O Livro dos Valores Judaicos - Um guia diário para uma vida ética

by Joseph Telushkin

Uma leitura que extrapola a sua comunidade e que atinge o patamar de sabedoria, discussão e reflexão prática para a comunhão entre os diferentes no planeta. Em O livro dos valores judaicos o rabino Joseph Telushkin alinha a Bíblia, o Talmude e todo o amplo espectro de escritos judaicos clássicos para oferecer um manual de como se portar para ter uma vida decente, generosa e honesta num mundo moralmente complexo. Telushkin aborda os principais aspectos éticos de nosso tempo, mas grande parte desses temas também se fazem presentes desde o início da existência humana. São uma ou duas páginas por dia com uma mensagem vigorosa, inteligente e acessível, e melhor, totalmente possível de ser posta em prática. A amplitude dos assuntos é tão extensa quanto a vida em si: • Que característica procurar num cônjuge (Dia 17) • Quando, se alguma vez, é permitido mentir (Dias 71-73) • Por que agir com alegria é uma necessidade, não uma escolha (Dia 39) • O que as crianças não devem aos seus pais (Dia 128) • Se os judeus deveriam doar seus órgãos (Dia 290) • Uma técnica efetiva mas cara, de conter a sua raiva (Dia 156) • Como criar crianças honestas (Dia 298) • Que compras são sempre proibidas (Dia 3) Além disso, Telushkin levanta questões de complexa implicação ética que podem surpreender, como a necessidade de dar gorjeta a quem não vemos (Dia 109), a coisa certa a fazer quando se ouve a sirene de uma ambulância (Dia 1) e porque desperdiçar o tempo é um pecado (Dia 15). Quando está nos contando o que a tradição judaica diz sobre informações privilegiadas ou relacionamento entre patrões e empregados, está também nos alimentando com uma inspiração nova e uma direção clara para uma vida prática, dia após dia. Elogios ao livro : "Qualquer pessoa pode se beneficiar desse tesouro. No Dia 20, somos ensinados a não falar a menos que tenhamos algo a dizer. O rabino Telushkin tem algo muito importante a dizer. Assim como os homens e as mulheres sábios a quem recorreu em algumas citações. Leia este guia maravilhoso, use-o. Ele o tornará uma pessoa melhor." Alan Dershowitz, advogado e professor em Harvard "Intelectualmente estimulante e inspirador, este livro está repleto com centenas de maneiras de se tornar mais generoso e também uma pessoa mais profunda. Os valores descritos aqui brotam como uma espécie de código para a vida. " David Woznica, diretor do Bronfman Center for Jewish Life "Um livro absolutamente soberbo: o mais prático e mais amplo guia para os valores judaicos que eu conheço. Leia-o devagar, leia-o sempre, mudará a sua vida." Rabino Harold Kushner, autor de When bad things happen to good people "Eu gosto de estudar com o rabino Telushkin e espero que aprender com O livro dos valores judaicos seja tão emocionante para você quanto foi para mim." Kirk Douglas, ator "Joseph Telushkin tem se tornado o tutor dos norte-americanos nas questões do judaísmo. Um aspecto genial deste livro é sua capacidade de tocar o coração e aproximar o leitor da bondade. A erudição do autor fica evidente ao longo da obra, mas quem permanece conosco é o seu espírito elevado." Mona Charen, jornalista e comentarista política

Genres: Judaism, Jewish, Religion, Judaica, Nonfiction, Spirituality, Philosophy

550 pages, Paperback

First published February 22, 2000

About the author

Joseph Telushkin (born 1948) is an American rabbi, lecturer, and best selling author. His more than 15 books include several volumes about Jewish ethics, Jewish Literacy, as well as "Rebbe", a New York Times best seller released in June 2014

Telushkin was raised in Brooklyn, New York, the son of Solomon and Hellen Telushkin. He attended Yeshiva of Flatbush where met his future co-author Dennis Prager. While at Columbia University, they authored Nine Questions People Ask About Judaism and Why the Jews?: The Reason for Antisemitism.

While at University, Telushkin was an active leader of the Student Struggle for Soviet Jewry. As part of his position, Telushkin visited the Soviet Union where he met with dissidents such as Andrei Sakharov. He was eventually listed by the KGB as an anti-Russian agent.

An Orthodox rabbi by training, Telushkin serves as a spiritual leader of Los Angeles’ Synagogue for the Performing Arts, founded in 1972 by Rabbi Jerome Cutler. He is an associate of the National Jewish Center for Learning and Leadership and a former director of education at the non-denominational Brandeis-Bardin Institute. Telushkin is also a Senior Associate with CLAL, the National Jewish Center for Learning and Leadership, and is a member of the board of directors of the Jewish Book Council. He has been on the Newsweek's list of the 50 most influential Rabbis in America since 1997.

