Perfectly Wounded
This is the personal story of Mike Day and his recovery not only from battle wounds, but also psychological injuries from his past.
Mike grew up in an extremely dysfunctional home. His father beat the living hell out of him, his brother and his half brother and sister. Drinking usually was the root cause, but sometimes it’s just because he wanted to. His stepmother wasn’t much better. All she cared about was partying and party she did after Mike’s dad was institutionalized. He stood up to her abuse one day and he and his brother were shipped to Maine and then their mother where life appeared to be somewhat normal. Still, the formative years left an indelible mark on him and structure wasn’t in his genes. He was expelled from school and wound up in a Job Corp program. While it was a stable environment, it wasn’t’ the cure-all. He didn’t begin his real journey till a retired Navy diver told him, “at your present rate, you’re either going to wind up dead or in jail. Think about joining the navy.” He did and became a SEAL, a life he loved even after he was shot twenty-seven times. You heard that right, twenty-seven times producing the title and what the doctors called being “perfectly wounded.” Why? Because no major organs or arteries were severed. That alone is amazing while his best friend took a bullet during the raid and died.
Now for the healing part. This is the crux of story. He became a social worker for Special Operations Command Care Program, another job he excelled at. But as time went on, his childhood past and military past began colliding with each patient he helped, and he didn’t know it. This would lead to a revelation he never saw coming. He wasn’t upset with his upbringing or his military wounds. He would learn how to mesh the two together to make him stronger and understanding not only who he was as a man, but what type of man he wanted to be. That is something many of us wish we could accomplish.
It wasn’t easy, by any stretch of the imagination, for him to confront all of the pent-up anxiety and fear that had been building over the decades. It wasn’t until he saw Dr. Beck and was diagnosed with microbiota-gut-brain axis syndrome. Basically, the bacteria in your gut is out of whack so when food is broken down, not all the nutrients our body needs to function properly are being properly distributed. And if that’s out of whack, the wrong combination of medications could cause more anxiety and depression instead of helping.
My only criticism is some of the paragraph structure wasn’t clean. Instead of a thought continuing it abruptly end and the next paragraph didn’t tie together.
Who will like this? Anyone wanting to know about the brave men and women who sacrificed so much for themselves and our country and the difficult road they have to travel to get back to what we civilians know as a “normal life.” There is nothing normal about it for those who have served. The rules they live by are much more honorable than the ones society uses. They have a code of honor and team unity no private sector company can begin to fathom.
Four Stars