the book, One WIndow, that drives it all home.
Upon finishing the book, there were many insights I had gained, just looking at my notes in the book margin one would wonder if there was a page that didn’t resonate with me. Two that truly resonated deeply and I found myself practicing immediately were to become a repeat inviter in activities and experiences with my child(ren) from inviting them everyday if they would join me on a walk/run or make a salad. Also, that I can model (and invite) them in installing healthy coping strategies as it is these strategies that become ingrained in the brain’s circuitry.
I encourage you to read this book, there is a starting point for each of us and many opportunities to reset and ‘Just be’ as we live each day.
April 6, 2020
'Live Love Now: Relieve the Pressure and Find Real Connection with Our Kids' is a book you will want on your shelf.
In three parts, Stafford encourages and teaches the reader, through sharing personal experiences and offering space for reflection, to become a Truth-Teller, Encourager and Guide.
Throughout the book, I found myself stopping and asking: “How can I implement these beautiful lifelines with those I come into contact each day?” As an educator, I all too often see children, teens (and adults) bogged down by stress, anxiety, hopelessness and loneliness.
Stafford’s sharing of personal anecdotes, as well as those from students she has met along her journey, made me cry. I cried for what is happening in our current culture, but I also exhaled a sigh of relief, because Stafford provides ways to promote meaningful change, in our own life and in the lives of those around us.
My favorite chapters were the last two—in which Stafford shares about resilience and worthiness. Her writing allows me to breathe easier and realize the beauty of forming and maintaining authentic relationships, not only with the younger generation, but with one another.
“Neither of us expects the other one to be perfect; we simply expect that when we cry out in angst, pain, or fear, we will come to each other’s side.
This is the kind of love I’ve always wanted to give.
This is the kind of love I’ve always wanted to receive.
This is the kind of love I’ve always wanted to leave as my legacy.” (pg. 260-261)
If you feel like you have lost touch, or are quickly losing touch with the important people in your life (no matter which generation they belong to) due to technology (or any other matter) and you need help re-building those relationships-- this is the book for you. It is much more than a ‘how-to’ manual—it is a treasure of lifelines that, if implemented, will change your life forever.
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Thank you to Zondervan for this ARC.
In three parts, Stafford encourages and teaches the reader, through sharing personal experiences and offering space for reflection, to become a Truth-Teller, Encourager and Guide.
Throughout the book, I found myself stopping and asking: “How can I implement these beautiful lifelines with those I come into contact each day?” As an educator, I all too often see children, teens (and adults) bogged down by stress, anxiety, hopelessness and loneliness.
Stafford’s sharing of personal anecdotes, as well as those from students she has met along her journey, made me cry. I cried for what is happening in our current culture, but I also exhaled a sigh of relief, because Stafford provides ways to promote meaningful change, in our own life and in the lives of those around us.
My favorite chapters were the last two—in which Stafford shares about resilience and worthiness. Her writing allows me to breathe easier and realize the beauty of forming and maintaining authentic relationships, not only with the younger generation, but with one another.
“Neither of us expects the other one to be perfect; we simply expect that when we cry out in angst, pain, or fear, we will come to each other’s side.
This is the kind of love I’ve always wanted to give.
This is the kind of love I’ve always wanted to receive.
This is the kind of love I’ve always wanted to leave as my legacy.” (pg. 260-261)
If you feel like you have lost touch, or are quickly losing touch with the important people in your life (no matter which generation they belong to) due to technology (or any other matter) and you need help re-building those relationships-- this is the book for you. It is much more than a ‘how-to’ manual—it is a treasure of lifelines that, if implemented, will change your life forever.
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Thank you to Zondervan for this ARC.
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