Native Son by Witi Ihimaera is the second edition in his memoir series, following Māori Boy, and while he has hinted at a third memoir titled Indigenous Envoy, this book stands strongly on its own. Like its predecessor, it left a deep and lasting impact on me. Ihimaera tells his story with honesty, humour, and emotional depth, exploring his journey from his early years in rural New Zealand to his life as a writer and proud Māori man.
Although our childhoods were vastly different, I found myself relating to Ihimaera simply because he is Māori. His reflections on identity, whānau, and belonging struck a personal chord. His stories about the closeness he shares with his sisters were particularly moving.
One unforgettable scene is when his truck flips off the road yet he still manages to make it home before his father, completely unharmed and with no damage to the car 😂
Witi and Jane’s wedding was another highlight. Both had planned to have only 25 guests each, but in true Māori fashion, Witi’s extended family turned up in far greater numbers without him knowing. This story made me laugh and perfectly illustrates the warmth, spontaneity, and humour of whānau life.
His complex relationship with his grandfather, Pera Punahamoa, also stood out. Even though they did not always get along, it showed me how family bonds endure despite differences.
The most beautiful part of the book, for me, was the story at the end about his “inner child,” where he goes back to retrieve his younger self from the house. It was so moving that I copied those pages into my journal to keep them forever. That moment symbolises healing, self-acceptance, and love for one’s past self, something we can all learn from.
Both Māori Boy and Native Son are not just personal stories; they are important pieces of Māori literature that speak to identity, resilience, and belonging. Ihimaera’s storytelling is rich, honest, and deeply human. These memoirs have left a lasting emotional connection with me and remind readers that understanding where we come from helps us understand who we are.
From an east coast Māori to another, Nga mihi nui ki a koe Papa Witi ❤️🔥