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To All The Thugs I've Loved That Didn't Love Me Back 3

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Could Ace lose everything at the hands of the man she once loved? Will Sinclair ever recover after losing her baby and fallopian tube at the same time? Is Kni every going to figure out that Polite and Sin messed around before? Or will Sin continue to keep him in the dark about that part of her life? In part three, will everything work out for the best, or will there be a lot of broken hearts, realizations and funerals?

172 pages, Kindle Edition

Published March 9, 2020

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22 reviews
April 11, 2020
Uh is it just me??? (Review of books 1-3)

Normally I read the complete series before I review but I had to leave a honest opinion before some other COVID19 shut in got started on this.
This was a decent book with bad editing. And im not just talking about grammatical ones either (those were tolerable) but to me... it seemed like two different people were writing this book.

Spoilers

There were a lot and I mean a lot of inconsistencies. Some Ex: end of book 2 Kamaya was pregnant then she wasn't at all in book 3. At the end of book 2 Niko admitted to hitting Ace once before but soon into book 3, when Emani talked to Ace about Niko's hand problem, Ace says Niko never hit her. As a reader it was a huge eye roll every time I read one.
The realistic characters were this series saving grace. Yes, they were annoying at times (Ace why so wishy-washy🤷🏾‍♀️) but so are real life people. For the most part the storylines were dope. I even like the gradual ease into Val's story because I wasn't overwhelmed with too much at once because yes, these women had mucho drama. I don't think Kni's back story was needed if he wasn't going to be anything serious in Sin's story, it was a waste of time. The flow was kinda choppy especially between books even though they pick up where they left off. Some characters, like Val's mom, seemed to change up during during the series. And the last minute explanation didn't help.

These books weren't the best I've read from this author (or authors🤔) but the character and drama is juicy enough if your in a book slump. Im going to read book 4 because I hate not finishing a series.
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21 reviews
May 20, 2025
3 down 1 to go

Ok so I was down for the ride with the first two books but book three just had a lot of unnecessary drama for me. Like the theme through out the book has been “being a real nigga and telling it like it is” but everybody a damn liar lmao. All this omitting and all these random babies, and what happen to Maya’s baby or am I tripping? AND everyone sounds crazy telling Ace to basically get over it, you don’t take someone’s choice away from them to be in your life and turn around and call them selfish cause they don’t wanna go with the program. Bless lord several times might I add and they acting like she doing too much.

The grammatical errors are also crazy and wasn’t Ashley’s name originally spelled Ashlee?
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78 reviews1 follower
March 16, 2020
Great read

Omg is all I can say 😳 that ending tho 😤 made me wanna jump in the book in look for that hoe for trying my bae (bless)
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381 reviews1 follower
November 14, 2020
Messy, story

The story is good and messy. The problem I have with all the books in this series is that they are very repetitive. The author repeats the same stuff over and over again like it wasn’t said a chapter or two ago.
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93 reviews1 follower
January 20, 2026
This book is crazy in the best way but frustrating at the same time. Bless is way too honest for me 😂 he really just says anything. Why would he propose to Ace knowing he has a baby with Ashley on the way?! Polite doesn’t know what he wants. Sin is dumb for wanting to be a side chick to a man who’s engaged and has a baby on the way. Prayer, the youngest, is the only one not getting on my nerves in this book. Whew this series is a hot mess that you can’t put down 😂
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4 reviews1 follower
March 17, 2020
Ok read

A whole lot of nothing. I didn’t even finish this book. I said if Ace break up with Bless I’m done not because she shouldn’t have broke up with him but because I knew this was leading to more cliffhangers and another book with too much of the same scenarios. I’m just burnt out personally. Just my personal opinion which I’m entitled too. I just think 3 books in sin and vio, bless and ave, Val and prayer should not be were they were in book one
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6 reviews
January 23, 2026
3.5 because what is even going on right now

Bless supposed to be so real but lied twice about sleeping with Ash. Like sir be so fr. I get that Ace is mad about the lie but shes also mad about his attention being taking off her her and Nevaeh which is selfish of her. Ash is in her feelings and might be hard to deal with but Ace could relax a little and hear the man put .

