Enjoyed it 3.5 stars
The book was interesting, even more so given that in this genre in particular, we have very few books talking about life threatening illnesses and how both the patients and the family deal with it all. At first Jacob was very annoying with all of his flip flopping until we realize what was going on with him. I was very disappointed by Cadence’s first reaction, basically as he is not perfect walk away to save yourself the heartache? As for her dad, he really hadn’t learn his lesson. He almost lost his son because of his attitude and now he is at it again. It was even more shocking to me given that he was a doctor. How dare he speak like this to Jacob, even more so considering that he is very ill. I know Nadia was very young and scared because there was a strong possibility that she would end up being a single mother, however I’m not sure I would have been so quick to forgive my father. His behavior was appalling and disrespectful. He treated her like a child instead of an adult. I wouldn’t want my kid to grow up with the understanding that I only love you if you do what I say. To be honest on one hand I applauded the fact that Nadia bet on love on the other hand I felt the author made her too immature. First of all, all this crying was annoying. I know it’s hard to deal with his potential death, but let’s be honest he is the one dying. It’s somewhat selfish that on top of making sure he goes through the day, he has to hold your hand too. In that case you can’t have proper communication and intimacy. Her constant “my dad can help” made her come across as a teenager who still believes her dad is a hero and can solve anything. For someone educated, I couldn’t believe that she didn’t do any research to know exactly what the illness was, didn’t go to his doctor to have a conversation about the situation and what to expect with and without surgery. She could have gone to a support group to help her deal instead of this denial situation she had going on. Her attitude, when he decided to do the surgery was juvenile. Lots of crying instead of trying to understand and support. She should have had that talk with him before hand anyway. As for Jacob, I am very surprised that he wasn’t seeing a therapist to help him deal with his diagnosis. Basically, I feel that there’s a lot more that could have been done with this book, adding some more depth to a complex situation.