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No matter how much we accomplish in a day, we nearly always feel a little guilt over what we didn't do. Taming Your To-Do List exposes a seismic shift in society: from one in which most of us were proactive to one in which we carry the burden of having to respond--to every email, text, tweet, and message we receive. This creates a cycle where everyone else sets the priorities for our days rather than us directing our own lives. The result? We procrastinate, putting off the important stuff for later while we tend to the "urgent" stuff right now. It's time to take back your schedule! Ready to tame your to-do list? This book shows you how.

201 pages, Kindle Edition

First published August 11, 2015

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Profile Image for Laura.
621 reviews134 followers
September 22, 2016
This was well organized, researched and encouraging to stop procrastinating. She incorporated life applicable bible verses that I found helpful when I feel overwhelmed and exhausted. If you are needing a little encouragement on how to organize all those small and large tasks and projects in you life, I wouldn't hesitate to read this.
Profile Image for Melissa Lee.
402 reviews40 followers
October 7, 2015
Rating: 3.5 / 5

I received an ARC copy of Taming the To-Do List by Glynnis Whitwer from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

As I read the introduction I thought to myself, this is me! I’ve always known I was a procrastinator but I am only now beginning to see how it is affecting my life. This book spoke to me before I even got to the first chapter. I found myself reading paragraphs and sentences and saying to myself “Yes!” Yes, this is how I feel when I look at the big picture. As Whitwer says it gnaws at my conscience.

The way Whitwer described her own struggles keeping up with her to-do list was a great way for her to connect and relate to her readers. This also showed how the research she did into procrastination wasn’t just for the sake of writing this book, but for her own personal well being as well. Knowing that this was a Christian based book, I was pleasantly surprised so see the inclusion of some scientific facts relating to the topics at hand. The written activities for the readers at the end of the chapters, offered me a great way to reflect on my own problems and gave me a better view of the whole picture of my life.

I knew going into this book that there would be references to the Bible and Christian beliefs, after all Revel is a Christian based publisher. To be honest I usually don't request to review their non-fiction books because the content tends to be a bit heavy for this non-religious reviewer. However when I read the synopsis of Taming the To-Do List, I decided to go for it, in hopes that it wouldn't be too heavy and that I would be able to learn some great tips. While I did take some tips away with me, I did find myself pulling away during parts that mentioned God's Will and sin. This lead for me to settle on a 3.5 star rating and not a higher number.

I would recommend Taming the To-Do List by Glynnis Whitwer to its intended audience: Christian woman who are looking to get a hold of their own hectic schedules.

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Profile Image for Matt.
1,011 reviews
August 12, 2023
I guess I have already read too many other good productivity books, but I found nothing of value in this one that I had not already heard or read elsewhere. Perhaps if you're new to the game this little book will get you onto a path where you'll be managing your to do list like a pro. If so then good for you.

I cannot recommend this to anyone who has read David Allen's books. He's the "Wayne Gretzky" of the GTD personal productivity world. I'd start there if you're wondering how to "Get Things Done".
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7 reviews
May 26, 2021
Finishing this book was exhausting. I expect some faith talk in motivation focused, self-help books, but this author really hits you over the head with her religious beliefs, over and over and over again. I wouldn’t recommend reading this book unless you’re really into Christian, faith-based readings. The secular advice includes nothing particularly interesting or insightful.
Profile Image for Michele Morin.
704 reviews46 followers
October 14, 2015
Don't Put It Off




I really didn’t think I needed this book.

It was written for procrastinators, for people who need help in Taming the To-Do-List.
If anything, I’m an “ante-crastinator,” too faint-hearted to wait until the last minute, who goes into panic mode just thinking about the potential of going into panic mode.

But then I read Glynnis Whitwer’s definition of procrastination, “a voluntary delay of something we could do but choose not to,” and thought about the weight I gained during the perilous winter of 2015. Yes, THAT weight that was going to come off over the summer . . . And now autumn is here.

