I picked up this book almost 20 years ago at Costco as I was curious about dating. read the first 30 pages and put it down, her characters were interesting and the author has a sense of humor about alternative Portland, and other aspects of modern life, but I just never got back to the book. just picked it up again this week and finished it. the sense of humor is fine, and it's an okay view of life and conversations between friends, reads easily. the heroine is about to turn thirty and trying to date up a storm to meet "the one" told with humor and readability. but although I began by enjoying the heroine's jaded sense of humor and open outlook on the people and situations that unfold, by her last encounter she had turned into the kind of whiny intensely critical female who will never reach that goal, and will be complaining about it all the way. I know the author was probably trying to make the point "girls, don't drive yourself crazy about being married by thirty, you can choose the right man for you", but this character (for me) turned from a likable independent thinker laugh/crying at the agony of dating into a hyper-picky complainer, and I left at the ending disappointed. as I said, enjoyable writing style and the story moved along well, but am not satisfied as a whole.