My proudest “literary” achievement this year is tackling 紅樓夢, one of the four major Chinese novels, with the help of 白先勇‘s reading guide.
Growing up my impression was that 紅樓夢 was a tedious love story about one boy and two girls. It is very much that, true, but the tragic part isn’t the triangle of who loves who and who chooses who. It’s because a “love story” is the only story girls were allowed. The girls are smart, funny, talented, and yet they are defined by and confined to the story of who they marry. The struggle, and the sadness are imbued with much more weight.
This is also a book of manners. So, 紅樓夢 is a story about the rise and ruin of a major family during Qing Qianlong. Every single character serves a specific role with its own set of rules, expectations, and responsibilities in the household. Some thrive, and some are crushed, and everyone is oppressed by these rules.
There are no badly written characters. An impossible feat. But maybe that’s thanks to the reading guide that explains all the characters very well. Everyone has a lot of dimensions, and they usually appear across the timeline, so you see their full story.
A big book with big themes. My biggest takeaway: things come and go, rise and fall. What goes up will come down. Take it in, feel it, let it consume you but not destroy you when it’s bad.