SIN! Ms "i run a strict program" is willingly letting Polite play in her face. After she gave Ace a hard time about backsliding with Niko, here she go doing the same thing. I couldn't believe it. Polite swearing he will leave Maya but always has an excuse not to do it. Hes just as confused as Sin is. Maybe they do need to be together. I wouldn't blame Maya for ruining Sin because thats foul. No matter what Polite telling her, Sin shouldn't have spun the block until he stood on his word.

Val and Prayer- They dont have all that riff raff going on like everybody else and I love that for them. I hope Raegan was lying about Prayer and her because I want them together. Val mama is terrible for switching up on her like that but at the same time, she should've known it was coming if she knew her mom history with men. I dont agree with Val whole "im willing to struggle so I dont look like a gold digger, im different". She has 3 whole kids to think about, sharing a full size mattress in her mom apartment but of course what a man thinks outweighs that.

and for the book to end on the housekeeper who wr haven't heard about in ages felt like it was just thrown in there just to keep the infamous cliff hanger ending going.
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45 reviews
April 1, 2025
More Drama

Love this series and all the drama. However I am not a fan on the character development for Sin. In book 1 she was portrayed as a strong independent black woman. She was confident in herself and knew her self worth. Yes she went through heart break and chose to run from love rather than deal with the pain. But in this book, she chooses to throw all of her morals out the window. She is okay with coming second to someone and she allows Polite to play in her face. How can she be mad an Ace for allowing Niko to treat her the way he did but then turn around and allow Polite to do the same thing. And the same goes for Ace. She quick to judge Sin about her decisions but she could never have that mindset when it came to Niko. The only person standing on their morals is Val. All of the brothers are messed up in the way they go about handling their past relationships. And Ace really started to annoy me. Although some of the characters characteristics annoys me, I will still give the book series a five Star because the stories are simply amazing.
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25 reviews
March 16, 2020
There are so many things going on in this story, which I do not where to start. I am going to say that Bless is correct that Ace is always comparing him toward her baby daddy. I understand that he lied to her about Ashley and the baby, because he was afraid that she will overreact on the subject and she did. This book have me looking forward to the next book, because they are a lot of people, who was unhappy at the end of this book. I feel that Polite should not married anyone that he will be unhappy with. Val should ask questions before jumping to a conclusion, and I have to learn how to forgive, because this proved that he loved her, her daughter, and Nana. I am looking for a happy ending.
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88 reviews
December 7, 2025
IKYFL

Okayyyyyyy, this is getting real ghetto! LMMFAO. Like… WTF is even happening right now? I honestly don’t even know what to say at this point.

Sin has truly lost her mind volunteering to be second. Girl, WHAT? And I knew when Kamaya asked for that little breakfast meet-up, she already knew about Polite and Sin. The math was mathing from the jump.

And Bless… whew. I don’t understand why she kept lying to Ace. I’m torn on whether she has the right to be mad, because yes. For sure, he messed up and lied multiple times, and she kept asking him straight-up questions.

Now why is Annett acting out the way she is?? What is she even doing right now??

At this point, I just hope Prayer and Val make it through all this chaos. Somebody deserves a happy ending. Lol.
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287 reviews15 followers
March 22, 2020
The ending though!

There were some grammar mistakes that confused me. Some of the words were repeated and threw off my reading. But other than that this was by far the best out of the series. So much happened in book 3. I couldn’t put the book down. Ace still annoys me a little. But I do want her and Bless to work out. Bless loves her family. I hope Sun and Polite finally get it together. It seems like if it isn’t one thing it’s another. Polite irritates me with the back and forth. He knows he doesn’t want to be with Kamaya so why stay? He knows what he needs to do yet he’s stalling. And this ending! Ohhhh Annett is a dirty bitch. Can’t wait for the finale.
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3,480 reviews27 followers
March 12, 2020
Part 3

