Positive Psychologist Charlotte McGanley has a PhD in "happiness" and lives a seemingly charmed life with her seemingly perfect family in an upscale DC suburb. She is a well-to-do, best selling author, teaches a popular course on happiness at a prestigious university, is married to a caring husband, and has a talented teenage tennis-phenom daughter. She also has throngs of doting Instagram followers who hang on her every glittering, positive post.
Of course, things aren't always what they seem, and Charlotte's glossy, saccharine Instagram posts are just a facade on the pressure and stress that punctuate her real life. In reality, she's stretched much too thin, her marriage is suffering, and her daughter is struggling to adjust to the social hierarchy of high school and is dating a douchey sophomore kid from an uber-rich and status-focused family. Charlotte tries to manage her mounting Imposter's syndrome by projecting an image of "Perfect Happiness" while throwing back glass after glass of wine...which of course just makes things worse.
Overall, I enjoyed this book, and finished it in just a few days. I could easily envision the book as a movie, with Reese Witherspoon playing Charlotte, Candace Bergen playing her mom, and Vince Vaughan playing Finch (I'm still working on the rest of the casting - ha!). And, I can certainly relate to the pressure of having to appear one way but feeling another way completely and trying to live up to unrealistic standards. Can't we all? (Thanks, pressures of dominant culture!) However, there were some characters I would have liked to hear more about, like the anonymous woman who Charlotte interacts with on Instagram. And there were some serious topics, like Charlotte's drinking (in 2020, women struggling with alcohol is skyrocketing) that seemed worth more reflection and attention than ultimately given.
There were also a few points in the book where I had to pause and ask myself "Wait -- Have I read this book before?" Then, I realized that one of the plot lines reminded me so much of a thread in Emily Griffin's book, "All We Ever Wanted" (same genre). And, I couldn't help but compare and contrast the two books and how they addressed that similar topic and theme.
I give this book a solid 3.5 stars, rounded up to 4. It was a fun and relatable escape with a relatively obvious (but important!) lesson on taking life as it comes, with its highs and lows, finding joy in the every day moments, and following our inner compass. I'd definitely read other books by this author.