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The Weight of It All #1
Le poids des sentiments
Après s’être fait larguer par son petit ami de longue date à cause de son surpoids, Henry Beckett décide de s’imposer des changements radicaux. Dans une vaine tentative pour récupérer son petit ami, il fait la chose la plus absurde et la plus effrayante qu’il puisse imaginer : il s’inscrit dans une salle de sport.
Reed Henske est un coach personnel qui n’est pas certain d’être prêt à se lancer dans une nouvelle histoire d’amour. Il en a marre des types qui ne s’intéressent qu’à l’image d’un corps parfait et qui ne le voient jamais tel qu’il est vraiment. Alors que Reed torture Henry à coups de régimes et d’exercice, celui-ci ravit son entraîneur grâce à ses recettes et ses éclats de rire.
Mais tandis que les limites de l’amitié commencent à s’estomper, Henry est convaincu qu’il n’y a aucune chance que Reed, cette incarnation terrestre de Thor, puisse s’intéresser à un gars dans son genre. Reed doit convaincre Henry que la vie ne consiste pas à atteindre son poids idéal.
Il s’agit de trouver son contrepoids idéal.
354 pages, Kindle Edition
First published September 12, 2016
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N.R. Walker
133 books5,267 followersAuthor also writes as A. Voyeur
N.R. Walker is an Australian author, who loves her genre of gay romance. She loves writing and spends far too much time doing it, but wouldn't have it any other way.
She is many things; a mother, a wife, a sister, a writer. She has pretty, pretty boys who she gives them life with words.
She likes it when they do dirty, dirty things...but likes it even more when they fall in love. She used to think having people in her head talking to her was weird, until one day she happened across other writers who told her it was normal.
She’s been writing ever since...
https://www.facebook.com/N.R.WalkerAu...
N.R. Walker is an Australian author, who loves her genre of gay romance. She loves writing and spends far too much time doing it, but wouldn't have it any other way.
She is many things; a mother, a wife, a sister, a writer. She has pretty, pretty boys who she gives them life with words.
She likes it when they do dirty, dirty things...but likes it even more when they fall in love. She used to think having people in her head talking to her was weird, until one day she happened across other writers who told her it was normal.
She’s been writing ever since...
https://www.facebook.com/N.R.WalkerAu...
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April 26, 2025
~4.5~
I am a fan of stories about imperfect MCs, and my heart went out to Henry, whose boyfriend of eight years left him, claiming Henry was old (at heart) and fat (250 pounds at 5’10”, which qualifies as obese).
Henry decides to lose weight to get his boyfriend (the One Who Shall Not Be Named) back. He is really whiny and negative when he first begins his workout regime. He complains about EVERYTHING and constantly makes self-deprecating jokes. He puts himself down before others can.
Honestly, bitching & moaning annoys me in real life, and it annoyed me here. I am very much a suck-it-up-and-shut-up kind of person. It was hard for me to relate to Henry, but I was proud of him for not giving up, and he grew on me as the story progressed.
Thank goodness for Reed, Henry’s personal trainer, who takes a very, well, personal interest in Henry. Reed is gentle, encouraging, and looks like Thor. But Henry isn’t ready to date, nope, not at all. He barely pays attention to any of Reed’s *ahem* many assets.
Henry initially doesn’t feel good enough for Reed. I mean, how could someone who looks like THAT want someone who looks like Henry? But Reed has a story of his own and wants a relationship based on trust and respect, not looks and protein powders.
I thought Reed was almost too good to be true, but I can’t fault Henry for falling and falling hard. Henry and Reed actually have a lot in common. They both like cooking (Henry finds a passion for creating healthier but delicious recipes) and quiet nights at home. They talk about anything and everything. They just fit.
I enjoyed the secondary characters, especially Henry’s BFF Anika and her boyfriend Sean. I found myself cracking up at Henry and Anika’s crazy conversations.
This slow-burn, low-angst story is as much about Henry getting healthy, rediscovering friendships, and gaining new self-confidence as it is about Henry and Reed’s budding relationship.
There was not a lot of steam here, but the HEA was just about the BEST EVER. That epilogue had me cheering.
*cue Chariots of Fire music*
I am a fan of stories about imperfect MCs, and my heart went out to Henry, whose boyfriend of eight years left him, claiming Henry was old (at heart) and fat (250 pounds at 5’10”, which qualifies as obese).
Henry decides to lose weight to get his boyfriend (the One Who Shall Not Be Named) back. He is really whiny and negative when he first begins his workout regime. He complains about EVERYTHING and constantly makes self-deprecating jokes. He puts himself down before others can.
Honestly, bitching & moaning annoys me in real life, and it annoyed me here. I am very much a suck-it-up-and-shut-up kind of person. It was hard for me to relate to Henry, but I was proud of him for not giving up, and he grew on me as the story progressed.
Thank goodness for Reed, Henry’s personal trainer, who takes a very, well, personal interest in Henry. Reed is gentle, encouraging, and looks like Thor. But Henry isn’t ready to date, nope, not at all. He barely pays attention to any of Reed’s *ahem* many assets.
Henry initially doesn’t feel good enough for Reed. I mean, how could someone who looks like THAT want someone who looks like Henry? But Reed has a story of his own and wants a relationship based on trust and respect, not looks and protein powders.
I thought Reed was almost too good to be true, but I can’t fault Henry for falling and falling hard. Henry and Reed actually have a lot in common. They both like cooking (Henry finds a passion for creating healthier but delicious recipes) and quiet nights at home. They talk about anything and everything. They just fit.
I enjoyed the secondary characters, especially Henry’s BFF Anika and her boyfriend Sean. I found myself cracking up at Henry and Anika’s crazy conversations.
This slow-burn, low-angst story is as much about Henry getting healthy, rediscovering friendships, and gaining new self-confidence as it is about Henry and Reed’s budding relationship.
There was not a lot of steam here, but the HEA was just about the BEST EVER. That epilogue had me cheering.
*cue Chariots of Fire music*
April 24, 2024
4.5/5
february 2024
I'm definitely putting this book in my "comfort stories" category because I know it won't end in just two re-reads. This book brings me so much happiness and joy that when I finish it, I already miss these characters. In fact, every time I think about this book, I can't help but smile. I know that the first time I read it I rated it five stars, but don't be fooled by the fact that I took half a star now, it's just that two really small things didn't sit well with me now, but that doesn't change the fact that I still love this story with almost my whole heart. This is the kind of book where even if I read a thousand one-star reviews that had points I agreed with, I still wouldn't change my mind about it and I would still adore it.
february 2023
I can't remember the last time I read a book that made me stupidly smile the entire time I was reading it. Reed and Henry were the cutest, sweetest, most wholesome and adorable couple I have read about this year.
This story has a beautiful meaning and an even better message. As someone who has struggled with body image since my teenage years, it certainly made me realize and remind me of some things that I sometimes still forget about. The book is told from Henry's perspective, we see his journey from a man who was recently dumped by his boyfriend of eight years because of his weight and decides to lose weight by joining a gym to get him back, to a guy who decides to lose weight because he wants to become a healthier both mentally and physically version of himself and is grateful that this breakup happened. A breakup that I'm also glad happened, because if it weren't for it, Henry wouldn't have met his love interest — Reed, who happens to be a personal trainer at the gym our hero joined.
Reed, one of the most amazing love interests I have ever read about. Trust me, despite his profession, he is nothing like your typical "gym bros." I love how the author wrote him, because despite being six feet three inches tall, fridge sized with muscles I didn’t even know that existed, and who was very much giving Thor vibes, he was an amazing person with the personality of an angel. The way he wrote to Henry every day, asking how he was feeling because he was obsessed with him from the first time he saw him, made me want to cry.
I love gentle giants. Also, the fact that he pretty much always smiled when he was around Henry, and laughed with him when he was rambling because he thought Henry was the cutest then.
Henry's character was quite entertaining to read about. He was a thirty-five-year-old man with a successful job and a sense of humor that might not be everyone's cup of tea, as he was quite quirky and silly, but it surprisingly worked for me because I just found him adorable. Like I said at the beginning, I'm so happy that his ex broke up with him because this precious man didn't deserve to be with a person who didn't love him at his worst. I'm also extremely happy that Henry and Reed found each other because they were perfect together. Their relationship started as a beautiful friendship and slowly grew into something more with each page of this book. I just adored how healthy and adorable they were together. I'm sure toxicity is something that doesn't exist in their world.