Part 3 brought the couples closer together as some secrets were revealed and then pushed them apart again as more secrets were revealed😂 I really cannot gauge if Polite is really trying to play with both Kamaya and Sin. I really want Sin to win! Too bad she doesn’t have another option right not. What’s up with Khi? Bless is good for Ace but he’s a liar. Hopefully they can get past that. I really loved Val in this book. Prayer thinks he’s ready to be a family man but Reagan is an issue. Who the heck is Annett? Sheeesh!
79 reviews
March 15, 2020
Good book

I love the story but ugh now we have to wait for part 4.... hopefully Shay makes up her mind in what she wants she so wishy washy she better hope she don’t push Bless away, I don’t like Ashley I hope the baby is not Bless’s cause she gonna be a problem.. I like Sin and Polite we gotta get Kamaya out the picture somehow I hope she’s able to carry the baby full term.. I don’t know what to think of Prayer and Val I like them but besides the coparenting they really don’t have much going on...Definitely can’t wait for part 4 to drop
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194 reviews
March 23, 2020
Juicy juicy book

Damn this book got a lot going on frfr. I don’t know why Sin won’t tell polite what Mya said? I love Val For Prayer. I hope 🤞🏾 things get right with them. She can’t be mad when they’re not together. Ace I like her but she is a damn hypocrite and selfish as hell. You can’t accept his son but he accept your daughter as his own. She was dead ass wrong on that part. I understand he lied which he was wrong but it was before her and him. I hope everything works out for all couples. I want them all to be with the person they supposed to be with!!!
604 reviews5 followers
April 2, 2020
Finale ready

I am ready to get straight to the finale already!!! If I'd known there was another book coming I would have waited because Bless is killing me. This series is so good, if this was book one I'd tell you to just wait it out. Sinclair is the real mvp in this sequence and I can't wait to see how she handles Kamiyah. Bless has the relationship with Aces daughter that speaks volumes and will make you overlook his little white lie he told Ace. Ash is on some other BS!! Hurry up with the Finale already.
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2,543 reviews11 followers
March 16, 2025
WTF!!!!

Yo, this series is fire, but Ace is driving me crazy! She's coming off super selfish with Bless. I get he can be tough, but she should appreciate him. Dude treats her like royalty and loves her daughter like his own. She needs to get her head straight, especially now that he's dealing with this fake accusation. Kamaya's trying to play dirty, and I hope Polite doesn't let her mess with Sin. Thought Prayer had it easy, but his ex just blew that up. Hoping everyone can chill and work things out. 💕💕
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154 reviews
January 3, 2026
toxic

This is a book full of a bunch of toxic couples…there’s so much going on…let me see this thru though, cause what is going on??? Polite shoulda ended things with Kamaya in Book 1. Prayer seems the least toxic, but he’s kinda simple. Val is a good woman, she seems to be the only 1 with sense. Ace and Bless gonna keep going thru things cause this man is too blunt, but he loves her and she just needs to make it work. And Sin…hurt people hurt people and then get hurt by people.
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83 reviews
January 19, 2026
The inconsistencies of the storyline is what’s sending me. It’s so much drama Kamaya threatening Sin is insane, Sin being a sidepiece makes no sense this can’t be the same woman from book 1, I understand why Acr is unset Blessed lied about sleeping with Ash, a brother they knew nothing about makes no sense, Val and prayer story makes no sense, I guess Kanaya not pregnant cause in book 2 she was bout 3 she’s not lawd it’s like someone else be writing for Jah cause this not the first book where the writing is off and completely different from the story I’m being nice giving 3 stars
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151 reviews
January 22, 2026
I should’ve known it was a dream! You’ve fools me twice now😂but seriously my heart couldn’t take Neveah getting harmed by her father, that was gonna be too much! I love the twists and turns and the addition to all the new characters. It’s like everyone has so much going on at the same time I can’t keep up! (In a good way) You will not be bored reading this! Spice was 4/5. This was definitely a page turner and I couldn’t put it down! Can’t wait to read the last book🥹I’m gonna really miss some of these characters.
591 reviews4 followers
March 12, 2020
Whewwwe