Needless to say, that epiphany instantly leveled my objections and heightened my attention to the details of the book, and I found myself not only reading it but also working through the end-of-chapter questions as I read. Glynnis’s words resonated for me and my plight: “It’s not that we don’t get things done — we don’t get the right things done.” Yes, my do-list gets “tamed” on a daily basis — I love those check marks! But it’s the things I don’t write down and that don’t get done that stand in the way of my goals: take a walk; prepare healthy snacks; go to bed!

So, I’m in. I’m ready to stop feeling regret and to face the discomfort of saying no to myself about unhealthy eating choices (Chapter 2). I will stop believing the myth that I can eat anything I want and still experience good health (Chapter 5). I will make better choices about how I use my time so that I will be less likely to stress-eat (Chapter 7), and I will adopt an appreciation for this new concept: “mono-tasking” (Chapter 8).

There is abundant wisdom to be found in the final chapters of Glynnis’s fine book, particularly around the topic of wise waiting. “All procrastination is delay, but not all delay is procrastination.” Waiting for the best time, waiting for other priorities to be fulfilled, waiting for God to give clear direction –these are great reasons for delayed action, and this journey of facing an area of my life that needs strengthening is a great reason for me to have read a book that I thought I didn’t need. Is it possible that you need it too?


For more about Taming the To-Do List in Glynnis’s own words, check out her web-site, but particularly this entry.

This book was provided by Revell, a division of Baker Publishing Group, in exchange for my review. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
Profile Image for Create With Joy.
682 reviews170 followers
September 25, 2015
Are you the kind of gal who loves to make To Do Lists? Do you get a keen sense of satisfaction out of checking little boxes that indicate you’ve accomplished something meaningful?

Do you also find yourself becoming increasingly overwhelmed by the number of tasks remaining on your list at the end of each day?

Does the tendency to accomplish something – anything – sometimes lead you to focus on doing the little things – the minor things – while the really important things sit and linger on your list?

If you find yourself putting off the really important things in life to deal with the less pressing things that are vying for your attention in the moment, then Taming The To-Do List – How To Choose Your Best Work Every Day by Glynnis Whitwer needs to make its way to the top of your reading list!

Taming The To-Do List explores the role that procrastination plays in our lives.
Glynnis explores the reasons we procrastinate – the price we pay for procrastinating – and how to move from a place of procrastination to a place of productivity.

She also explores the role that fear, perfectionism and busyness play in our procrastination, and shows how even small changes can have a big impact in our ability to get things done. At the end of each chapter, she includes a Practical Application exercise that allows us to put what we’ve learned into action.

Psalm 90:12 says:

Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.

In Taming The To-Do List, Glynnis Whitwer shows us how to do just that.

I rate this book 4 out of 5 stars.

To read this review in its entirety, visit Create With Joy.

Disclosure: I received a copy of this book to review from the publisher. However, the opinions expressed in this review are entirely my own.
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181 reviews17 followers
August 12, 2016
I really enjoyed this book. It was timely for me and exactly where I'm at. I gleaned a lot of great nuggets that I'll use!
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1,467 reviews85 followers
September 15, 2022
A fabulous, must-read book for anyone who finds themselves with busy work instead of their best work. I highlighted SO many notes in this book and it is one I will return to again and again. One of the most surprising things Glynnis includes in this book is the effects procrastination has on our stress levels, which affect our health. She goes on to explain some of the symptoms which was very eye-opening to me.
Profile Image for Terri.
431 reviews
November 19, 2018
This was a pretty good book on procrastination. Although much of it didn't pertain to me, and I'd hoped to lock in what my procrastination problem is, she really didn't hit on it. Not much that she covered as a reason for procrastination really seemed to be me. But she did hit on some interesting points and ideas that helped. But truly, I have a found a good self help remedy for my procrastination problem, as I said, I had hoped to find the reason I procrastinate, hoping it would help me even more. In spite of the fact that I didn't find the reason the book was still somewhat helpful, and you may find one of her reasons to be your own and it may help you immensely.
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31 reviews
January 13, 2017
Ever have a list of things to do as long as your arm?! This book is a must read for you!
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1,876 reviews116 followers
October 14, 2015
Are you constantly making to-do lists and moving the same items over week to week? Do you look at your to-do list and immediately do the easiest thing just so you can check something off? Do you put off projects and deadlines until the last minute?

