"If there is a gulf between how we feel and how we look, then it can be broadened or bridged by the clothes we wear."
"To be seen always is to be refused the right to reserve our privacy, no matter what we wear. We watch ourselves being watched and feel how helpless we are in the face of the evaluative glance of others. To walk in the world as a woman is to be made available for assessment."
"There is a power to be claimed in dresses. Our clothes can illustrate our interior life and they can also present the privacy of such a thing. They are the surface that masks all that is withheld beneath. And then, the question to ask is not what do you say in the clothes that you wear, but what is it that you refuse to lay bare?"
"The question of how we carry is predicated by our right to possess things at all. In claiming proprietorial rights to stuff that is exclusively ours, we mark out the parameters of our particular personhood, distinct from others."
"What we know from our own bags, briefcases and pockets is that in them there can be room for a delightful eclecticism, the madcap conjunction of disparate things, an utterly idiosyncratic assembly."
"What do women keep to themselves? The bag is a window into a woman’s soul, and it is a metaphor too that suggests what it means to have a private life, to possess the capacity to keep hold of, carry within or give away things that are more intangible than mere stuff."
"The truth is that in clothes we know so many things. We know how one garment can tilt the day, how dresses contain us and how folds hide our depths. We know the grave heaviness of overcoats and the effervescent lightness of jackets, how laughing youth can seize hold of coat-tails and never let go. We reach for the shoes in which we resist gravity and leap into space, that permit us to walk freely or flee unpursued, that right us when we threaten to tumble down and steadily carry us home."