I read the complete Christy Miller series in high school and loved it! As a 9th grader, I related to many of 14-year-old Christy's struggles, thoughts, and uncertainties.
Christy comes from a solid family with strong midwestern values, but they are not Christians nor rooted in the Word of God. (As an example, Christy doesn't recognize 1 Corinthians 13, one of the most oft-quoted books in the Bible -p48). Christy attends public school in Escondido, California.
As an adult reader of this book, I found some elements in the series to be mature and/or requiring further discussion (see my review of Volume 1). That being said, there are many positive elements as well. The gospel is presented clearly on multiple occasions and Christy's friends openly discuss God's presence in their lives. Robin Jones Gunn writes adeptly to teenage girls, capturing many insecurities and experiences of high school girls. She clearly remembers what it was like to be a teenager and her tone is delightfully relatable.
This is a great book for a daughter and mother to read simultaneously and then discuss. I probably would not hand it off without reading the book myself - partly because there are great discussions to be had as a result! Ages 14+, for sure.
Discussions questions with your daughter:
1. At the beginning of the book, Christy aspires to be a cheerleader. What is cheerleading like at your school? Are cheerleaders respected? If so, for what qualities?
2. Has Rick ever been Christy's "good buddy" (p33, 128, 359, 470)? If so, in what ways have they shared a friendship and/or has he been a good friend to her?
3. Christy is rude to the girl at the ice cream shop and, out of jealousy, she calls her a "cake-face" (p62). What did you think of Todd's serious and firm response?
4. Katie tells Christy that "a bunch of couples have rented hotel rooms at the Coronado for, you know, after the dance" (p103). Is this a practice you have heard of at your school? What are the dangers and benefits of attending prom and prom after-parties?
5. Rick makes some very controlling statements to Christy (p131, 133, 134, 386) and says that his type of girl is "the rah-rah type" (p133). After the conversation on pages 131-134, how do you think Christy ought to have responded? What were some other warning signs that it might not be wise to date Rick (p366, 389, 455)?
6. What do you think of Todd's choice to take Jasmine out on the night of the prom? p148
10. On p256, Todd tells Christy, "That's one of the things I like most about you, Christy. You don't play games or try to be flirty like a lot of other girls." Do you think classmates would describe you as "flirty"? Who in your class would be described as this? Do you think that guys like it when girls are flirtatious (and vice versa)?
11. What do you think of Todd's behavior in the car on p259 and at the pool on p305? Is he flirting/egging Paula on?
12. "Mentally, she convinced herself that there was nothing wrong with being interested in two guys at the same time" (p340). Is this true? In what scenarios? What should Christy have done differently in her interactions with Todd/Rick, if anything?
13. Tracy speaks with a mature dose of truth when she says, "That's exactly how going steady is. It's a rose with a thorn, because when you break up, either you get hurt or the other person gets hurt. There's no way around it. Most of the time, you both get hurt" (p360). If this is true, what are the benefits of "going steady"? How can Christian young men/women date in a healthy way?
15. Christy gets grounded/restricted for two weeks for coming home late with Rick and dressing in what her dad deems as inappropriate clothing (p392). Is this a fair consequence? Should it have been more or less severe?
16. Christy says to a friend, "...this is what I've always wanted - a boyfriend" (p396). Is this a noble goal? How does having a boyfriend strip Christy of other joys in life (including friendship p433)?
17. Alissa makes Christy promise that "you won't do any more than kissing - and I mean light kissing - with Rick or any other guy you go out with" (p397). What do you think of this standard? This promise? Alissa's way of broaching the topic?
18. Katie and "Poopsie" at the pet store. Ha! p407
19. "Life is brutal. Men are strange. In some ways, I wish my parents wouldn't have let me date until I turned seventeen. No, eighteen. My life was much simpler..." (Christy, p418) What is a good age to start dating? What mistakes did Christy make along the way? Was dating the problem or the choices she makes along the way?
20. Discuss Rick's interaction with Christy's younger brother on p445 and contrast with Todd's relationship with him and with her family (p409).
21. Christy asks Rick, "...what is your standard? Do you know what I mean? How far would you go with a girl?" (p452) How important is to have a conversation like this with someone you are dating, if at all? When should that conversation take place and who should initiate it?
22. Rick buys tickets to an R-rated movie and then is upset at Christy for her protests (p456-457), including blaming her for making their relationship difficult. What does this say about his own standards, his Christian maturity, and his care for her & her family?
Other mature/thematic elements:
* Christy's friend Paula wants to know "how far have you guys gone?" (p191) related to Todd & Christy's relationship.
* Christy confides to Paula, "...Shawn and Alissa were together for a while during the summer, if you know what I mean" (p215)..."well, Alissa got pregnant" (p216).
* Paula says: "I'm the only virgin I know, Christy. Except for you." She goes on to express her desire to get a boyfriend on the trip. p216