Telushkin is the author of sixteen books on Judaism. His book, Words that Hurt, Words that Heal, inspired Senators Joseph Lieberman’s and Connie Mack’s Senate Resolution #151 to establish a National Speak No Evil Day in the United States, a day in which Americans would go for twenty-four hours without saying anything unkind or unfair about, or to, anyone. His book, Jewish Literacy: The Most Important Things to Know About the Jewish Religion, Its People and Its History, is one of the best-selling books on Judaism of the past two decades. More than two decades after its publication, the book remains a foundation text for Jews, non-Jews, and prospective converts alike. The first volume of A Code of Jewish Ethics, entitled A Code of Jewish Ethics: You Shall be Holy, which Telushkin regards as his major life's work, was published in 2006. The second volume, entitled, A Code of Jewish Ethics: Love Your Neighbor, was released in 2009.

In 2013, Telushkin was invited by the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees, António Guterres to speak before the commission in Geneva.

In 2014, Telushkin released "Rebbe: The life and teachings of Menachem M. Schneerson, the most influential Rabbi in Modern History" which appeared on all the major best seller lists including New York Times Best Seller list, Wall Street Journal and Publishers Weekly.

Telushkin tours the United States as a lecturer on Jewish topics, and has been named by Talk Magazine as one of the fifty best speakers in the United States. He wrote the episode 'Bar Mitzvah' on Touched by an Angel guest starring Kirk Douglas.

Reviews

[Michelle Jones · Rating 5 out of 5]

I read this book over the course of a year. Give or take a few missed and a few catch up days I read one value each day. This book has had such a large impact on my behavior in lots and lots of ways. One of the most obvious ways is the way I deal with panhandlers and homeless people I encounter. If someone asks me for a dollar and I have a dollar I will now give it to them and I will look them in the eye and tell them to have a nice day. If I don’t have a dollar I’ll offer to buy them some food. The chance that the person might just be scamming me is not nearly reason enough to deny someone (and myself) an act of compassion.

That’s just one example, there are countless others. Seriously, I can’t overstate how much this book impacted me. And I learned a lot of Talmudic information from it as well so win-win.

[Karen A. Wyle · Rating 4 out of 5]

I just about never do this -- but I'm reviewing a book I haven't finished (despite the "finished" date on this entry). I do so because:
(a) it's due back at the library, and
(b) this is a book one can read in snippets, and in any order.

Rabbi Telushkin gives us 365 short (no more than two pages) discussions of how to apply the principles of Torah, as explicated in the Talmud and illustrated in the Mishnah and Talmud, to everyday modern life. He does so with a clarity and humility that I found very expressive and informative. This would be a terrific gift for a young man or woman in the year or so prior to a bar/bat mitzvah -- or for any adult, any time, who is interested in applying Jewish tradition and learning in order to improve the moral quality of his or her life.

[Les · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book was recommended to me by a Jewish friend so I could better understand her faith. Each daily reading is a carefully reasoned guidance on correct action and attitude in a common situation in everyday life -- not just Jewish life but anyone's life in the world.

The lessons are grounded in Jewish teaching, but that is a tradition grounded in millenia of study and reasoning and interpretation of truely good and just action. I found little in it to contradict the life Catholics are supposed to live and much to cause me to reflect on how I live my own life.

I will be returning to this book for many years.

[Ari · Rating 3 out of 5]

I read this book both because I wanted an introduction to Telushkin and as someone looking for a beginner-level Jewish ethics how-to manual to recommend to folks studying for conversion.Telushkin offers the reader short, daily, thought-provoking essays that outline a number of lessons from both Torah and Talmud, in language that is understandable and with references that draw the reader to further research. This is a useful entry-level tool, and I suspect I'll be recommending it in the near future.

[Kris · Rating 5 out of 5]

There is an entry for each day of the year. When my kids were younger, I tried to read this with my family at dinner each night. We didn't make it through the whole year, but this book offered lots of conversation starters. At the end of a week's worth of entries, there is a list of questions to discuss on Shabbat. This is really a great book, and I'm putting it back on the dining room table!

[Farrah Weinstein · Rating 5 out of 5]

If I ever dont know what the right thing to is, all I need to do is read one of these short stories and I am closer to the answer

[Rachel Bayles · Rating 5 out of 5]

Good, solid guidance for life.

[Trenton · Rating 5 out of 5]

Growing up Baptist and Pentecostal and later transitioning to Methodist/Anglican, I appreciate the practical wisdom that Rabbis provide. I think I’d have grown into a more functioning adult if I’d have grown up in the Jewish faith or the Mainline tradition.

[Cheryl Kloda · Rating 5 out of 5]

In this age of many false values, I found it very refreshing to read "The Book Of Jewish Values". The author, Rabbi Joseph Telushkin, makes his book very understandable. Many topics were covered such as how to deal in business, raising kind children, better ways to speak to people etc. Sadly, there are people that practice Jewish rituals, but they are not kind or ethical. Rabbi Telushkin shows that even if one does not practice all the rituals, he or she can still be an ethical person. Yes, words and actions do matter! If more people practiced these values, we would live in a kinder world. Finally, one can be any religion and still get much wisdom from reading this book.

