Technically, I just listened to her 2-hour interview about her book, but I wanted to remember what I read…
Expect, allow, and talk back to anxiety (helpful to personify anxiety). Respect “I am safe”
“What if-ing” zaps our ability to be present.
Combat that - ask “is that really true? to bring the spiral-effect back to reality.
Meditation, mindfulness. Breathing!
Different personalities (what is unique about you). Story telling - look at our lives and tell a bigger story.
Talk about the world, talk about family history.
“Fitting-in” zaps our ability to be whole. Our thinking become inaccurate with anxiety.
Finding your why. What do you want to contribute to the world?
5 C’s — check worried thoughts, catch them,
Collect, challenge, change.
Cocoon — hiding our abilities for fear of failure. Don’t want to show imperfections; don’t want to take risks. Can’t grow if you don’t take risks.
“Under the duck” - on the surface, it looks easy for them. But, the had to paddle and work hard to get there!
“Flip the switch” - from jealously to admiring other’s talents.
Kid become FIRED - thinking their worth is based on the n accomplishments, “should-ing”,
Attaching these “shoulds” to their character.
Live with purpose, have a reason to wake up in the morning.
Find your FLOW
Good sleep bubbles - sleep is SO important!
Repeat - “I am safe”
“Choose your mindset”