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Confessions of a Deacon's Wife: The Truth She Kept Hidden

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Deacon Randall Harris is a well-known and beloved member of Savior Christian Church. His charm and personality alone could make anyone automatically gravitate to him. Deacon Harris appeared to be a true man of God, a man who wouldn’t harm a fly.However, his wife, Deborah, knew better. She knew first-hand how fast the kind man could turn into Satan’s spawn. For ten years, Deborah Harris has lived a double life. A happy wife in public, but a prisoner behind closed doors. This is Deborah’s story.This book is to help bring awareness to spousal abuse in general, but also within the church and Christian homes. If you ever witness abuse, please speak up because no one deserves to be physically, mentally, or verbally mistreated.

188 pages, Kindle Edition

Published February 27, 2020

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39 reviews1 follower
June 5, 2020
LOVE CONQUERS ALL

I was so moved by this story and God knows it's the truth. His righteous will not be forsaken and in the end He refreshed, renewed, released, forgiven and changed everyone and all for the better.
This book gets 💋💋💋💜💜💜
Book well written and deserved😘
57 reviews
June 10, 2020
Good read! I enjoyed it!!!

I enjoyed this book! I stumbled across it and I'm glad that I did. It was a quick read. I didn't care for the ending, nevertheless it was a good read.
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April 13, 2020
I think both Randall and Deborah needed therapy because of their childhood. I’m so glad happy Deborah got her happy ending
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March 28, 2020
I did like the story, not the ending, I liked how the story was told. The fact that the abuser was a church Deacon was unique, but proved that you can't judge a book by the cover. It was not believable, though, that his church earnings allowed him such luxuries. And for such a high profile deacon, why didn't the pastor or any of the members notice how he treated his wife, Deborah? I didn't like the ending because the Deacon thinks he's reformed simply by learning from his mistakes. And his wife thinks she's found a new love, even though she points out that his charming ways are similar to how she fell in love with the Deacon. Sounds like I didn't like the book, after all. But no, it held my attention and I loved Deborah's growth. Another edit is needed. Not highly recommended, but decent.
71 reviews
August 14, 2020
Hidden trutths

We should never hide the truth in our lives! I was a victim of emotional abuse & he tried mental abuse that I ap



I was a victim of emotional abuse , my ex=husband tried mental abuse but I wouldn't allow it. Now Physical abuse he wouldn't try because we would've been going God to toe. Thank you Sweet Tea for doing the light on the abuses that happens I the church setting,the right place to get delivered & healed if it's not hidden . God bless you!
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August 2, 2020
Confessions of a Deacon's Wife!

I gave this book 5 stars because Deborah's story was worth it. Randall on the other hand did not deal with his issues or the fact that he embezzled the money from the church. But he gets a new girlfriend and a new start to his life. It annoyed me that the author couldn't keep her characters name straight.
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August 3, 2020
Finding Youself

This was a different book for me....I was glad that Deborah was able to get away from her abusive husband....He was really messed up from his childhood and inflicted it on her...We all have to watch the warning signs...I would have like to know what happened with her and her ex new relationships
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November 27, 2020
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The story had a great message. It served to remind you that “church folk” are regular people that encounter the same trials and horrors as many. Great content. What didn’t work for me necessarily was the style of storytelling, the characters, the lack of resolution when it came to the husband the abrupt ending and the spay errors.
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July 22, 2022
Loved it!

I've never highlighted so many passages and sentences. I related to this story start to finish. I'm now with my forever love after an abusive "deacon" marriage too. My only negative thought was the misquoting of scripture, with the passage spelled out! Otherwise, a great read.
6 reviews
July 2, 2020
Great book

So many women go thru this , so glad she found her way. Super glad she trusted God and love. is good in so many ways we just have to trust him process. I thank him daily and this store confirm I should do more to help others
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September 7, 2020
The beginning of the book was good and then about the middle of the book everything slowed down drastically and the story line just dragged on and on.The ending was terrible there was no warning and it abruptly ended.
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September 12, 2020
Page turner

I was caught up in the story from the beginning. The emotional tugging was hard at times, but I didn’t want to stop reading. This was a great story and I look forward to the book by this author.
2 reviews
September 20, 2020
Book Review

enjoyed this book. I would recommend this book. I loved Deborah’s strength to leave. Most women would of stayed due to her husband status of being the head deacon of the church.
232 reviews
October 26, 2020
Good Quick Read

This is my first book by this author. It was very good. I laughed, cried and worried. I wasn’t to sure about Dwayne. I would love to know more about their journey and how it would end.
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November 7, 2020
Facade

Mindboggling but real, this book had everthing -
Love and pain
Lies and half-truths
Forgiveness
Redemption and healing
Deborah went through every emtion above, and came through victorius!
Our upbringing shapes us into who we become as adults!!
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December 10, 2020
Confessions of a Deacon Wife

Really great book I truly enjoyed it the courage the strength of Deborah and how she move on with her life with trust in God she is more than a conqueror she a frighter and a warrior Sweet Tee I loved it☺😊😀
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January 18, 2021
Confessions to Mrs. Mae

Very interesting book! I'm married to a Deacon and thank God he is the opposite of Randall. At times I couldn't believe the things she had to put up with. I'm so glad she left him.
I read this book in 3 and a half hours.
26 reviews
August 4, 2020
Okkkkk

Good book but I hated the ending keep writing I will hope you will write a second book to go with this one
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September 5, 2020
Never ok

I'm glad Deborah for the courage to leave her abuser, and to break the cycle. I was happy that Ms. May was able to assist in her escape.
2 reviews
October 10, 2020
Encouraging

I like that this book shows that you can make it out of an abusive relationship. There is good waiting on the other side.
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97 reviews
October 12, 2020
Good book

See just because a person has a title in church means Jesus give them that title .. a wolf can only be in sheep clothing for so long
105 reviews
October 19, 2020
Great story

I really enjoyed this book. Can’t wait to read more. Great story.I will look for more books from her. Thanks for the journey and info.
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October 21, 2020
Chile....

I don't even know where to start, but this book was garbage. It didn't flow at all. The book seemed forced..
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November 26, 2020
Great read!

I liked Deborah's story. It felt genuine. Relatable. Sweet Tee is an awesome writer, was never a dull moment.👌👍 Thanks
2 reviews
December 8, 2020
Love it

I love the book. A good quick read but with so much detail. Im glad she made it out that relationship
7 reviews
January 25, 2021
Boring and a horrible ending. i did read the whole book because i did want to see if Deborah made it but my goodness this book was boring..
271 reviews
February 15, 2021
Good

Started off fast very interesting then it went slow I started getting bored with Book book started putting me to sleep
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November 3, 2020
Good storyline but I did not like the absolutes in the book, the grammatical errors, the typos or the ending. I am not sure what category I will file this book under.
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