[Kenneth · Rating 5 out of 5]

I've been wanting to read this book for twenty years -- ever since I saw Rabbi Telushkin speak at my college. Life often got in the way, but I always had this book on my to-read list. Now, perhaps with the change in routine that has come with the coronavirus, I had a chance to check the book out from my local library. I am glad I did. It is a repository of wisdom tied together with mesmerizing anecdotes and common-sense advice about how to live one's life. I enjoyed the book so much that I plan to buy the book for my children to read.

[Alison · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book really helped me understand what Judaism is all about. Mainly I learned about its emphasis on ethical treatment of others--rather than the legalistic, hard-line emphasis on Torah law I had always been taught about (by people who had never studied Jewish thought). It taught me a lot about what integrity really means.

[Denise · Rating 5 out of 5]

I love reading this book. It helps keep things in perspective and helps me keep my moral compass calibrated. I take it out every year during the Days of Awe.

[Reid Boehm · Rating 5 out of 5]

I will be reading and rereading for a long while. I love the author's tone and his wisdom.

[Todd · Rating 5 out of 5]

Finished my second read through and found plenty of wisdom within. I probably mention something from this book on a weekly basis and really enjoyed the format of daily topics.

[CLAUDIO · Rating 5 out of 5]

The best book I ever read about values. Many stories and examples on how to apply an entire value system in our daily life. It makes us wiser to take good decisions in our personal contacts.

[Alan Zwiren · Rating 3 out of 5]

This is one of many typical books from Rabbi Telushkin. The format is one of reading an ethic/value each day ending in summarizing the topics so that they may be discussed at the Shabbat table which I find to be an excellent structure for families. In addition, many of the weeks have a common theme stimulating broader discussions on Shabbat. However, as is with his many other books that I have read by Rabbi Telushkin, I have found the discussions extremely superficial, with repetition within the book and with his other books. In addition, many of the people he holds up as references have failed to be bastions of virtue and thus seem inappropriate in a book of values and ethics.

Also, from time to time, I have seen Rabbi Telushkin put forth a value that has no references in Tanach or Talmud. As a teacher of Ethics and Values, I do believe that his intentions are commendable; however, as a treatise on Jewish Values and Ethics, I believe he has a responsibility to demonstrate the source of such teaching. Perhaps there was a Jewish source for all he put forth but he did not share them all the time. As in his other books, Rabbi Telushkin does provide references for additional readings, though not as many as in other books. Overall, for those who are unfamiliar with Jewish Values and Ethics, this is an excellent introduction constructed in a "self-help" way to digest one concept daily. For those with more of a background there are much better sources of Jewish Values and Ethics to study.

[Red · Rating 5 out of 5]

I read a day daily. A good gift for Rosh Hashanah because that's when the book starts for the year. The three most memorable blessings for me (which I already do in life but didn't know their singular importance) are:
Day 75 - Giving thanks for good excretory events.
Day 76 - Treating the developmentally disabled with courtly respect.
Day 129 - Walking your guests out past the door to the street.
Take a chance, get the book, treat it nice!

[Рут Катц · Rating 5 out of 5]

It's a rich source of wisdom to be read daily. For each day it gives a lot to ponder, to remember and to implement a change in your life, according to Jewish values. I used to read this great work on iOS iBooks, but since now I have Android I can't access my library. Looking forward to purchasing a hard-cover book of getting a Kindle version if I to purchase Kindle in the future.

[Jane De vries · Rating 5 out of 5]

Of all the Jewish books I've read, and there are many, this has to be the best. I really like the format. A learning opportunity for every day of the year.

Telushkin combines spirituality with down-to-earth, understandable and practical approaches to the challenge of living. Who can disagree with that?

[Marcos Carmo filho · Rating 5 out of 5]

Uma leitura improvável para um agnóstico criado numa família católica brasileira, esse presente de um amigo judeu ainda assim conseguiu se tornar um favorito, e o livro que mais presenteei na vida. A despeito de suas raízes serem religiosas, o livro contém reflexões sobre caridade, bondade e autocuidado que considero valiosas para qualquer pessoa, independentemente de inclinações ou preconceitos religiosos.
Telushkin se tornou uma referência importante para mim, que certamente revisitarei bastante ao longo dos anos.

An unlikely read for an agnostic raised in a Brazilian Catholic family, this gift from a Jewish friend nonetheless became a favorite, and my own most gifted book. In spite of having religious roots, the book contains reflections about charity, kindness and self-care which I consider invaluable to any person, independent of any religious inclination or prejudice.
Telushkin became an important reference for me, which I'll certainly revisit through the years.

[Lynda · Rating 5 out of 5]

All I can say is that wish I had found this book 55 years ago.

[Jill · Rating 5 out of 5]

I read this book a few sections at a time, and I suspect I'll be picking it up again soon to savor more of Rabbi Telushkin's insights about living a good life.

[Deena]

Several times over many years I have intended to read from a particular book each day, but I've never actually accomplished it. At least one of these failed attempts was even another title by Reb Telushkin! However, this volume, a holiday gift from my dear Jojo, is actually set up for 365 days, 52 weeks. 2018 was a pretty crappy year, on the whole, and I am looking out for ways to make 2019 better. I'll include a daily reading in this book in my efforts.