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Thou Shalt Not Be a Jerk: A Christian's Guide to Engaging Politics
According to Eugene Cho, Christians should never profess blind loyalty to a party. Any party. But they should engage with politics, because politics inform policies which impact people.
In Thou Shalt Not Be a Jerk: A Christian’s Guide to Engaging Politics, Cho encourages readers to remember that hope arrived—not in a politician, system, or great nation—but in the person of Jesus Christ.
With determination and heart, Cho urges readers to stop vilifying those they disagree with—especially the vulnerable—and asks Christians to follow Jesus and reflect His teachings. In this book that integrates the pastoral, prophetic, practical, and personal, readers will be inspired to stay engaged, have integrity, listen to the hurting, and vote their convictions.
“When we stay in the Scriptures, pray for wisdom, and advocate for the vulnerable, our love for politics, ideology, philosophy, or even theology, stop superseding our love for God and neighbor.”
In Thou Shalt Not Be a Jerk: A Christian’s Guide to Engaging Politics, Cho encourages readers to remember that hope arrived—not in a politician, system, or great nation—but in the person of Jesus Christ.
With determination and heart, Cho urges readers to stop vilifying those they disagree with—especially the vulnerable—and asks Christians to follow Jesus and reflect His teachings. In this book that integrates the pastoral, prophetic, practical, and personal, readers will be inspired to stay engaged, have integrity, listen to the hurting, and vote their convictions.
“When we stay in the Scriptures, pray for wisdom, and advocate for the vulnerable, our love for politics, ideology, philosophy, or even theology, stop superseding our love for God and neighbor.”
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August 7, 2020
4 stars
I'm giving this book 4 stars because I want more people to read it. Why? Because it's too commonplace on social media or IRL conversation for those of us in the Church to become jerks when we engage in political conversations. So if reading this book convicts more Christians to strive for the minimum, not being a jerk, I think we'll see real progress in the national conversation. And what if we strove to be more than just not a jerk? Imagine what we could accomplish for the common good!
I agree with Cho, politics matter because politics produce polices that effect people. Christianity demands a commitment to love our neighbor, to love people. Imagine if more Christians engaged in the political process from a position of loving our neighbor?! I honestly believe it would be revolutionary and change the world for the better. I really do. You can call me naive, but I don't think I am 🙂
Cho does a good job of addressing the current divisive political climate in Church communities and the attitudes that are responsible for it. He isn't afraid to call out political and church leaders and their words/choices that are antithetical to a life lived for the gospel. He offers examples of toxic Christianity and does so from a place of genuine concern for the world that witnesses it and rejects Christianity because of it. Some may struggle with this. I found it refreshingly honest.
Ultimately, Cho is a pastor and it's when he speaks from that role that I appreciate him the most.
So, whether you're a fan of Cho or not, consider giving this book a try. At its core, his goal is to encourage all Christians to be faithful amid tension. To stay engaged, to remain hopeful, to love anyway, to walk with integrity, and to bear witness to the love, mercy, and grace of Christ. (p 21) I hope we can agree that those are good goals.
I'm giving this book 4 stars because I want more people to read it. Why? Because it's too commonplace on social media or IRL conversation for those of us in the Church to become jerks when we engage in political conversations. So if reading this book convicts more Christians to strive for the minimum, not being a jerk, I think we'll see real progress in the national conversation. And what if we strove to be more than just not a jerk? Imagine what we could accomplish for the common good!
I agree with Cho, politics matter because politics produce polices that effect people. Christianity demands a commitment to love our neighbor, to love people. Imagine if more Christians engaged in the political process from a position of loving our neighbor?! I honestly believe it would be revolutionary and change the world for the better. I really do. You can call me naive, but I don't think I am 🙂
Cho does a good job of addressing the current divisive political climate in Church communities and the attitudes that are responsible for it. He isn't afraid to call out political and church leaders and their words/choices that are antithetical to a life lived for the gospel. He offers examples of toxic Christianity and does so from a place of genuine concern for the world that witnesses it and rejects Christianity because of it. Some may struggle with this. I found it refreshingly honest.
Ultimately, Cho is a pastor and it's when he speaks from that role that I appreciate him the most.
So, whether you're a fan of Cho or not, consider giving this book a try. At its core, his goal is to encourage all Christians to be faithful amid tension. To stay engaged, to remain hopeful, to love anyway, to walk with integrity, and to bear witness to the love, mercy, and grace of Christ. (p 21) I hope we can agree that those are good goals.
June 26, 2023
Thou Shall Not Be Jerk: A Christian’s Guide to Engaging Politics should be A Christians Guide to Engaging Our World. Eugene Cho of course addresses our current political climate. But to be frank, this book challenged my thoughts, behaviors and motives in my Christian walk, not just how I engage (or don’t engage) in politics. Page after page I had to stop and really contemplate what this meant for me and how I treat people.
For me, I let the title of the book stop me from reading for awhile because I didn’t think I really engaged in politics. But honestly, if you want to love people like Christ… pick up this book. Let it challenge your heart and thinking. Use it to engage with God. Since we are not Jesus, I think we can all find areas in our life where we are jerks (not loving people well). So, what if we all began to explore where those areas are and made small changes to love like Christ…how would that change our world?
