This book focuses on relationships, dating, and breakups in the modern day setting. Relationships in 2019 have become a game of validation. We get in relationships to gain external validation rather than focusing on the skills to become self sufficient. When a breakup hits we have NO idea what to do because we made another person the only thing that makes us happy. In this eBook I describe how to reverse a breakup while creating your best self. Learn more at www.thelovechat.net
Rory is a behavioral analyst, dating & reconciliation coach, author, and YouTuber. He has posted hundreds of podcasts on the topic of relationships, and his expertise in the field has helped thousands of people restore and strengthen their relationships, as well as become their best selves.
In 2019, he published his first book, "Until Next Time", which gives insight on relationships, dating and breakups in the modern day setting.
“Hellooooooo, this is Rory with the love chat” are lines which were my daily dose before sleeping for more than two months. Capital has penetrated everywhere and it has earned most from the human emotions. When we face rejection, separation, breakup, divorce, it has the same effect on a person’s mind which a drug addict gets after not taking drugs. If you have faced cruelty before the separation and after you start making your life, the impact is worse. With increased degree of pain and abuse, depression and mental illness, it turns further worse. There is a spiral of anxiety and any person who claims that they can fix you instantly or within a month appears as a normal choice.
Thankfully, I had no one like this and my inner zeal to always search for the right material made me reach out to Rory TLC. What a man he is, his insights on relationships, breakups and how to move forward are precious. There is a big market which gives you a “30 day no contact formula” and then by using your anxiety makes you purchase their get your ex back program for 75 dollars, 45 dollars, 135 dollars, or personalized set for 250 dollars and even more. Contrary to this, Rory TLC is light in the shadow. Instead of coaching or focusing on the shit of how to get your Ex back, though his website and YouTube channel does contain videos with this title, this man actually guides you to get yourself back with a much more developed version of yourself. Instead of keeping focus on your Ex which is highly dangerous, this man focuses on you and makes you probe the question, do you even need your ex. He re-establishes hope in your life, but that hope is not entangled with getting back into the same relationship. Rather, as my Virginia Woolf did, he also entangles hope in you with you.
The book carefully explains the concept of power in relationship, dangers in seeking closure, the importance of living with self respect, why not to seek social validation, dealing with anxiety and emotional roller-coasters and many other themes. In this book, there is abundance of wisdom on self love and care, personal development (emotional, intellectual, social, physical, financial, spiritual, etc.,), healing and looking forward to your beautiful life. The last page ends with these words:
I say this a lot because I’m never met with a good answer to disprove it: “When will you ever regret self improvement and self-love?
very good inspiring read! Socratic method of instilling lessons!
Well done, the Socratic method was used to instill valuable lifelong lessons short breakups and hardships in general - I especially liked the point about anxiety and how that causes us to attract situations we are afraid of!