So many things are converging in my life right now that make me love this book SO much. T is starting middle school and needs some serious help remembering how to be a decent student. I have been making practice quizzes for him in math daily and oh how I miss teaching math. I didn't realize until this very moment how much I love teaching. And how much I miss it. Because also, A is starting Kinder, so I am in Kinder and oh how much I wish I wasn't in Kinder. I was meant to teach high school math and physics. I am good at it. I enjoyed it almost all the time. My greatest friendships came from other teachers. I am friends with many former students. I am not good at teaching basic letter writing, counting, the days of the week. My patience is endless for discussions on Newton's Laws, but when it comes to cutting and pasting, I lose my patience over and over. (It does not help of course that this is all happening on a computer right now. The internet is not my friend.)
So, the timing. I was ripe for a book about teaching. And this one does not disappoint. I laughed. A lot. And I think teaching is fun, and that there's plenty to laugh about. I cried. Because sometimes teaching is really really hard. I want to be friends with Shannon Reed and talk about teaching and life with her. I think we would enjoy hanging out together. She's my people.
The chapter on teaching the students in Harry Potter had already sealed the deal on my feelings about this book, but the chapter on The Other Class spoke directly into my heart. Classic move that works all the time! Then the use of the word " footloosery" and I was over the moon. Of course, she then follows with the zinger of calling our president "a sentient yam" and cancelling class when he was elected and I start wondering how it can get any better.
I need to buy this book for all of my teacher friends. And I need to start thinking about getting back into a classroom. Once we are allowed back in them.
"I hope that most readers of this book have not had such terrible days in the classroom, but I bet you still know exactly what it was like, because to be a good teacher is to care very much about people, which is an effective way to get your heart thoroughly broken on the regular."
"you are not alone in the difficult and beautiful work of teaching, of caring for others, of being alive. There is much to share, and worry over, and laugh about."
"(in preschool there is always a Theme of the Week, and I’ll note that adult life is better when you have a Theme of the Week too)"
"I still believed that my calling would feel like being tapped on the shoulder by God. It would take me several years to realize that a calling can become clear in the doing."
"I definitely filed that away for the future: I try hard to be easygoing about most things except those that really count, which is why my students aren’t bedeviled by my complicated heading requirements or page layouts but know that if I catch plagiarism it is the end of all that is good about our class. This moment confirmed another thing I had suspected about teaching: a teacher gets to cry/demand/yell/lose her mind exactly once per class. So make it count."
"although I quickly learned that being good at something yourself and being able to teach it to others are two entirely different things."
"For some of these students—in fact, for some of any teacher’s students—we are the most dependable people in their lives. That’s an extraordinary thing to realize, and one that keeps me grounded. I try very hard to keep my promises to my students, implicit or explicit, noticed or not."
"But the second time through, I couldn’t help thinking like a high school teacher, pondering the strange teacher-student dynamics of the books: like, did the other students think Dumbledore was playing favorites with Harry? How did Professor McGonagall manage to teach Draco without slapping him, like, at all? And who of these students could I stand to teach for seven long years?"
"I’d also be greatly annoyed by how often he gets called out of the room by admin. How am I supposed to teach him to write well if he’s in Dumbledore’s office all the time?"
"Draco Malfoy Ranked last not because of his evilness, although that is, of course, very bad, but because he is the worst kind of student—a suck-up who would then sic his parents on you when the sucking up didn’t work."
"Year after year, we teachers show up, briefly putting aside our own lives for those minutes we’re there, in order to improve, to help, to love. We’re glad you’re here, we say to our students. We’re going to change you, you’re going to change us. None of us will walk out of here the same. We don’t even know how yet, but here we go. I love that feeling. It’s hard for me to remember that there was a time when I didn’t love this job."
"It’s nice to tell the students you like teaching them, and to thank them for the hard work they put in for your class."
"At graduation, when you meet parents, tell them that their child was a complete delight and a joy to have in your classroom. Every single one."
"They are my constant delight, and also my constant aggravation, especially when they ask me something that they know full well is covered in the syllabus."
"Seriously, though, teacher friends are the absolute best: fierce, loyal, vibrant, and very quick to take your side."
"Great teachers are wise, funny, kind, compassionate, caring, skeptical, a little demanding, and always ready to laugh with you."