How to Talk to Anybody, Anytime, Anywhere: 3 Steps to Make Instant Connections

by Chris Widener

Leadership and influence author Chris Widener teaches a simple three step process to make sure you are always prepared to talk to anybody, anytime and anywhere.Have you ever felt like you don't know what to say in a social situation? Is small talk not your thing? If so, then this is the perfect eBook to equip you to be a great conversationalist at social events, business meetings, with your superiors and with friends. Banish those awkward moments with this simple and memorable system by professional speaker Chris Widener, who is never at a loss for words. Never feel like you don't know what to say again!"

Genres: Nonfiction, Self Help, Psychology, Audiobook, Business, Personal Development, Education

Audiobook

First published August 28, 2013

About the author

Chris Widener is one of the rising stars of the personal development field.

Chris has been speaking professionally since 1988 and has shared the stage with top political figures, nationally known television news anchors, best-selling authors, and professional athletes. He has spoken on motivation and leadership to groups at some of America's finest organizations such as General Electric, Cisco Systems, and the Harvard Business School.

Chris has written over 400 articles and 9 books and has produced over 30 audio programs on leadership and motivation. His most recent book is The Angel Inside - Creating a Life of Power and Beauty. Chris Widener's Ezine has subscribers in 105 countries, making it one of the world's most widely distributed newsletters on success and leadership. Chris is also the co-host, along with Zig Ziglar, of the nationally televised show "True Performance."

In November 2009, Chris began a group called Positively Republican on Facebook. It has now become the largest Republican group on Facebook behind the official party site. It is focused on a positive promotion of conservative ideals. Chris is available to speak on using social media in politics and the need for positive civil discourse in politics.

Brian Tracy says, "Chris Widener is one of the best speakers in America today."

Denis Waitley says, "Chris Widener is one of the brand new top stars on the International platform speaking circuit."

Jim Rohn says "Chris Widener is the leader of a new generation of personal development and leadership experts."

Reviews

[Dr. Appu Sasidharan (Dasfill) · Rating 3 out of 5]

Books discussing various aspects of communication have always attracted my attention, and I have read a few books on this topic by authors like Leil Lowndes, Vanessa Edwards, etc. If you have already gone through the books by the above authors, you will find this book pretty basic.

If you are new to this topic, this book will be a decent choice, though, as the author successfully tells us the basic conversation skills that everybody should develop.
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[Elise · Rating 2 out of 5]

Pretty basic, and not really what I was looking for. Good info for a young teenager, but anyone older than that has probably already heard the key points, which are these:

1. Ask questions
2. Find a connection
3. Go in that direction

Also: Be interested more than being interesting. Remember people's names. Let them be the star of the show. Build rapport.

[Deb✨ · Rating 3 out of 5]

Short, quick information.

[Saipriya N · Rating 4 out of 5]

Valid points are given with good examples, like "Be interested than being interesting", "ask questions"...so on.

It's a very short book with easy language, anyone can easily follow the book and the points given by the author. Doing so, I'm sure one is going to be benefitted in both personal and professional life.

[Susan · Rating 2 out of 5]

Not really a book. Rather, a 33 minute talk consisting mostly of meaningless filler with about 5 minutes of actual content.

[Sarah Obsesses over Books & Cookies · Rating 3 out of 5]

I don't care about golf. there was too much golf in this very very short pamphlet of a tip on how to talk to people.
basically just be interested in other people. yes, duh. but need to know what kinds of questions to ask and specifically how to engage in more conversation.

[Madlyn · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is a good icebreaker book.

[Sarah Sabry · Rating 3 out of 5]

Interesting

[Joe Trahan · Rating 4 out of 5]

I’m on a personal communication audit and this was a fun little number working on a basic but very important conversational tool to connect with more people.

[Candace · Rating 5 out of 5]

It’s super short and not anything new, but the information is presented in a really relaxed and authentic way that makes it feel really doable. I loved it.

[Shaundra · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great audio book!!!!

[Lori · Rating 5 out of 5]

This short, informative book is helpful for both success in life and business dealings. This instruction can be applied in public speaking, at parties, and even business meetings.

[Jess Kang · Rating 4 out of 5]

Questions, connection, direction are the keys to talk to anyone, anywhere and anytime...

[Ouafa · Rating 3 out of 5]

A very quick read that skims over a few tips for engaging in conversations with others. It's quite basic, but that's expected given the size of the book.

[Rasagy · Rating 2 out of 5]

Good book if you absolutely don’t know how to talk in social settings, and need advice on what to ask someone you are sitting next to on a flight. Otherwise not many insights except: It’s far more important to be interested, than interesting.

(Heard it on audible)

[Sian · Rating 2 out of 5]

A simplistic book, that would suit a person who is really needing a clear breakdown of how to converse. It provides suggestions of open ended questions and examples of fluid conversation. It’s a short read that expresses the basics of communication, that holds potential to create opportunities, to open up connections with people.