If you answered "Yes" to any of those questions, then my advice to you is to read this book. I was shocked while reading this book and realizing Whitwer was speaking directly to me. I am guilty of making to-do lists and constantly ignoring the bigger or harder tasks. It is much easier to finish the smaller and easier items and feel accomplished because I scratched off three or four things. But, the underlying problem is that I am really procrastinating on the bigger things I need to be doing.

Whitwer makes this point because she too has avoided the bigger and harder projects. For years she found ways to avoid and make excuses for not writing this very book. But, by naming her issue, "procrastination", and then finding ways to work through those bigger tasks she obviously, was able to finish this book as well as a number of other elusive projects, Whitwer found she was less anxious, less overcommitted, and accomplished more by completing the steps she outlines in her book. Her first step was to remove some of her overwhelming commitments from her life and releasing the fear of letting those tasks go. Also, removing the perfectionist piece from any project allows more room for things to get done versus getting done perfectly.

Her book of tips and advice applies to so many areas of my life. I never thought of myself as a procrastinator until I realized that is exactly what I am. Her tip for making a project list and then breaking each project down into its own task list was a "light bulb moment" for me. I have been moving the same tasks from my to-do list each week with no real intention of completing them. By, breaking each larger project up into steps allows me to not see it as such a huge project and inspires me to start and end each step along the way to actually finishing the whole project. Why I didn't figure this out before is beyond me.

Whitwer is a Christian and bases a lot of her advice on wisdom from Scriptures. God's purpose for us is clearing detailed through the Bible and she relies on it to help her overcome her procrastinating tendencies. I found these passages reassuring and motivating as well.

I will be keeping TAMING THE TO-DO LIST close by my desk, referring to it often when I am feeling overcommitted, anxious, and weighed down by projects. Her wise words of advice will be sure to push me to get the job done.

Favorite Quotes:

"Every yes to one choice is actually also a no to something else." Page 50

"Excellence is possible in some things; perfection is possible in nothing.
Excellence pushes us to do our best; perfectionism pushes us to be the best." Page 115
Profile Image for Lorraine Montgomery.
315 reviews12 followers
September 30, 2015
I received a free copy of this book from Revell Reads, a division of Baker Publishing Group, in exchange for an honest review and my participation in a September Blog Tour.

Taming the To-Do List is a subject that will appeal to many. Most of us have encountered problems with an overwhelming 'to-do' list. Well, so has Glynnis Whitwer; hence, this book. The technology age that gave us so many appliances that were supposed to bring more leisure time with our families, soon gave way to an information age where it is easy to shift undone items from an old list to a new list, have myriad social network distractions, and put the onus on us to respond to others who inundate us with emails and text messages. Were people too busy and overwhelmed 50 years ago? Probably. But probably not at the same frenetic pace we are today.

Whitwer has broken down the problems that stem from that out-of-control to-do list that soon seems like an octopus pulling us in different directions all at once, into causes and solutions. While acknowledging that not everyone will have all, or even some of the same problems, she is able to help, chapter by chapter, to organize some basic elements (like procrastination, myths we find solace in, and the costs involved when we let things 'slide'), how to peel them back, find the causes, and slowly, prayerfully change our priorities with all the ensuing benefits.

God has promised forgiveness to your repentance; but He has not promised tomorrow to your procrastination.