This book is conversational, I felt like Rev. Cho is sitting across from me at the coffee shop. He is a little heavy on human examples to make his point, but overall there are so many truth bombs that make you stop and think. I recommend this book regardless of if you engage in politics or not!
For me, I let the title of the book stop me from reading for awhile because I didn’t think I really engaged in politics. But honestly, if you want to love people like Christ… pick up this book. Let it challenge your heart and thinking. Use it to engage with God. Since we are not Jesus, I think we can all find areas in our life where we are jerks (not loving people well). So, what if we all began to explore where those areas are and made small changes to love like Christ…how would that change our world?
This book is conversational, I felt like Rev. Cho is sitting across from me at the coffee shop. He is a little heavy on human examples to make his point, but overall there are so many truth bombs that make you stop and think. I recommend this book regardless of if you engage in politics or not!
May 9, 2020
Well-delivered Common Sense
There is nothing revolutionary in this book, but it is a fair and articulate guide to involvement in politics for those who follow Jesus. I’m thankful for the book. The church needs it But I’m saddened that we need it.
There is nothing revolutionary in this book, but it is a fair and articulate guide to involvement in politics for those who follow Jesus. I’m thankful for the book. The church needs it But I’m saddened that we need it.
July 31, 2020
3.5 stars
I have mad respect for Eugene Cho. He's a favorite of mine to follow on Instagram and I appreciate his writings. When I heard about this title my attention was immediately captured. I mean, first of all, the title is catchy. If there were The Ten Commandments 2.0 one of them would definitely be Thou Shalt Not Be A Jerk. Secondly, it's an election year and a tense one at that so any tips on how to not be a jerk are greatly appreciated.
Cho's big theme throughout the book is probably pretty obvious, given the title, but worth saying repeatedly as people seem to have short attention spans and awful memories. Don't be a jerk for Jesus. That shouldn't have to be said but alas, it does and quite often. Apparently, we need the reminder more often than not. "....our very connected world provides such an amazing platform for being a jerk. Before the advent of the internet, jerks usually needed to be big, physically intimidating bullies, or people who weren't hugged enough as a child, or people in power who never got the memo about kindness. But today, because of the internet and social media, anyone can be a jerk. Even misguided grandmas and pastors can be jerks. We just sit there fuming, spewing our opinions, relevant or not. We say things that almost no one in real life would ever say to another person, and somehow, we're okay with it." (p. 67) We've all been jerks, purposely or unknowingly. Cho's book is a call to think before speaking, examine before action, step out into the world with thoughtfulness and a desire to make sure the dignity of others, yes even those you disagree with, is preserved.
Eugene uses the Western church (read: American church) as his example for how to not be a jerk. Let's be honest, it's because the American church, by and large, is known worldwide for being jerks and bullies. It's fine if you don't agree but that really is a fact. He spends his time discussing the difference between nationalism and patriotism (spoiler alert: the American church has fallen into nationalism), the policies of Jesus (spoiler alert: it isn't getting wealthy, protecting self at the cost of other human lives, or comfort), avoiding fake news and going deep instead of relying on clickbait, why politics should matter to us individually and collectively, and more. He also manages to avoid taking "sides", naming names - with a few exceptions due to examples being utilized, and snarkiness. I would not be able to avoid any of that which is why I am not writing a book or engaging on public platforms. :)
Overall, I am glad I read the book (do you sense the but coming?). BUT. But I am weary of reading books authored by Christians and the saturation of "God speak." This is not a criticism of Cho per see, it's just the place I am in personally. I cringe at all the God talk and I believe in (and love) God! Keep the God part at a minimum, which I believe can be done, and this book and its ideas would reach more people. The word "Christian" on the cover will, and I'm sure has, immediately turned off people from picking it up - despite the excellent and catchy main title. God is in ALL things so we can discuss things like politics, etc without so much kingdom, sovereignty, etc talk. Again, this is my personal opinion born out of a place of my personal spiritual journey.
Thanks, Eugene Cho for crafting a guide to navigating the murky waters of politics and showing us how we can be civil while doing so.
I have mad respect for Eugene Cho. He's a favorite of mine to follow on Instagram and I appreciate his writings. When I heard about this title my attention was immediately captured. I mean, first of all, the title is catchy. If there were The Ten Commandments 2.0 one of them would definitely be Thou Shalt Not Be A Jerk. Secondly, it's an election year and a tense one at that so any tips on how to not be a jerk are greatly appreciated.
Cho's big theme throughout the book is probably pretty obvious, given the title, but worth saying repeatedly as people seem to have short attention spans and awful memories. Don't be a jerk for Jesus. That shouldn't have to be said but alas, it does and quite often. Apparently, we need the reminder more often than not. "....our very connected world provides such an amazing platform for being a jerk. Before the advent of the internet, jerks usually needed to be big, physically intimidating bullies, or people who weren't hugged enough as a child, or people in power who never got the memo about kindness. But today, because of the internet and social media, anyone can be a jerk. Even misguided grandmas and pastors can be jerks. We just sit there fuming, spewing our opinions, relevant or not. We say things that almost no one in real life would ever say to another person, and somehow, we're okay with it." (p. 67) We've all been jerks, purposely or unknowingly. Cho's book is a call to think before speaking, examine before action, step out into the world with thoughtfulness and a desire to make sure the dignity of others, yes even those you disagree with, is preserved.