I just had to soak in the greatness for a moment. Bless Bless Bless baby you have to stop lying my guy. I absolutely love everything about him though B.D.E.!!!! Polite if you don't just tell Kamaya the truth that relationship is deadddd!!! Sin it's time to Boss up and take your happiness. Ace gurlllllll you working me nerves now!!! Val gone head and get what's yours boo. I loved it from the very first page impatiently waiting on part 4!!!
21 reviews
March 13, 2020
Ugh

Maya is mad annoying like bitch go away Ace has a right to be mad but get over it he loves you and your daughter sin ugh I want things to work out for her but at the same time she grown and knew the risk of what she was doing no matter of you love him or not you know he belongs to someone else Prayer man I was rooting for him and he fucked up how sway 🤦🏽‍♀️ this book could’ve been done at part 3 now gotta wait for how much longer it’s so irritating stop dragging
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4,036 reviews
March 13, 2020
I’m convinced

I’m convinced you don’t like Bless or Polite 😩. They can’t catch a damn break! I mean bruh really! I’m so sick of Kamaya! If she doesn’t gone somewhere. Sin is a good one. I don’t even believe it’s his! Ace is working my last nerve like girl get over it! This man is doing things he doesn’t even have to do. Like forreal she’s being a hypocrite l! I wish Prayer and Val would get it together already. I need part 3 like ASAP! Tremendous job!
14 reviews
March 14, 2020
🔥🔥♥️🔥🔥

OMG I love these characters in this book! I’m just a little disappointed in how it ended. I had to remember who Annett even was cause it was so random. I need Ashley to finally be put in her place as well as Kamya. I her rooting for the side chick but Kamaya is very irritating ugh. I hope we don’t have to wait long for part 4 cause I was expecting some closure. This book could’ve ended this series for real but...
187 reviews2 followers
March 11, 2020
Loves inn the Air

Jah this series is so good. These brothers really love these women. Bless really confused me by lying to Lashay about something so important. Polite needed to stop making excuses and be happy.
Prayer is putting in work and owning his responsibilities.
Can’t wait to read part 4.
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1,542 reviews19 followers
March 11, 2020
To All The Thugs I’ve Loved That Didn’t Love Me Back 3

There you go with a never hit and mad at myself cause now I have to wait for part 4 wow. The drama continues and unfold all together look at his Bless come again lol. Jahquel you always have me waiting for real very good series.
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204 reviews2 followers
March 11, 2020
Omg

Noooo. Why did it have to end like that. I need Ace to grow up, and stop letting Ashley when. Val needs to stop being stupid and just give Prayer the family he wants. Oh and Sin needs to accept that Polite is engaged and if she’s gonna be with him he needs to end it immediately. Definitely can’t wait for book 4.
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33 reviews3 followers
March 12, 2020
But of course

It was juicy from the beginning and was getting even more juicer at the end.. Can't wait for last installment and FB spoilers page bout to be lit. Not giving nothing away folks you have to read this series from the beginning..

And every other book she has written..
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575 reviews3 followers
March 12, 2020
🔥💣💥

I WAS SO HEATED BY THE END OF THIS BOOK. FIRST OFF ACE IS JUST BEING SELFISH ABOUT THE BLESS/BABY SITUATION AND IS GIVING ASHLEY EXACTLY WHAT SHE WANTS. NOW MISS SIN BETTER GET IT TOGETHER AND CLAP BACK ON KAMAYA AND KEEP HER MAN POLITE. LITTLE MISS VAL NEEDS TO GIVE PRAYER A REAL CHANCE TO BE HER MAN. I CAN'T WAIT FOR BOOK 4 CAUSE I KNOW IT'S GOING DOWN ONCE AGAIN.
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770 reviews
March 12, 2020
Drama!

These brothers can't catch get a break, its always something, damn these women are going crazy, Anett going to get her Karma. Ashley is fighting a losing battle, Bishop don't want her. Happy Prayer found out about his babies, Val girl! don't play with Raegan she's crazy. lots of drama🔥🔥🔥🔥
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