Beginning with this quote from St. Augustine, and using her own personal experiences, Whitwer examines how we procrastinate and gives us hints and tools for uncovering the 'whys' of our procrastinations. She asks us to look at two areas of our lives we'd like to change, a regular task and a personal goal, and then at the end of each chapter, she asks us to apply the principles highlighted there to these two areas to reveal how our lives will change exponentially as a result.

Stressing the importance of our health (including sleep) in order to give our best, and our trust in the word of God, Whitwer shows us various studies that help us to understand how we're designed and things we can do or avoid doing to help us stay sharp. She uses studies to show us how our minds work and how something like having to make a lot of decisions in a day can tire us out and leave us unmotivated and lacking in energy and willpower.

There are lots of good suggestions for everyone in this book and you can glean helpful advice even if you feel not everything can be applied to your situation. For Whitwer, the key is leaning on the truths from the word of God and trusting in His promises. This is a very good interpretation of basic things that leave us paralyzed in the face of our to-do lists.
Profile Image for Carrie Schmidt.
Author 1 book490 followers
October 1, 2015
Full of both scriptural and practical tips, Glynnis Whitwer approaches the issue of procrastination and our impossible to-do lists from the perspective of a fellow sojourner. She is someone who knows what it’s like to feel overwhelmed by everything that isn’t getting done. And it’s not just the mundane tasks that pile up incomplete thanks to our tendency to over-commit; sometimes (more often than not) we push aside the things that make our hearts sing.

How do we gain victory over our schedules? Glynnis first helps us understand why we fall into this pattern and points out several myths that we have believed about procrastination (I work better under pressure, anyone?). She then gives us practical tips to do break the cycle, backed by scriptural application to reinforce how imperative this really is.

Glynnis also discusses the importance of making a plan and how much it keeps us from wasting time. I really liked the Biblical support she gives for this concept – it made me think of plan-making in a new way. For instance, we must balance Proverbs 21:5 – Good planning and hard work lead to prosperity, but hasty shortcuts lead to poverty (NLT) – with Proverbs 16:3 – Commit to the Lord whatever you do and he will establish your plans. Her solution to this apparent dilemma? PRAY before you plan! Let God help you set the agenda :)

Bottom Line: A wonderfully practical and encouraging guide to find freedom from procrastination, Taming the To-Do List brims with truth, wisdom, and understanding. So much more than another book on time-management, it sets you free and also gives you marching orders – doable marching orders – to make sure you really do choose your best work every day. More importantly, when we’ve tamed our to-do list, we have time for God’s ideas for our day! Each chapter is full of great tips and truth from the Bible, and the exercise at the end of every chapter is a great tool to keep you on the right track.

(I received a copy of this book in exchange for only my honest review.)
Profile Image for Amy.
679 reviews31 followers
October 30, 2015
When I was offered an opportunity to read this book, honestly, this is what I thought, "One more thing to add to my to-do list." And yet, taming my to-do list, was exactly what I needed to read about, so I went ahead and chose to prioritize the book along with all the other things I have to do.

But, Oh My Word, It was soooo worth it!! Glynnis addresses things in her book I have struggled with for years. And also enlightened me quite to my dismay on some personal issues I have, such as procrastinating! That is a biggie for me. I like to say, "I work well under pressure." Basically, I just mean, I leave things til the last minute and then get them done because I HAVE to. But in doing so, am I really doing my best work, or just getting it done? I want to do my best for my family, and especially for my Lord and Savior.

Life has changed so drastically in the last few years, especially the way we communicate and that is something Glynnis talks about. The need to be immediately, at any given moment, at everyone else's disposal, which in turn hinders our productivity levels. It also keeps us operating re-actively instead of pro-actively. I know this is true in my own life. So many outward things always seem to be demanding my time, knowing which to prioritize and which to let go is a difficult assignment.

There is so much to glean from this book, you won't want to miss it! I am planning on re-reading it slowly and taking my time applying these principles. This is not one you want to just rush through. Invest in it and you will be doing your best work by the time you are through.