Eugene uses the Western church (read: American church) as his example for how to not be a jerk. Let's be honest, it's because the American church, by and large, is known worldwide for being jerks and bullies. It's fine if you don't agree but that really is a fact. He spends his time discussing the difference between nationalism and patriotism (spoiler alert: the American church has fallen into nationalism), the policies of Jesus (spoiler alert: it isn't getting wealthy, protecting self at the cost of other human lives, or comfort), avoiding fake news and going deep instead of relying on clickbait, why politics should matter to us individually and collectively, and more. He also manages to avoid taking "sides", naming names - with a few exceptions due to examples being utilized, and snarkiness. I would not be able to avoid any of that which is why I am not writing a book or engaging on public platforms. :)
Overall, I am glad I read the book (do you sense the but coming?). BUT. But I am weary of reading books authored by Christians and the saturation of "God speak." This is not a criticism of Cho per see, it's just the place I am in personally. I cringe at all the God talk and I believe in (and love) God! Keep the God part at a minimum, which I believe can be done, and this book and its ideas would reach more people. The word "Christian" on the cover will, and I'm sure has, immediately turned off people from picking it up - despite the excellent and catchy main title. God is in ALL things so we can discuss things like politics, etc without so much kingdom, sovereignty, etc talk. Again, this is my personal opinion born out of a place of my personal spiritual journey.
Thanks, Eugene Cho for crafting a guide to navigating the murky waters of politics and showing us how we can be civil while doing so.
April 19, 2021
Cho strikes the right notes on several points of Christian conviction, civility, and conversation. At times his analysis of the issues seems a bit trite and simplistic; there were moments when it seemed like he compromised substance for the sake of rhetorical flare. There were also moments when I found his political analysis to be lacking nuance and relevant contextual data. However, the bulk of Cho’s work is thoughtful and helpful.
In fact, as a very justice-minded and justice-active Christian who pastors in Seattle Cho brings some compelling ideas to Christians in this day of political division. He doesn’t shy away from calling some of this division what it is: self righteousness.
Throughout the book, Cho does a good job describing the problems, sharing relevant stories, and showing us a better way. I do wish Cho would have leaned more heavily upon exegesis and the embodiment of various biblical passages. Even still, his challenge for believers to embody our faith and not go to bed with political parties was strong.
Perhaps my favorite element of this book were the sections on prayer. Cho describes how prayer “humanizes” our enemies so that we see them as people like us, rather than mere enemies. I couldn’t agree more. It’s hard to hate someone you’re praying Gods blessing(s) over. Cho provides compelling stories that exemplify this. These sections challenged me the most and painted a picture for how my prayer life could change. For that, I am grateful.
Cho also challenged me to consider how I care about the hurting and needy. He confronts the notion that voting once every 2-4 years is a sufficient embodiment of biblical faith. I loved the following paragraph:
“Much is made about the right to vote and the importance of election days. However, if we reduce civic engagement to a singular vote every two to four years, we are part of the problem. Yes, get out and vote. But don’t just cast a vote. Embody your faith. Serve your neighborhood. Advocate for the last and the least. Share the gospel. Work for the common good. Pursue justice. Seek the peace of your city” (199).
Cho then followed up this paragraph with a quote from Mother Teresa that was strong: “Never worry about numbers. Help one person at a time as always start with the person nearest you.” (199-200).
At the same time, I want people to remember that seasons of life will dictate our level of involvement—especially as it relates to family responsibilities. The young mom with young kids may embody her faith very differently than the single young adult or retired couple. Sometimes “the person nearest you” is a crying baby who needs a diaper change or a spouse who’s battling debilitating illness. Such seasons don’t afford the marginal time for high levels of commitment to engage in social work. But thats why we’re a body of Christ with unique members—some will be more active in and more gifted for “social justice” while others are not. Faithfulness is the goal, not uniformity. I think this was a missing element in Cho’s work that was needed. It’s not that I disagree with his point; only his emphasis. The “embodiment of our faith” will take many forms throughout a persons life given their unique situation, seasons, and struggles—and that’s okay.
These criticisms aside, I recommend Cho’s work and believe every Christian could benefit from it.
In fact, as a very justice-minded and justice-active Christian who pastors in Seattle Cho brings some compelling ideas to Christians in this day of political division. He doesn’t shy away from calling some of this division what it is: self righteousness.
Throughout the book, Cho does a good job describing the problems, sharing relevant stories, and showing us a better way. I do wish Cho would have leaned more heavily upon exegesis and the embodiment of various biblical passages. Even still, his challenge for believers to embody our faith and not go to bed with political parties was strong.
