Synopsis - Patchouli finds herself in an abusive relationship and reaches out to a friend for help. How far will you go to support a friend when is seems they aren’t ready to help themselves?
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Often times I find myself wondering what I would do in a given situation and am unable to really determine how I feel about things completely. These shorts are stories that have discussion questions at the end to help the reader digest what they read and think about moral issues in a whole new light.
I recommend these short read series if you are trying to open yourself up emotionally and and be more aware of both sides of understanding.
Oh wow!! This is such a deep book!! I loved the book because I know of this topic intimately. This book really got to me because I have lived it and also friends and family lived it . Read this important book!!
There’s nothing more frustrating than attempting to help a friend who refuses to help themselves. Battered wives and girlfriends are all too common. Women who repeatedly return to an abusive relationship are also all too common. Supporting a friend in that dysfunctional behaviour degrades both.
this patchouli girl has too many abusive people in here life. the person that is the voice to this story is just as abusing as the ex. watching her and making her stay with him for a couple days then telling her that is the person didnt block the other they werent friends anymore. wth? the person that is being abused NEEDS a friend at that kind of time.... idk abuse is abuse whether its mental emotional or physical
This is surprisingly deep for such a short story. Patchouli is hiding out from her abusive boyfriend. She calls a friend and he comes to her aid. His one condition is that she blocks the abusive boyfriend. She agrees then reneges on this promise. How do we help someone who doesn't want to be helped?
Author freebie. Suitable for teens and adults. A sort of parable or morality play with a set of discussion questions afterwards. Patchouli is a girl who refuses to leave an abusive relationship. This will bother some people.
I don’t know what the right answer is. I don’t know what will happen of Patchouli. I don’t know why she believes cliche will change, & I still don’t know how bears get on bicycles.
Patchouli calls the Narrator for help. Her abusive ex-boyfriend is over at her place, and he’s banging on the door and threatening her.
Narrator arrives just as Cliché, his nickname for the douchebag, leaves. After the close call, Narrator takes Patchouli out for ice cream and a chat. He has many questions for her about the relationship and how long the nastiness has been going on.
Eventually he lets Patchouli stay over at his place. She promises to block Cliché.
Narrator gives Patchouli an ultimatum, and she makes her decision.
This raises some interesting and difficult questions about abusive relationships.
"Patchouli Lost" by Tyler W. Kurt receives four stars from me, I both liked and disliked this story; maybe that's the way it should be.
Without revealing any spoilers, I'll say this. The topic is serious, and the author handles it realistically. I do not know that I would say handles it well. In the end, I disliked the narrator, feeling that he is rather harsh to Patchouli.
This is one of the After Dinner Conversation's short stories and it certainly will spur conversation.
"But here's my problem, friends keep their word...."
Ethically then, are they a real friend if they don't? Where do you draw a line? What if the person you're trying to help chooses to return to the situation, even if it may be dangerous. The narrator respects the abused person he tries to help, and has to accept her choices, no matter what they were.
Tyler Kurt has written more than one story in this series, and each leaves you scratching your head. That's a good thing. Highly Recommended 5/5
This book was hard to read. It's too relatable, and I don't have answers to the questions that it brings up. I cannot answer them for myself in my own life. So I guess the book served its purpose.