I received this book from Revell in exchange for my honest opinion.
Profile Image for Naomi.
585 reviews1 follower
November 2, 2015
I am so glad that my book club decided to read this book. Just having started a very consuming job (that I love) and still having regular household life to take care of, my to-do list was crushing me. Glynnis Whitwer's book has really helped me to prioritize things that I need to get done and to help me look at my time in a different way. Several times when I have had an extra 30 minutes or hour I have tackled a larger project instead of a bunch of little ones. I also realized there are things that I procrastinate on and those things often could be much easier if I would take care of them right away. I also came away with the realization that I need to rest and give myself grace when life is really busy and I'm not able to get everything done.
I am so glad that I read this and have a completed guestroom that had been waiting to be decorated for months as a result of the goal setting I did with the book. It feels good!
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Author 44 books410 followers
October 10, 2015
Packed With Insights For Every Reader

If you feel overcommited and overwhelmed, you need this book. When you read Glynnis Whitwer's bio, you wonder how she gets it all done. This book gives the inside scoop and valuable insights for every reader (not just women). I loved the practical application sections at the end of each chapter where readers apply the teaching to their own situation.

As Whitwer writes in the opening chapter, "Reordering my priorities and learning new ways to manage my workload brought a sense of peace I hadn't felt in years.This is definitely still an ongoing battle, but there is hope. As we go through this book, I'll share some of my choices with you. But even though I made some smart changes in my life, I discovered my overcommitment issue had another layer underneath. There was another beast to face head-on. Its name was procrastination." (Page 16)

Every reader will find great information and help in this book. I highly recommend it.
Profile Image for Terrie Kellum pursel.
3 reviews1 follower
May 20, 2017
So much more than I expected!

I became acquainted with the author through Compeltraining.com, a website for writers. I was curious to read her work. I was not disappointed. This is so much more than about a to-do list. It's about procrastination and why, as in what goes on in our brain, we do it. She does not present pat solutions that could be found in a magazine or organization solutions book. She does present personal experience that made me think she had been looking into a window on my life. Research on how the brain processes, how we use mental energy and make decisions brings legitimacy to solutions she proposes. I would highly recommend this book to anyone who struggles with facing projects, making decisions and getting thing done!
Profile Image for Kelsey Bryant.
Author 36 books218 followers
August 16, 2017
I won't say it solved all my problems, but it gave me some much needed encouragement and some good advice about life management. It dwells mainly upon procrastination. I'm not a habitual procrastinator, but I do have certain projects that I put off ... and off ... and off, so it helped me put plans in place to address them. Definitely a book I'd like to keep on hand for when I find my to-do list getting out of control again.
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974 reviews25 followers
September 6, 2015
Very good book - it is a lot about procrastination - lots to learn in this on.