Perhaps my favorite element of this book were the sections on prayer. Cho describes how prayer “humanizes” our enemies so that we see them as people like us, rather than mere enemies. I couldn’t agree more. It’s hard to hate someone you’re praying Gods blessing(s) over. Cho provides compelling stories that exemplify this. These sections challenged me the most and painted a picture for how my prayer life could change. For that, I am grateful.
Cho also challenged me to consider how I care about the hurting and needy. He confronts the notion that voting once every 2-4 years is a sufficient embodiment of biblical faith. I loved the following paragraph:
“Much is made about the right to vote and the importance of election days. However, if we reduce civic engagement to a singular vote every two to four years, we are part of the problem. Yes, get out and vote. But don’t just cast a vote. Embody your faith. Serve your neighborhood. Advocate for the last and the least. Share the gospel. Work for the common good. Pursue justice. Seek the peace of your city” (199).
Cho then followed up this paragraph with a quote from Mother Teresa that was strong: “Never worry about numbers. Help one person at a time as always start with the person nearest you.” (199-200).
At the same time, I want people to remember that seasons of life will dictate our level of involvement—especially as it relates to family responsibilities. The young mom with young kids may embody her faith very differently than the single young adult or retired couple. Sometimes “the person nearest you” is a crying baby who needs a diaper change or a spouse who’s battling debilitating illness. Such seasons don’t afford the marginal time for high levels of commitment to engage in social work. But thats why we’re a body of Christ with unique members—some will be more active in and more gifted for “social justice” while others are not. Faithfulness is the goal, not uniformity. I think this was a missing element in Cho’s work that was needed. It’s not that I disagree with his point; only his emphasis. The “embodiment of our faith” will take many forms throughout a persons life given their unique situation, seasons, and struggles—and that’s okay.
These criticisms aside, I recommend Cho’s work and believe every Christian could benefit from it.
October 3, 2020
I appreciate what Mr. Cho is attempting to achieve with this book and for that reason, I hate to sound like I’m leaving a “scathing review” but I can’t say that I felt this book delivered really anything I was hoping for. It claims to be a guide for Christians on how to engage in politics but it felt to me like it was more a guide to just “have your convictions however you want but ultimately accept everyone and validate their views and lifestyles.”
I would have to say that it is for the especially dense and closed minded Christian as I can’t say that I found many “new” introspective thoughts or concepts concerning how deeply God calls us to love one another and engage in politics in a Godly way.
I would also have to say that in the effort of full disclosure, my opinion of Mr. Cho is that he is a very far “left leaning” Christian and honestly, I was left feeling that he whipped out the old “created in God’s image” as if it was a magical talisman that excused anyone and everyone’s actions and decisions. “We can’t ever act out against anyone because they too are made in God’s image.”
Perhaps I am being too harsh and terribly unfair. That is very possible and I dare say even likely. I must also say that I fully believe that Mr. Cho had the very best of intentions of bringing us a book that is “a Christian’s guide to engaging in politics” but I, personally, felt as if I was left with a very lukewarm (as far as Biblical theology goes) and indecisive (as far as politics goes) book. Maybe that was his point... he does state that Christians should not be terribly invested in either political party - and I agree with him! But I felt neither more or less compelled to engage in politics after I finished the book than when I opened it for the first time.
I would have to say that it is for the especially dense and closed minded Christian as I can’t say that I found many “new” introspective thoughts or concepts concerning how deeply God calls us to love one another and engage in politics in a Godly way.
I would also have to say that in the effort of full disclosure, my opinion of Mr. Cho is that he is a very far “left leaning” Christian and honestly, I was left feeling that he whipped out the old “created in God’s image” as if it was a magical talisman that excused anyone and everyone’s actions and decisions. “We can’t ever act out against anyone because they too are made in God’s image.”
Perhaps I am being too harsh and terribly unfair. That is very possible and I dare say even likely. I must also say that I fully believe that Mr. Cho had the very best of intentions of bringing us a book that is “a Christian’s guide to engaging in politics” but I, personally, felt as if I was left with a very lukewarm (as far as Biblical theology goes) and indecisive (as far as politics goes) book. Maybe that was his point... he does state that Christians should not be terribly invested in either political party - and I agree with him! But I felt neither more or less compelled to engage in politics after I finished the book than when I opened it for the first time.
February 13, 2021
Common sense consideration of a hot button issue. While I didn't agree 100% with the author's theological views, his perspectives on engaging others with love and compassion and humility were spot on. I don't typically get involved in too many political discussions - but as a pastor's wife, I have to connect with those who get all fired up about it, which is way outside my comfort zone. This book gave me some good ideas for how to engage with grace and honesty, despite sometimes differing views and opinions. Highly recommend!
October 13, 2020
I love how Eugene Cho challenges Christians not to find their identities in a certain political party but rather challenges them to allow their theology and Christian identity to influence and transform how they engage politics! Along the way Cho encourages his readers not to dismiss politics altogether despite the temptation to do so. Politics matter because politics ultimately decide policies that effect real people. Even so, Christians must continually return to Scripture and allow the life and words of Jesus to transform how they vote, think and do justice on a local level.
