Admittedly I've known Shiva for years but I am not engaging in hyperbole when I say never have I read a more sensible, understandable and empathetic how-to book on modern ritual for both non-theists and theists alike. The way Shiva explains what ritual means to her, without trying to hard sell you on the type of cliched 'mysticism' that Christianity and capitalism has long sold us, is genuinely invigorating. I found her words to be insightful and graceful–the sheer power she projects, and encourages you yourself to harness, simply radiates off the page. I also love how open she is to letting the reader blossom on their own. That alone is a great example of why female voices are so needed out there– instead of rigidly trying to force what works for her upon the masses, Shiva openly encourages you customize as you see fit. You can follow this book by the letter or simply use it as a jumping off point; each ritual has built-in flexibility in order to encourage both personal healing and allow room for growth. She never forces of threatens you to do anything, and she focuses solely on self reflection and self betterment. (Sorry folks, there's not any 'love potions' in here but she does have an amazing ritual that allows for you to better understand yourself and your needs in order to attract love your way.)
I found this book to be truly inspirational to meditate upon and I encourage all to seek it out.