The side characters were also amazing here. Anika and her boyfriend Sean, who were Henry's best supporters. Especially Annika, who was the best friend in the world. Henry's boss, Liliana and her girlfriend. I know Liliana was a side character with one cameo, but she was described as a baddie, so I fell in love with her. The way women are portrayed in MM romances sometimes infuriates me because it's sad to read about female characters that are portrayed in the most misogynistic ways by female authors. Fortunately, and obviously looking at my rating, that wasn't the case here. I loved women here and the way author portrayed them. Anika basically was a girlhusband with a successful job and an amazing boyfriend, and Liliana was Henry's even more successful boss with a loving girlfriend.
I read it on my kindle but I need this book in a paperback version because I see myself rereading it a few times. I highly recommend!
Yes, future me bought this paperback.
february 2024
I'm definitely putting this book in my "comfort stories" category because I know it won't end in just two re-reads. This book brings me so much happiness and joy that when I finish it, I already miss these characters. In fact, every time I think about this book, I can't help but smile. I know that the first time I read it I rated it five stars, but don't be fooled by the fact that I took half a star now, it's just that two really small things didn't sit well with me now, but that doesn't change the fact that I still love this story with almost my whole heart. This is the kind of book where even if I read a thousand one-star reviews that had points I agreed with, I still wouldn't change my mind about it and I would still adore it.
february 2023
I can't remember the last time I read a book that made me stupidly smile the entire time I was reading it. Reed and Henry were the cutest, sweetest, most wholesome and adorable couple I have read about this year.
This story has a beautiful meaning and an even better message. As someone who has struggled with body image since my teenage years, it certainly made me realize and remind me of some things that I sometimes still forget about. The book is told from Henry's perspective, we see his journey from a man who was recently dumped by his boyfriend of eight years because of his weight and decides to lose weight by joining a gym to get him back, to a guy who decides to lose weight because he wants to become a healthier both mentally and physically version of himself and is grateful that this breakup happened. A breakup that I'm also glad happened, because if it weren't for it, Henry wouldn't have met his love interest — Reed, who happens to be a personal trainer at the gym our hero joined.
Reed, one of the most amazing love interests I have ever read about. Trust me, despite his profession, he is nothing like your typical "gym bros." I love how the author wrote him, because despite being six feet three inches tall, fridge sized with muscles I didn’t even know that existed, and who was very much giving Thor vibes, he was an amazing person with the personality of an angel. The way he wrote to Henry every day, asking how he was feeling because he was obsessed with him from the first time he saw him, made me want to cry.
“Hi, it’s Reed, from the gym.” He cleared his throat. “Sorry for calling you at work. Hope that’s okay. Just calling to see how you’re doing?”
"I pulled the car into his allocated parking spot, he swallowed hard. “Did you want to come inside?” He licked his lips nervously. “I can make you that coffee, and we can share this.”
I love gentle giants. Also, the fact that he pretty much always smiled when he was around Henry, and laughed with him when he was rambling because he thought Henry was the cutest then.
"And he has two types of smiles: one he gives to everyone else and the one he gives to you.”
Henry's character was quite entertaining to read about. He was a thirty-five-year-old man with a successful job and a sense of humor that might not be everyone's cup of tea, as he was quite quirky and silly, but it surprisingly worked for me because I just found him adorable. Like I said at the beginning, I'm so happy that his ex broke up with him because this precious man didn't deserve to be with a person who didn't love him at his worst. I'm also extremely happy that Henry and Reed found each other because they were perfect together. Their relationship started as a beautiful friendship and slowly grew into something more with each page of this book. I just adored how healthy and adorable they were together. I'm sure toxicity is something that doesn't exist in their world.
"He was the perfect balance for me. He was my true counterweight. Like I said. Perfect."
The side characters were also amazing here. Anika and her boyfriend Sean, who were Henry's best supporters. Especially Annika, who was the best friend in the world. Henry's boss, Liliana and her girlfriend. I know Liliana was a side character with one cameo, but she was described as a baddie, so I fell in love with her. The way women are portrayed in MM romances sometimes infuriates me because it's sad to read about female characters that are portrayed in the most misogynistic ways by female authors. Fortunately, and obviously looking at my rating, that wasn't the case here. I loved women here and the way author portrayed them. Anika basically was a girlhusband with a successful job and an amazing boyfriend, and Liliana was Henry's even more successful boss with a loving girlfriend.
I read it on my kindle but I need this book in a paperback version because I see myself rereading it a few times. I highly recommend!
Yes, future me bought this paperback.
August 18, 2017
It's Friday night and I'm super crabby that I had to miss GRL2016. AND I have to work all weekend too. FML.
BUT, I just finished N.R. Walker's newest piece of perfection and lets just keep this review nice and simple, umkay?
BUT, I just finished N.R. Walker's newest piece of perfection and lets just keep this review nice and simple, umkay?
August 26, 2024
Henry is for the girls, strays, gays and theys who have ever felt unworthy due to being overweight. He is the female experience personified especially with the 90’s babies who survived the Victoria Beckham was body goals era.
💅🏼
His body struggles felt like our collective human body struggles and Reed was a sweet baby Angel who supported Henry through his life transition. OOOOOOFT. Hot PT man to get you into shape (physically and mentally) and in turn, help you how to love yourself, can’t go wrong 🔥
I was worried this book may trigger me as ED/weight issues have plagued my life like most of us at some point, but in the end, it was wholesome af, and I wish for everyone to have a self-love journey that ends as well as Henry’s does! BE STILL MY BEATING 🖤
Live, laugh, Henry in a muscle relaxation bath 💖
💅🏼
His body struggles felt like our collective human body struggles and Reed was a sweet baby Angel who supported Henry through his life transition. OOOOOOFT. Hot PT man to get you into shape (physically and mentally) and in turn, help you how to love yourself, can’t go wrong 🔥
I was worried this book may trigger me as ED/weight issues have plagued my life like most of us at some point, but in the end, it was wholesome af, and I wish for everyone to have a self-love journey that ends as well as Henry’s does! BE STILL MY BEATING 🖤
Live, laugh, Henry in a muscle relaxation bath 💖
April 1, 2017
Once again I found a book that held my attention from beginning to end. I absolutely loved this story and adored the MC and his Thor, Reed.
I like it more and more that authors are putting out books with imperfect characters. Not only is easier for us readers to relate to them, it’s more realistic.
Henry has recently been dumped by his asshole of a boyfriend who claimed Henry as being old and overweight. Of course Henry is heartbroken and took the overweight jab to heart. So in a decision to win his douche bag of a boyfriend back he decides to join a gym and lose the weight.
This is where he meets his Thor, Reed.
Reed… What a special guy. Reed is trainer at the gym and takes Henry under his exercising wing. I really loved him. He was so encouraging and positive. He really helped Henry believe in himself and gave him the confidence to better himself for himself and not for anyone else.
The slow burn of this relationship was delicious. I thought the relationship progressed as it should have. Slow and steady. Henry was just dumped and Reed’s ex left him finding it hard to trust another. So it was a natural pace for these guys. But soon what started out as friendship and a budding likeness for cooking turned into a loving romance where these two men’s puzzle pieces fitted perfectly together.
Henry may have wanted to get his boyfriend back at the beginning, but what it eventually turned out to be for Henry was a journey of self-discovery, the regaining of his confidence, making new friends, falling in love, and making some awesome food.
There is no way to come away from this story not feeling happy. It’s funny, inspiring, and just enjoyable. I recommend it to all my MM loving dolls. Happy reading! xx
I like it more and more that authors are putting out books with imperfect characters. Not only is easier for us readers to relate to them, it’s more realistic.
Henry has recently been dumped by his asshole of a boyfriend who claimed Henry as being old and overweight. Of course Henry is heartbroken and took the overweight jab to heart. So in a decision to win his douche bag of a boyfriend back he decides to join a gym and lose the weight.
This is where he meets his Thor, Reed.
Reed… What a special guy. Reed is trainer at the gym and takes Henry under his exercising wing. I really loved him. He was so encouraging and positive. He really helped Henry believe in himself and gave him the confidence to better himself for himself and not for anyone else.
The slow burn of this relationship was delicious. I thought the relationship progressed as it should have. Slow and steady. Henry was just dumped and Reed’s ex left him finding it hard to trust another. So it was a natural pace for these guys. But soon what started out as friendship and a budding likeness for cooking turned into a loving romance where these two men’s puzzle pieces fitted perfectly together.
Henry may have wanted to get his boyfriend back at the beginning, but what it eventually turned out to be for Henry was a journey of self-discovery, the regaining of his confidence, making new friends, falling in love, and making some awesome food.
