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I got this book from Netgalley for an honest review. Since most reviewers enjoyed this book, I feel a little out of synch, but I really did not enjoy it. It's soooo long. I mean I read Anna Karenina with no complaints. This book is long!
I'll start with the positive... I liked the cover of the book. The writing style is simple and straight forward. There is attention to detail in developing the main characters personality and lives outside of each other which I appreciate. I did not connect with these characters and found their romance problematic, but that's just me.
First impression of the dude Ryan is that he's an asshole. I know and love some assholes, so I don't object on principle, but he's rude and mean on top of it. I seriously don't get why Sam is into him. At. All. He tells her to piss off (twice!) upon meeting her, he's not listening when she talks to him and he gives her the worst, grossest pick up line... Which she falls for.
But, what really annoyed me, is that when he took a moment to evaluate her drunkenness and see if she was really able to consent (which a basic human person is supposed to do) she is annoyed with him. This author can kick rocks. 🤬
I can admit Ryan improves somewhat - he's umm smart? Honest. He's honest. To a fault, but it's cool. Apparently he's a deep thinker and an introvert. Huh. I mean, I am a thoughtful introvert, but I can say I have never been as rude to random strangers as this man is... Maybe it's because he's a white man? There I go with my thinking again.
Ryan is himself to everyone (that is -constantly rude and mean), but somehow he gets his shit together enough to have a whole dinner with Sam's family on the fly. And he's charming. Dear reader, I shit you not. This felt very inconsistent with a personality we are lead to believe he has no control over.
Sam, I just don't get. She's a creative, outgoing CEO running her own company, yet she is insecure and reactive AF. Like all her boss lady interactions seem like she's faking it. Her attraction to Ryan is a complete mystery. If I have to hear about his "magnetic eyes" one more time...
I don't even know if I want to discuss the power dynamics. I'll try and be brief. She's his boss. Ok, technically she wasn't when they slept together, but she mentions their sexual encounter in tandem with his performance eval. Gross. GROSS. So gross. And this dude Ryan is in constant fear of being fired. I don't get it...
At one point Sam reflects on his perspective, and genuinely acknowledges (finally!) how fucked up she has been toward him, BUT she does very little to help him understand that. Like, she just seems to commit to allowing people to talk shit about him, but doesn't commiserate. Um, lady. You're the boss. You're not allowed to talk shit about employees to other employees.
Ok, secondary characters. Lucas and Becky. Gay friend/employee & BFF/employee of Sam, and Ryan's coworkers. Oh, wait this lady already has complex relationships with ppl she works with. I guess the whole plot is over? Nope, we still have 80% of this book to get through. I digress... Becky is kind of a mess. She hired Ryan on her brothers recommendation, but hates him. But throws Sam and him together. IDK what is happening.
Lucas is possibly the only likeable person in this book (Alice is a plot device, not a character). He gives Ryan a chance and actually has some consistent and logical growth. I like it. Unfortunately, this author won't stop with the BS flirting with the straight man. Like, why? This is not a thing. It never stops! So fucking annoying.
My sincere apologies to Netgalley for my honesty. (You see, I'm just like Ryan.)