"Before any worldly ideology, we must first place our hope in Christ. He is our rock and fortress, the solid ground on which we can stand, despite our human questions and uncertainties. Jesus is Lord, not the ideology or the leader of the moment. We have something with more significance than any ideology, something more significant than the outcome of any election" (p. 247).
"Before any worldly ideology, we must first place our hope in Christ. He is our rock and fortress, the solid ground on which we can stand, despite our human questions and uncertainties. Jesus is Lord, not the ideology or the leader of the moment. We have something with more significance than any ideology, something more significant than the outcome of any election" (p. 247).
September 28, 2020
Four and 1/2 stars. Excellent listen on audiobook. As a pastor and person of faith the author gave voice to much of what I have been feeling in this political season. We are to do justice and love mercy and walk humbly before our God and much of that humility is the ability to listen to other believers whose views are different from mine.
January 3, 2024
The book offers practical and pointed tips on how and why to be involved in the political process. It was helpful for me as I was navigating how to be involved during an election year.
March 1, 2020
Inflammatory rhetoric seems to dominate our political landscape. It’s easy to fall into the trap of choosing a side and hurling insults at political enemies on the other side. Left vs. right, republican vs. democrat, conservative vs. liberal, socialism vs. capitalism, us vs. them… so many affiliations and so much pressure to pick a side and identify your enemies. In the process, we can be tempted to be a jerk as we defend our side against what we perceive as threats from the other side. Eugene Cho’s new book encourages us to take another path. “Thou shalt not be a jerk” is one of the 10 practical commandments that Cho challenges the reader to consider and follow when engaging in politics as a Christ-follower.
I was personally challenged as I read this book. Like many people on both sides of the aisle, I have had political insults hurled at me. This book challenged me to not see them as the enemy but instead see everyone, even those with whom I disagree, as someone who is loved by God and made in His image. Cho reminds us, “May our passion and convictions in politics never supersede our love for God and neighbor—including neighbors who don’t share our politics.”
This book does not encourage Christians to disengage from politics. To the contrary, Cho says that "politics matter" and he challenges us to engage the way Jesus would by following what Jesus described as the two greatest commands: to love God and love our neighbors. When we are able to look at those we disagree with politically as our neighbors who we are called to love, the conversation changes. Cho challenges us to consider whether “we’ve allowed our politics to inform our theology rather than our theology and worship of the Christ informing our politics." Can you imagine how the conversation would change if every Christian reflected on this dichotomy? Cho's writing has encouraged me to evaluate the rationale behind my own politics and theology.
I would encourage anyone to read this book. Whatever your political leanings, this book gives a biblical perspective on how to engage in politics without compromising your faith. And if you’re someone who has been hurt by Christians who have acted like a jerk, I would encourage you to read this book. It will help you understand that being a ‘jerk for Jesus” is not the way of Jesus.
I am thankful that Eugene Cho wrote this book. It took a lot of courage. I imagine that Christians from both the left and right will find grounds to criticize Cho for the words that he so boldly speaks. That seems to be the political climate that Christianity finds itself in. Ironically, criticism of this book on those grounds will only prove the immense need for this book.
I needed this book. I needed words to be spoken into these politically polarized times. I needed words that empower me to navigate hard political conversations while honoring my faith. Thou Shalt Not be a Jerk is like holding up a mirror and reflecting on my political engagement. Do I see a jerk in the mirror? Or, do I see a life that is reflecting Jesus? I pray that this book helps me and others look less like a jerk and more like Jesus.
I was personally challenged as I read this book. Like many people on both sides of the aisle, I have had political insults hurled at me. This book challenged me to not see them as the enemy but instead see everyone, even those with whom I disagree, as someone who is loved by God and made in His image. Cho reminds us, “May our passion and convictions in politics never supersede our love for God and neighbor—including neighbors who don’t share our politics.”
This book does not encourage Christians to disengage from politics. To the contrary, Cho says that "politics matter" and he challenges us to engage the way Jesus would by following what Jesus described as the two greatest commands: to love God and love our neighbors. When we are able to look at those we disagree with politically as our neighbors who we are called to love, the conversation changes. Cho challenges us to consider whether “we’ve allowed our politics to inform our theology rather than our theology and worship of the Christ informing our politics." Can you imagine how the conversation would change if every Christian reflected on this dichotomy? Cho's writing has encouraged me to evaluate the rationale behind my own politics and theology.
I would encourage anyone to read this book. Whatever your political leanings, this book gives a biblical perspective on how to engage in politics without compromising your faith. And if you’re someone who has been hurt by Christians who have acted like a jerk, I would encourage you to read this book. It will help you understand that being a ‘jerk for Jesus” is not the way of Jesus.
I am thankful that Eugene Cho wrote this book. It took a lot of courage. I imagine that Christians from both the left and right will find grounds to criticize Cho for the words that he so boldly speaks. That seems to be the political climate that Christianity finds itself in. Ironically, criticism of this book on those grounds will only prove the immense need for this book.