There is no way to come away from this story not feeling happy. It’s funny, inspiring, and just enjoyable. I recommend it to all my MM loving dolls. Happy reading! xx
August 20, 2021
“Well, sports-related injuries would imply partaking in some kind of physical activity. The only marathons I’ve done are Game of Thrones and Breaking Bad marathons.”
This book gave me the warmest hug I could ever ask for.
NR Walker has quickly become one of my favorite authors and a go-to author for me. I’ve been reading alot of her backlist and I’ve been dying to try this book for the longest time.
Story: After being dumped over being overweight, Henry decides to lose some weight as a fuck you to his ex and hires a personal trainer, Reed
Now let me tell you. I loved both of the characters so much. They were both so similar and yet so different. Henry was my absolute favourite. He made me laugh out loud way too many times that I ran to my brother to read out the quips and jokes. He was such a sweetheart and his interactions with Reed warmed my heart. He was just such a genuine character and his feelings towards his body was honestly very relatable to me because I too was plus sized and struggled with my body image. So it was so close to my heart when I read about his journey and it was beautiful how the author managed to add humour into it without making light of the situation.
He rolled his eyes. “Sorry.”
“Don’t apologise. It’s not your fault the twinky Chihuahua tried to hump your leg.”
Reed finally started to smile. “Chihuahua?”
I nodded. “His full pedigree kennel name is Shameless Bottom Needs a Muscle Daddy, but he gets called Chihuahua Boy for short.
And Reed. Oh Reed! You see , usually this is where I rant and complain about how authors write perfect characters making them seem unrealistic. But Jesus, Reed was perfectly imperfect. He was vulnerable too and had insecurities that he was very open about especially when it came to not being good enough for Henry. He was also very open about his feelings for Henry and how he was hurt when Henry made assumptions about him based on his physical appearance. But he was also very supportive and stayed by Henry’s side through his journey.
You know what’s worse than being alone?”
She squeezed my hands. “What’s that?”
“Being with someone and being alone at the same time.”
The story itself was beautiful. It was told from only Henry’s POV and how he managed to climb up from the lowest point of his life and turn his entire life around and finally let himself look in the mirror without grimacing. There is obviously a lot of Henry beating himself up over his body and how he doesn’t belong with Reed because of his lifestyle and appearance but it’s quickly shut down by Reed who didn’t beat around the bush and told him point blank that he’s what Reed wants. Talk about swoonnn.
Also a huge appreciation for the secondary characters in this, Emily ( Reed‘s bestie) , Anika and Sean (Henry’s best friends) were amazing characters. Their personalities were so humorous and fun and uplifting. I loved their interactions with the main characters
Overall I would say that this was definitely a favorite read this year. I highly recommend it and god help me, I cant wait to read more by this author.
This book gave me the warmest hug I could ever ask for.
NR Walker has quickly become one of my favorite authors and a go-to author for me. I’ve been reading alot of her backlist and I’ve been dying to try this book for the longest time.
Story: After being dumped over being overweight, Henry decides to lose some weight as a fuck you to his ex and hires a personal trainer, Reed
Now let me tell you. I loved both of the characters so much. They were both so similar and yet so different. Henry was my absolute favourite. He made me laugh out loud way too many times that I ran to my brother to read out the quips and jokes. He was such a sweetheart and his interactions with Reed warmed my heart. He was just such a genuine character and his feelings towards his body was honestly very relatable to me because I too was plus sized and struggled with my body image. So it was so close to my heart when I read about his journey and it was beautiful how the author managed to add humour into it without making light of the situation.
He rolled his eyes. “Sorry.”
“Don’t apologise. It’s not your fault the twinky Chihuahua tried to hump your leg.”
Reed finally started to smile. “Chihuahua?”
I nodded. “His full pedigree kennel name is Shameless Bottom Needs a Muscle Daddy, but he gets called Chihuahua Boy for short.
And Reed. Oh Reed! You see , usually this is where I rant and complain about how authors write perfect characters making them seem unrealistic. But Jesus, Reed was perfectly imperfect. He was vulnerable too and had insecurities that he was very open about especially when it came to not being good enough for Henry. He was also very open about his feelings for Henry and how he was hurt when Henry made assumptions about him based on his physical appearance. But he was also very supportive and stayed by Henry’s side through his journey.
You know what’s worse than being alone?”
She squeezed my hands. “What’s that?”
“Being with someone and being alone at the same time.”
The story itself was beautiful. It was told from only Henry’s POV and how he managed to climb up from the lowest point of his life and turn his entire life around and finally let himself look in the mirror without grimacing. There is obviously a lot of Henry beating himself up over his body and how he doesn’t belong with Reed because of his lifestyle and appearance but it’s quickly shut down by Reed who didn’t beat around the bush and told him point blank that he’s what Reed wants. Talk about swoonnn.
Also a huge appreciation for the secondary characters in this, Emily ( Reed‘s bestie) , Anika and Sean (Henry’s best friends) were amazing characters. Their personalities were so humorous and fun and uplifting. I loved their interactions with the main characters
Overall I would say that this was definitely a favorite read this year. I highly recommend it and god help me, I cant wait to read more by this author.
October 6, 2016
5 stars full of laughter
This sweet story went directly to my heart and warmed my soul!
It's my first book by this author and what a discovery this was!!
Henry was such a hilarious character: his whining, his "no filter" conversations made me laugh so hard! It was exactly what I needed right now.
Reed: he was beautiful and smart and funny, had a huge heart and was so sweet - too good to be true! Well he was beautiful on the outside, but on the inside too and that is the most wonderful thing in this book. This story makes you believe in fairy tales once again and I was completely won by this sweet couple! The HOT scenes were pretty amazing too *just saying*
It was very easy for me to relate to Henry, because I am not a sports person so all that "I am going to die" seems like something I would repeat over and over again too. At least at first.
Well I absolutely adored the way this amazing author described Henry's thoughts, all the phases he went through while working out and also the way he healed over his ex. He learned to trust himself, to eat healthier and to love again!
What a sweet, sweet story, with slow burning, low angst and a perfect HEA!
This sweet story went directly to my heart and warmed my soul!
It's my first book by this author and what a discovery this was!!
Henry was such a hilarious character: his whining, his "no filter" conversations made me laugh so hard! It was exactly what I needed right now.
Reed: he was beautiful and smart and funny, had a huge heart and was so sweet - too good to be true! Well he was beautiful on the outside, but on the inside too and that is the most wonderful thing in this book. This story makes you believe in fairy tales once again and I was completely won by this sweet couple! The HOT scenes were pretty amazing too *just saying*
It was very easy for me to relate to Henry, because I am not a sports person so all that "I am going to die" seems like something I would repeat over and over again too. At least at first.
Well I absolutely adored the way this amazing author described Henry's thoughts, all the phases he went through while working out and also the way he healed over his ex. He learned to trust himself, to eat healthier and to love again!
What a sweet, sweet story, with slow burning, low angst and a perfect HEA!
August 30, 2021
Light-hearted story about a man getting his groove back after the end of an eight year relationship.
Joel Leslie shines in his performance. The character voices are great, his timing with the humor is spot on, and the pacing was perfect. 5 Stars for the narration!!
Henry's humorous outlook and how easily and completely he and Reed fit together make this a very sweet romance.
Low angst, humorous romance with a sigh-inducing HEA.
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I do love a good overweight MC gets the gorgeous love interest because their weight doesn't really matter at all and it's all about what's in the inside story...
But I wish Henry would have had a little less attention paid both verbally and internally to how gorgeous and ripped and physically fit Reed is even after Reed explained how little that meant and his backstory.
Also, sort of off topic, but would it be so much to ask to get a story with an overweight character who doesn't have self esteem issues? But who's all, "Bitch, look at me - I'm chunky and fine! You know you want to break off a piece of this!"
Joel Leslie shines in his performance. The character voices are great, his timing with the humor is spot on, and the pacing was perfect. 5 Stars for the narration!!
Henry's humorous outlook and how easily and completely he and Reed fit together make this a very sweet romance.
Low angst, humorous romance with a sigh-inducing HEA.
**~~**~~**~~**~~**~~**~~**~~
I do love a good overweight MC gets the gorgeous love interest because their weight doesn't really matter at all and it's all about what's in the inside story...
But I wish Henry would have had a little less attention paid both verbally and internally to how gorgeous and ripped and physically fit Reed is even after Reed explained how little that meant and his backstory.
Also, sort of off topic, but would it be so much to ask to get a story with an overweight character who doesn't have self esteem issues? But who's all, "Bitch, look at me - I'm chunky and fine! You know you want to break off a piece of this!"