Going to start a Bible Study on it this week through Proverbs31 - it is going to be great.
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134 reviews
May 23, 2018
Very helpful in overcoming my tendency to procrastinate.
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132 reviews
May 23, 2021
I’m so glad I found this book! I’ve been struggling with some things left on my to-do list for months. I’m a mom of two, a baby & toddler, and barely get a few minutes to focus on anything; when I do get pockets of time it’s always focused on the chores of the household or preparing meals. I need to get better at time management and I love that this book goes deep into procrastination, what it is and isn’t, the desire for perfection, the time wasters that distract us, and dealing with burnout. I liked the quote “My burnout experience happened because I had neglected to care for myself. If we want to sustain energy to fulfill God’s calling on our lives and complete the work He has given us to do, we should build renewal into our lives on a weekly basis. Waiting until we fall apart creates lots of collateral damage.”
I liked the project management approach of separating simple tasks from multi-step projects, and creating a routine in the day allowing for the fluctuations of energy level. I will definitely try this!
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Author 4 books84 followers
February 19, 2019
This book helps us figure out which underlying issues may be at the root of our I-never-manage-to-get-it-all-done problems. She looks at everything from fear and perfectionism to what motivates us and how our view of time may be affecting things.
The author lumps all the topics under the heading of procrastination, but her definition—a voluntary delay of something we could do but choose not to—applies to all of us in some area or other. I found the application questions at the end of each chapter particularly helpful, even in the chapters that dealt with facets of the problem I thought I had under control.
Profile Image for Christine.
50 reviews30 followers
October 15, 2019
This book was exactly what I was needing and came to me at the right time. Glynnis provides concepts that you are able to put into action shortly after listening/reading the book. I appreciated the reflection questions at the end of each chapter so much, I ordered the paperback to go back and reference so I am able to make notes and see my progress. I also appreciated the Biblical and scientifical references along with how she was so relateable by describing her own struggles with procrastination. I see the end to my procrastination as an ongoing process, but appreciate the book in giving me the start I need.
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63 reviews
April 14, 2022
Terrific book with plenty of thoughts and practical ideas on how to rethink how I manage my to-do list. The author centers our time management around procrastination, but it’s far more than that. I thought, by the title of it, I would be shown how to limit what’s on my list; however, my take-away was that the book was more about actually doing what’s on your list with wise management. By the time I was almost finished reading the book, I was inspired to dive into all I do and rethink how I organize my goals. It seemed to click with me areas that I consistently struggled with in planning. I already see progress in accomplishing some of my long-awaited (and procrastinated) goals.
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325 reviews6 followers
May 17, 2017
Although I do not see myself as a procrastinator, I still found this book insightful. My son is a heavy procrastinator who drives me insane. I read a lot of this book to gain more insight into WHY we procrastinate and how to overcome this heavy habit, in hopes of helping him.
One of my great take-aways from this book is that we were created to be in relationships, not to simply be productive. It's important to work less on approval ratings and more on relationships. ❤️
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574 reviews20 followers
October 26, 2018
I slowly read this book in small doses and especially enjoyed reading a section or two in the mornings before starting the to-do list of the day. Much of the book focuses of procrastination. I found the Wise Time Manager chapter the most interesting, personally, and other parts that offered concrete ideas that could be applied today. The book is by a Christian author and she uses bible verses to support her message.
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43 reviews3 followers
February 15, 2019
Although a fair amount of the information is what I would consider common sense, I do appreciate many of Ms. Whitwer's practical solutions. I'm definitely looking forward to implementing her idea of a new-and-improved to-do list that organizes projects into tasks, rather than adding all the things that need to happen to a single list. I was also blessed by the scripture Ms. Whitwer frequently cites, providing spiritual encouragement to tackle the responsibilities God has given me.
Profile Image for Kayla Verdon.
66 reviews
August 15, 2020
I read this book at my mom's request; as a non-believer I did not find very much of the advice applicable to me, nor do I hold the same priorities as Whitwer does, but enough of the points she makes are transferable or at least alterable to a secular lifestyle that I did find it a useful read. She definitely does not write from a "scientific" perspective, but she does write from an honest, genuine, non-judgmental perspective which can be just as helpful sometimes. Worth giving a try.
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138 reviews
March 8, 2021
This book was amazing! Although it took me a month to finish it, I really, really loved it (blame it on motherhood).
Must say for 50% of the time Whitwer ask God for the right answers for her problems, so if you don't like the Christian view in books, I might skip this one, but still the message is so clear. Great tips! Will definitely reread this one one day.

Also: why is this book so heavy? 😅
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303 reviews28 followers
January 11, 2023
This book is full of practical tips for those who struggle with procrastination. I am not one that struggles with this area however, I did find some takeaways while reading this. I would recommend this book to anyone who actively struggles with procrastination. If you don't, I would skip it.

"While there are always demanding people in our lives, sometimes the most unrealistic demands come from inside our own heads."
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