Number 2 in the Mindfulness Essentials series by Zen teacher Thich Nhat Hanh, How to Eat hits westerners especially in a vulnerable spot: meal time.
See, we have lots on our minds, and eating doesn't change that much. As families, we often don't eat together. We eat FAST food. We eat in our cars, on our couches, while cooking or talking.
We eat too fast. We eat too much. We eat foods that don't exactly help our planet.
If simplicity and slowing down to focus are important concepts to remember while sitting, loving, walking, and relaxing (the other four "essentials"), they certainly bear watching in regards to our favorite pastime, eating.
As Hanh points out, there are TVs and then there are TVs in our minds. Both distract us while we eat our food.
Although he never uses the word, "scarf" is appropriate slanguage for the favorite way we eat our food. At least that's true of me. Yum-yum and it's gone! I'm "famished," after all (never mind, unlike a sizable chunk of the world's and my own country's population, I don't even know what "famished" means).
No, no, no. Rewind. Reset. Sit and take breaths before you eat that dish before you. Really look at it and smell it. Consider its history (world in which it grew, farmers who planted it, workers who harvested it, drivers who transported it). Be appreciative.
Take a bite and truly focus on the taste. Put your spoon down and eat it slowly before you go for another. Really know this food!
Hanh even touts the meditative wonders of dishwashing! (This I can appreciate. Often in life, I've found myself thinking deep thoughts while mowing the lawn or shoveling snow off the walk.)
Hanh recommends occasional silent meals, even when seated with your family or a group. He feels you are there for each other, smiling, eating slowly, eating in moderation, etc.
Hanh's FIVE CONTEMPLATIONS sum it up nicely:
1. This food is a gift of the Earth, the sky, numerous living beings, and much hard and loving work.
2. May we eat with mindfulness and gratitude so as to be worthy to receive this food.
3. May we recognize and transform unwholesome mental formation, especially our greed, and learn to eat with moderation.
4. May we keep our compassion alive by eating in such a way that reduces the suffering of living beings, stops contributing to climate change, and heals and preserves our precious planet.
5. We accept this food so that we may nurture our brotherhood and sisterhood, build our community, and nourish our ideal of serving all living beings.