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February 13, 2024
The Weight of It All is book one in The Weight of It All series by N.R. Walker. Let me just start off here by saying this has been on my to read list for awhile. For no particular reason it just kept getting forgotten. Until my good book friend said, Carol, you NEED to read this book right now! So I did and oh my gosh! I loved Reed and Henry so much! N.R. Walker has such a wonderful way with telling her stories and making us love her characters. I literally smiled or laughed all the way through this book!
Henry Beckett is thirty five years old. He has been in a relationship with Graham for eight years. Until Graham came home and told him it was over. That he no longer wanted to be with an overweight old man, even though they were the same age! In the lowest days of his life, he decided he needed change, and maybe a way to try to get Graham back. So he went to a nearby gym. I also want to let you know that as Henry will freely admit, his mouth has no filter, whatsoever! The things he says! He kept me laughing non-stop! It’s the most endearing thing I’ve ever seen.
Reed Henske is thirty one years old and is a personal trainer. He is well over six feet tall and according to Henry, built like Thor! Maybe better than Thor! If I had one teeny tiny complaint about this book it’s that we don’t get any chapters from Reed’s POV. Oh how I would have loved to know what he was thinking. But this didn’t deter me from falling in love with this sweet, kind, lovely giant of a man. Reed has also been hurt several months previous which makes it hard for him to trust. He doesn’t like it when men only see him for what they see on the outside. He wants someone to want him for what they can’t see on the inside, for the real person he really is.
“There was something there. Something electric, something frightening, something that both thrilled me and terrified me.”
From their first meeting, you could see that something was there, just a connection. Reed was so surprised with Henry’s non-stop talking. And you could tell he thought it was endearing. He had such a perfect way of encouraging Henry and making him feel better about himself. It didn’t take long for their friendship to grow outside of their client/personal trainer relationship. Texts led to calls which led to shopping and spending time together. Slowly Henry begins to see what his life was lacking before and maybe get a glimpse of what real happiness could look like.
“I’m not smiling at my phone. I’m doing lip stretches.”
This is such a wonderful, heart warming story of personal growth, of gaining the confidence to change your life and reach out for what you really want, at the kind of happiness you really deserve. Of feeling you are worthy of whatever makes you happy, and allowing yourself to love again. I loved every single page of this book and now am going to go straight on to the follow up novella, A Very Henry Christmas. A quick peek shows that we might finally hear from Reed. I can’t wait!
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Henry Beckett is thirty five years old. He has been in a relationship with Graham for eight years. Until Graham came home and told him it was over. That he no longer wanted to be with an overweight old man, even though they were the same age! In the lowest days of his life, he decided he needed change, and maybe a way to try to get Graham back. So he went to a nearby gym. I also want to let you know that as Henry will freely admit, his mouth has no filter, whatsoever! The things he says! He kept me laughing non-stop! It’s the most endearing thing I’ve ever seen.
Reed Henske is thirty one years old and is a personal trainer. He is well over six feet tall and according to Henry, built like Thor! Maybe better than Thor! If I had one teeny tiny complaint about this book it’s that we don’t get any chapters from Reed’s POV. Oh how I would have loved to know what he was thinking. But this didn’t deter me from falling in love with this sweet, kind, lovely giant of a man. Reed has also been hurt several months previous which makes it hard for him to trust. He doesn’t like it when men only see him for what they see on the outside. He wants someone to want him for what they can’t see on the inside, for the real person he really is.
“There was something there. Something electric, something frightening, something that both thrilled me and terrified me.”
From their first meeting, you could see that something was there, just a connection. Reed was so surprised with Henry’s non-stop talking. And you could tell he thought it was endearing. He had such a perfect way of encouraging Henry and making him feel better about himself. It didn’t take long for their friendship to grow outside of their client/personal trainer relationship. Texts led to calls which led to shopping and spending time together. Slowly Henry begins to see what his life was lacking before and maybe get a glimpse of what real happiness could look like.
“I’m not smiling at my phone. I’m doing lip stretches.”
This is such a wonderful, heart warming story of personal growth, of gaining the confidence to change your life and reach out for what you really want, at the kind of happiness you really deserve. Of feeling you are worthy of whatever makes you happy, and allowing yourself to love again. I loved every single page of this book and now am going to go straight on to the follow up novella, A Very Henry Christmas. A quick peek shows that we might finally hear from Reed. I can’t wait!
For more about this book and so many others, come and visit me at Carol's Crazy Bookish World.
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April 5, 2021
Henry is the MC who was just left by his live-in boyfriend of 8 years because he was "fat and old". Ouch!
So, Henry decides to join a gym and get a personal trainer. Henry, why? Just embrace the old and chubby. Running and working out is for the young. They can have it. Go pay someone to make you sweat your ass off? Um, no thanks. I'll just keep my money and only sweat when I have to take a drug-test or something.
See? I can do public service announcements or whatever.
To make all of our dreams come true, the personal trainer looks like Thor and has a thing for slightly older, chubby people who are funny.
*raises hand wildly, "That's me!*
And thus all of my dirty little daydreams come true.
yeah it is!
So, Henry decides to join a gym and get a personal trainer. Henry, why? Just embrace the old and chubby. Running and working out is for the young. They can have it. Go pay someone to make you sweat your ass off? Um, no thanks. I'll just keep my money and only sweat when I have to take a drug-test or something.
See? I can do public service announcements or whatever.
To make all of our dreams come true, the personal trainer looks like Thor and has a thing for slightly older, chubby people who are funny.
*raises hand wildly, "That's me!*
And thus all of my dirty little daydreams come true.
yeah it is!
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August 10, 2021
5 stars ☆
fluff was exactly what i needed after my last read so this hit the right spots for me. ♡
fluff was exactly what i needed after my last read so this hit the right spots for me. ♡
September 16, 2017
I LOVED THIS BOOK, seriously, I want to grab sparkly pens, write it's name with floating hearts, then write it some horrendous emo poety and plan for future little booklets. Thankfully I'll settle for writing a review-type-thingy here. With gifs.
This book came at the right time for me, that likely has a big effect on my opinion. I'm on the diet and learning to like daily walk/jog/pant/huff/crawls so I fully connected to Henry. Not sure if it would have had as much impact without that. To me Henry was very real, relatable and adorable - I mean how could anyone not love him? He's so funny, his voice through-out had me grinning. This could make an incredibly good audio-book.
Despite the book starting with a break-up there's no real angst, it's the story of Henry getting fitter, more accurately of him learning to like himself, and I loved that there was no hokey showdown, and the why of that.
Reed the love interest. Tall, georgeous, fit, hung, and LOVELY. Dream guy material. But the very best thing about this book is that the focus is Henry, as great as Reed is it's Henry that come across as adorable and worth winning. Size be-damned. All the way through it's personality that shines, for all the exercising the book isn't about size, it's about size not mattering. And yes, I get that judging goes both ways, and that maybe a giant portion of perceived mockery is in our own heads. But I so get the 'don't look at me' and 'I don't fit here' feelings.
And as if there wasn't enough smiles and good feels, and tasty sounding foods already, they then take things slow, they work up to sexy-times, Uno, Scrabble, then Horizontal Mambo. That sigh is me melting into a happy puddle of goo.
Then there's an Epilogue.
This book came at the right time for me, that likely has a big effect on my opinion. I'm on the diet and learning to like daily walk/jog/pant/huff/crawls so I fully connected to Henry. Not sure if it would have had as much impact without that. To me Henry was very real, relatable and adorable - I mean how could anyone not love him? He's so funny, his voice through-out had me grinning. This could make an incredibly good audio-book.
Despite the book starting with a break-up there's no real angst, it's the story of Henry getting fitter, more accurately of him learning to like himself, and I loved that there was no hokey showdown, and the why of that.
Reed the love interest. Tall, georgeous, fit, hung, and LOVELY. Dream guy material. But the very best thing about this book is that the focus is Henry, as great as Reed is it's Henry that come across as adorable and worth winning. Size be-damned. All the way through it's personality that shines, for all the exercising the book isn't about size, it's about size not mattering. And yes, I get that judging goes both ways, and that maybe a giant portion of perceived mockery is in our own heads. But I so get the 'don't look at me' and 'I don't fit here' feelings.
And as if there wasn't enough smiles and good feels, and tasty sounding foods already, they then take things slow, they work up to sexy-times, Uno, Scrabble, then Horizontal Mambo. That sigh is me melting into a happy puddle of goo.
Then there's an Epilogue.
October 23, 2016
What a feel-good story!
I absolutely loved following Henry's path from being an unhappy recently single gay man with a weight problem to becoming a confident man who is happy with his place in life and whose kind character and humor even has his hot personal trainer from the gym he's frequenting after his break-up fall for him.