I needed this book. I needed words to be spoken into these politically polarized times. I needed words that empower me to navigate hard political conversations while honoring my faith. Thou Shalt Not be a Jerk is like holding up a mirror and reflecting on my political engagement. Do I see a jerk in the mirror? Or, do I see a life that is reflecting Jesus? I pray that this book helps me and others look less like a jerk and more like Jesus.
January 29, 2021
I read this book during and just after the election of 2020 in the midst of the pandemic and it felt very timely. Cho is a pastor in Seattle which leans liberal like my coastal California home. He deals with Christians who argue he should be more justice minded and more "gospel-centered" so he won't tell you how to vote. He will however challenge you to know why you vote the way you do, to wrestle with the issues and truly understand them instead of parroting sound bytes or voting along one issue. I completely agree with his assessment that we are so polarized that we can't even have civil discussions as a country or as Christians anymore.
Some of his suggestions are practical. Know the issues that are important to you. Make sure your ideas line up with scripture. Engage with and help the people around you. Get to know them as people. Pray for the people that are not like-minded. Examine the sources where you get your information. Avoid political idolatry.
I do think he could have made his points in fewer words. While I think this book would be great for all Christians, I feel like they type of Christian this book would appeal to is already the kind of Christian trying hard to have civil conversations. Unfortunately I doubt many Christians will be drawn to it. I hope I am wrong!
Some of his suggestions are practical. Know the issues that are important to you. Make sure your ideas line up with scripture. Engage with and help the people around you. Get to know them as people. Pray for the people that are not like-minded. Examine the sources where you get your information. Avoid political idolatry.
I do think he could have made his points in fewer words. While I think this book would be great for all Christians, I feel like they type of Christian this book would appeal to is already the kind of Christian trying hard to have civil conversations. Unfortunately I doubt many Christians will be drawn to it. I hope I am wrong!
May 30, 2022
Eugene Cho does a fabulous job in this book laying out with honesty and vulnerability the challenge of living a Christian life which does not align within the boundaries of a political party, when there is pressure to fit people into boxes.
I appreciate his ideas and thought they were well laid-out as far as looking critically at news stories and being aware of propaganda. He gave a great example of when he jumped to the wrong conclusion and had to issue an apology over social media.
Also, I thought his example of talking about womb to tomb advocacy, and how this outrages both parties, was very accurate.
However, putting the author’s ideas into practice has only gotten more challenging since the pandemic. His frequent nods to “Make America Dinner Again” are rendered far less feasible given that people will feel various levels of safety based on current covid levels as covid rises and falls.
Lastly, I don’t think Cho really had the time in this book to delve into the complicated emotions around some of these political issues. For example, in one of his stories about people from opposing viewpoints eating together, one woman told the group she had a concealed carry permit and had the gun with her. I would really struggle to feel safe in that situation.
Great thoughts, but putting into practice is extremely challenging.
I appreciate his ideas and thought they were well laid-out as far as looking critically at news stories and being aware of propaganda. He gave a great example of when he jumped to the wrong conclusion and had to issue an apology over social media.
Also, I thought his example of talking about womb to tomb advocacy, and how this outrages both parties, was very accurate.
However, putting the author’s ideas into practice has only gotten more challenging since the pandemic. His frequent nods to “Make America Dinner Again” are rendered far less feasible given that people will feel various levels of safety based on current covid levels as covid rises and falls.
Lastly, I don’t think Cho really had the time in this book to delve into the complicated emotions around some of these political issues. For example, in one of his stories about people from opposing viewpoints eating together, one woman told the group she had a concealed carry permit and had the gun with her. I would really struggle to feel safe in that situation.
Great thoughts, but putting into practice is extremely challenging.
August 30, 2021
I haven’t been compelled to highlight a book in a long time but this book did that for me. I believe Cho does a great job of making this book both relatable and challenging no matter where you lie on the political spectrum. The reminder to further the kingdom of God by wholeheartedly loving our neighbors (especially the ones we don’t agree with) stood out to me as particularly important and convicting.
October 9, 2020
I wish everyone would read this book, but I'd settle for every Christian getting a copy.
This book is what we desperately need right now. Not because it offers profound, brand-new insight into what it means to be a Christian engaging with the world - it doesn't - but because it is a gentle, well-written reminder. It is convicting where it needs to be, full of grace where it needs to be, and anchored to the gospel in all places. Pastor Eugene approaches these topics with so much humility and gentleness, while not skimping on calling out the church where it needs to be called out. I admire him for the balance he struck.
Nothing in this book is new information. But it is all information we must be reminded of right now. And tomorrow. And the next day.
This book is what we desperately need right now. Not because it offers profound, brand-new insight into what it means to be a Christian engaging with the world - it doesn't - but because it is a gentle, well-written reminder. It is convicting where it needs to be, full of grace where it needs to be, and anchored to the gospel in all places. Pastor Eugene approaches these topics with so much humility and gentleness, while not skimping on calling out the church where it needs to be called out. I admire him for the balance he struck.
Nothing in this book is new information. But it is all information we must be reminded of right now. And tomorrow. And the next day.
