“I don't have to agree with you to like you or respect you.”
― Anthony Bourdain
I have in some way shape or form "known" HRH most of my life, from the dashing naval officer who swept QEII off her feet to the gentleman in a bowler hat saying his goodbyes to public life in 2017... goodness how much he reminded me of my own much missed grandfather that day!
I am not ashamed to admit I was sad to hear of his passing and, at the same time, suddenly found myself curious to know more about him - more than just headlines about those cheeky/rude/infallible/shocking comments he excelled at all his long life.
If you decide to pick this one be warned - Don't expect a salacious book, Don't expect a subservient book.
What the author does, and very well in my own opinion, is a fair attempt at showing the many sides of this complex and fascinating man whose devotion to duty is something younger generations will never fully grasp.
In here you will find the man, the son, the husband, the (not always perfect but heck who is) father, the strength and stay of QEII over their long marriage, the philosopher, the would be engineer, the conservationist, the yes on occasion very blunt/rude Duke of Edinburgh.
Ingrid Seward has decades of writing on the topic of the royal family and long work and personal relationships with many people, so you know that what she says is accurate if not nice to hear and what she, in a quintessentially British way, hints at is also probably not far from the truth.
Many people detested the man without ever having met him, many others met him 20 years ago and adored him, but no one can deny that he was always 150% straightforward and stood his ground no matter what or whom, which in this day and age is frankly a refreshing breath of fresh air.
Perfection doesn't exist, all we can do in the end is try our damned hardest and make the most of it.
Prince Philip, as far as my meaningless opinion is worth it, made a dam good job of it and leaves a legacy, the visible side of it the Duke of Edinburgh Awards, that will impact many generations to come.
My one quibble about the book? I don't know if due to time constraints or just the author being energized by HRH's own frenetic rhythm, but at times it feels a bit rushed.
Still, its worth the time, especially if you're like me, not a expert just someone who occasionally reads the royal news.
Happy Readings!