Hot gym rat Reed is almost too good to be true. I didn't find a single flaw about him, which might literally be the only weakness in this story. Everything else was pure heaven and a great reminder that *we* are in charge of our lives and can make a change if we only want it enough.
Sure, we don't have a hot personal trainer like Reed, who gets REALLY personal with us, but still...
Amazing characters, amazing story.
And even though she only got a very small role in the story, I absolutely loved Henry's mom who keeps frequenting Nespresso shops in hopes that George Clooney himself would show up - because, well, that's what the ads imply, right? Adorable ;-)
5 feel-good stars!
I absolutely loved following Henry's path from being an unhappy recently single gay man with a weight problem to becoming a confident man who is happy with his place in life and whose kind character and humor even has his hot personal trainer from the gym he's frequenting after his break-up fall for him.
Hot gym rat Reed is almost too good to be true. I didn't find a single flaw about him, which might literally be the only weakness in this story. Everything else was pure heaven and a great reminder that *we* are in charge of our lives and can make a change if we only want it enough.
Sure, we don't have a hot personal trainer like Reed, who gets REALLY personal with us, but still...
Amazing characters, amazing story.
And even though she only got a very small role in the story, I absolutely loved Henry's mom who keeps frequenting Nespresso shops in hopes that George Clooney himself would show up - because, well, that's what the ads imply, right? Adorable ;-)
5 feel-good stars!
October 19, 2020
4.5 stars!
I really adored this book. I'm always a Walker fan, but there's something to be said when any author writes an MC whom you, personally, can relate to. And I related to Henry all over the place.
Henry's partner of 8 years ups and leaves him with a nice parting shot about how he's gotten fat. Douchebag. Henry takes a good look at himself in the mirror (and later the scale) and realized that he does want to lose some weight and be healthier. Enter Reed - the ripped, smokin' hot, Personal Trainer at Henry's local gym.
Henry and Reed hit it off immediately. Not in the form of romance, but just two people who enjoy talking. Friendly and platonic. Later, as they transition into friends who hang out outside of the gym, Henry realizes he may have a bit of a crush on Reed.
The best part of the story was how realistic Henry's insecurities were over the differences in looks there were between he and Reed. Who wouldn't? I've personally always been a tad on the overweight side of the scale, so I can appreciate where Henry was coming from when he wondered why Reed, Mr. Six-Pack Abs and Cantaloupe-Biceps, would even look his way.
Reed was perfect. Almost too perfect. He had his own past and perspective and doesn't like when people make judgments over his looks anymore than Henry does. I swooned over this man!
Henry's journey to a healthier him was so inspiring. It showed that it's not easy - which it's not. There are many people out there who have never battled weight a day in their life and simply love to exercise. And I've personally heard some of them say "It's easy. Just stop eating bad foods and go to the gym. If you want it bad enough, you'll do it." The first part of that statement is incredibly false. It may be simple, but it's not easy. Just like math is easy for some and not others, weight loss is the same. We should never ridicule those for which things don't come as easy as others. The second part of that statement is true, though. If you want it bad enough, you'll do it. And Henry wanted it bad enough.
This one was lower on the steam, but very appropriate. This was a slow burn, friends to lovers story. Jumping in the sack early on wouldn't have made sense for this couple. The steam that was there made up for it IMO, and the epilogue was so awesome!
Between the relatability, Henry's humor, and Reed's perfection, I highly recommend!
I really adored this book. I'm always a Walker fan, but there's something to be said when any author writes an MC whom you, personally, can relate to. And I related to Henry all over the place.
Henry's partner of 8 years ups and leaves him with a nice parting shot about how he's gotten fat. Douchebag. Henry takes a good look at himself in the mirror (and later the scale) and realized that he does want to lose some weight and be healthier. Enter Reed - the ripped, smokin' hot, Personal Trainer at Henry's local gym.
Henry and Reed hit it off immediately. Not in the form of romance, but just two people who enjoy talking. Friendly and platonic. Later, as they transition into friends who hang out outside of the gym, Henry realizes he may have a bit of a crush on Reed.
The best part of the story was how realistic Henry's insecurities were over the differences in looks there were between he and Reed. Who wouldn't? I've personally always been a tad on the overweight side of the scale, so I can appreciate where Henry was coming from when he wondered why Reed, Mr. Six-Pack Abs and Cantaloupe-Biceps, would even look his way.
Reed was perfect. Almost too perfect. He had his own past and perspective and doesn't like when people make judgments over his looks anymore than Henry does. I swooned over this man!
Henry's journey to a healthier him was so inspiring. It showed that it's not easy - which it's not. There are many people out there who have never battled weight a day in their life and simply love to exercise. And I've personally heard some of them say "It's easy. Just stop eating bad foods and go to the gym. If you want it bad enough, you'll do it." The first part of that statement is incredibly false. It may be simple, but it's not easy. Just like math is easy for some and not others, weight loss is the same. We should never ridicule those for which things don't come as easy as others. The second part of that statement is true, though. If you want it bad enough, you'll do it. And Henry wanted it bad enough.
This one was lower on the steam, but very appropriate. This was a slow burn, friends to lovers story. Jumping in the sack early on wouldn't have made sense for this couple. The steam that was there made up for it IMO, and the epilogue was so awesome!
Between the relatability, Henry's humor, and Reed's perfection, I highly recommend!
February 14, 2024
*** Witty, relevant and entertaining ! *** This is an amazing story ! It is so worthwhile and eye-opening.
I loved it ! In Australia, Henry, 30ish, a successful Financial Actuary
is depressed and dejected because he's been dumped by his partner of 8 years. In his despair, he realizes he must find the courage to pull himself up and move on.
Reed, a fitness trainer, is his salvation,
(Cris Hemsworth look-alike)
because he truly understands Henry; he's patient, and helps him.
Henry's journey to healthy living is full of fun, soul searching,
openness, and the willingness and dedication to succeed.
I can relate, because I've been in need of motivation to lose weight and get off the couch.
We get to watch Henry progress,
and see Reed leading him to a new lease on life.
This is also a totally erotic and sexy tale
when the men get together. They begin slowly and give each other space and acceptance, plus help each other through the associated insecurities.
This is beautifully written, completely interesting, with dynamic and deeply fabulous characters ! I loved the MCs and of course the best friends and co-workers like Anika and her boyfriend Sean, Melinda, and others.
Awesome cast !
Please DO READ this book !
* It is important, funny, relevant, eye-opening and heartwarming.
Wow !
I highly recommend this to everyone. ENJOY !
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I loved it ! In Australia, Henry, 30ish, a successful Financial Actuary
is depressed and dejected because he's been dumped by his partner of 8 years. In his despair, he realizes he must find the courage to pull himself up and move on.
Reed, a fitness trainer, is his salvation,
(Cris Hemsworth look-alike)
because he truly understands Henry; he's patient, and helps him.
Henry's journey to healthy living is full of fun, soul searching,
openness, and the willingness and dedication to succeed.
I can relate, because I've been in need of motivation to lose weight and get off the couch.
We get to watch Henry progress,
and see Reed leading him to a new lease on life.
This is also a totally erotic and sexy tale
when the men get together. They begin slowly and give each other space and acceptance, plus help each other through the associated insecurities.
This is beautifully written, completely interesting, with dynamic and deeply fabulous characters ! I loved the MCs and of course the best friends and co-workers like Anika and her boyfriend Sean, Melinda, and others.
Awesome cast !
Please DO READ this book !
* It is important, funny, relevant, eye-opening and heartwarming.
Wow !
I highly recommend this to everyone. ENJOY !
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March 21, 2017
It never fails to amaze me the absolute gems I find sitting in my tbr list. Books that for some crazy ass reason I haven't made time for.
The M/M Romance group March Mini Monthly Gang Bang challenge brought this gem to the top of my tbr. Thank you Saturnine for picking this wonderful book for me to read this month.
I have choked, coughed, snorted and cried in an effort to not laugh out loud while reading this book. It was all in vain, the laughter peeled out of my lungs and belly like there was no resistance.
Henry Beckett has no filter between his brain and mouth. Words just sort of tumble out. Sometimes he doesn't even realize he has spoken out loud.
I loved him. I loved his humor. I loved his perseverance. I loved his kind and gentle heart.
I also loved his personal trainer, Reed Henske. When I wasn't laughing at Henry (admittedly not often), I was drooling over the Chris Hemsworth look alike, Reed. But, unlike Chris, I got to know Reed on a more personal level. He is even more beautiful on the inside than he is on the outside. (Hard to imagine isn't it?)