March 1, 2024
IF YOU'RE A CHRISTIAN READ THIS BOOK! If you're not a Christian but maybe like the way of Jesus, read this book. For a non fiction, its a quick read and its such a beneficial book to read, especially during an election year in the current political climate. If you're a republican, this book will challenge you. If you're a democrat, this book will challenge you. If you're an independent, this book will challenge you. If you want to be challenged, if you want to grow, READ THIS BOOK.
April 11, 2024
Eugene Cho’s book is good as far as content and message go. However the style is a bit messy. It’s a very casual, conversational style book, full of anecdotes about all the awesome things Cho has been able to do and all the cool people he has met. If you’re looking for a gentle entry into Christian-political thought, this a great place to start. If you really want to go deep and wrestle with the theology and implications of this weighty topic look to the cited sources.
December 7, 2020
Read this book. Eugene Cho does not tell you how to vote. He reminds us of some very important factors that often get pushed aside or ignored in the midst of the passion of taking sides in politics. Yes, some of the content may not be new to you. But it is such a good reminder and helped me to be more open to those with different opinions than me.
March 25, 2025
I appreciate the emphasis on loving our neighbors (including actually getting to know them) and getting involved in politics at the local level, not just national. Every action we take is a vote for something says Cho- so make them votes of love, votes of justice.
I am glad he addresses the dangers of Christian nationalism (what he calls cultural Christianity).
So much has changed in the political sphere in the few years since Cho penned this book, and especially in the last few months.. I’d be curious to read an updated foreword from Cho that addresses this.
I am glad he addresses the dangers of Christian nationalism (what he calls cultural Christianity).
So much has changed in the political sphere in the few years since Cho penned this book, and especially in the last few months.. I’d be curious to read an updated foreword from Cho that addresses this.
October 31, 2020
This is one of my favorite non-fiction books in a long time. Very thoughtful book about how politics intersects with being a Christian and why we need to care passionately about it. I wish everyone would read this book, especially in the extremely polarizing culture that we live in.
October 18, 2020
In the midst of an election, I needed this perspective. Jesus is King!
April 3, 2021
This is a wonderful and important book!
December 6, 2020
A Christian's Guide to Engaging in Politics. Pastor Eugene Cho leads a church in Seattle encourages leaders to not dismiss those we politically disagree with. Our call is to love others, be tolerant of others' points of view, appreciate the other side. The bottom line is that "whoever becomes president, Jesus is still King."
February 7, 2021
Funny... very relevant... very practical advice. I do not often read books about politics, but I thought this was very spot on. Not leaning left or right, but towards Christ. The book was written before the 2020 election, but much of his commentary is on the mark or even prophetic.
June 23, 2023
As someone who did not think Christians should care about politics, I was wrong. Eugene Cho is a masterful guide to compassion and understanding in a world so full of chaos and competition. Seeking to be what Christian’s ought to be, a voice of connection for everyone. Just great, practical, and valuable wisdom.
March 21, 2024
as eugene is my boss i am legally obligated to rate this highly. a great simplistic intro into this world / topic!
January 29, 2023
Eugene Cho is a pastor in Seattle who became increasingly uncomfortable with the rise of Christian nationalism leading up to and after the 2016 election. “Thou Shalt Not be a Jerk” is his reminder to readers that if they claim to be Christians, than Jesus should be the center of their lives and informing their politics. He cautions against politicians who speak about their policies being Christian and therefore Christians should vote for and support them.
Cho’s views occasionally stray into actual policy in which he explains how those policies betray or support the gospel as preaches by Jesus. All in all, I felt that Cho focused more on attitudes and mindsets rather than actual policies allowing readers to make their own informed decisions based on their understanding of the gospel.
I think this would be a good book to read and discuss in Bible stud groups, book clubs, and for personal devotions.
Cho’s views occasionally stray into actual policy in which he explains how those policies betray or support the gospel as preaches by Jesus. All in all, I felt that Cho focused more on attitudes and mindsets rather than actual policies allowing readers to make their own informed decisions based on their understanding of the gospel.
I think this would be a good book to read and discuss in Bible stud groups, book clubs, and for personal devotions.
August 27, 2020
Perfectly imperfect! Eugene Cho took such a humble approach to a touchy subject. His study, his scriptural backing, and the heart of Jesus was very evident. Great read for the Christian, non-Christian, democrat, republican, and independent. Now make sure you vote :)
October 1, 2020
I can't think of a better time for this book to have been released. A crazy season with a pandemic, bleeding into an election year...the timing is perfect. I heard about the book on a podcast I follow and ordered shortly thereafter. I am not a person who usually jumps into political conversations (due to multiple reasons, ahem) but I have to say, I was truly challenged, encouraged and empowered by this read.
Cho is a pastor, non profit founder and author. His work is new to me, but if this book is any indication, I believe he is one to not only watch, but to engage with his work. "Thou Shalt Not Be A Jerk" reminds the reader that those who don't share your perspective on politics (and many other issues noted in the book) are not to be vilified, torn down or dehumanized--we must continually remind ourselves that even in the midst of differences, there is usually much common ground to be found.
Each chapter has a different theme that encourages the reader to examine the state of honest discussion about politics and other hot button issues--is there even such a possibility anymore?
