Let me preface that this book is not for everyone. I think I’ve always been fascinated with psychology, and have been considering applying for a counseling degree. That said this book weaves through incredibly complex trauma, with medical authority, and also keeping the main thing the main thing. In other words relation to Christ the root of healing alongside complex solutions for complex trauma. It is not a light read, takes time to digest, but ultimately helps me understand trauma responses, healing and the like.
Some quotes:
“I see forgiveness as a process rather than as an event at a particular point in time…”
“One of the more exciting parts… is to watch them grow spiritually as they heal emotionally.”
“By accident I got some black marker on my hand, and I tried to wash it of and I scrubbed at it, but it wouldn't come off, but inside I knew that it would eventually wear off!
As I looked at the black marker on my hand, it symbolizes to me the abuse that somehow got on me that intruded into my life, not by accident, not planned on, by my parents. Its black and ugly, and I've tried to scrub the blackness away ... my skin has been raw many times, trying to get the ugliness off, And I keep hoping that eventually it'll fade away too ... hoping that it isn’t always going to be a part of my life.”