I got this book randomly- I'd been wanting to buy a new book and hadn't even read what this book was about. I did not regret buying it. Schmidt writes about the thunderous emotions that come and go when we break up with a person that we still love; or, who we gave so much of ourselves to. It is striking to read, and I absolutely recommend it after a break up, because you'll find a lot to relate to, a lot that will hold you in its space for a while, until you turn the page to another amazing poem. This book is a physical example of the process of taking ourselves back from the person who took so much of us - who we gave ourselves to, with trust. Schmidt uses excellent words to emphasize her themes in all her poems. My most favorite poem, personally, was "Maybe, Someday, Somewhere" - I think about it every time I think of my ex. This book has wonderfully given me a reason to enjoy my past break-ups.