N.R. Walker did imagine it. Then she shared it with us. Over the past year or so I have read so many of her beautiful stories. She has become one of my favorite authors and an auto-buy for anything she publishes.
The M/M Romance group March Mini Monthly Gang Bang challenge brought this gem to the top of my tbr. Thank you Saturnine for picking this wonderful book for me to read this month.
I have choked, coughed, snorted and cried in an effort to not laugh out loud while reading this book. It was all in vain, the laughter peeled out of my lungs and belly like there was no resistance.
Henry Beckett has no filter between his brain and mouth. Words just sort of tumble out. Sometimes he doesn't even realize he has spoken out loud.
I loved him. I loved his humor. I loved his perseverance. I loved his kind and gentle heart.
I also loved his personal trainer, Reed Henske. When I wasn't laughing at Henry (admittedly not often), I was drooling over the Chris Hemsworth look alike, Reed. But, unlike Chris, I got to know Reed on a more personal level. He is even more beautiful on the inside than he is on the outside. (Hard to imagine isn't it?)
N.R. Walker did imagine it. Then she shared it with us. Over the past year or so I have read so many of her beautiful stories. She has become one of my favorite authors and an auto-buy for anything she publishes.
October 13, 2016
4 Stars
I truly enjoyed this story. Although, I must admit, I was a bit apprehensive going in. I've always struggled with my own weight issues and I don't particularly find it a fun topic to read about in my books, but I appreciated the way Walker handled this particular story. For me, this was primarily about self-acceptance and the importance of being your own personal best - screw what anyone else thinks! These are two mentalities I can definitely get on board with.
I adored Henry to pieces. His personality was full of rambling goodness and all things sweet and kind hearted. The things that came out of his mouth had me laughing out loud; everything he said fell under the umbrella of 'it's funny 'cause it's true.' To say I could relate to this dude and his personal hang ups, is the understatement of the year. I simply adored him and the little journey he went on, and I'm so happy that he got a happy ending that was both satisfying and realistic.
Reed was a dream come true. My cynical self wants to question whether guys like this actually exist, but I'm just going to switch on my rainbows and unicorns mentality and believe that it's a possibility that a Henry could always find a Reed, and we'll leave it at that.
I truly enjoyed this story. Although, I must admit, I was a bit apprehensive going in. I've always struggled with my own weight issues and I don't particularly find it a fun topic to read about in my books, but I appreciated the way Walker handled this particular story. For me, this was primarily about self-acceptance and the importance of being your own personal best - screw what anyone else thinks! These are two mentalities I can definitely get on board with.
I adored Henry to pieces. His personality was full of rambling goodness and all things sweet and kind hearted. The things that came out of his mouth had me laughing out loud; everything he said fell under the umbrella of 'it's funny 'cause it's true.' To say I could relate to this dude and his personal hang ups, is the understatement of the year. I simply adored him and the little journey he went on, and I'm so happy that he got a happy ending that was both satisfying and realistic.
Reed was a dream come true. My cynical self wants to question whether guys like this actually exist, but I'm just going to switch on my rainbows and unicorns mentality and believe that it's a possibility that a Henry could always find a Reed, and we'll leave it at that.
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March 4, 2023
|| 4.5 stars ||
Well, how positively lovely this was! It was absolutely wonderful.
This book had pretty much everything it needed to be great: there was a lot of humour, plenty of depth, delightful characters, a slow-burn romance with a lot of sweetness and chemistry, and a character arc of someone finding their true self and happiness again.
This story is about Henry, an extremely funny and witty, yet insecure, 35-year old guy.
The book begins immediately after he has just been dumped by his boyfriend of 8 years who tells him it is because he is "old and overweight".
Of course Henry is absolutely devastated by this, and, for the first time in years, has to face the reality that he has really let himself go. He decides he is going to have to make some changes, for a big part so he can get his ex-boyfriend back, starting with going to the gym to lose weight.
Once there, he meets the insanely fit and sexy Reed, his new personal trainer, and they hit it off instantly. Reed helps him, albeit with constant struggle and complaints coming from Henry, to persevere in doing his exercises, but also to find joy in other things.
They develop a deep trust and friendship, finding themselves constantly laughing easily together, but Henry cannot even imagine that someone like Reed would ever be interested in something more than friendship with someone who looks like him.
Nonetheless, Henry slowly but surely finds himself happier than he has been in years, and although he always remains himself, he becomes the best version of who he can possibly be.
I can honestly say that I loved this book. I really liked the idea of the story, and also how it was executed.
It worked even better because the characters were so likable and you were truly rooting for them.
Henry was amazing. He was so witty, sarcastic, self-deprecating, and just all-around funny as hell. He cracked me up so many times, and I loved seeing how much Reed appreciated his humour.
Henry's insecurities were also very real, and his struggles were poignant enough without it feeling oppressive: this is a light-hearted story, but that doesn't mean it cannot have serious themes. This combination of humour and self-doubt was done really well.
Reed was such a sweetheart: caring, kind, motivating and thoughtful. I honestly couldn't imagine a more perfect guy for Henry (or for anyone, for that matter).
Reed helps inspire Henry, but most of all they just fit together so incredibly well. They truly understand one another and love spending time together.
The secondary characters were all also very entertaining and added to the overall story. I really liked Henry's friends and the dynamic he had with them. I loved how he wasn't some sad guy who didn't have anyone before he met Reed: he actually already had really good friends, he just found something even better with Reed. And that's lovely.
This was really a very nice story, and I'm super glad I read it. I enjoyed reading every single page!
Please read this if you’re in the mood for a soft, feel-good, cute and funny book!
Well, how positively lovely this was! It was absolutely wonderful.
This book had pretty much everything it needed to be great: there was a lot of humour, plenty of depth, delightful characters, a slow-burn romance with a lot of sweetness and chemistry, and a character arc of someone finding their true self and happiness again.
This story is about Henry, an extremely funny and witty, yet insecure, 35-year old guy.
The book begins immediately after he has just been dumped by his boyfriend of 8 years who tells him it is because he is "old and overweight".
Of course Henry is absolutely devastated by this, and, for the first time in years, has to face the reality that he has really let himself go. He decides he is going to have to make some changes, for a big part so he can get his ex-boyfriend back, starting with going to the gym to lose weight.
Once there, he meets the insanely fit and sexy Reed, his new personal trainer, and they hit it off instantly. Reed helps him, albeit with constant struggle and complaints coming from Henry, to persevere in doing his exercises, but also to find joy in other things.
They develop a deep trust and friendship, finding themselves constantly laughing easily together, but Henry cannot even imagine that someone like Reed would ever be interested in something more than friendship with someone who looks like him.
Nonetheless, Henry slowly but surely finds himself happier than he has been in years, and although he always remains himself, he becomes the best version of who he can possibly be.
I can honestly say that I loved this book. I really liked the idea of the story, and also how it was executed.
It worked even better because the characters were so likable and you were truly rooting for them.
Henry was amazing. He was so witty, sarcastic, self-deprecating, and just all-around funny as hell. He cracked me up so many times, and I loved seeing how much Reed appreciated his humour.
Henry's insecurities were also very real, and his struggles were poignant enough without it feeling oppressive: this is a light-hearted story, but that doesn't mean it cannot have serious themes. This combination of humour and self-doubt was done really well.
Reed was such a sweetheart: caring, kind, motivating and thoughtful. I honestly couldn't imagine a more perfect guy for Henry (or for anyone, for that matter).
Reed helps inspire Henry, but most of all they just fit together so incredibly well. They truly understand one another and love spending time together.
The secondary characters were all also very entertaining and added to the overall story. I really liked Henry's friends and the dynamic he had with them. I loved how he wasn't some sad guy who didn't have anyone before he met Reed: he actually already had really good friends, he just found something even better with Reed. And that's lovely.
This was really a very nice story, and I'm super glad I read it. I enjoyed reading every single page!
Please read this if you’re in the mood for a soft, feel-good, cute and funny book!
December 7, 2016
So the solution in order to get fit is to find a nice, gorgeous personal trainer
... who likes texting me and calling me to ask me how I feel any time of the day and night, because he is worried about me
….while I whine and KEEP TALKING AND TALKING about the cruelty of life.
Eh… sorry it will never happen, mainly because my husband is a bit aggressive.
So I guess I am doomed. There is no way I will go back to the gym and use all the torture devices without somebody falling in love with me for trying so hard and for being constantly in pain.
Anyhow, the story of Henry and Reed is cute.
... who likes texting me and calling me to ask me how I feel any time of the day and night, because he is worried about me
….while I whine and KEEP TALKING AND TALKING about the cruelty of life.
