Zelfs als het me mijn leven kost. Systeemopstellingen met ziekten en aanhoudende symptomen.

by Stephan Hausner

Dit boek spreekt voor zich.
Stephen Hausner laat met talrijke voorbeelden zien hoe chronische ziekten en langdurige symptomen verband kunnen houden met verborgen dynamieken in families. Veelal is de patient zich van deze verbanden niet bewust.
Opstellingen zijn een methode om deze verbanden aan het licht te brengen waarna de patient in vele gevallen verlichting vindt in het omgaan met de ziekte of er verbeteringen optreden in en zelfs symptomen en ziekte geheel verdwijnen.
Dit boek leest makkelijk, zoekt niet naar verklaringen maar prikkelt, in de vele voorbeelden, de lezer tot een nieuw perspectief op ziekte en gezondheid.

Genres: Psychology, Spirituality, Health

251 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 2010

Reviews

[David Jordan · Rating 4 out of 5]

If you are interested in Family Constellations, this is a must-read. Taking a practical approach, Hausner goes through one practical case after another in this book.
As I am not into the field, at some point the book seemed repetitive but if you are a therapist, this should be a guide and inspiration 👌

[Elīna Grantiņa · Rating 3 out of 5]

Vērtīga grāmata, lai labāk izprastu sistēmisko sakārtojumu procesu. Lasītais ļāva dziļāk skatīt slimību cēloņus,kas bieži nav saistīts ar to ko redzam acu priekšā.

[Sergiusz Golec · Rating 2 out of 5]

"Games" to cure a mind & body.
At first, I considered seeing that book as a collection of creepy fairy tails. Finally, as a healing Role Playing Game(s) (RPG). Game(s) aiming for "Peace of mind" (mainly with examples in intimate areas of family issues).

"Chessboard" theatre with the web of bio-psycho-socio connections.
Conflict(s), unfulfilled expectations, tough cases, traumas, speaking with the family member(s) and/or significant other(s), the disease, death, dead and/or unborn.

Bringing the cases from the edge or beyond of the awareness.
That "Game" help to translate difficult aspects into a deeper feeling of inner peace.
That "RPG" game helps to experiment with new combinations, dynamics and feelings, a new configuration of relationships. (Among others, reviewing belonging, inclusion and exclusion.) Analysing the locations and positions of the avatars, their words and behaviours.
That "self-help" book can help the reader and/or the game participant.


Big minus is for the book "Readability". There are fragments which can be entitled "Look how smart I am". Sections with unnecessary jargon, and/or long sentences. Three examples: "8-lines-long" sentence (p. 300) followed by 4 "5-line-long" sentences (p. 301) or "13-lines-long" sentence (p. 312).

P.S. As an IT guy, for me the closest known term is "RPG" (Role Playing Game). I wonder why "RPG" games have so many labels in that book, like: "Family Constellations", "Orders of Love", "Constellations", "Systemic Constellations", "Systems Constellations"; (and/or TA, and/or Gestalt "family reconstruction"), etc.
As for me, the added value of the variety of the labels here is as tiny as a single hair. It would be more valuable to show more examples. Even if the chapter #2 " Case Studies, Feedback, and Comments" is already bigger than all the other chapters combined.

[Guna · Rating 4 out of 5]

Labi izskaidro Helingera metodes būtību, ar precīzi noformulētiem jēdzieniem un bagātīgiem piemēriem. Lasīt gan būtu jālasa tikai tiem, kam ir iepriekšēja pieredze ar sakārtojumiem.

[Anita Gāga · Rating 5 out of 5]

Par to, kā ģimenes samezglojumi (par kuriem neviens nevēlas runāt, bet visi tāpat "jūt gaisā" notikumu, ap to saistītās negācijas) ietekmē cilvēka dzīvi un ne reti rada veselības traucējumus. Perfekti izstāstīts!

[Susana Ferrel · Rating 3 out of 5]

Interesante como aborda la conexión de enfermedades con sistemas y relaciones familiares intergeneracionales. Un libro que invita a reflexionar, hacernos cargo de nuestras decisiones, soltar para poder avanzar en la vida, desde la aceptación y gratitud

[Miiira · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is one of the best books about family constellation out there. Very easy to understand but at the same time gives a deep and detailed knowledge and understanding especially on case studies. If you are interested in detailed constellations and explanations this is your book.

[Antonio · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great book, friendly reading, suggested to all those who have previous experience at systemic constellations for a better understanding.

[Urban Healers of LA · Rating 5 out of 5]

Teachings in Family Systems Constellations

[Kelli Kiipus · Rating 5 out of 5]

Väga hea lugemine! Kuna olen perekonna konstellatsioonidega pidevalt kokku puutunud, siis arvan et see on hea eeldus sellest raamatust veel paremini aru saada.

[Kurtlu · Rating 3 out of 5]

önemli fizyolojik hastalıkları olan danışanlarla yapılan aile dizimi örneklerinin olduğu kitabın maalesef felaket bir çevirisinin var. Aynı paragraf içinde art arda yapılan geniş zamandan şimdiki zamana, sonra da di'li geçmiş zamana geçişler göz ve kafa yorucu. Mesela otommün hastalıkların genellikle ebeveynlerden birinin ihmaliyle ilgili olduğu gibi bilgiler berbat bir anlatıma kurban edilmiş. Daha iyi bir çeviriyle çok ilginç bir kitaba dönüşebilir.

[Guida Al·lès · Rating 3 out of 5]

Relats d’històries reals de pacients de malalties cròniques on es veu l’arrel emocional-familiar-sistèmica que les ha originades. Interessant.

[Birgit · Rating 5 out of 5]

Makkelijk leesbaar boek met veel voorbeelden.