Between the participants in any relationship, there exists a kind of enescapable communion whereby they create—dream up—parts of one another's worlds of experience out of each other's dreams. Rather than viewing this as a liability, it is a powerful learning too, offering practical strategies for making even the most difficult or unpleasant interaction a source of growth and new understanding.
Excellent book to describe countertransference and the dreaming up process. Great book for people who are therapists, facilitators, consultants, coaches and people just interested in relationship dynamics.