Eh… sorry it will never happen, mainly because my husband is a bit aggressive.
So I guess I am doomed. There is no way I will go back to the gym and use all the torture devices without somebody falling in love with me for trying so hard and for being constantly in pain.
Anyhow, the story of Henry and Reed is cute.
September 19, 2016
3.75 Stars!
This is probably one of my more likable NR Walker reads. Travis and Charlie still remain my favorite couple, but this was a good read.
I liked the humor. A lot.
But Henry was almost too much. Almost. His lack of self-esteem and constant negative thoughts and comments hovered right there on the edge of being annoying. But I get it. I get why he was like that.
Reed was a great character. Almost too great. He was pretty perfect. I would have liked his POV at times.
I loved Henry and Reed's interactions together though. And I loved seeing Henry gain more confidence.
And then of course there was the lack of steam. While the build up and chemistry was good I would have liked more of Henry and Reed together as a couple.
Still, highly recommend this one.
This is probably one of my more likable NR Walker reads. Travis and Charlie still remain my favorite couple, but this was a good read.
I liked the humor. A lot.
But Henry was almost too much. Almost. His lack of self-esteem and constant negative thoughts and comments hovered right there on the edge of being annoying. But I get it. I get why he was like that.
Reed was a great character. Almost too great. He was pretty perfect. I would have liked his POV at times.
I loved Henry and Reed's interactions together though. And I loved seeing Henry gain more confidence.
And then of course there was the lack of steam. While the build up and chemistry was good I would have liked more of Henry and Reed together as a couple.
Still, highly recommend this one.
February 28, 2019
4.5 stars for this read, which put a huge smile on my face throughout. Didn't much care for Henry's whinging when he started the gym, but who doesn't whine when they first start exercising after years of being a couch potato?? I loved Henry's filter-less mouth [which wasn't malicious...mostly 😉], and the ability he had to make his personal trainer Reed smile even when Reed and especially Henry didn't really feel like it. Loved all the secondary characters too, especially Henry's bestie Anika and her other half Sean, his PA Melinda and Reed's colleague at the gym Emily, and that epilogue?? Perfect.
Just goes to show that the sayings beauty is only skin deep and don't judge a book by its cover are still relevant in this day and age. Thanks Nic!!
Just goes to show that the sayings beauty is only skin deep and don't judge a book by its cover are still relevant in this day and age. Thanks Nic!!
December 10, 2023
Re-read December 2023
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This was FUN! ♥♥♥♥♥
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This was FUN! ♥♥♥♥♥
September 21, 2024
4 Stars!
Truly a really, really enjoyable read. I would not be surprised to hear just how many people connected with this. I seriously think Henry is my long lost kindred spirit because I could so relate to every one of his snarky comments towards all things exercise and good health.
So, per the blurb, Henry gets a brutal wake up call and is determined to make some changes. Little does he know what’s in store for him as he is mercilessly tortured by his new trainer Reed. Reed however, is not just a pretty face and a smoking hot body. He connects instantly with Henry and hopes for more despite Henry’s reluctance.
This surprisingly was quite funny. If I wasn’t literally laughing out loud, I had a huge grin on my face otherwise. I’m kinda tickled that this was by NR Walker who consistently writes sweet and low angst books, but I had no idea the sense of humor this author had in her. Henry and Reed were each very likeable, and how they became friends to lovers just warmed my heart. A very easy, feel good story about accepting one’s self, looking beyond the superficial, and finding love when and where you least expect it.
Truly a really, really enjoyable read. I would not be surprised to hear just how many people connected with this. I seriously think Henry is my long lost kindred spirit because I could so relate to every one of his snarky comments towards all things exercise and good health.
So, per the blurb, Henry gets a brutal wake up call and is determined to make some changes. Little does he know what’s in store for him as he is mercilessly tortured by his new trainer Reed. Reed however, is not just a pretty face and a smoking hot body. He connects instantly with Henry and hopes for more despite Henry’s reluctance.
This surprisingly was quite funny. If I wasn’t literally laughing out loud, I had a huge grin on my face otherwise. I’m kinda tickled that this was by NR Walker who consistently writes sweet and low angst books, but I had no idea the sense of humor this author had in her. Henry and Reed were each very likeable, and how they became friends to lovers just warmed my heart. A very easy, feel good story about accepting one’s self, looking beyond the superficial, and finding love when and where you least expect it.
June 7, 2021
Read for the third time, June 2016.
This simply fits whenever I need something of a comfort read.
Which I did. Henry makes me smile, although I couldn't help noticing this time how often he uses the phrase 'I'm going to die'.
Still a fab read.
Reread December 2020
What a fabulous comfort read! Just what I needed!
Original review:
I think I had a smile on my face all the way through. And the reasons were manifold:
.) great MCs:
Henry is a quirky, funny, extremely likeable guy on the slightly heavier side with a wicked ('TJ Klunish' type) sense of humour. And didn't I love that N.R. Walker touches upon the dreaded subject of weight loss. It was easy to bond with Henry just over that! Not to speak about his love of cooking (and boy, did my mouth water at the mention of all those lovely dishes!) and his overall cuteness.
Reed is the epitome of a 'gentle giant with a soft heart'. He is so lovely it was a bit on the surreal side, but I'm sure he puts knives the wrong way into the dishwasher and leaves smelly socks in unsavoury places - we just never got to hear about it. :) No, seriously, he is a genuinely nice who has a lot of deep thoughts about body image and what it does to people.
.) the plot: it is easy, simple, but it totally works.
.) the secondary characters:
Henry's mum and her George Clooney obsession made me giggle.
Anika was my favourite of all the friends - she is just as crazy as Henry, and their relationship was more like brother/sister than anything else. She clearly loves Henry and is looking out for him in a big way.
.) Henry suffering through all the exercise really struck a chord with me. I felt for him. I wanted to encourage him (mind, he has got Reed for that anyway) and tell him how much I respect what he is doing. Ok. There were times when I was seriously jealous how amazing and tenacious Henry was with his exercise - despite of all his moans and groans (one little niggle: his 'I'm going to die' was funny for most part, but did get a little repetitive as the plot went along). But that didn't keep me from cheering for him when he bought clothes a seize smaller. Good on you, Henry! Good on you!
.) Ah, the sweetness of the epilogue! My cheeks started to hurt from smiling at this point!
So - this is a really cute, fluffy read you will enjoy when you need some cheering up or something easy on the mind!
Recommended!
This simply fits whenever I need something of a comfort read.
Which I did. Henry makes me smile, although I couldn't help noticing this time how often he uses the phrase 'I'm going to die'.
Still a fab read.
Reread December 2020
What a fabulous comfort read! Just what I needed!
Original review:
I think I had a smile on my face all the way through. And the reasons were manifold:
.) great MCs:
Henry is a quirky, funny, extremely likeable guy on the slightly heavier side with a wicked ('TJ Klunish' type) sense of humour. And didn't I love that N.R. Walker touches upon the dreaded subject of weight loss. It was easy to bond with Henry just over that! Not to speak about his love of cooking (and boy, did my mouth water at the mention of all those lovely dishes!) and his overall cuteness.
Reed is the epitome of a 'gentle giant with a soft heart'. He is so lovely it was a bit on the surreal side, but I'm sure he puts knives the wrong way into the dishwasher and leaves smelly socks in unsavoury places - we just never got to hear about it. :) No, seriously, he is a genuinely nice who has a lot of deep thoughts about body image and what it does to people.
.) the plot: it is easy, simple, but it totally works.
.) the secondary characters:
Henry's mum and her George Clooney obsession made me giggle.
Anika was my favourite of all the friends - she is just as crazy as Henry, and their relationship was more like brother/sister than anything else. She clearly loves Henry and is looking out for him in a big way.
.) Henry suffering through all the exercise really struck a chord with me. I felt for him. I wanted to encourage him (mind, he has got Reed for that anyway) and tell him how much I respect what he is doing. Ok. There were times when I was seriously jealous how amazing and tenacious Henry was with his exercise - despite of all his moans and groans (one little niggle: his 'I'm going to die' was funny for most part, but did get a little repetitive as the plot went along). But that didn't keep me from cheering for him when he bought clothes a seize smaller. Good on you, Henry! Good on you!
.) Ah, the sweetness of the epilogue! My cheeks started to hurt from smiling at this point!
So - this is a really cute, fluffy read you will enjoy when you need some cheering up or something easy on the mind!
Recommended!
July 8, 2025
A book to fall in love with
Henry has just been dumped by his long-term boyfriend for being overweight. Instead of setting his ex’s clothes on fire, he decides to join the gym. He wasn’t expecting his very hot and out of his league personal trainer to become such an important person for him. Step by step, they’ve come to cook for each other and discover new recipes together. But it’s only friendship what Reed is offering, right?
