The book and storyline are good. The topic itself, of euthanasia, is on point, especially in today's social climate. I liked Jaime and Maggie and their story. They loved each other, very much. But, as Jaime said, one always loves more than the other. In their case, it was he. As interesting as their plot line was, I don't think Jodi Picoult did it justice. Cam's, Allie's and Mia's "love-triangle" took over Jaime's and Maggie's story-line and overwhelmed me with the angst.
I was so angry with Cam and Mia. How could they? Not only did their Love affair start immediately, it was all consuming and they were cruel in their actions. It was within two days of seeing her, that Cam kissed Mia, in his own home! Doesn't think anything of it. It was as if it was his right, that he could do as wished, because all of a sudden, he had this spark with stranger, and to hell with everyone else.
Then Cam ignored Allie whenever he wanted, ignored any overtures of affection, even when he wanted to have sex. Even then, she was the one who made overtures and he would either accept, or just pretend that he was asleep. He went out of his way to be dismissive, even before she came to bed, to start pretending that he was tired. But, when he was aroused and wanted to have sex with Allie, his lovemaking was explosive, forceful, as if he had to be with her immediately, and then when it was over, he immediately got up and get this:
- he rushed into the shower to wash himself off. Allie even asked herself, where did he think she had been, that he had to rinse her off him immediately? As cruel as this was, further insult was that the also rinsed his mouth, using mouthwash!
I thought men liked the taste of their women on their lips! Not Cam! His cruelty was brutal in its obliviousness. He didn't think he was insulting in his actions. Yet, when he was with Mia, he spent hours with her, their bodies together, not caring that she "was wet and open" and smearing him with her "juices." The fact that Cam could so casually rinse out his mouth after making love to Allie, the fact that he pretends to be tired rather than apologizing profusely on the day that he snapped at her to leave him alone, when all she was doing was asking if he felt unwell, that he didn't even apologize when he ripped up the picture of him and Jaime that Allie had had made, but rather tried to make love, shows his extreme selfishness and callousness.
That he could make love to Mia in Allie's shop and then ask her to come to his home, Allie's home, sleep in her bed, shower in her shower, cook in her kitchen and only wonder when the smell of Mia would wear off???? What kind of unfeeling monster does this? That he can go away on a weekend that is so important to Allie? And, all this, because he meets some strange woman who seems to be "free and adventurous." someone who drifted from place to place? Someone he read so wrongly???
She snoops around Allie's home and isn't even embarrassed when Cam catches her! Cam isn't upset when he catches her, either. In fact, he is fine with her going through his stuff and finding his secret stash of travel magazines, but he hated even the idea of Allie knowing about his dreams.
Mia wasn't really a free spirit. She just had no place, no home to go to, no people. So, she was searching for a home, and she wanted what Allie had, what Cam had with Callie. She did some questionable things while traveling, looking for her "place." I don't know if anyone caught it, but when they are talking about Turkey, she thinks back to the "small villa she had rented for a month, where she entertained rich Arab men as an escort for a month, all she could bear." So, she was a prostitute, as well.
So, she is an ex prostitute, traveling wherever, to find a place to call home. She settles on the husband of her very kind boss, and then is resentful of her boss actually showing affection towards Cam. And, Cam the asshole, makes sure to quickly dismiss any signs of affection shown by Allie towards him, as when she touches his neck, where he stands up and takes her hand and then drops it to move away. In front of Mia! Because, while Allie may have claim to "his name or his house," Mia has claim to his "emotions and memories and the place on his neck."
Or, when Allie puts a little holly branch into his buttonhole, he removes it right away. Whereas, he kept the little flowers and notes that Mia gave him "close to his heart, all day."
Not once does Mia show any concern or guilt in having an affair with her boss's husband, in her boss's shop, even in her boss's bed! She wanted to play house with Cam in Allie's house, the two of them didn't recognize the particular evilness of this! All Cam wanted was her smell to stay as long as possible! All she wanted was to play house with him.
Allie? What can I say about Allie? She was a kind, sweet, generous person, who loved too much. Who gave too much. Who forgave too much. She needed to tell Cam off many times. But, okay, I accepted that she didn't feel that she could call him out for his ordinary, everyday cruelties, because she had accepted them and she knew she was in his life.
But, what about after finding out about the affair? Why be so strong in selling everything, leaving, even having a one-night stand, only to come back to him? Only to tell him that she will take him back? What wife who just found out that her husband has been unfaithful for weeks and months, would take him back into her home and her bed within days? She could have made an effort, kicked him out, or even stayed away herself, even if she didn't know what she wanted to do ultimately. No, its not showing mercy, Ms. Picoult! It is showing insanity. Women, even women in the 90's are/were stronger than this! Allie should have kicked him out, and even if had not filed for divorce, then definitely make him grovel. In fact, she should have lived out HIS DREAM and traveled around the world, before coming back. Had relationships in which SHE was a priority, not fourth or fifth or never.
I seriously think some writers absolutely hate their heroines. Or, they misunderstand "giving grace" or "forgiveness," doesn't mean that women who have been cheated on or abused, should roll over to take more of the abuse.
I also didn't understand the ending? Frankly, I want to think that when Allie said, "So," and "set them free," it meant that she was literally setting them free of each other, that she takes off and lets Cam live his miserable life in his miserable little town, pining away for his prostitute mistress, and knowing that he no longer had the respect of his people and family.
I want Allie to have a rich life, where she meets likeminded man, who loves her absolutely.
WTF? It wasn't even 2 days before Cam started whining that she was being mean to him and not talking or listening, or my favorite, "you have to give me a break. You have to give me some credit, here." WTF????????? How can any writer abuse her heroine so?
Actually, I know- its when writers have no respect for their heroines, and in some cases, their heroes.
Other points- It was stupid of Jaime to tell and encourage Allie to take back Cam. To hell with that. Jaime should have been telling her to take off and never let Cam know where she was.
I hated the fact that Ellen, Cam's mother knew, but said nothing to Allie.
I particularly hated the letters Cam wrote to Mia, whiny pathetic letters, showing that he was still in love with Mia and would always be in love with her. That she was always going to be a part of him, no matter what, while Allie was going to be just his bedmate and housekeep, Mia was going to be, always, the love of his life.