[Inga Grencberga]

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[Kue Tee · Rating 4 out of 5]

Good advice for someone who's shy about meeting others. I would add that you should read the person you're taking to. While I love a good conversation, I loathe a ton of questions. Know when enough is enough.

[Nada | ندى · Rating 2 out of 5]

Smart, easy and short

[Pam · Rating 2 out of 5]

If you need a quick pep talk before a networking or social event, this will do the trick. Nothing novel, though!

[Dre · Rating 3 out of 5]

Question, connection, direction. I love it.

[Tyrel Clayton · Rating 3 out of 5]

Mainly, i just checked this out to figure out how the Libby app worked with audiobooks. I also thought that this would be longer, but it's only about 30 minutes long, so it's really short (and I listen to stuff on 2x speed, so it was RIDICULOUSLY short). I almost feel bad adding it to my list of "Read" stuff.

Chris Widener is not breaking new ground here. It's pretty straightforward. Here's how you talk to people: ask questions. All you need to do is show an interest in the other person, and keep asking questions until you find something in common, and bam, conversation topic. It's the same thing you can get from a much more developed work - Dale Carnegie's "How to Win Friends and Influence People" - which he references in this work. At that rate, you might as well just go straight to the source and read HTWFAIP.

[CA Ram Melam · Rating 4 out of 5]

Communication is not saying something. If we say something that sounds awkward, we may appear to others as morons or stupid people. So, our communication is paramount to our success.

This short audiobook is helpful for communication in different situations. This work will be a tool to connect people, socialize, and develop a gregarious personality.

As we delve into the world of communication and socializing, Dale Carnegie's words ring true: 'The sweetest sound on anybody's ear is their name.' This quote encapsulates the essence of our discussion and the practical application of the audiobook's principles.

Over the long run, people will understand us more by our actions or who we are than by what we communicate. We also have to take care care of our demeanor.

[Maetco · Rating 1 out of 5]

I am not a fan of self-help books but this was so short and I am not a fan of small-talk, so I thought I should try it. Nope, I shouldn't have. The biggest problem, is that about 80 % of the content should have been cut. The book was also written as if it was a university lesson and that does not work in written format. In addition it has 3 very short and very simple steps for having a discussion with anyone, and instead of elaborating their use, the writer focuses on repeating how easy they are, and how you will become much more successful if you use them.

[Kirsten Elson · Rating 4 out of 5]

Chris Widener is the real deal. I know this because I used to walk to school with him- when I was in high school. I was awkward, shy, and introverted, and this kid was all in! I never forgot the interest he gave me, and Im a 50 year-old adult now. Apparently it worked well for him, and he is good at what he teaches. It is a short read, and pretty logical, but helpful if you feel stuck. Thanks Chris!

[Adeva Hotz Threlkeld · Rating 5 out of 5]

I completed this book in a digital audio format and it was only 33 minutes long. I thought there would be more packed into this half-hour long book, but there wasn't. BUT, the content that was there was extremely useful and memorable. There are 3 components to this book, (which, I'm not going to tell you because you will also need to read/listen to the audio version of this book) and those 3 components are so easy for me to remember and I do believe implement immediately as well.

[Andrew · Rating 3 out of 5]

Brief 33 minute talk about developing connections with random strangers.

1. Ask questions: "Are you leaving or going home? "
2. Find a connection with the location, hobby or job
3. Develop a longer conversation on a shared interest.

Simple book with helpful reminders on how to improve your conversation skills.

[Barbora]

33', read by the author himself

Supplemented by a handful of anecdotes and conversation examples, the booklet can be summarized as follows:
1. Ask Questions. (Simple ones, for starters. Wash, rinse, repeat until 2.)
2. Find a Connection. (=basis for any relationship)
3. Go in That Direction. (Ask more Qs)

Other takeaways:
Be interestED, don't worry so much about being interestING.
Let that interest be genuine.
It doesn't hurt to be well-read, it can help you find connections.
Most people feel uneasy at the prospect of conversing with a stranger.

That's pretty much it ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[Terry Sines · Rating 4 out of 5]

I have it a for cause I do feel like it’s a good intro into speaking, questions, interest , go with it, great. Though I have to say unless you run into a narcissist. I have ran into plenty of them recently and the thing I notice is they do not like when you change anything. If it isn’t about them, their interest, or you just sometimes don’t agree. Well that’s that, and yeah don’t speak cause they like to always speak haha. Second is aesthetics, if their shallow or conceited, in personal experience it didn’t matter how interesting you were, if you weren’t to their sexual appeal then they showed little interest, not all people though for a general reminder just some.

[Tatterededges · Rating 1 out of 5]

Within 2 minutes of starting this, he plagiarised a Jerry Seinfeld bit from the 90’s… it was all downhill from here.

He just tells you to get people to talk about themselves. People love talking about themselves. Do that and you will have more friends, earn more money, your clothes will look better and you’ll drive a better car.

I can tell this guy would be one of those annoying people that get up in your face with a million questions while wearing a slightly deranged smile. If I was sat next to this guy on a plane, I’d seriously consider jumping out.