Cho reiterates that there IS hope, not by arguing until we change someone's mind, but by hearing them out, allowing an exchange of opinions and even agreeing to disagree.
One of the best things about this book is that it allows the reader the opportunity to evaluate not only where you are politically in living out your faith, but how we may have ignored opportunities to get to know our neighbors simply because we disagree with them politically. He also uses examples from Scripture in how Jesus found Himself surrounded by many different people who may or may not have agreed with Him--yet still loved them well.
Here are a few quotes that hit home for me:
"Additionally, in today's culture, we can always find some authority, leader, author, blogger, or expert who will affirm our views, but how much more valuable it is to first ground ourselves in Christ and His ways?"
"..please be reminded that everybody loves to give prophetic words to other people with different views, but we never seem to receive them. We want to preach to others, but we don't preach to ourselves. We love to flip tables, but not our own. We love to expose the privilege in others while rarely considering our own."
quotes from Chapter #1 "Thou Shalt Not Go to Bed With Political Parties"
"Daly continues, saying that Christians should always have two questions in mind as we engage with those around us: 1. Help me understand what you believe. 2. What brought you to those conclusions?" From Chapter #3, "Thou Shalt Listen and Build Bridges"
"People outside the faith community look at Christians with suspicion. We are characterized as judgemental and tribal, defined by what we are against rather than what we are for. This is not the way of Christ. The Jesus I follow is not the emperor arriving on a chariot, but a humble King arriving on a donkey. The all-powerful Lord who chooses a different way, who comes to serve. The Jesus I follow made deliberate efforts to get to know and befriend those who were shunned by society. The Jesus I follow did not have a home, and challenged people to not follow the law, but to live into a new life, a new way of thinking, to bring forth the Kingdom of God on earth as it is in Heaven." from Chapter 5, "Thou Shalt Live Out Your Convictions"
There is much more goodness in this book, and I promise it will stir conversation and encourage dialogue as it did with me. This would be an amazing book to use in a discussion group, just be aware there are hot button issues brought up, which is ok, we're all adults, right? ;)
While everyone may not agree with everything in the book, you will gain insight on how to reach across the aisle, street or state to someone different than you. And you can love them, even if they differ in opinion. Because that's what Jesus calls us to.
Cho is a pastor, non profit founder and author. His work is new to me, but if this book is any indication, I believe he is one to not only watch, but to engage with his work. "Thou Shalt Not Be A Jerk" reminds the reader that those who don't share your perspective on politics (and many other issues noted in the book) are not to be vilified, torn down or dehumanized--we must continually remind ourselves that even in the midst of differences, there is usually much common ground to be found.
Each chapter has a different theme that encourages the reader to examine the state of honest discussion about politics and other hot button issues--is there even such a possibility anymore?
Cho reiterates that there IS hope, not by arguing until we change someone's mind, but by hearing them out, allowing an exchange of opinions and even agreeing to disagree.
One of the best things about this book is that it allows the reader the opportunity to evaluate not only where you are politically in living out your faith, but how we may have ignored opportunities to get to know our neighbors simply because we disagree with them politically. He also uses examples from Scripture in how Jesus found Himself surrounded by many different people who may or may not have agreed with Him--yet still loved them well.
Here are a few quotes that hit home for me:
"Additionally, in today's culture, we can always find some authority, leader, author, blogger, or expert who will affirm our views, but how much more valuable it is to first ground ourselves in Christ and His ways?"
"..please be reminded that everybody loves to give prophetic words to other people with different views, but we never seem to receive them. We want to preach to others, but we don't preach to ourselves. We love to flip tables, but not our own. We love to expose the privilege in others while rarely considering our own."
quotes from Chapter #1 "Thou Shalt Not Go to Bed With Political Parties"
"Daly continues, saying that Christians should always have two questions in mind as we engage with those around us: 1. Help me understand what you believe. 2. What brought you to those conclusions?" From Chapter #3, "Thou Shalt Listen and Build Bridges"
"People outside the faith community look at Christians with suspicion. We are characterized as judgemental and tribal, defined by what we are against rather than what we are for. This is not the way of Christ. The Jesus I follow is not the emperor arriving on a chariot, but a humble King arriving on a donkey. The all-powerful Lord who chooses a different way, who comes to serve. The Jesus I follow made deliberate efforts to get to know and befriend those who were shunned by society. The Jesus I follow did not have a home, and challenged people to not follow the law, but to live into a new life, a new way of thinking, to bring forth the Kingdom of God on earth as it is in Heaven." from Chapter 5, "Thou Shalt Live Out Your Convictions"
There is much more goodness in this book, and I promise it will stir conversation and encourage dialogue as it did with me. This would be an amazing book to use in a discussion group, just be aware there are hot button issues brought up, which is ok, we're all adults, right? ;)
While everyone may not agree with everything in the book, you will gain insight on how to reach across the aisle, street or state to someone different than you. And you can love them, even if they differ in opinion. Because that's what Jesus calls us to.
June 2, 2020
Eugene Cho is a voice I periodically lean on to remind me that my theology must bear fruit in the matters of justice, mercy and equality. This book was disarming in nature a timely read.
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