The Weight of It All was such a beautiful portrayal of love. I could see how the characters slowly fell for each other, the chemistry they had when they talked, the compatibility of their hobbies, humor and lifestyle. But not only the romance was perfectly executed, the themes were powerful and refreshing.
It’s so hard to come across fat main characters. Sometimes in heterosexual romances the heroine is allowed to be ‘curvy’, but such representation is almost non-existent in male characters. The only popular exception that comes to mind is Jessa Kane’s More to Love series. But this book is not only about giving representation, it’s about how people judge you based on your appearance. Henry and Reed had to suffer prejudices, both from other people and from themselves, because of the way they looked.
It was a difficult theme to handle and I loved how N.R.Walker dealt with it. While, at the beginning, Henry was only thinking about getting his ex boyfriend back, quickly the exercise was a form of self-love. He didn’t want to look fit like Reed. He wanted to be healthy and enjoyed challenging himself.
I started this a few years ago but didn’t get past the first chapter because they were in the gym talking about gym stuff and I didn’t care about that. If that’s your case, don’t worry, they quickly change scenery and start meeting outside the gym. Even when they are exercising, they are talking about other hobbies. I adored reading how they bonded over food, sharing recipes, cooking for each other and finding new products in the farm market. I loved seeing them together, they made the cutest couple!🥹
Overall, it was so easy to believe in this romance because the author was able to show the love. The themes were refreshing and made the story stand out from others. I loved it and really recommend it if you want a story with little angst, interesting themes, character-driven and with great dialogues that will make you smile and fall in love.
Henry has just been dumped by his long-term boyfriend for being overweight. Instead of setting his ex’s clothes on fire, he decides to join the gym. He wasn’t expecting his very hot and out of his league personal trainer to become such an important person for him. Step by step, they’ve come to cook for each other and discover new recipes together. But it’s only friendship what Reed is offering, right?
The Weight of It All was such a beautiful portrayal of love. I could see how the characters slowly fell for each other, the chemistry they had when they talked, the compatibility of their hobbies, humor and lifestyle. But not only the romance was perfectly executed, the themes were powerful and refreshing.
It’s so hard to come across fat main characters. Sometimes in heterosexual romances the heroine is allowed to be ‘curvy’, but such representation is almost non-existent in male characters. The only popular exception that comes to mind is Jessa Kane’s More to Love series. But this book is not only about giving representation, it’s about how people judge you based on your appearance. Henry and Reed had to suffer prejudices, both from other people and from themselves, because of the way they looked.
It was a difficult theme to handle and I loved how N.R.Walker dealt with it. While, at the beginning, Henry was only thinking about getting his ex boyfriend back, quickly the exercise was a form of self-love. He didn’t want to look fit like Reed. He wanted to be healthy and enjoyed challenging himself.
I started this a few years ago but didn’t get past the first chapter because they were in the gym talking about gym stuff and I didn’t care about that. If that’s your case, don’t worry, they quickly change scenery and start meeting outside the gym. Even when they are exercising, they are talking about other hobbies. I adored reading how they bonded over food, sharing recipes, cooking for each other and finding new products in the farm market. I loved seeing them together, they made the cutest couple!🥹
Overall, it was so easy to believe in this romance because the author was able to show the love. The themes were refreshing and made the story stand out from others. I loved it and really recommend it if you want a story with little angst, interesting themes, character-driven and with great dialogues that will make you smile and fall in love.
October 31, 2016
This has been the best book by NR Walker so far. Absolutely wonderful! Flawless! Total win!
I loved both Henry and Reed. I loved how real Henry was. I loved how Reed helped him rebuild his confidence and not only. Their slow-burn relationship was the best thing that could have happened.
There isn't a single thing I didn't like about this book. It was so so Funny. I laughed so much at what Henry said all the time. He really is a drama queen. His character was amazing. Reed is a sweetheart, too. I liked so much that neither of them was the aggressive/possessive type that we know too well. They were sweet and cute together and perfectly perfect together.
All the secondary characters were beautiful. All Henry and Reed's friends, their families with their support and love made this book more extraordinary.
5***** I wish there were more books of H & R stars!
I loved both Henry and Reed. I loved how real Henry was. I loved how Reed helped him rebuild his confidence and not only. Their slow-burn relationship was the best thing that could have happened.
There isn't a single thing I didn't like about this book. It was so so Funny. I laughed so much at what Henry said all the time. He really is a drama queen. His character was amazing. Reed is a sweetheart, too. I liked so much that neither of them was the aggressive/possessive type that we know too well. They were sweet and cute together and perfectly perfect together.
All the secondary characters were beautiful. All Henry and Reed's friends, their families with their support and love made this book more extraordinary.
5***** I wish there were more books of H & R stars!
June 2, 2019
This is so far my favorite N. R. Walker's book. The romance is a slow burn and the message behind the story was well delivered. It never felt cheesy. Henry also made me laugh out loud quite a few times. *sigh* such a good comfort read!
January 2, 2024
This was so sweet and adorable and uplifting.
I did struggle with the whole weight issue.
On the one hand, I loved watching Henry regain his confidence. Having gained 30 lbs since Covid, I totally understand the issues that come with it and the struggle to love yourself. It motivated me to up my exercise regiment and maybe pick up running again.
On the other hand, as a mother of two anorexic teenagers in recovery, I am very aware of how other people’s comments on our weight are harmful. I hated how “I can see you lost weight” was said as a compliment so many times in the book. Because that’s not a compliment. “You look great” is a compliment. I can’t tell you how many times people compliment anorexics losing weight. My 12yo was on the verge of hospitalization and my own parents were telling me how good she looked now that she was thin. Those comments are TOXIC. Period.
I’m all for self improvement and healthy habits. But the emphasis on the actual weight really bothered me.
I did struggle with the whole weight issue.
On the one hand, I loved watching Henry regain his confidence. Having gained 30 lbs since Covid, I totally understand the issues that come with it and the struggle to love yourself. It motivated me to up my exercise regiment and maybe pick up running again.
On the other hand, as a mother of two anorexic teenagers in recovery, I am very aware of how other people’s comments on our weight are harmful. I hated how “I can see you lost weight” was said as a compliment so many times in the book. Because that’s not a compliment. “You look great” is a compliment. I can’t tell you how many times people compliment anorexics losing weight. My 12yo was on the verge of hospitalization and my own parents were telling me how good she looked now that she was thin. Those comments are TOXIC. Period.
I’m all for self improvement and healthy habits. But the emphasis on the actual weight really bothered me.
June 24, 2024
The Weight of It All is a fantastic story about learning to love yourself, always striving for personal improvements, and not judging a book by its cover. I was curious about this story from its original synopsis and how rarely you see this type of character in romance stories. Henry is lovable, hilarious, and such a beacon of hope that he cannot help but make others fall for his natural charm.
I loved his slow-burn friends-to-lovers journey with his physical trainer Reed. Their instant chemistry and easygoing camaraderie made for such a sweet romance that I could not get enough of it. Reed's genuine kindness and support for Henry's health journey was so precious and heartwarming to see develop and mature throughout the story.
Overall I loved this story from beginning to end and couldn't help but root for Henry's journey in learning to love himself and reach his goals. Also, Henry and Reed together were so utterly charming they always left me smiling.
I loved his slow-burn friends-to-lovers journey with his physical trainer Reed. Their instant chemistry and easygoing camaraderie made for such a sweet romance that I could not get enough of it. Reed's genuine kindness and support for Henry's health journey was so precious and heartwarming to see develop and mature throughout the story.
Overall I loved this story from beginning to end and couldn't help but root for Henry's journey in learning to love himself and reach his goals. Also, Henry and Reed together were so utterly charming they always left me smiling.
February 6, 2017
This was one of those little treats that you discover when your Bookbub daily offers email lands in your inbox. A feel good journey of making changes in you life for you and no one else and finding love along the way, it was worth every penny.
"You’re the Disney prince, and I’m Shrek."
It didn't hold any particular surprises, but that mattered not, as it's easy-read, humorous, heartfelt and has two fabulous relatable men who complement each other in the best possible ways, making you smile as they discover that they have feelings for one another. And it has the most wonderful of epilogues.
"You’re the Disney prince, and I’m Shrek."
It didn't hold any particular surprises, but that mattered not, as it's easy-read, humorous, heartfelt and has two fabulous relatable men who complement each other in the best possible ways, making you smile as they discover that they have feelings for one another. And it has the most wonderful of epilogues.
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